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On average how many messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've cut it down to about 50 a day...that's because I now block anyone I know I'll never bang or anyone who keeps messaging trying to make small talk. I spend too much time on here as it is, so I just clear as much 'clutter' now as I can. |
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It depends. If it's coming up to ladies night at Cupids/La Chambre, or arranging a meet then we get quite a few,(maybe 20 or more) because I'm chatting with people about it. Otherwise it's the odd one or 2 a day, sometimes none!
We do have single males blocked from messaging though, as we prefer to find them ourselves, otherwise the number of messages rockets! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ooohhh well then errrr.......lets see......dum de dum de dum *blows air through teeth*...... roughly? zero. since ive been here that is. there are actual cobwebs in my inbox  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The odd one or two if we haven't been on but a few if we're on looking at profiles. Quite a few more if we put new pics up (not very often). We do have quite strong filters too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.
Usually anything from 50-200. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.
Usually anything from 50-200. "
So that's why my latest 17 messages haven't been read yet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@ 5 / 6 a month.
I'm excluding forum type messages as that's not really a REAL, stone cold "out of the blue" message.
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I've just worked it out.
That's 0.166 messages a day. 
Those of you guys above getting 2, 4 and in one case 30...send some of them my way. |
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"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol"
Self delete after a week. This makes so much sense to me now. I had been wondering where they were going! |
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Depends on the day and how many threads I'm participating in really... I very rarely get non-thread-related mail during the week. But on the weekend I get tonnes of random 'come join me in my hotel room' mail.... Often from guys I've already had the 'thanks but no thanks, not my thing' conversation with on previous occasions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.
Usually anything from 50-200.
So that's why my latest 17 messages haven't been read yet!"
I'm getting there  |
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"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol"
Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol
Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that."
Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened?  |
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"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol
Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that.
Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened? "
I think possibly the sender deletes. I can only speak from my experience, as I don't like to see loads of unanswered messages sat in my outbox, so just delete to keep myself from feeling ignored   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol
Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that.
Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened?
I think possibly the sender deletes. I can only speak from my experience, as I don't like to see loads of unanswered messages sat in my outbox, so just delete to keep myself from feeling ignored "
But if you delete them surely that doesn't delete it from my inbox? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get about 3-5 message per week, if we are chatting to friends we sometimes more. We have not got single males blocked but they seem to listen when they read the profile.......which is strange  |
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"Around 100, currently got 650 waiting to be deleted, and they self delete after a week lol
Are you sure that's right? I manually delete any message I've sent if it hasn't been read after two weeks, but I used to let them sit longer than that.
Well where else do they go?!??! I go to bed st night with a number and it's less the next day? I am a newbie, I thought that's what happened?
I think possibly the sender deletes. I can only speak from my experience, as I don't like to see loads of unanswered messages sat in my outbox, so just delete to keep myself from feeling ignored
But if you delete them surely that doesn't delete it from my inbox? "
Anyone know the answer to this lol? |
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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago
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"It depends how often I've been on and if I've been on forums or chat, whether I've added pics recently or if I'm mid way through chats with others.
Usually anything from 50-200. "
*mental note: don't PM bunny*
I rarely get a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I genuinely couldn't be arsed answering that many messages!
I think the question should of been, how many new messages do you get a day. Would be easy to start racking them up if you're counting conversations as messages.
I think fab should adopt a quick chat style of message system rather than the current email style one. Most other sites use them and it flows much better |
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