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"Surely both of you are bringing the party and the wooing should work both ways "Yep!! This  | |||
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"Surely both of you are bringing the party and the wooing should work both ways " | |||
"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape!" Kleenex it is then, I have no desire offering everything on a plateu like to some kind of goddess. Not that I believe in celestial beings, but even if Aphrodite herself would ask me to buy her a bottle of wine, book a room and pick her up, I would say no thank you. You either pull your weight or you can go elsewhere. | |||
"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape!"
Although, we know that type as the 'peacock'; the type who sits in a club waiting for a woman to fall into his lap; but what happens is that at the end of the evening, he just falls down, d*unk, alone 
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"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape! Kleenex it is then, I have no desire offering everything on a plateu like to some kind of goddess. Not that I believe in celestial beings, but even if Aphrodite herself would ask me to buy her a bottle of wine, book a room and pick her up, I would say no thank you. You either pull your weight or you can go elsewhere." Love it when you talk sense  | |||
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"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape! Kleenex it is then, I have no desire offering everything on a plateu like to some kind of goddess. Not that I believe in celestial beings, but even if Aphrodite herself would ask me to buy her a bottle of wine, book a room and pick her up, I would say no thank you. You either pull your weight or you can go elsewhere. Love it when you talk sense "Great minds think alike  | |||
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"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape! Kleenex it is then, I have no desire offering everything on a plateu like to some kind of goddess. Not that I believe in celestial beings, but even if Aphrodite herself would ask me to buy her a bottle of wine, book a room and pick her up, I would say no thank you. You either pull your weight or you can go elsewhere." ....ok. Read my post properly, and you'll see that this response is a bit silly. I said both parties benefit from making the other feel special. I've treated my meets, and they've treated me. Swings and roundabouts. | |||
"Clearly our message is possible good advice for those who are struggling to get meets with couples, not for all single guys on here ????" Just to be clear, your message is that if you're a single male struggling to get a meet you should just pay for everything? | |||
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"Clearly our message is possible good advice for those who are struggling to get meets with couples, not for all single guys on here ???? Just to be clear, your message is that if you're a single male struggling to get a meet you should just pay for everything? " Nope, that is not what they wrote - Mrs. J - | |||
"Clearly our message is possible good advice for those who are struggling to get meets with couples, not for all single guys on here ???? Just to be clear, your message is that if you're a single male struggling to get a meet you should just pay for everything? " That's how I read it. Smacks of self entitlement to be honest. | |||
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"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape! Kleenex it is then, I have no desire offering everything on a plateu like to some kind of goddess. Not that I believe in celestial beings, but even if Aphrodite herself would ask me to buy her a bottle of wine, book a room and pick her up, I would say no thank you. You either pull your weight or you can go elsewhere. ....ok. Read my post properly, and you'll see that this response is a bit silly. I said both parties benefit from making the other feel special. I've treated my meets, and they've treated me. Swings and roundabouts." Then we have a very different definition of 'common courtesy'. Only because that's how you go about arranging meets and meeting people you like doesn't mean others should see the benefit in it too. I believe there are other ways to make each other feel special, rather than pay for everything whether they reciprocate the gesture or not. | |||
"I can't afford hotels, but I do accomodate. I might even buy some booze and cook you dinner if you're lucky.... "That's more like it - we'll bring desert lol  | |||
"Clearly our message is possible good advice for those who are struggling to get meets with couples, not for all single guys on here ???? Just to be clear, your message is that if you're a single male struggling to get a meet you should just pay for everything? That's how I read it. Smacks of self entitlement to be honest. " Not our intention, apologies all | |||
"I can't afford hotels, but I do accomodate. I might even buy some booze and cook you dinner if you're lucky.... "What are you cooking? | |||
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"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape! Kleenex it is then, I have no desire offering everything on a plateu like to some kind of goddess. Not that I believe in celestial beings, but even if Aphrodite herself would ask me to buy her a bottle of wine, book a room and pick her up, I would say no thank you. You either pull your weight or you can go elsewhere. ....ok. Read my post properly, and you'll see that this response is a bit silly. I said both parties benefit from making the other feel special. I've treated my meets, and they've treated me. Swings and roundabouts. Then we have a very different definition of 'common courtesy'. Only because that's how you go about arranging meets and meeting people you like doesn't mean others should see the benefit in it too. I believe there are other ways to make each other feel special, rather than pay for everything whether they reciprocate the gesture or not." To set things straight, we are 'self-sufficient' and on many occasions we have 'entertained' single guys in a room booked and paid for by us, supplied the drinks and been a 'taxi', but these are generally guys we have met in a club and got to know face to face. Our point here is directed to the guys who are trying to get meets in the first place. Or maybe the days of the single guy doing the 'wooing' (not necessarily paying for everything) are outdated. Listen fella's, if you're getting meets then carry on doing what you're doing. If you're not, maybe consider our point | |||
" hmmm. Not sure what you're saying [exactly] OP as it isn't all that clear, but what I will say is, it's a 2 way street and if it seems like I'm doing all the hoop jumping I'm out. " We agree but from the couples perspective | |||
"i get what you mean about men expecting you to do more than they can do themselves. if any guy starts going on about me doing things for him i just lose interest, even if it's something as simple as dressing up for sex, i feel like i'm not being considered so much by that being given that request and tbh i only do things for actual friends or partners, such is the way of the world and how there are too many people out for themselves and i don't wanna bother with people like that. i don't expect guys to pay for me but have had that more times than i have paid for guys, in fact i've never paid for anything for a guy off here (or other sites). which was nice, made me feel kinda wanted or at least like i wasn't just being used. i don't think it should be expected that any person carries the main burden on a meet. so no he doesn't have to pay for me and i don't have to pay for him. it's just nice when someone makes you feel like you're more than nothing." A good point well made. | |||
"I can't afford hotels, but I do accomodate. I might even buy some booze and cook you dinner if you're lucky....
What are you cooking? "What do you fancy? I'm easy (apparently ) | |||
"I can't afford hotels, but I do accomodate. I might even buy some booze and cook you dinner if you're lucky....
What are you cooking?
What do you fancy? I'm easy (apparently )"Something meaty | |||
"Listen fella's, if you're getting meets then carry on doing what you're doing. If you're not, maybe consider our point" And your point is to pay for a hotel room, meal, drinks, on the off chance of having sex? I think I'd rather go to a club and meet someone there, or if I was extremely desperate, hit up a massage parlour. | |||
"As a (hopefully) useful tip for all the single guys on here, how would you girls and couples like to be 'wooed' leading to a meet...? This question is borne out of our frustration with single guys who want to know if they can be picked up as they don't drive, or if we can accommodate as they can't, or if we're willing to go halves on a room (some guys have not even offered HALF). Seriously fella's, who's really bringing the party here - us or you? I know we (hopefully) live in an age of equality, but If we were a boy, it would be "room booked, Proseco on ice, need a lift?" "Wot if you cant drive op ? | |||
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"For me its just being a gentlman, i wouldnt do the hotel as i have a perfectly good house to accom in. But i would get drinks in and would offer to cook something nice for us. All depends on the meet, but despite the age of equality i still think women are the fairer sex and would happily go the extra mile to ensure she left a happy lady "???? Doesn't seem like there's many like you left in this day and age! | |||
"As a (hopefully) useful tip for all the single guys on here, how would you girls and couples like to be 'wooed' leading to a meet...? This question is borne out of our frustration with single guys who want to know if they can be picked up as they don't drive, or if we can accommodate as they can't, or if we're willing to go halves on a room (some guys have not even offered HALF). Seriously fella's, who's really bringing the party here - us or you? I know we (hopefully) live in an age of equality, but If we were a boy, it would be "room booked, Proseco on ice, need a lift?"
Wot if you cant drive op ?"Then that would be your problem which you need to solve - Mrs. J - | |||
"As a (hopefully) useful tip for all the single guys on here, how would you girls and couples like to be 'wooed' leading to a meet...? This question is borne out of our frustration with single guys who want to know if they can be picked up as they don't drive, or if we can accommodate as they can't, or if we're willing to go halves on a room (some guys have not even offered HALF). Seriously fella's, who's really bringing the party here - us or you? I know we (hopefully) live in an age of equality, but If we were a boy, it would be "room booked, Proseco on ice, need a lift?" "The guy should pay for everything. If he can't afford to, then he's out of his depth. | |||
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"I'd call it common courtesy, rather than 'dancing on your toes', for someone you want, sexually, surely? When I've been on a mission, I've arranged and paid for everything. Sometimes the gentleman does it, sometimes I do. The big thing is the thought that goes into it. Or am I being weird? If someone would rather have a wank than book a room and buy a bottle of wine, I'd leave them to their Kleenex, and consider it a lucky escape!" Is that why you haven't met anyone yet??  | |||
"As a (hopefully) useful tip for all the single guys on here, how would you girls and couples like to be 'wooed' leading to a meet...? This question is borne out of our frustration with single guys who want to know if they can be picked up as they don't drive, or if we can accommodate as they can't, or if we're willing to go halves on a room (some guys have not even offered HALF). Seriously fella's, who's really bringing the party here - us or you? I know we (hopefully) live in an age of equality, but If we were a boy, it would be "room booked, Proseco on ice, need a lift?"
The guy should pay for everything. If he can't afford to, then he's out of his depth. "What utter bollocks | |||
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"If I were a boy Even just for a day I’d roll outta bed in the morning And throw on what I wanted and go Drink beer with the guys And chase after girls I’d kick it with who I wanted And I’d never get confronted for it. 'Cause they’d stick up for me." This is what I do most days | |||
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 ) but I don't feel that I should have to jump through hoops to be worthy of someones attention and if they come with expectations of such, I'll be even less inclined. | |||
"As a (hopefully) useful tip for all the single guys on here, how would you girls and couples like to be 'wooed' leading to a meet...? This question is borne out of our frustration with single guys who want to know if they can be picked up as they don't drive, or if we can accommodate as they can't, or if we're willing to go halves on a room (some guys have not even offered HALF). Seriously fella's, who's really bringing the party here - us or you? I know we (hopefully) live in an age of equality, but If we were a boy, it would be "room booked, Proseco on ice, need a lift?" "It's posts like this that give couples a bad name x | |||
"As a (hopefully) useful tip for all the single guys on here, how would you girls and couples like to be 'wooed' leading to a meet...? This question is borne out of our frustration with single guys who want to know if they can be picked up as they don't drive, or if we can accommodate as they can't, or if we're willing to go halves on a room (some guys have not even offered HALF). Seriously fella's, who's really bringing the party here - us or you? I know we (hopefully) live in an age of equality, but If we were a boy, it would be "room booked, Proseco on ice, need a lift?"
It's posts like this that give couples a bad name x"Exactly! | |||
"Single guys there is no substitute to having confidence and talking to ladies face to face, you should not struggle to get meets or ladies at all,consider yourself extremely lucky you are a single guy, you have to go to the swingers club and speak to ladies face to face.You cannot avoid speaking to ladies face to face, the worst they would say is sorry am not interested and you thank them and move quickly to the next lady. One truth you need to know is a lot of ladies lack confidence about one thing or the other which might not be relevant no matter how beautiful they are, the swingers club gives you so much options in the same room.Ladies are always unhappy when guys don't approach them in the clubs or when guys approach other girls much more than them, as a result they become more friendly to make sure you come and speak to them, this is a key advantage in your favour as a single guy in a swingers club. Because in the swingers clubs, the ladies have physical competition from other ladies in the room,if you use fabs to organise first meets and sit behind a computer, you are playing to the ladies advantage because you cannot read her body language which is the most important thing you need to read when talking to ladies and you also cannot use your swagger behind a computer, which is your own personal effects and conversation. You cannot see when she is blushing, flicking her hair, smiling at you,looking at you seductively, or use her beauty to your advantage behind a computer. You cannot read her behind a computer and that's why the ladies love fab, they get all the attention and you have no opportunity as a guy to see that your game is working or failing, this is fair game in my opinion .The body language response from the lady tells you if you are passing or failing, if you are failing, you change your style immediately or move on. When you go to the swingers club and talk to the ladies face to face ,you have the power as a single guy because you can put your game to work and read the body language of the ladies, you can use the competition of the other ladies around you to your advantage , you can use your swagger and believe me, you will do less work . I remember toasting a lady in the club and she said to me "Babe you don't need to tell me too much, I came to the party without my knickers, just take me to the room". You can also immediately spot ladies who are time wasters in the club and avoid them. When you have built a group of friends who are playmates from the club, get verifications from them and use fabs to arrange meets. It becomes easier from that point. " Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - | |||
" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J -" Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it? | |||
" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it?" Agreed. That bit (meeting people face-to-face) is the only part which makes sense The rest is just pure unadulterated drivel - Mrs. J - | |||
" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it? Agreed. That bit (meeting people face-to-face) is the only part which makes sense The rest is just pure unadulterated drivel - Mrs. J -" all of it will apply in different degrees to people. like on here i know i've got no competition coz there is a lot of men approach me on here but in a club there are a lot less men and they are more respectful than on here so don't approach you with their dick out begging for sex. only part i think isn't that true is that many women like the overwhelming attention on here, they complain about that a fair bit actually. but even then some women will love it. | |||
" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it? Agreed. That bit (meeting people face-to-face) is the only part which makes sense The rest is just pure unadulterated drivel - Mrs. J - all of it will apply in different degrees to people. like on here i know i've got no competition coz there is a lot of men approach me on here but in a club there are a lot less men and they are more respectful than on here so don't approach you with their dick out begging for sex. only part i think isn't that true is that many women like the overwhelming attention on here, they complain about that a fair bit actually. but even then some women will love it." It may apply to you; agreed - Mrs. J - | |||
" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it? Agreed. That bit (meeting people face-to-face) is the only part which makes sense The rest is just pure unadulterated drivel - Mrs. J - all of it will apply in different degrees to people. like on here i know i've got no competition coz there is a lot of men approach me on here but in a club there are a lot less men and they are more respectful than on here so don't approach you with their dick out begging for sex. only part i think isn't that true is that many women like the overwhelming attention on here, they complain about that a fair bit actually. but even then some women will love it." From experience, I'd totally agree with the last bit.. I have friends who come on with no interest in actually meeting anyone and purely for the ego boost.. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I think it can have some real world implications when it comes to dating/relationships | |||
" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it? Agreed. That bit (meeting people face-to-face) is the only part which makes sense The rest is just pure unadulterated drivel - Mrs. J - all of it will apply in different degrees to people. like on here i know i've got no competition coz there is a lot of men approach me on here but in a club there are a lot less men and they are more respectful than on here so don't approach you with their dick out begging for sex. only part i think isn't that true is that many women like the overwhelming attention on here, they complain about that a fair bit actually. but even then some women will love it. From experience, I'd totally agree with the last bit.. I have friends who come on with no interest in actually meeting anyone and purely for the ego boost.. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I think it can have some real world implications when it comes to dating/relationships " in what way? i'm dating and not succeeding really. but i'm thinking the internet isn't the way to go when looking for this anyway. | |||
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" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it? Agreed. That bit (meeting people face-to-face) is the only part which makes sense The rest is just pure unadulterated drivel - Mrs. J - all of it will apply in different degrees to people. like on here i know i've got no competition coz there is a lot of men approach me on here but in a club there are a lot less men and they are more respectful than on here so don't approach you with their dick out begging for sex. only part i think isn't that true is that many women like the overwhelming attention on here, they complain about that a fair bit actually. but even then some women will love it. From experience, I'd totally agree with the last bit.. I have friends who come on with no interest in actually meeting anyone and purely for the ego boost.. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I think it can have some real world implications when it comes to dating/relationships in what way? i'm dating and not succeeding really. but i'm thinking the internet isn't the way to go when looking for this anyway." For example, you are a very beautiful woman, I love your tattoos and you have got an amazing smile that will light up any room, your body is fantastic and your mind is absolutely beautiful, I really like you and would love to have you but you have put on filters that does not allow me message you so as to meet you face to face at a club and see you physically, this is one of the problems of the computers. I am really sweet one on one and all the ladies I have met confirm this. | |||
"To those who said the post is absolute nonsense or badly worded, this is an open challenge to your thought process. State exactly what in the text is absolute nonsense or badly worded and provide alternative solutions where you feel the post is wrong. Single guys please watch the reactions, they will not be able to say anything that will make any sense, all they will say is the the post is wrong without being able to provide an alternative. I posted this because they are trying to tell you as a single guy that you have no worth if you don't have a lady, I am telling you, you have all the worth in the world as a single guy because now you have choices, it is your method of catching chics that is wrong, my method works for me and I don't struggle with meets at all, zero struggle. You should always be in a position where you have multiple women, this is what we really want as single guys before we decide to settle with one,let them defend their position from an intellectual point of view and you decide who is correct." horrible,predatory, patronising attitude to women..and no, i don't have to explain my thought processes in coming to that conclusion to you either.. | |||
" Absolute nonsense; and so much of it - Mrs. J - Some of it definitely is, but there is some sense in there too (albeit badly worded). From experience, there is a massive dynamic shift between talking to someone on here and talking to them face to face and the ability to read someone and react accordingly is a big factor too. Plus the overriding point of 'get from behind a screen and go meet people' seems to be a good one doesn't it? Agreed. That bit (meeting people face-to-face) is the only part which makes sense The rest is just pure unadulterated drivel - Mrs. J - all of it will apply in different degrees to people. like on here i know i've got no competition coz there is a lot of men approach me on here but in a club there are a lot less men and they are more respectful than on here so don't approach you with their dick out begging for sex. only part i think isn't that true is that many women like the overwhelming attention on here, they complain about that a fair bit actually. but even then some women will love it. From experience, I'd totally agree with the last bit.. I have friends who come on with no interest in actually meeting anyone and purely for the ego boost.. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I think it can have some real world implications when it comes to dating/relationships in what way? i'm dating and not succeeding really. but i'm thinking the internet isn't the way to go when looking for this anyway. For example, you are a very beautiful woman, I love your tattoos and you have got an amazing smile that will light up any room, your body is fantastic and your mind is absolutely beautiful, I really like you and would love to have you but you have put on filters that does not allow me message you so as to meet you face to face at a club and see you physically, this is one of the problems of the computers. I am really sweet one on one and all the ladies I have met confirm this. " yeah i think a lot of guys haven't a clue about seducing women, come online thinking it won't matter anyway coz we're online and probably as desperate as the guys are, then they fail and start a topic asking why they have no success. that seduction wasn't bad tbh. made a nice change from what guys usually send me. i particularly like how my mind was mentioned and there was nothing over the top complimentary. | |||
"To those who said the post is absolute nonsense or badly worded, this is an open challenge to your thought process. State exactly what in the text is absolute nonsense or badly worded and provide alternative solutions where you feel the post is wrong. Single guys please watch the reactions, they will not be able to say anything that will make any sense, all they will say is the the post is wrong without being able to provide an alternative. I posted this because they are trying to tell you as a single guy that you have no worth if you don't have a lady, I am telling you, you have all the worth in the world as a single guy because now you have choices, it is your method of catching chics that is wrong, my method works for me and I don't struggle with meets at all, zero struggle. You should always be in a position where you have multiple women, this is what we really want as single guys before we decide to settle with one,let them defend their position from an intellectual point of view and you decide who is correct. horrible,predatory, patronising attitude to women..and no, i don't have to explain my thought processes in coming to that conclusion to you either.." We are trying to help single guys who can't get meets, as an intellectual and a woman of substance, you need to state why you feel something is horrible , predatory and patronising so that people can learn, there is no point not being able to say why you feel the way you do and provide alternatives, this is an intellectual debate not an argument. When you step into this ring mentally, you have to prove yourself worthy of people listening to your point of view. Single guys can you see what I am saying, they will say it is bad but will not be able to tell you why, this is to let you know I speak the truth. Babe I still think you are amazing and beautiful, definitely one in a million xx | |||
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There is nothing intellectual about that post
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Intellectual; right
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""Never promise a lady anything until she is qualified to receive it", of course that is a life principle for a man who wants a quality lady and not just willing to accept any lady. I will explain it, it means never approach a lady with your wallet first, your wallet can buy her anything she wants but it will never buy her respect for you. First of all make sure the lady is into you before you open your wallet big time. If you apply this principle as a guy , you will see that you will knock off a lot women who are not quality and save yourself a lot of stress. I have explained my position to you to show you the kind of guy you are dealing with, now you prove where you are coming from if you can, I hope you can but let us see. My female friends are really hoping that you can defend what you said and provide examples because you sound intelligent." it's very patronising to say 'you sound intelligent'...though i imagine it's meant to. I have no idea what you are trying to achieve with your ridiculous, pseudo intellectual posts...and your comment that your female friends are 'hoping you can defend what you said' is laughable. You seem to have a very unpleasant view of women despite your assertions that your hordes of female friends all think you're wonderful.....it's not a debating team challenge, but an exchange of opinions. if you disagree with other people's...that's fine, but no-one has to defend, explain, or justify their opinions to you if they don't want to. | |||
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""Never promise a lady anything until she is qualified to receive it", of course that is a life principle for a man who wants a quality lady and not just willing to accept any lady. I will explain it, it means never approach a lady with your wallet first, your wallet can buy her anything she wants but it will never buy her respect for you. First of all make sure the lady is into you before you open your wallet big time. If you apply this principle as a guy , you will see that you will knock off a lot women who are not quality and save yourself a lot of stress. I have explained my position to you to show you the kind of guy you are dealing with, now you prove where you are coming from if you can, I hope you can but let us see. My female friends are really hoping that you can defend what you said and provide examples because you sound intelligent. it's very patronising to say 'you sound intelligent'...though i imagine it's meant to. I have no idea what you are trying to achieve with your ridiculous, pseudo intellectual posts...and your comment that your female friends are 'hoping you can defend what you said' is laughable. You seem to have a very unpleasant view of women despite your assertions that your hordes of female friends all think you're wonderful.....it's not a debating team challenge, but an exchange of opinions. if you disagree with other people's...that's fine, but no-one has to defend, explain, or justify their opinions to you if they don't want to." First of all the post is not for women , it is for guys who are finding it hard to get meets. I am not into arguments or emotional exchanges but I do like to debate, what I am trying to achieve is to wake the few guys who are struggling to get meets up, they don't need to be at anyones mercy. Now if you make a comment you should be able to back it up and explain where you are coming from and the reasons why you take that position , we are not in an English class, lol | |||
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Now I understand you
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"What??? Are you now after my husband? Are you Gay?
Now I understand you
- Mrs. J -"Lol am not but I like you, if I wanted anybody it will be just you lol | |||
