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Why so hard to find a meet...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here a bit. Sent some messages but very rare to get a reply. Am I doing something wrong... "
I've met a few nice people on here. Women, TV's, couples and even men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it.  I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish.."
OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky. |
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"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish..
OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky. "
have you read my profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've not asked for profile advice so we can't give you any. fire away"
Ok, the profile isn't bad, but you say you're a smoker but won't meet smokers.
And your age range goes up to 99. Would you really have sex with someone that old? |
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"You've not asked for profile advice so we can't give you any. fire away
Ok, the profile isn't bad, but you say you're a smoker but won't meet smokers.
And your age range goes up to 99. Would you really have sex with someone that old?"
That's a mistake. Clearly. I'll adjust it now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here a bit. Sent some messages but very rare to get a reply. Am I doing something wrong... "
patience is the key but it could take over a year before you get to meet plus you got to be Verified i think to have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.
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"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.
Mrs"
I get what you're saying. Maybe i need to change that. Thanks for the input. and nice pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.
Mrs
I get what you're saying. Maybe i need to change that. Thanks for the input. and nice pics "
But you can't change the ratios on Fab! |
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"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple. It I always surprises me that men looking for sex with women, come to a website where there are about 100 single men per single woman, and say what am I doing wrong. Your not necessarily done by anything wrong. You just have an unreasonable expectation. Very few men would attempt to compete with 100 men for 1 woman in regular life.
Mrs
I get what you're saying. Maybe i need to change that. Thanks for the input. and nice pics
But you can't change the ratios on Fab!"
Yes. I get that too. Shame |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish..
OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky. "
I went off what you said, which was ok ish. I have now read it and if I was looking single guys it wouldn't appeal. Smoker would be the first hard limit for me. Thinking sex is nothing without oral is the second. But those are issues of compatibility. It also just bored me. Sorry. |
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"If you find your current approach isn't working, change it. I don't know if it is my approach.. I thought my profile was ok ish..
OK ish isn't good enough. You're a single guy in a sea of single guys, if you want to stand out you need to aim for better than OK ish. But even if your profile was fantastic you have to accept that you are not going to appeal to most people. Women can afford to be picky.
I went off what you said, which was ok ish. I have now read it and if I was looking single guys it wouldn't appeal. Smoker would be the first hard limit for me. Thinking sex is nothing without oral is the second. But those are issues of compatibility. It also just bored me. Sorry."
Wow don't hold back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple.
Mrs
 really?  "
Well I thought single men were the largest demographic, followed by couples, and single women being the smallest demographic. If that is correct then most women here will be part of a couple and therefore of no use to men who only want single women. Am I wrong? |
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"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple.
Mrs
really?
Well I thought single men were the largest demographic, followed by couples, and single women being the smallest demographic. If that is correct then most women here will be part of a couple and therefore of no use to men who only want single women. Am I wrong? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see OP that you are not looking for couples, and most women on this site are part of a couple.
Mrs
really?
Well I thought single men were the largest demographic, followed by couples, and single women being the smallest demographic. If that is correct then most women here will be part of a couple and therefore of no use to men who only want single women. Am I wrong?
Yes"
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Ok you wanted it, you got it.....
The 3 pics you have are all pretty much the same. Change them up a bit, so something to make yourself stand out, catch an eye.
Your profile text I don't think is too bad, I would leave the oral bit in if that's how you feel, you may put some off though with that statement, but at least it will prevent a meet with a woman who doesn't like it, and disappointment on your part. So it works as a filter for both sides.
Just double check the odd spelling.
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You've only just joined - expectations are often amiss with many single guys here. Reality can be an occasional meet each year, once established - which may take a year or two.
Different approach and expectations may help you. |
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