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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So on this site as a single male and am respectful etc and get abuse from a couple for being single male making it out as though we are not wanted on this site. Fair enough some people might not although they had a verification from a single male haha. What are other couple and people's views on this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
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No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single female I have abuse all the time from guys and couples... just don't reply to them.. reported, block and deleted the messages... gone forever ... SIMPLE!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My view is quite simple in that anyone publically highlighting their frustration at being rejected wont help their chances of success.....
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If you just read my explanation above you'd clearly see I did not try to meet these people it was a snotty comment they had put on a comment. They were out of my age range there for would never have come across them in search and would not have wanted to meet. A single male on here is proberbly 90% rejection which is fine as there are so many and if I get knocked back I say thank you for replying and move on there's 1000's of males on this site I don't just expect people to want to meet me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single female I have abuse all the time from guys and couples... just don't reply to them.. reported, block and deleted the messages... gone forever ... SIMPLE!! "
Why do you get abuse though single women are wanted much more on this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got "
Well that's already vastly more detailed than the op.
BUT still vague and onesided |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So on this site as a single male and am respectful etc and get abuse from a couple for being single male making it out as though we are not wanted on this site. Fair enough some people might not although they had a verification from a single male haha. What are other couple and people's views on this "
I had similar to this because I wouldn't play with the male of the couple he went on about it being a swinging site and I should be banned from it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some couples I expect them to not want us on the site so they can have more single females to themselves, we all have our preferences me personally I wish I was the only single male on here 
Joking aside I always see both sides and I totally understand everyone's frustration around single guys. Surely you can imagine the amount of junk mail they get from guys and especially if they've been on here a while ?
Don't take it to heart move on and enjoy the site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My view is, you block the sender and give precisely zero fucks about their opinion. 
This every time  "
Well they have blocked me now they didn't like my reply lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't worry about it, I've had a fair few messages giving me shit for being a single male on here and I just ignore them!!"
i wouldn't Mind if I had messeged asking for a meet but I haven't haha and wouldn't either
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most of our meets are with single men then why have you never come up in my search lol I would have messaged you haha. Xx
Because your profile says you have standards  "
Yhbi know that needs removing really it looks abit silly. Although for the record you fall well within those standards lol xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got "
You didn't reply on the forum but by PM?
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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago
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"So on this site as a single male and am respectful etc and get abuse from a couple for being single male making it out as though we are not wanted on this site. Fair enough some people might not although they had a verification from a single male haha. What are other couple and people's views on this "
Ignore, move on. Plenty of people will search single guys but don't want to be inundated with cock pics etc. so say "No single males" on their profile.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got
You didn't reply on the forum but by PM?
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I replyed by pm through the forum x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single males are all I'm looking for on here so yes they are wanted.
I wouldn't let the opinions of a couple of people get to you. "
No I know it just annoyed me. Thank you. And I'm a single male lol xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got
You didn't reply on the forum but by PM?
I replyed by pm through the forum x"
If it's on a thread, it's best kept there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got
You didn't reply on the forum but by PM?
I replyed by pm through the forum x
If it's on a thread, it's best kept there. "
I know that in hindsight x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya 
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry  xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately "
Lol not a problem. If you want some white chocolate then send me a messege and it can be arranged lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately "
and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx |
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"So on this site as a single male and am respectful etc and get abuse from a couple for being single male making it out as though we are not wanted on this site. Fair enough some people might not although they had a verification from a single male haha. What are other couple and people's views on this "
My view is slightly askance. |
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx"
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?! |
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?! "
Shameless hussy  |
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy "
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff  |
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff "
Deal! I'll have an afternoons worth ready for you. Oh and I'm very voyeuristic about other people working |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff "
Let me know the details then lol and it will be there haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff
Deal! I'll have an afternoons worth ready for you. Oh and I'm very voyeuristic about other people working "
Hey this is my offer hahaha xx |
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff
Deal! I'll have an afternoons worth ready for you. Oh and I'm very voyeuristic about other people working "
Erm just let me get this right before I commit,it is just a bit of light pruning isn't it?! |
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff
Let me know the details then lol and it will be there haha xx"
My address is: Amillionmilesaway,middle of the country somewhere,UK,MD2 4LD
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff
Deal! I'll have an afternoons worth ready for you. Oh and I'm very voyeuristic about other people working
Erm just let me get this right before I commit,it is just a bit of light pruning isn't it?!"
Nope it's thick bush  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff
Let me know the details then lol and it will be there haha xx
My address is: Amillionmilesaway,middle of the country somewhere,UK,MD2 4LD
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Haha there on the way lol not sure if they'll make it haha x |
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"Right I'm off to the ignored thread,see ya
Really sorry I just missed your comment sorry xx
Apology accepted,don't do it again I'm very needy lately and I know I'm out of your age range so just a comment not a come on lol but you are stunning xx
Thankyou,is the chocolate on it's way?!
Shameless hussy
It's chocolate I'd do absolutely anything for white chocolate,in fact I'll come and do your garden for free if you supplied me with the stuff
Deal! I'll have an afternoons worth ready for you. Oh and I'm very voyeuristic about other people working
Erm just let me get this right before I commit,it is just a bit of light pruning isn't it?!
Nope it's thick bush "
Damn it my hedge trimmer is broken! |
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"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got
You didn't reply on the forum but by PM?
I replyed by pm through the forum x
If it's on a thread, it's best kept there.
I know that in hindsight x"
Wait..... lemme get this straight.....
So they'd replied something publicly on the forum.... which I'm assuming was already a bit contentious since you decided it warranted a private message asking them what they meant.... and then they were not entirely gracious back.....
I'm sorry, but what were you expecting? That they'd suddenly turn around and change their opinion? Surely the forum post already gave you their opinion, why pursue it through pm then get butthurt when they weren't friendly? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got
You didn't reply on the forum but by PM?
I replyed by pm through the forum x
If it's on a thread, it's best kept there.
I know that in hindsight x
Wait..... lemme get this straight.....
So they'd replied something publicly on the forum.... which I'm assuming was already a bit contentious since you decided it warranted a private message asking them what they meant.... and then they were not entirely gracious back.....
I'm sorry, but what were you expecting? That they'd suddenly turn around and change their opinion? Surely the forum post already gave you their opinion, why pursue it through pm then get butthurt when they weren't friendly? Lol"
I'm sorry I have looked at this they actually replyed privertly to me first I replied to them and I can screenshot it if needed so people don't think I'm blogging lol either or haha x |
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"Well that's a vague and one sided account of events.
No not really that's how it went down they had replied something on a forum so measeges them sayin why the comment and then that's the reply I got
You didn't reply on the forum but by PM?
I replyed by pm through the forum x
If it's on a thread, it's best kept there.
I know that in hindsight x
Wait..... lemme get this straight.....
So they'd replied something publicly on the forum.... which I'm assuming was already a bit contentious since you decided it warranted a private message asking them what they meant.... and then they were not entirely gracious back.....
I'm sorry, but what were you expecting? That they'd suddenly turn around and change their opinion? Surely the forum post already gave you their opinion, why pursue it through pm then get butthurt when they weren't friendly? Lol
I'm sorry I have looked at this they actually replyed privertly to me first I replied to them and I can screenshot it if needed so people don't think I'm blogging lol either or haha x"
Well, no need for screens hots because I doubt anyone cares, but I'm just saying that's not what you have been saying so far. Lol. It's implied you messaged them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It happens fella. Water off a ducks back, when it's happened to me I've not really given it a second thought, just saves you meeting someone you wont like. |
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