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would you travel abroad for a meet ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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possibly if it was say a friend we had met a few times here before and had a really good connection with already and knew that it would be worth the traveling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have done and it was (still is) brilliant!! To be fair I first met him in this country. Does that count OP?"
nope i mean stone cold, never met, just chatted online &/or on the phone
i have done it the other way a couple of times where i've had someone over who i hadn't met
one was as fantastic as the other one was dreadful |
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By *ce-2uMan
over a year ago
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we would if they were paying,lol!!!!!!!! we have had this fantasy to be taken around the greek islands on a private yatch with a rich single male,or with a rich couple.
We would spend the whole time naked and playing, would be great fun.
We are open to offers (that doesn;t include a trip down the Thames in a rowing boat in the rain)   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i had 1 lad ask me to go to belarus.
we chatted for ages, but i couldn't get the thought he was just looking for a 'european passport / visa' out of my head, so in the end i didn't go
the other thing is that homosexual acts are still illegal in belarus.
then about 3 years later, i bumped into him completely by accident in berlin.
he was lovely (looks and personaliy wise), so i did kinda wish i would have gone and got that shag if nothing else 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have done and it was (still is) brilliant!! To be fair I first met him in this country. Does that count OP?
nope i mean stone cold, never met, just chatted online &/or on the phone
i have done it the other way a couple of times where i've had someone over who i hadn't met
one was as fantastic as the other one was dreadful "
Then no. He was all the above but first meet happened here - so he came to me which means I'll have to ask him to post his experience of that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't mean when it's convenient as you're already travelling, i mean a foreign trip exclusively to meet someone !"
Its a nice idea and i would to re-meet someone but not for a first meet as there are so many nice ladies in the UK. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"i don't mean when it's convenient as you're already travelling, i mean a foreign trip exclusively to meet someone !ive done it yes if the meets worth it you'll travel to the ends of the earth  "
For a one off???? A single meet?  |
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"i don't mean when it's convenient as you're already travelling, i mean a foreign trip exclusively to meet someone !ive done it yes if the meets worth it you'll travel to the ends of the earth
For a one off???? A single meet? "
no knew the woman for a year, well worth it, I'm an adventurer lol |
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"i don't mean when it's convenient as you're already travelling, i mean a foreign trip exclusively to meet someone !"
Thare is the opposite of this as an option too. If the location is good then if the meet is a flop at least you can have a mini-break. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"i don't mean when it's convenient as you're already travelling, i mean a foreign trip exclusively to meet someone !ive done it yes if the meets worth it you'll travel to the ends of the earth
For a one off???? A single meet? no knew the woman for a year, well worth it, I'm an adventurer lol "
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I know it sounds a little absurd and desperate but under certain circumstances, like for a girl like me, who does not have anything going for her here and it isnt really that safe to be me here, if it was to a trans friendly place and with someone I knew, I would definitely consider it. |
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I never did..but tongo between ireland and uk i would if there wqs very good connection and if we re compatible.
Afterall ..now you can get flights very cheap..might be cheaper to fly 1 hour somewhere then to drive 30,40 miles to a meet |
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Absolutely not.
The further someone has to travel, the more the pressure to perform. What if you meet someone after travelling all that way and discover that they have unfortunate BO, or you otherwise don't find them attractive and can't continue?
People get mad enough if that happens on the other side of town. From another country... that's a whole other ball game. |
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"Absolutely not.
The further someone has to travel, the more the pressure to perform. What if you meet someone after travelling all that way and discover that they have unfortunate BO, or you otherwise don't find them attractive and can't continue?
People get mad enough if that happens on the other side of town. From another country... that's a whole other ball game."
Yes thats true..
But for that reason has to be lots if talk ad video call before |
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Does that count?
