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"Good effort, well done you. I believe in personality far more than body shape and size. Totally awesome.  " | |||
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"Own that shit. Awesome post "Thanks hun.. x x Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it.. but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful | |||
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"Have a massive hug from me Likewise I'm a big girl that hides under my clothes I take my hat of to you. .... "let me get dressed then i'll have that hug hehe xx | |||
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"You are a brave one. I know from past threads how you feel about yourself and your body and putting it out there like that is a big move. I'm confident you'll do it based on how determined you sound. Tenacious as well as cute and sassy. We'll do a park run one day together "My 1st one id love to be with Evie.. she's my inspiration But id loveeeee to get into running one day in the distant future. | |||
you're a very pretty lady and huge well done on the weight loss. . . That's amazing x | |||
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"Own that shit. Awesome post
Thanks hun.. x x
Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it..
but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful "If you do lose people because of this it's there loss hugs | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " I totally get where you're coming from. I've gone down 6 dress sizes but still look in the mirror and see the old me. It's hard losing weight yet being left with saggy wobbly bits that no amount of exercise will remove. But that's the way we perceive ourselves, there are lots of men out there that appreciate our curves and wobbly bits. I think you are too hard on yourself, but I know I'm the same. Learning to like what you see isn't easy and doesn't happen overnight but, try to focus on the positives and set yourself realistic targets. I hope you feel a bit stronger and happier soon x | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x If you sending a pic of the real you put him off then was he really worth it anyway? I think the real you is gorgeous and I wouldn't say no given chance. Sean " | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " You are beautiful. Inside and out. Do what makes you happy. Be strong and you will achieve the goals you set yourself. | |||
"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " Good on you girl  im sure your've earned alot of people's respect for that move. Acceptance is the 1st step, then choosing the appropriate action to take. Good luck | |||
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"Own that shit. Awesome post
Thanks hun.. x x
Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it..
but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful
If you do lose people because of this it's there loss hugs"How many times I've lost people I thought were friends this way is amazing. Op has really put herself out there with her honesty. If she loses anyone. She's better off without them. | |||
" Brave. Honest. Inspiring.
*my spelling above was shameful "Indeed | |||
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"Fabbed! If you're unhappy with you, change. If you think others will be unhappy or critical of you, fuck em! Go girl! "Agree with this....PS I love that dress... | |||
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Beautiful inside and out, so don't worry about that!
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"Own that shit. Awesome post
Thanks hun.. x x
Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it..
but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful
If you do lose people because of this it's there loss hugs
How many times I've lost people I thought were friends this way is amazing. Op has really put herself out there with her honesty. If she loses anyone. She's better off without them. "+1 to that | |||
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"You are a brave one. I know from past threads how you feel about yourself and your body and putting it out there like that is a big move. I'm confident you'll do it based on how determined you sound. Tenacious as well as cute and sassy. We'll do a park run one day together
My 1st one id love to be with Evie.. she's my inspiration
But id loveeeee to get into running one day in the distant future."I'm there like a shot! No matter where in the world it is ill be at your first one! Your original post is great but I do think you are too hard on yourself. You've done amazingly well and have overcome massive barriers to lose the weight you have. Your determination is awe inspiring, I could do with taking lessons from you. Stop hating the you of your past for the things that have happened. There is nothing you can do to change them. All you can do is work on the you of the future and from what I've seen she is going to be amazing! | |||
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I'm proud of you and hear your words loud n clear - I'm no skinny minny but I learnt a long time ago that I am what I am and that learning to love yourself is one of the hardest things you'll ever do x | |||
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I've been through that struggle so I know how hard it is. Such a brave, beautiful and inspiring post! | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " Fabbed. Still looking forward to our first meet. | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " Congratulations, you have made the first move by putting this post up. Some people are still in denial about their issues, it is nice you have set yourself a goal as well. Wish I could get motivated to lose weight as you have done. | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " Everyones talkin about being brave etc, but dya know what you are you just like I am me, some people like me some dont, Ive learnt to not let that bother me over the years, once you hit that point its like having a whole new lease of life
I dont know you personally, just posts Ive read and pictures Ive seen, but let me just say that the increasing confidence Ive noticed in you is fuckin boss, confidence and self respect are 2 of the most important things that Ive found will get you through any 'down' time.
Just be you, smile an give a massive fuck you to what anyone thinks | |||
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"I Fabbed that picture because it says so much about the real you, very inspiring x" Thankyou I did to . I have Simular tummy which I truly hate I could never be so brave so thankyou xxxxxx | |||
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"I've just seen the pic in hot pics before I saw this thread and my amidiate though was oh wow. I'm proud of you your beautiful. PTU xxx " Page 3!   | |||
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"I've just seen the pic in hot pics before I saw this thread and my amidiate though was oh wow. I'm proud of you your beautiful. PTU xxx Page 3! "hopefully she'll get on pg1. Xx | |||
"Wow, I'm genuinely full of admiration for you ... to paraphrase that well known book, you felt the fear and did it anyway by publishing your picture. I'm guessing you may have spent months (longer?) worrying about the potential impact but now you've done it at the very least you'll no longer have to have that internal argument with yourself - and I also suspect that you'll very shortly feel empowered (if you don't already) by knowing, as you go forward, that you're not 'hiding' any part of yourself. You're a very gutsy lady "I can't say it any better than this... go you! | |||
"Own that shit. Awesome post
Thanks hun.. x x
Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it..
but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful
If you do lose people because of this it's there loss hugs
How many times I've lost people I thought were friends this way is amazing. Op has really put herself out there with her honesty. If she loses anyone. She's better off without them. "How is putting pictures up that the op is admitting to are deceitful being honest?....if she loses anyone as you say she is better off with out.....well more to the point that is them taking the point that they are beter off without meeting somebody who are not honest....would you meet people who are not honest on their pictures? | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x It shouldn't matter how you look (may I say how sexy you are) we are all different and we should accept that. We all have our faults so you keep putting up the pics and sod those who don't like it. You are a beautiful sexy lady. " | |||
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Btw. We all are guilty of only posting the flattering pics.
Very few of us post the honest pics xxxx | |||
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"Awesome. Well done girl.
Btw. We all are guilty of only posting the flattering pics.
Very few of us post the honest pics xxxx"Very true! Much respect, OP. | |||
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Its done,, i can breathe.
Truly thank you all x | |||
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"wow thank you all so much for posting on here... i've got home from work to 56 messages and not started those yet. Im truly gobsmacked that everyone has been kind and supportive. I dont wanna be in denial any more and that picture will always remain public i feel so that if i do get any interest in the future you really cant be more open that that.. I do love taking the other more creative pictures that hides the majority of me.. but no one really posts an unflattering picture.. except me this morning haha i feel free of guilt and quite liberating to expose myself. Ive avoided forum socials as didnt want to be that person who looks jack shit like their pics..
Its done,, i can breathe.
Truly thank you all x "You have done so well, keep up the grear attitude and you will hit youreply goal in no time hunny x | |||
"wow thank you all so much for posting on here... i've got home from work to 56 messages and not started those yet. Im truly gobsmacked that everyone has been kind and supportive. I dont wanna be in denial any more and that picture will always remain public i feel so that if i do get any interest in the future you really cant be more open that that.. I do love taking the other more creative pictures that hides the majority of me.. but no one really posts an unflattering picture.. except me this morning haha i feel free of guilt and quite liberating to expose myself. Ive avoided forum socials as didnt want to be that person who looks jack shit like their pics..
Its done,, i can breathe.
Truly thank you all x " | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " I love your courage and honesty! But, if you're being 100% honest then you need to have one of your face (yes I know it's on your profile pic), as you have one of the most beautiful faces on Fab! | |||
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"If you weren't 120 miles down the road... "ahh never mind x | |||
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"Own that shit. Awesome post
Thanks hun.. x x
Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it..
but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful
If you do lose people because of this it's there loss hugs
How many times I've lost people I thought were friends this way is amazing. Op has really put herself out there with her honesty. If she loses anyone. She's better off without them.
How is putting pictures up that the op is admitting to are deceitful being honest?....if she loses anyone as you say she is better off with out.....well more to the point that is them taking the point that they are beter off without meeting somebody who are not honest....would you meet people who are not honest on their pictures? "everyone posts pictures that flatter their bodies in some way. i am sure you dont walk around topless all the time and maybe puff out your chest quite so much as you walk down the street. If you cannot take the OP and subsequent supportive posts in the manner they were intended then i truly feel very sorry for you. | |||
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"How is putting pictures up that the op is admitting to are deceitful being honest?....if she loses anyone as you say she is better off with out.....well more to the point that is them taking the point that they are beter off without meeting somebody who are not honest....would you meet people who are not honest on their pictures? " OK the pictures i had were clearly me.. it just didnt show the whole picture as it were.. Ive not met anyone from fab in agesssssssssss but i guess im feeling better about myself and its a possibility that i may want too in time.. This way the truth is out there for people to see the ugly truth.. dressed in clothes is only an improvement | |||
"I don't remember you ever once say you were slim, or lie about your size or weight. You did what most women on here do, and took some flattering photos of yourself. " Im my profile text description ive stated dress size and ive lots of wobble etc.. sometimes its just good to see it | |||
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"Own that shit. Awesome post
Thanks hun.. x x
Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it..
but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful
If you do lose people because of this it's there loss hugs
How many times I've lost people I thought were friends this way is amazing. Op has really put herself out there with her honesty. If she loses anyone. She's better off without them.
How is putting pictures up that the op is admitting to are deceitful being honest?....if she loses anyone as you say she is better off with out.....well more to the point that is them taking the point that they are beter off without meeting somebody who are not honest....would you meet people who are not honest on their pictures?
everyone posts pictures that flatter their bodies in some way. i am sure you dont walk around topless all the time and maybe puff out your chest quite so much as you walk down the street.
If you cannot take the OP and subsequent supportive posts in the manner they were intended then i truly feel very sorry for you. "Strange as so many people state that honesty means so much to them , but when the op clearly says on her opening post that she sent fraudulent pics....why is it a loss for the guy if now he is no longer interested after seeing the real full size honest pictures was the point I was making, if the post was made by a man then women would no doubt say it was his own fault for in a way portraying himself differently......but applaud the op for now at least showing to all the real her, least people can decide and read and make their own opinion now. | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " just so you know i love that pic !!! I honestly think you are crazy cus ain't nothing wrong with yu body but I know you have to learn to love you . If you had have commented on my I'm bored thread then you would have got a hell yea | |||
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"Own that shit. Awesome post
Thanks hun.. x x
Im feeling brave.. and just pray i dont lose people who i care about because of it..
but if i did i only have myself to blame by being deceitful "Don't see how you should lose any of us. You've done a great thing in facing your "demons". You've taken ownership of who and what you are....how can that not be a good thing. Anybody you "lose" because of this....was not worth having. Congrats on the progress you have made....and good luck moving forward. X | |||
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"Honesty is best full stop if u lie you'll get found out and look a fool " 
So many on here state on forum posts that they like the bigger women anyway.....so sure the op feels comfortable meetimg those men, and those men messaging the op to meet her no matter what size she is.
Always somebody for somebody, the ones who say they meet bigger women need to then stand by their words and not give excuses and show themselves to be as they say a man of my word.
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" Other people, however, should accept your body because its none of their fucking business. " +1 well said | |||
"Honesty is best full stop if u lie you'll get found out and look a fool
So many on here state on forum posts that they like the bigger women anyway.....so sure the op feels comfortable meetimg those men, and those men messaging the op to meet her no matter what size she is.
Always somebody for somebody, the ones who say they meet bigger women need to then stand by their words and not give excuses and show themselves to be as they say a man of my word.
"Id want a guy to want to meet me because he finds me desirable and because im a fucking awesome person
Not just cos im an easy catch and potentially 'desperate' cos im a fat lass.
I dont want pitty.. ive no one to blame for my situation except myself ultimately... im sorting it out and learning to embrace my body and changing it til i start to love it | |||
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"Honesty is best full stop if u lie you'll get found out and look a fool
So many on here state on forum posts that they like the bigger women anyway.....so sure the op feels comfortable meetimg those men, and those men messaging the op to meet her no matter what size she is.
Always somebody for somebody, the ones who say they meet bigger women need to then stand by their words and not give excuses and show themselves to be as they say a man of my word.
Id want a guy to want to meet me because he finds me desirable and because im a fucking awesome person
Not just cos im an easy catch and potentially 'desperate' cos im a fat lass.
I dont want pitty.. ive no one to blame for my situation except myself ultimately... im sorting it out and learning to embrace my body and changing it til i start to love it "Exactly and thats just how it should be....and as many on here and othet threads have shown...they do and would meet you because they think you are | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x " I did this a few months ago. I'm far from loving myself but I did upload a photo that I usually would have deleted. It shows me from behind and you can see all the cellulite etc, it's a horrible photo and yet it's one of the ones with the most FABS. Also, I had a meet last week with probably the best looking guy I've had a meet with yet. I thought he was way out of my league but it turns out he adores a big tummy and there was one point during the meet that my overhanging belly was hanging down (which is usually when I feel most vulnerable about my body) and he just lay there while we were chatting stroking my belly. I felt totally accepted and it was awesome. So hopefully from now on I'll be much more open to the idea that a hot guy can find me attractive. However, I completely understand that whatever people tell you, it doesn't change how you feel about your body. It's incredible how much weight you've already lost and I really hope you continue to feel empowered. You should try and watch "Embrace" if you get the chance, it's brilliant! I'm also wanting to lose a significant amount of weight but for the first time in my life it's because I want to purely for health and comfort reasons, not because I want to just be more attractive to men. Best of luck with your journey and I'm sure you'll get a hugely positive response to any of your new photos. | |||
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"As your all aware ive struggled with my body image for pretty much the whole 6 years ive been apart of this wonderful site and never been truthful with my image. I dress up a bit, take crafty photo's with clever angles and it all hides the fact ive so much wobble, stretch marks and a massive overhang. Its bad enough uploading a full length pic in a dress that hides the majority of those details. This morning for the 1st time EVER i took a picture and sent it to someone. I cried and instantly regretted it.. In that moment id shattered his perception that he may of had of me after he's only seen the fraudulent images id sent to him. So fuck it,, to deal with shit in life you have to face it, accept it and move on.. so im going to be more honest and true to myself and stop living the lie that actually ive an ok body. So removed all pics except from a dress picture that shows the good curves.. and the reality of what damage ive done to my body. It will change as i know im unhappy. Ive lost 4 stone 10 lb to get to this mess and got another 13 stone at least to go. I will learn to love myself x You my sweet are utterly amazing, xx " | |||
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"ive just checked and its had 600 fabs so far and its only been on 14 hours ish.. crazyness" Currently 617 fabs and still hovering at the top of page 2. You took the plunge and bared all - so proud of you for doing that...! It's not often I say that! Oh, and one thing is for sure - without the camera angles, effects, etc., you are STILL a gorgeous sexy woman.
Oh, and yes, I would, now more than ever!! | |||
"ive just checked and its had 600 fabs so far and its only been on 14 hours ish.. crazyness Currently 617 fabs and still hovering at the top of page 2. You took the plunge and bared all - so proud of you for doing that...! It's not often I say that! Oh, and one thing is for sure - without the camera angles, effects, etc., you are STILL a gorgeous sexy woman.
Oh, and yes, I would, now more than ever!! "
i do worry about your vision TT x | |||
"ive just checked and its had 600 fabs so far and its only been on 14 hours ish.. crazyness Currently 617 fabs and still hovering at the top of page 2. You took the plunge and bared all - so proud of you for doing that...! It's not often I say that! Oh, and one thing is for sure - without the camera angles, effects, etc., you are STILL a gorgeous sexy woman.
Oh, and yes, I would, now more than ever!!
i do worry about your vision TT x "Haha - nothing wrong with my eyesight m'dear!! | |||
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"ive just checked and its had 600 fabs so far and its only been on 14 hours ish.. crazyness" Ps where did you get that dress from its beautiful x | |||
"ive just checked and its had 600 fabs so far and its only been on 14 hours ish.. crazyness Ps where did you get that dress from its beautiful x" yoursclothing but a few years ago x | |||
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"Ah well, down to me / us again, as 99% of the posts in this thread are all the same. 1/ Haven't ever walked in those shoes, so have no idea what goes on inside someone's head that they can make themselves like that, and of course no idea what it takes to get back from that place. 2/ The OP did state she has already lost a significant amout of weight, and that she hopes to lose a lot more still, we say good, because that sort of "weight" is just slow suicide 3/ For *us* the most significant thing about the OP's post was that she accepts that she was "false advertising" and now she is "what it says on the tin", and the most significant thing many other have said is that "everyone does it" when in fact everyone does not do it, so to the OP welcome to the world of truth, whatever path lies ahead, your new "what it says on the tin" will help more than everything else put together. 4/ years ago I had a friend who had a very beautiful wife, and they were deeply in love, she lost most of her face to a chip pan accident, everyone else, her included, said even after plastic surgery she looked awful, he said she was beautiful as ever, and he meant it. 5/ the issue with point #4 is it was something that happened to her, whereas with the OP and indeed a very good friend of ours it isn't something that happened to them, overnight as it were, it is something they did to themselves, over years. We suspect that *this* is what the OP has to come to terms with, but point #3 above about honesty is the clue that the OP is indeed doing so. and finally esther 6/ we have known people who went down this road before, and as point #1 says we do not pretend to understand it, what we did see, sadly, was that a lot of supportive "friends" actually liked them being morbidly obese, always someone else to point to who is worse than them, and dependent upon them for friendship, you know "who else wants to be seen with a fat fuck" stuff, but I do because I'm your freind so you should be grateful towards me.... they didn't make any headway whilst *supported* by said friends. Don't know the OP, never met her, seen the previous pics, lovely tits etc, nice face, none of it matters.. coming out and being honest, girl it ain't all about fuck it if anyone blocks me they weren't true friends anyway, what it is is now you're being open and honest (new) true friends will find you, fuck the scales and fuck the flesh and fuck the sex, being honest will make you *strong*, and the weight and friends and sex will all take care of themselves. (this post is for the OP, we don't care what others make of it, it wasn't directed at them as such)" Thanks for the response Ball & Chain.. without boring loads of people for the main reasons of my vast size in detail it was down to medical issues. GP's and specialists were not sure what was going on with my metabolism for 7/8 years so the consequences were horrific weight gain and depression which didnt help me make the best food choices within that time when i was ill. In Decemeber they finally discovered what the problem was and soon enough the weight has started to fall off.. The pictures that i have in my private gallery ARE me.. but just flattering to show my curves.. if your either 6 ft odd and looking down at me you might see the same shape. I did have clothed body pictures and since the start of 2017 i have been showing little bit more.. Although my weight has impacted on my life so much can honestly say its my mental health that has improved the most. I eat better, im working more, im going to the gym, im more active day to day and the most part im HAPPY.. I dont wanna get all slushy but theres someone on here who makes me feel alive and that im worth so much more than i give myself credit for. I may have not known of this individual long but what he's done for me words can not simply discribe.. im living now, not just existing in a black and white world. It has depth and meaning. I wake up with a smile and fall asleep with one too. I used to be a dirty little mare and was a right sexual demon... but the depression and weight gain robbed me of who i was ... well im finally coming back. I feel firsky and turned on,, at times i even feel *sexy*.. but this was the final straw for me being open with my body and hiding behind nothing.. Oddly nice to feel this vulnerable.. | |||
"Very brave of you. I think alot of women struggle with body image so your not alone but good on you for starting the journey to loving the skin you're in you're a very pretty lady and huge well done on the weight loss. . . That's amazing x"I second that
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"Hey you! You are one of the most caring and loving people I know, we have been friends for a long time and I've seen your highs and lows, smiles and tears. You are stronger than you realise and braver than you think. X "awww PP You litterally know everything about me along with 4 others on here.. the good the bad, the horny and the ugly x x x | |||
"Hey you! You are one of the most caring and loving people I know, we have been friends for a long time and I've seen your highs and lows, smiles and tears. You are stronger than you realise and braver than you think. X
awww PP You litterally know everything about me along with 4 others on here.. the good the bad, the horny and the ugly x x x "Ditto and one day I'll teach you how to make proper Yorkies x | |||
"Hey you! You are one of the most caring and loving people I know, we have been friends for a long time and I've seen your highs and lows, smiles and tears. You are stronger than you realise and braver than you think. X
awww PP You litterally know everything about me along with 4 others on here.. the good the bad, the horny and the ugly x x x
Ditto and one day I'll teach you how to make proper Yorkies x "oh you didnt just go there... my Yorkies were bloomin lush the other day | |||
"Hey you! You are one of the most caring and loving people I know, we have been friends for a long time and I've seen your highs and lows, smiles and tears. You are stronger than you realise and braver than you think. X
awww PP You litterally know everything about me along with 4 others on here.. the good the bad, the horny and the ugly x x x
Ditto and one day I'll teach you how to make proper Yorkies x
oh you didnt just go there...
my Yorkies were bloomin lush the other day "Bout bloody time x | |||
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"... Although my weight has impacted on my life so much can honestly say its my mental health that has improved the most. I eat better, im working more, im going to the gym, im more active day to day and the most part im HAPPY.. I dont wanna get all slushy but theres someone on here who makes me feel alive and that im worth so much more than i give myself credit for. I may have not known of this individual long but what he's done for me words can not simply discribe.. im living now, not just existing in a black and white world. It has depth and meaning. I wake up with a smile and fall asleep with one too. I used to be a dirty little mare and was a right sexual demon... but the depression and weight gain robbed me of who i was ... well im finally coming back. I feel firsky and turned on,, at times i even feel *sexy*.. but this was the final straw for me being open with my body and hiding behind nothing.. Oddly nice to feel this vulnerable.. " I love this. You deserve to be happy OP.
870 Fabs!!!
Hope you continue to feel better xx | |||
