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I can't decide which it is that is causing such huge divides between the sexes. It really isn't that difficult, you want sex, arrange a time, a date, a venue and get on with. You enjoy it, then repeat, you don't move on.
How can you therefore want to meet one minute, then for some inexplicable reason change your mind or worse still don't turn up? Yes I appreciate ppl change their mind, but after weeks of messaging etc, I don't accept that and I think it's unfair to do it. Stop wasting each other's time it's hurtful and leads to mistrust.
Why is it necessary if you go through with the meet and decide actually it wasn't me, that you have to make each other's life a misery? If someone isn't for you or you think you've made a mistake that doesn't give anyone the right to make forum life unbearable. My 10 year old is more mature in her approach to relationships.
Without ppl there isn't a forum. If we keep being so indecisive and disrespectful towards each other then there won't be meets either. Just be honest with each other it's amazing what happens when you are.
It's Thursday so I can have a rant. I want happy ppl and yes I know I'm being naive to a certain extent thinking things are so simple, but equally they don't need to be so difficult either. Can we not try a little bit harder and just be honest with each other?  |
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over a year ago
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I'm not here for drama. Chat, meet - jobs a good 'un.
If we get on - great!
If we don't - ah well we can't like everyone can we? Hopefully we part on good terms.
I'm on Fab for some escapism and fun. Can't be doing all the game playing bobbins!
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"I'm not here for drama. Chat, meet - jobs a good 'un.
If we get on - great!
If we don't - ah well we can't like everyone can we? Hopefully we part on good terms.
I'm on Fab for some escapism and fun. Can't be doing all the game playing bobbins!
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"I'm not here for drama. Chat, meet - jobs a good 'un.
If we get on - great!
If we don't - ah well we can't like everyone can we? Hopefully we part on good terms.
I'm on Fab for some escapism and fun. Can't be doing all the game playing bobbins!
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I thought you were just here to show off your tan  |
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"I'm not here for drama. Chat, meet - jobs a good 'un.
If we get on - great!
If we don't - ah well we can't like everyone can we? Hopefully we part on good terms.
I'm on Fab for some escapism and fun. Can't be doing all the game playing bobbins!
I thought you were just here to show off your tan "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well said Pinky  think you covered it all there. If its not for you, make your apologies and move on. Leave everyone with their dignity intact, and don't drag things out unnecessarily."
I agree , I have been chatting to a local lady , who asked me to meet her , I said its a social she agreed then five minutes later I'm blocked ha ha .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like you need one of my special big hugs
I'm always surprised by how people react to each other when its through the internet...I'm always kind though..... well mostly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think i would be horrible to someone, but i can see how meeting folk from the forum, if you don't quite hit it off or whatever, can be a bit awkward in the future.
But i don't meet from the forum anyway....
But yes, no need to make other people's life a misery or whatever. |
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"Sounds like you need one of my special big hugs
I'm always surprised by how people react to each other when its through the internet...I'm always kind though..... well mostly "
You're a complete gentleman xxx |
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"I'm not here for drama. Chat, meet - jobs a good 'un.
If we get on - great!
If we don't - ah well we can't like everyone can we? Hopefully we part on good terms.
I'm on Fab for some escapism and fun. Can't be doing all the game playing bobbins!
I thought you were just here to show off your tan
And request foof pics "
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"Sometimes it doesn't seem like such a good idea after you've had a wank."
Its like going shopping hungry.... Don't go prowling horny.... You'll likely stick something convenient that you don't really want in your basket |
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"I can't decide which it is that is causing such huge divides between the sexes. It really isn't that difficult, you want sex, arrange a time, a date, a venue and get on with. You enjoy it, then repeat, you don't move on.
How can you therefore want to meet one minute, then for some inexplicable reason change your mind or worse still don't turn up? Yes I appreciate ppl change their mind, but after weeks of messaging etc, I don't accept that and I think it's unfair to do it. Stop wasting each other's time it's hurtful and leads to mistrust.
Why is it necessary if you go through with the meet and decide actually it wasn't me, that you have to make each other's life a misery? If someone isn't for you or you think you've made a mistake that doesn't give anyone the right to make forum life unbearable. My 10 year old is more mature in her approach to relationships.
Without ppl there isn't a forum. If we keep being so indecisive and disrespectful towards each other then there won't be meets either. Just be honest with each other it's amazing what happens when you are.
It's Thursday so I can have a rant. I want happy ppl and yes I know I'm being naive to a certain extent thinking things are so simple, but equally they don't need to be so difficult either. Can we not try a little bit harder and just be honest with each other? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly, some people seem to create so much drama around a meet. It's not just singles neither. Some couples have been downright rude and inconsiderate. Yes I can appreciate life can sometimes be complicated and plans have to change but no need for nastiness. X |
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"I'm not here for drama. Chat, meet - jobs a good 'un.
If we get on - great!
If we don't - ah well we can't like everyone can we? Hopefully we part on good terms.
I'm on Fab for some escapism and fun. Can't be doing all the game playing bobbins!
I thought you were just here to show off your tan
And request foof pics "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm here for the cake.
The caking is why I'm here!
Don't do drama or fannying about.
If I make a nice friend then great but it's the cake I want really  "
I hear you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think you are naive at all OP.
As a single guy on here the number of occasions where people simply don't turn up is higher than those who do despite maybe weeks or months if chatting and checking out that they are "genuine"...detest that word and it's connotations here.
There does seem to be an undercurrent of not valuing and respecting people here generally and if a meet is good or does not work then that is the concern only of those who met. But the actions of those who do not value others is something we cannot change and life is too short to become ranty about other people's behaviour; after all we cannot change other people so why let them influence our own lives.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
People can and do change their mind about meeting either before a meet, after a social, or after a meet for any number of reasons (some valid, some not so much), and that is their right of course and should be respected - however where it's the case I would at least expect the respect to be shown in the other direction and some level of explanation offered, rather than a complete block and delete or shunning on the forums. Especially if a rapport of sorts has been built through messaging.
I certainly wouldn't have an issue with it, and definitely wouldn't resort to petty sniping on the forums, that would be playground level stuff. |
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"Sometimes it doesn't seem like such a good idea after you've had a wank.
Its like going shopping hungry.... Don't go prowling horny.... You'll likely stick something convenient that you don't really want in your basket "
That made me chuckle |
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I think there are also some for whom its a complete ego trip though.... They like to string people along that they really have no intention of meeting just because they enjoy the attention, and as long as they don't have to set the people they're flirting with straight, they can continue to enjoy the adulation, the fabs, the comments... Its a cruelty really. I've seen more than a few friends get sucked in by this kind of personality unfortunately. |
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"I think there are also some for whom its a complete ego trip though.... They like to string people along that they really have no intention of meeting just because they enjoy the attention, and as long as they don't have to set the people they're flirting with straight, they can continue to enjoy the adulation, the fabs, the comments... Its a cruelty really. I've seen more than a few friends get sucked in by this kind of personality unfortunately."
This works both ways though. |
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"I can't decide which it is that is causing such huge divides between the sexes. It really isn't that difficult, you want sex, arrange a time, a date, a venue and get on with. You enjoy it, then repeat, you don't move on.
How can you therefore want to meet one minute, then for some inexplicable reason change your mind or worse still don't turn up? Yes I appreciate ppl change their mind, but after weeks of messaging etc, I don't accept that and I think it's unfair to do it. Stop wasting each other's time it's hurtful and leads to mistrust.
Why is it necessary if you go through with the meet and decide actually it wasn't me, that you have to make each other's life a misery? If someone isn't for you or you think you've made a mistake that doesn't give anyone the right to make forum life unbearable. My 10 year old is more mature in her approach to relationships.
Without ppl there isn't a forum. If we keep being so indecisive and disrespectful towards each other then there won't be meets either. Just be honest with each other it's amazing what happens when you are.
It's Thursday so I can have a rant. I want happy ppl and yes I know I'm being naive to a certain extent thinking things are so simple, but equally they don't need to be so difficult either. Can we not try a little bit harder and just be honest with each other?
There's more drama in that post than I've had in over 8 years of swinging "
I was thinking that exact same thing. Some do seem to attract the crap. Things are a lot simpler meeting away from the forum. That much I'm convinced of. |
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"Sounds like you need one of my special big hugs
I'm always surprised by how people react to each other when its through the internet...I'm always kind though..... well mostly
You're a complete gentleman xxx"
No point in hiding it 
But I do get why people get cold feet, messaging while horny is a major one, but anything can happen. They could be shy, and not be able to go through with it.
The people that ARE bad are the ones that give no warning of not turning up, or are intentionally mean to others. But you'll find all types of human society on here, and like that it won't all be good. |
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"I'm not here for drama. Chat, meet - jobs a good 'un.
If we get on - great!
If we don't - ah well we can't like everyone can we? Hopefully we part on good terms.
I'm on Fab for some escapism and fun. Can't be doing all the game playing bobbins!
I thought you were just here to show off your tan
And request foof pics
Well there's that too! Ladies - SEND NUDES! "
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"I think there are also some for whom its a complete ego trip though.... They like to string people along that they really have no intention of meeting just because they enjoy the attention, and as long as they don't have to set the people they're flirting with straight, they can continue to enjoy the adulation, the fabs, the comments... Its a cruelty really. I've seen more than a few friends get sucked in by this kind of personality unfortunately.
This works both ways though. "
Both ways?? |
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"I can't decide which it is that is causing such huge divides between the sexes. It really isn't that difficult, you want sex, arrange a time, a date, a venue and get on with. You enjoy it, then repeat, you don't move on.
How can you therefore want to meet one minute, then for some inexplicable reason change your mind or worse still don't turn up? Yes I appreciate ppl change their mind, but after weeks of messaging etc, I don't accept that and I think it's unfair to do it. Stop wasting each other's time it's hurtful and leads to mistrust.
Why is it necessary if you go through with the meet and decide actually it wasn't me, that you have to make each other's life a misery? If someone isn't for you or you think you've made a mistake that doesn't give anyone the right to make forum life unbearable. My 10 year old is more mature in her approach to relationships.
Without ppl there isn't a forum. If we keep being so indecisive and disrespectful towards each other then there won't be meets either. Just be honest with each other it's amazing what happens when you are.
It's Thursday so I can have a rant. I want happy ppl and yes I know I'm being naive to a certain extent thinking things are so simple, but equally they don't need to be so difficult either. Can we not try a little bit harder and just be honest with each other?
There's more drama in that post than I've had in over 8 years of swinging
I was thinking that exact same thing. Some do seem to attract the crap. Things are a lot simpler meeting away from the forum. That much I'm convinced of. "
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"I think there are also some for whom its a complete ego trip though.... They like to string people along that they really have no intention of meeting just because they enjoy the attention, and as long as they don't have to set the people they're flirting with straight, they can continue to enjoy the adulation, the fabs, the comments... Its a cruelty really. I've seen more than a few friends get sucked in by this kind of personality unfortunately.
This works both ways though.
Both ways?? "
I mean the men and women are just as bad as each other for doing this kind of crap. |
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"I can't decide which it is that is causing such huge divides between the sexes. It really isn't that difficult, you want sex, arrange a time, a date, a venue and get on with. You enjoy it, then repeat, you don't move on.
How can you therefore want to meet one minute, then for some inexplicable reason change your mind or worse still don't turn up? Yes I appreciate ppl change their mind, but after weeks of messaging etc, I don't accept that and I think it's unfair to do it. Stop wasting each other's time it's hurtful and leads to mistrust.
Why is it necessary if you go through with the meet and decide actually it wasn't me, that you have to make each other's life a misery? If someone isn't for you or you think you've made a mistake that doesn't give anyone the right to make forum life unbearable. My 10 year old is more mature in her approach to relationships.
Without ppl there isn't a forum. If we keep being so indecisive and disrespectful towards each other then there won't be meets either. Just be honest with each other it's amazing what happens when you are.
It's Thursday so I can have a rant. I want happy ppl and yes I know I'm being naive to a certain extent thinking things are so simple, but equally they don't need to be so difficult either. Can we not try a little bit harder and just be honest with each other?
There's more drama in that post than I've had in over 8 years of swinging
I was thinking that exact same thing. Some do seem to attract the crap. Things are a lot simpler meeting away from the forum. That much I'm convinced of.
If only some forum people knew what delights are to be had away from the forums. "
I know some delights |
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"I think there are also some for whom its a complete ego trip though.... They like to string people along that they really have no intention of meeting just because they enjoy the attention, and as long as they don't have to set the people they're flirting with straight, they can continue to enjoy the adulation, the fabs, the comments... Its a cruelty really. I've seen more than a few friends get sucked in by this kind of personality unfortunately.
This works both ways though.
Both ways??
I mean the men and women are just as bad as each other for doing this kind of crap. "
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Oh right I know that... thats why I didn't specify gender... and the friends I refer to are of both sexes |
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"I think there are also some for whom its a complete ego trip though.... They like to string people along that they really have no intention of meeting just because they enjoy the attention, and as long as they don't have to set the people they're flirting with straight, they can continue to enjoy the adulation, the fabs, the comments... Its a cruelty really. I've seen more than a few friends get sucked in by this kind of personality unfortunately.
This works both ways though.
Both ways??
I mean the men and women are just as bad as each other for doing this kind of crap. y
Oh right I know that... thats why I didn't specify gender... and the friends I refer to are of both sexes"
Yeah I know many women who are here for the ego trip but I have experienced the men doing the same.
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here "
It's unusual for you to rant so it's forgiven. X |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here "
never apologise!
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
People on here are exactly the same as people out there, but with a rather niche interest. Just because we try and get naked with each other occasionally doesn't mean there aren't some complete dicks and arses on here.
We live and learn. We get stood up, we get cross, then we move on. Luckily for me, since I joined, the good people have outweighed the bad, by a very large margin. |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here "
Good rant. Approved. |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
never apologise!
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved. "
FAF? |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF? "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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There's more drama in that post than I've had in over 8 years of swinging "
Well five years for me. I can't be arsed with the bitching and gossiping and immaturity that goes on. I just get on with what I want whilst respecting those I come in to contact with who aren't bullying twunts. If they can't show the same decency to me? Meh, I couldn't give a fuck. |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF?
What does that mean. I've forgot. "
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A particularly productive pertinent point Pinky... Perfectly permissible ... Mwah! xx
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
A particularly productive pertinent point Pinky... Perfectly permissible ... Mwah! xx
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF?
What does that mean. I've forgot.
Would you like me to demonstrate? I may have a friend who can help "
That's a good friend!! |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
A particularly productive pertinent point Pinky... Perfectly permissible ... Mwah! xx
This time next month we'll have hugged "
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There's more drama in that post than I've had in over 8 years of swinging
Well five years for me. I can't be arsed with the bitching and gossiping and immaturity that goes on. I just get on with what I want whilst respecting those I come in to contact with who aren't bullying twunts. If they can't show the same decency to me? Meh, I couldn't give a fuck. "
Amen to that shit. |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
A particularly productive pertinent point Pinky... Perfectly permissible ... Mwah! xx
This time next month we'll have hugged
Fab straight "
Oh cuddle bear, I would have said FAF if that were true, do you by any chance? |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
A particularly productive pertinent point Pinky... Perfectly permissible ... Mwah! xx
This time next month we'll have hugged
Fab straight "
Shhh... She doesn't know I'm bi and have ulterior motives.... Not a word now right?? Just tween you and me.. |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF?
What does that mean. I've forgot.
Would you like me to demonstrate? I may have a friend who can help
That's a good friend!! "
I'm having deja vu |
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I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF?
What does that mean. I've forgot.
Would you like me to demonstrate? I may have a friend who can help "
Before I say anything else. Do you plug this "friend" in? |
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx "
Yes it is |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF?
What does that mean. I've forgot.
Would you like me to demonstrate? I may have a friend who can help
That's a good friend!!
I'm having deja vu "
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF?
What does that mean. I've forgot.
Would you like me to demonstrate? I may have a friend who can help
Before I say anything else. Do you plug this "friend" in? "
I sincerely hope not |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
A particularly productive pertinent point Pinky... Perfectly permissible ... Mwah! xx
This time next month we'll have hugged
Fab straight
Oh cuddle bear, I would have said FAF if that were true, do you by any chance? "
Me? And you? I thought you'd never ask |
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx "
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me. |
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
A particularly productive pertinent point Pinky... Perfectly permissible ... Mwah! xx
This time next month we'll have hugged
Fab straight
Oh cuddle bear, I would have said FAF if that were true, do you by any chance?
Me? And you? I thought you'd never ask "
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
Yes it is "
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me."
I don't mean it that way.
I mean it that wouldn't it feel weird fuckin someone off the forum. Like fuckin your best mate. It might ruin the friendship. X |
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me.
I don't mean it that way.
I mean it that wouldn't it feel weird fuckin someone off the forum. Like fuckin your best mate. It might ruin the friendship. X"
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"I'm here for the cake.
The caking is why I'm here!
Don't do drama or fannying about.
If I make a nice friend then great but it's the cake I want really
I hear you.
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Aren't you supposed to ask me for copyright?
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"Sorry for the rant folks, I'm a happy Panther and want everyone else to be the same. I know that's a little unrealistic but things could definitely be better around here
Good rant. Approved.
FAF?
What does that mean. I've forgot.
Would you like me to demonstrate? I may have a friend who can help
Before I say anything else. Do you plug this "friend" in?
I sincerely hope not "
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over a year ago
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me.
I don't mean it that way.
I mean it that wouldn't it feel weird fuckin someone off the forum. Like fuckin your best mate. It might ruin the friendship. X"
I have met and fucked many forumites. It was nothing like fucking my best mate. Thank goodness. |
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me.
I don't mean it that way.
I mean it that wouldn't it feel weird fuckin someone off the forum. Like fuckin your best mate. It might ruin the friendship. X"
Yeah, I agree with that. I tend to friend zone the majority in the forums. I don't look at them as people to have sex with |
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me.
I don't mean it that way.
I mean it that wouldn't it feel weird fuckin someone off the forum. Like fuckin your best mate. It might ruin the friendship. X
I have met and fucked many forumites. It was nothing like fucking my best mate. Thank goodness."
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me.
I don't mean it that way.
I mean it that wouldn't it feel weird fuckin someone off the forum. Like fuckin your best mate. It might ruin the friendship. X
Yeah, I agree with that. I tend to friend zone the majority in the forums. I don't look at them as people to have sex with "
Yes that's what I do too. X |
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*sings*
"Think of all the animals you've ever heard about
Like rhinoceroses and tigers, cats and mink
There are lots of funny animals in all this world
But have you ever seen a panther that is pink?
Think!
A panther that is positively pink,
Well here he is, the pink panther,
The rinky-dink panther,
Isn't he a panther ever so pink?
He really is a groovy cat,
And what a gentleman, a scholar, what an acrobat!
He's in the pink, the pink panther
The rinky-dink panther,
And it's as plain as your nose,
That he's the one and only, truly original,
Panther-pink (panther) from head to toes !"
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"I think it's all down to respect. If you respect the person as a human then you are more likely to be honest and tell them they are not for you but are happy to remain forum pals. But if you have no respect for that person then you behave in a way that makes the other person lose all respect for you.
Also isn't meeting a fellow forumite a bit like meeting your hero's.. ...
PTU xxx
That's thinking people on the forums are better than you and I don't think that so no, it's not the same to me.
Heroes are people you look up to surely.
Sorry, but I don't look up to anyone on the forums or think they are better than me.
I don't mean it that way.
I mean it that wouldn't it feel weird fuckin someone off the forum. Like fuckin your best mate. It might ruin the friendship. X
Yeah, I agree with that. I tend to friend zone the majority in the forums. I don't look at them as people to have sex with
Yes that's what I do too. X"
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"I don't think i would be horrible to someone, but i can see how meeting folk from the forum, if you don't quite hit it off or whatever, can be a bit awkward in the future.
But i don't meet from the forum anyway....
But yes, no need to make other people's life a misery or whatever. "
I've met one person from the forum, nice bloke....until he became one of the 'special people' and I didn't fit in with the 'in' crowd |
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If meeting up with people was limited to forum users , we would have never got anywhere !
The forum is fun sometimes , but it's far from a meeting tool .
To meet , we check local updates and message those we find who float our boat . One or two messages later it's arranged and that's it . At the same time we put on our status we are looking for a meet and sift through responses . Again , a message or two and the meet is sorted .
It works for us |
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"I can't decide which it is that is causing such huge divides between the sexes. It really isn't that difficult, you want sex, arrange a time, a date, a venue and get on with. You enjoy it, then repeat, you don't move on.
How can you therefore want to meet one minute, then for some inexplicable reason change your mind or worse still don't turn up? Yes I appreciate ppl change their mind, but after weeks of messaging etc, I don't accept that and I think it's unfair to do it. Stop wasting each other's time it's hurtful and leads to mistrust.
Why is it necessary if you go through with the meet and decide actually it wasn't me, that you have to make each other's life a misery? If someone isn't for you or you think you've made a mistake that doesn't give anyone the right to make forum life unbearable. My 10 year old is more mature in her approach to relationships.
Without ppl there isn't a forum. If we keep being so indecisive and disrespectful towards each other then there won't be meets either. Just be honest with each other it's amazing what happens when you are.
It's Thursday so I can have a rant. I want happy ppl and yes I know I'm being naive to a certain extent thinking things are so simple, but equally they don't need to be so difficult either. Can we not try a little bit harder and just be honest with each other? "
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"I can't decide which it is that is causing such huge divides between the sexes. It really isn't that difficult, you want sex, arrange a time, a date, a venue and get on with. You enjoy it, then repeat, you don't move on.
How can you therefore want to meet one minute, then for some inexplicable reason change your mind or worse still don't turn up? Yes I appreciate ppl change their mind, but after weeks of messaging etc, I don't accept that and I think it's unfair to do it. Stop wasting each other's time it's hurtful and leads to mistrust.
Why is it necessary if you go through with the meet and decide actually it wasn't me, that you have to make each other's life a misery? If someone isn't for you or you think you've made a mistake that doesn't give anyone the right to make forum life unbearable. My 10 year old is more mature in her approach to relationships.
Without ppl there isn't a forum. If we keep being so indecisive and disrespectful towards each other then there won't be meets either. Just be honest with each other it's amazing what happens when you are.
It's Thursday so I can have a rant. I want happy ppl and yes I know I'm being naive to a certain extent thinking things are so simple, but equally they don't need to be so difficult either. Can we not try a little bit harder and just be honest with each other?
Long story "
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We have never been stood up or had a last minute cancellation on Fab from someone changing their mind. Although we have been messed about by more established playmates on occasion. We would though consider a cancellation simply because someone 'changed their mind' absolutely intolerable. If we had arranged to meet someone, that is possibly the only time in 2 months that we get to play together, we will have arranged babysitting, cleared our weekend of other commitments, and turned down other possibilities for play. We have an expectation than when someone arranges to meet us, that they have thought it through, decided that this is what they want, checked their diary, and made any other necessary arrangements for the meet to go ahead. Hense we've realised we have to find people who are as anal as us about their diaries.
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