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Men, have you ever turned down sex...
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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago
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Yeah a good few times when ive not fancied them. Hardest time was a long time ago at a house party of a girl my best mate was infatuated with... during the night i was just chatting with her upstairs and we casually walked into her room.... it was a trap!! She locked the door got on her knees in front of me, started to undo my jeans and said 'do what you want to me..... anything'..... but because of my bloody best mate i turned around, unlocked the door and went back downstairs to him and my other mates. He never knew it happened. And he never got with her.  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
yes.
I did not fancy the couple.
I tried to ignore them polity dodging the question. hoping they would take the hint. but they did not. she ended up asking me. I said sorry you are not my type and then she asked why! ffs I thought. you never ask that question unless you want to be told you are ugly.
I just said, "please dont ask me that, you are just not my type, end of"
I then got blocked and she told anyone who would listen that she found me ugly and stupid! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah a good few times when ive not fancied them. Hardest time was a long time ago at a house party of a girl my best mate was infatuated with... during the night i was just chatting with her upstairs and we casually walked into her room.... it was a trap!! She locked the door got on her knees in front of me, started to undo my jeans and said 'do what you want to me..... anything'..... but because of my bloody best mate i turned around, unlocked the door and went back downstairs to him and my other mates. He never knew it happened. And he never got with her. "
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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah a good few times when ive not fancied them. Hardest time was a long time ago at a house party of a girl my best mate was infatuated with... during the night i was just chatting with her upstairs and we casually walked into her room.... it was a trap!! She locked the door got on her knees in front of me, started to undo my jeans and said 'do what you want to me..... anything'..... but because of my bloody best mate i turned around, unlocked the door and went back downstairs to him and my other mates. He never knew it happened. And he never got with her.
The things we do for friends "
I know. Hes been a great friend over the years so i dont regret it..... but i may always be haunted by the 'do what you want to me... anything' line.... |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"Yeah a good few times when ive not fancied them. Hardest time was a long time ago at a house party of a girl my best mate was infatuated with... during the night i was just chatting with her upstairs and we casually walked into her room.... it was a trap!! She locked the door got on her knees in front of me, started to undo my jeans and said 'do what you want to me..... anything'..... but because of my bloody best mate i turned around, unlocked the door and went back downstairs to him and my other mates. He never knew it happened. And he never got with her.
The things we do for friends
I know. Hes been a great friend over the years so i dont regret it..... but i may always be haunted by the 'do what you want to me... anything' line.... "
Lol if only |
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I have on several occasions for several different reasons. I actually got hit with a umbrella once by a lady I used to work with cause I wouldn't go back to her hotel room whilst on a work trip. Lol |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have on several occasions for several different reasons. I actually got hit with a umbrella once by a lady I used to work with cause I wouldn't go back to her hotel room whilst on a work trip. Lol"
I have a rule never mix business and pleasure lol I don't want to be the topic of the office gossip |
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Of course, just cause we're male it doesn't mean we only want sex...
If I'm on a hot kill streak in battlefield and the ex would come over trying to get some she would get told "you can wait till I'm done"
I've turned down couples on here as it felt like it was more him than her wanting to meet, I've also asked a couple to leave mine for the same reason
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes - firmly believe in being a gentleman when appropriate. To have just done it for the sake of it would have been using the lady concerned and very unfair. If we don't have respect we don't have anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have thought most men if not all men have turned down sex at some point and not necessarily because they didnt fancy someone. May have been too d*unk, too tired or too depressed to have sex.
God knows us women turn down sex enough so why shouldnt it be the same for guys?
I like a guy to be picky 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happened on the odd occassion. One time I had an evening of washing my hair planned and dinner was already cooking and I wasn't gonna put any of that off for sex! |
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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago
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"I would have thought most men if not all men have turned down sex at some point and not necessarily because they didnt fancy someone. May have been too d*unk, too tired or too depressed to have sex.
God knows us women turn down sex enough so why shouldnt it be the same for guys?
I like a guy to be picky
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I get more horny when i'm depressed.. more horny whrn i'm tired and when i'm d*unk. I fear men may be wired slightly differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Male half here.....many times over years for many many a reason ...bad attitudes n out look on life ....self centered n to me me me types ..from this site as a single before I was with my lovely lady ...had a quite a few meets that were (only way to put it ) false advertising n not honest n up front about things is size n shape n camera angles...not sort to judge but nice if people are up front not left to surprise on meet...and several for bad hygiene when pretty much at point of no return....dont go down well but then again neither do I if it ain't clean n fresh lol ....and believe it or not there has been a few cracking lady's nut voice n way of talking n style of i.e. to snobby or to chavvy has also led to me cutting meets short n making excuses ....fussy Fcker I suppose lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes because she was a bloody train wreck. D*unk, sobbing because she broke up with her fella who was a mate of mine. Offered it on the plate but not a hope of me eating off that plate.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's happened on the odd occassion. One time I had an evening of washing my hair planned and dinner was already cooking and I wasn't gonna put any of that off for sex!
Your poor vagina  "
I know!... I mean.. ummm.. erm...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously 9 out off 10 men on here are well below my standards not saying they are ugly just not for me and I'm not desperate i just act slutty on updates instead haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the time on here, mainly because people fail to read my profile, fail to understand that not everyone is at the beck & call of women/couples simply because they're on a sex site, and not every man on here will fuck anything with a pulse.
I find it completely unacceptable that it's taken as a given that every man on here is on the bottom rung. |
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