Not spreading the men and sharing them, though it could be a good term for that but when a guy spreads his legs outside of his space, such as on public transport, benches etc.
Enjoy or fed up with manspreading? It does leave his crotch fully open, allowing you to observe shaprliness etc.
Are women equally responsible for taking over more space, due to bags, magazines, bits and bobs etc?
Do you speak out when people hog space in crowded venues? |
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"Mmmmmm do you think it should be enforced  "
I'd enforce it if the right fella sits me on his lap, whilst a bumpy train ride bumps and grinds him to my satisfaction - obviously would want privacy and not force public sex into others lives.
I think it's a tiny part of having respect for others that share public space with us. I'm not particularly someone who likes lots of rules and enforcement would probably be a farce or ineffective, without good staff levels. Better that people automatically consider their impacts upon others and behave accordingly.
A few transport authorities around the world have had campaigns to discourage it. |
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I got long legs and some times i don't have the choice, but people, doesnt matter if man or woman, that takes more spaces than needed in a crowded and closed space should be damned :p |
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"Mmmmmm do you think it should be enforced
I'd enforce it if the right fella sits me on his lap, whilst a bumpy train ride bumps and grinds him to my satisfaction - obviously would want privacy and not force public sex into others lives.
I think it's a tiny part of having respect for others that share public space with us. I'm not particularly someone who likes lots of rules and enforcement would probably be a farce or ineffective, without good staff levels. Better that people automatically consider their impacts upon others and behave accordingly.
A few transport authorities around the world have had campaigns to discourage it. "
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What if you have massive bollocks... Do they make exemptions  |
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open legs is a sign of confidence for men- they don't have to protect their private parts so feel safe. personally I don't like it if sitting next to me. same as having their arms spread out wide... |
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"Guess we should be relieved that they don't all wear Kilts whilst spreading.. 
Or maybe not "
Maybe some Fab men would like to model some kilts for us ladies, whilst performing manspreading! Lol xxx |
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"open legs is a sign of confidence for men- they don't have to protect their private parts so feel safe. personally I don't like it if sitting next to me. same as having their arms spread out wide..."
What if they're sitting in front of you and there's lots of space? Legs opened, bulging crotch, jean creases leading your vision up to the area? Take a sneaky peak or look away? |
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"Not spreading the men and sharing them, though it could be a good term for that but when a guy spreads his legs outside of his space, such as on public transport, benches etc.
Enjoy or fed up with manspreading? It does leave his crotch fully open, allowing you to observe shaprliness etc.
Are women equally responsible for taking over more space, due to bags, magazines, bits and bobs etc?
Do you speak out when people hog space in crowded venues?"
I find it chuffing annoying! I was at The Crucible in Sheffield and the guy at the side of me was doing it! His chuffing leg was in my space and I was tight in my seat uncomfortable. I didn't say anything but when I got up to leave I ached from being tense for 3 hours! It's rude. |
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I guess if they pay for 2 tickets it is acceptable - but sure none of them do.
Men could get an exemption, if they've got a physical ailment, following very lengthy testing, such as in a gay sauna - we'll see how essential their manspreading is  |
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It doesn't usually bother me. The exception being on public transportation where I pay for a seat - like trains or planes. In those such cases, and anything similar, I just sit as I want to and when we bump I look at him and say "excuse me" very pointedly. I've never had someone who didn't get the hint. |
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"It doesn't usually bother me. The exception being on public transportation where I pay for a seat - like trains or planes. In those such cases, and anything similar, I just sit as I want to and when we bump I look at him and say "excuse me" very pointedly. I've never had someone who didn't get the hint. "
 This. If there's room, no problem. If not, and especially if we are paying equal amounts for what should be the same sized space then I'll do my own damned spreading until he gets the hint. |
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"It doesn't usually bother me. The exception being on public transportation where I pay for a seat - like trains or planes. In those such cases, and anything similar, I just sit as I want to and when we bump I look at him and say "excuse me" very pointedly. I've never had someone who didn't get the hint.
This. If there's room, no problem. If not, and especially if we are paying equal amounts for what should be the same sized space then I'll do my own damned spreading until he gets the hint."
. I'm the same, though wouldn't want some pig finding it a turn on - they usually succumb to my superior willpower |
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"It doesn't usually bother me. The exception being on public transportation where I pay for a seat - like trains or planes. In those such cases, and anything similar, I just sit as I want to and when we bump I look at him and say "excuse me" very pointedly. I've never had someone who didn't get the hint.
This. If there's room, no problem. If not, and especially if we are paying equal amounts for what should be the same sized space then I'll do my own damned spreading until he gets the hint.
. I'm the same, though wouldn't want some pig finding it a turn on - they usually succumb to my superior willpower"
Apparently I have very expressive eyebrows. My loathing probably comes through to stifle any turn on if they have the temerity to make eye contact. |
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"It doesn't usually bother me. The exception being on public transportation where I pay for a seat - like trains or planes. In those such cases, and anything similar, I just sit as I want to and when we bump I look at him and say "excuse me" very pointedly. I've never had someone who didn't get the hint.
This. If there's room, no problem. If not, and especially if we are paying equal amounts for what should be the same sized space then I'll do my own damned spreading until he gets the hint.
. I'm the same, though wouldn't want some pig finding it a turn on - they usually succumb to my superior willpower
Apparently I have very expressive eyebrows. My loathing probably comes through to stifle any turn on if they have the temerity to make eye contact."
oooo .. loving the expressive eyebrows  |
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"It doesn't usually bother me. The exception being on public transportation where I pay for a seat - like trains or planes. In those such cases, and anything similar, I just sit as I want to and when we bump I look at him and say "excuse me" very pointedly. I've never had someone who didn't get the hint.
This. If there's room, no problem. If not, and especially if we are paying equal amounts for what should be the same sized space then I'll do my own damned spreading until he gets the hint.
. I'm the same, though wouldn't want some pig finding it a turn on - they usually succumb to my superior willpower
Apparently I have very expressive eyebrows. My loathing probably comes through to stifle any turn on if they have the temerity to make eye contact."
I'm an acquired taste and will scorch anyone overstepping my boundaries. |
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