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not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married  |
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over a year ago
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people have the right to decide who they wish to meet - Im married and I accept many wont meet me as im a "cheat" ... their choice to judge me as is mine to ignore them |
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over a year ago
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"Oh dear!
On the good news front, these threads have inspired me to start a small popcorn vending business....
So roll up, roll up, get it whilst its hot!  "
I'll buy that for a dollar. |
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married "
Raa Raa you are a noisy little lion.... |
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over a year ago
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"pity you couldn't have put it on the ...err profile, would have padded it outa bit "
The pics actually make it obvious too....look at the backgrounds....? |
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over a year ago
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married "
Same reasons some don't like . tall or short . Fat or thin . Black or white . Old or young . It's called choices |
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over a year ago
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married
Raa Raa you are a noisy little lion...."
Right well that's me singing that in my head for the night haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married
Raa Raa you are a noisy little lion....
Right well that's me singing that in my head for the night haha!"
Raa Raa you are the loudest of them all.
Keep it going? |
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up"
What do you want people to say?
Some people just don't want to meet married men, it is their choice.
People are entitled to that
Making a thread about it won't make someone change their mind or justify those choices to you.
Plenty of people meet married guys, use your efforts to find them instead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up
What do you want people to say?
Some people just don't want to meet married men, it is their choice.
People are entitled to that
Making a thread about it won't make someone change their mind or justify those choices to you.
Plenty of people meet married guys, use your efforts to find them instead."
Well said that woman. Nice rack - FAF? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes you are right this is a swinging site.
People have different tastes.
You can't expect just because you are on here to have everyone want to fuck you.
Different people different strokes.
Mojarity of the people are not comfortable getting involved with a married man or woman.
Accept it. Move on. Like a post earlier said. Look for those who are okay with it. Don't give out to those who don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you are right this is a swinging site.
People have different tastes.
You can't expect just because you are on here to have everyone want to fuck you.
Different people different strokes.
Mojarity of the people are not comfortable getting involved with a married man or woman.
Accept it. Move on. Like a post earlier said. Look for those who are okay with it. Don't give out to those who don't. "
Brain not fully there... noticed spelling mistake ... darn it... where's the popcorn |
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up
What do you want people to say?
Some people just don't want to meet married men, it is their choice.
People are entitled to that
Making a thread about it won't make someone change their mind or justify those choices to you.
Plenty of people meet married guys, use your efforts to find them instead.
Well said that woman. Nice rack - FAF?"
A fuck? Yeah go on then.
See chap...that is how you do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up"
To be honest you've escaped fairly lightly so far. Having bumped this, that might change.
A large number of people on the forum would quite happily ban all married men.
An even larger number would happily ban married men who start a 'why won't any one meet me' thread.
Work harder or go to clubs/events and see how you get on there. |
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"Yes you are right this is a swinging site.
People have different tastes.
You can't expect just because you are on here to have everyone want to fuck you.
Different people different strokes.
Mojarity of the people are not comfortable getting involved with a married man or woman.
Accept it. Move on. Like a post earlier said. Look for those who are okay with it. Don't give out to those who don't. "
You just said we can't expect everyone to want to fuck us, we are women they do all want to fuck us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't agree with banning..
Just don't force me to want something I am not comfortable with ... no matter how much you say you are good at oral or have a big dick...
Where is my popcorn |
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up
To be honest you've escaped fairly lightly so far. Having bumped this, that might change.
A large number of people on the forum would quite happily ban all married men.
An even larger number would happily ban married men who start a 'why won't any one meet me' thread.
Work harder or go to clubs/events and see how you get on there."
Married is my favourite flavour. Unless they start a thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you are right this is a swinging site.
People have different tastes.
You can't expect just because you are on here to have everyone want to fuck you.
Different people different strokes.
Mojarity of the people are not comfortable getting involved with a married man or woman.
Accept it. Move on. Like a post earlier said. Look for those who are okay with it. Don't give out to those who don't.
You just said we can't expect everyone to want to fuck us, we are women they do all want to fuck us."
See my brain is mush still
Can't find the popcorn either |
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"Don't agree with banning..
Just don't force me to want something I am not comfortable with ... no matter how much you say you are good at oral or have a big dick...
Where is my popcorn "
They always say they are good, most are mediocre at best  |
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up
What do you want people to say?
Some people just don't want to meet married men, it is their choice.
People are entitled to that
Making a thread about it won't make someone change their mind or justify those choices to you.
Plenty of people meet married guys, use your efforts to find them instead."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married "
Some men won't meet women under 45. It's a lay. They want a shag not to marry the guy. Why won't he fuck them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!! 
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers"
Dunno, I've done alright so far. There's hope for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!!
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers
There's ugly people
Face pic Friday reveals all."
I stay away from those threads... because I am scared...
Has anyone got my popcorn?? |
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married
Some men won't meet women under 45. It's a lay. They want a shag not to marry the guy. Why won't he fuck them?"
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!!
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers
Some people have an unpleasant attitude that drives people away. "
Ugly inside |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!!
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers
Some people have an unpleasant attitude that drives people away.
Ugly inside "
Ya find them everywhere  |
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up"
It wasn't a serious question, you were throwing your dollies out of the pram because no one wants to fuck you. Get over yourself!
Not all married men are in your situation. In fact a lot of them are on here behind their partners back and for a lot of people swinging is not just about sex and cheating is definitely not swinging. |
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!!
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers
Some people have an unpleasant attitude that drives people away.
Ugly inside
Ya find them everywhere "
Indeed you do. Gawd this is making me want to nosedive into a cake |
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"pity you couldn't have put it on the ...err profile, would have padded it outa bit
The pics actually make it obvious too....look at the backgrounds....?"
Yup - nothing screams "classy" like having pics of your children plastered over a swinging site ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up
It wasn't a serious question, you were throwing your dollies out of the pram because no one wants to fuck you. Get over yourself!
Not all married men are in your situation. In fact a lot of them are on here behind their partners back and for a lot of people swinging is not just about sex and cheating is definitely not swinging. "
Well said ... didn't want to be too crude to him soo early in the morning ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!!
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers
Some people have an unpleasant attitude that drives people away.
Ugly inside
Ya find them everywhere
Indeed you do. Gawd this is making me want to nosedive into a cake "
I have Apple lemon cake  |
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I don't think calling people immature and dreamers will help you OP.
Respect people's choices. If your personal situation is what say it is and your wife is happy for you to meet, why not put that on your profile.
There are married people on here that do just fine. It's down to attitude and how you manage your situation. |
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up"
You've been here two weeks, your profile is crap, with the bulk of it insulting potential meets and you think your marital status is the issue?!?
Why don't *you* grow up and loose the sense of entitlement  |
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up
You've been here two weeks, your profile is crap, with the bulk of it insulting potential meets and you think your marital status is the issue?!?
Why don't *you* grow up and loose the sense of entitlement "
This is an announcement from the Diplomatic Fab Core  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gets the popcorn lol
Haribos?
I have everything here ( including wine it's 5pm somewhere) or ya can have mimosas
Game on"
Yes I have a partner in crime
Love me a mimosa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the status, many would consider it honest being upfront about your marital status on the profile so people who do have preferences can make a choice. |
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States on my profile that I play solo with my partner's consent and she has full knowledge of what I get up to.
As Long as you're open about it, other people will appreciate that and make decisions accordingly if they like you. |
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"States on my profile that I play solo with my partner's consent and she has full knowledge of what I get up to.
As Long as you're open about it, other people will appreciate that and make decisions accordingly if they like you. "
I think your situation is slightly different to the OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meh...
I prefer rants about fat stuck up ugly bitches!
But now I think about it - how dare women turn you down OP - yeah you're married so what - this is a site for sex after all - and you should be getting it!
RAAAAARRRRGGGHHHH
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!!
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers
There's ugly people "
mainly on the inside |
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over a year ago
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"Sometimes being married is the least of the problem getting meets on here!!
What about the fuck ugly married ones.
Poor buggers
There's ugly people
mainly on the inside "
Thank goodness ... got scared there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem with starting any thread like this on hers op is that your asking to be torn to shreds by others who disagree with being married and being on FAB and others who dont give a shit and say what they like anyway!!. Good luck to you on here |
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"States on my profile that I play solo with my partner's consent and she has full knowledge of what I get up to.
As Long as you're open about it, other people will appreciate that and make decisions accordingly if they like you.
I think your situation is slightly different to the OP "
Only slightly
Just trying to let him know that transparency gets you further rather than complaining.
But thanks for reminding me Miss Flirty Eyes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't patience the answer?
I brought 42 KK donuts.... only cos it's Friday and we might be here a while. Has anyone put the kettle on? "
I have!!!!
Mimosa first though |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married "
People can accept who they want, it is their profile, concentrate on your own profile and what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't think married is the only issue
tidy the house? iron your shirt? hide all theschool photos? have a look at other guys profiles like mine who are successful on here and get some tips"
but at least he has more words on his than you do |
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over a year ago
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Ok, I'm pretty much in the same boat as the OP, my Mrs is taking a break from swinging at the moment but happy for me to carry on, now, the one thing I've learnt from my many many many years on this site is having a moan will not help you, having negativity on your profile won't help, be upfront and honest so others can make an informed choice and not be duped, not everyone will want to meet married men, it's their choice so no point arguing about it, find the ones are are happy to meet attached guys, or at the very least make it known in your intro message, if your wife is happy for you to swing alone, then there's no problems right? |
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Someone who doesn't want to meet you isn't someone you want to meet. It doesn't matter if they feel they hold the moral high ground and you don't think they do. Why would a black guy want to meet someone who doesn't want to meet black guys? Sure, he's incompatible to their needs. But to be frank they're also incompatible to his needs |
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married "
Each to their own OP
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married
Raa Raa you are a noisy little lion...."
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"so i ask a serious question and all the answers are a joke, this site as potential only if people grow up
You've been here two weeks, your profile is crap, with the bulk of it insulting potential meets and you think your marital status is the issue?!?
Why don't *you* grow up and loose the sense of entitlement
This is an announcement from the Diplomatic Fab Core "
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married "
Some of us want more of a connection and meanigful sex, not to be 'used' for a quick "lay" though!
If that is all we wanted, we may as well stick to our toys rather than find a married man who is gonna f**k and go. |
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"not sure why some profiles won't accept married men, they seem quite obsessive about it, what the f**k , its a lay, my wife is ok with me seeing others just not for her anymore, it seems tbe a couple normally, we want a shag not to marry the wife what the!! we are married
Some of us want more of a connection and meanigful sex, not to be 'used' for a quick "lay" though!
If that is all we wanted, we may as well stick to our toys rather than find a married man who is gonna f**k and go. "
As do some married men. Although some couples clearly state they want the fuck and go type of man, married or not, too. It takes all sorts on here.
Basically OP, don't whinge about not getting what you want or what you think others should want. You can't make people want you if they don't.
Perhaps you are approaching the wrong people. Use filters and try and find those that sound like you may be what they seek (assuming you read their profile and don't just fab the pics, wink at then and send a friend request along with a "Hi how are you" or "fancy a fuck"). Try using the forum search tool and save yourself a lot of pain before posting too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I respect people's choices just as I expect them to respect mine.
I have a criteria, and so do others. As a result there is only a very small % I would consider myself to be compatible with and I for one am ok with that.
In fact i love it |
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