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Can ex's previously married really be friends?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some can
some can't
same as with most situations"
This. I think to some extent the reason for the split makes a tremendous difference to being friends afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met up with my ex of 25 years ago recently, we got on perfectly fine. However his new partner did not enjoy the experience. So I would say it depends on the situations. X |
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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago
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"No from both of us .
Of course you have to be civil , for the sake of the kids , but deep down would far rather not have to have anything to do with ex partners at all ."
Just an opinion but would you not at least get to know the ex's new partner? Especially if they're to play a big role in your child's life? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I'm friends with my ex but we have a child together so we try to get on. I dislike talking about shared history with her in front of her current fella as it feels like I'm marking my territory so to speak. I get on with him as well but again wouldn't call him a friend
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i am good friends with my ex. i support him and he supports me, even after i split with an ex after him he was there for me and i cried on him at times.
all round good guy who genuinely cares for me and i care for him.
if you have kids you have to 'grow up' and be civil for them. being friends is a huge bonus and i feel lucky to have him in my life.
we weren't married but were together 11 years, most of the time cohabiting also.
other exes i am not friends with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im still very good friends with the ex wife. Was a bit tense through the divorce but now we get on well.
We even shared a bottle of wine last week which ended in a nostalgic bj  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm friends with my ex wife. Mainly due to the kids. I managed to keep it together when she decided that I was no longer required - despite having 3 kids!
However it has caused problems - just broke up with my girlfriend of two years because she couldn't get her head round the fact we were still friends. She didn't like the fact that we still buy presents for the kids for Xmas and birthdays so they are from Mum and Dad etc.
But still, kids will always come first in my life. |
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"No from both of us .
Of course you have to be civil , for the sake of the kids , but deep down would far rather not have to have anything to do with ex partners at all .
Just an opinion but would you not at least get to know the ex's new partner? Especially if they're to play a big role in your child's life?"
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