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It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ? |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"
How do you know they "hate" the site before they join? |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?
How do you know they "hate" the site before they join? "
Good point, I should have been more specific , it tends to be people who have been on here before then rejoin , even though they hate the site |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"
like who?  |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?
like who? "
I obviously can't name these people , they are easy to spot though |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"
I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice. |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?
like who?
I obviously can't name these people , they are easy to spot though "
Tell. Shhh. I won't say anything.   |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?
I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice."
Fair enough, i think they need help though |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?
I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice.
Fair enough, i think they need help though "
Can you help them? |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?"
Shag them. |
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It's true, before I joined I gritted my teeth, gnashed them and said to myself I,d hate to join that site. But my disobedient finger went and joined anyway. XXX
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?
Shag them."
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"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will."
That would be me. I hate it like liver n onions. 
Positive thinking and bumhole pics make me smile.  |
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"It has become obvious that certain people join fab even though they hate the site and it seems to make them unhappy . Is there anyway we can help these people break the vicious circle of hate and self loathing ?
I don't consider them to be my responsibility, they're adults and free to make themselves miserable if that's their choice.
Fair enough, i think they need help though
Can you help them? "
We can all do our bit to help,  |
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"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will."
I have to disagree. I think some people hate the site and the fact they need to be on here . If you can see who they by reading their profiles and status updates . |
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"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will.
I have to disagree. I think some people hate the site and the fact they need to be on here . If you can see who they by reading their profiles and status updates ."
I understand but isn't that more about hating themselves? |
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I have to say though, these past few days I've seen an awful lot of negativity on here!
Whether it be on status' or people trolling forum posts.
Two people spring to mind immediately & I just don't understand why they are here if it's not to have fun?! |
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"I don't think anyone hates the site and remains a member. I think some people hate that the site doesn't live up to their expectations but remain members in the hope that it will.
That would be me. I hate it like liver n onions.
Positive thinking and bumhole pics make me smile. "
Do they Ms Carrott I'm off to think about a positive bumhole picture and see if it makes me smile.  |
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