"ty for the response, sorry i meant he was going away on the 30th of this month,
i have talked to close friends about this, but to be honest, it seems that they take the side of the person they are closest too, hence why i put it here, for a complete strangers point of view. also we have talked and talked about our probs time and time again, but nothing seems to work. my partner does have a lot of health probs which over the last few months has got worse, and is getting harder for him to cope with. he has told me that he feels it is to much for me to handle, and i am now wondering if this could be a reason for the change in him"
ah now there you go,,as the old saying goese hurt the ones we love the most,,iv had my health issues of late and im sure others here will agree that your partner is always the one that you argue/fight and down right give hell to,,and after that you have the remorse,,if you ave had a big row recentley,,him saying hes goin away is his way of saying not just that he needs time away from you,but for both of you to think things true,,and also for you to hae your sef some relax time without the worries of him having another breakdown,
and when he says he thinks its too much for you to handle,,its not saying he doesnt want you to handle it,,its a mans silly way of saying,,he knows he is being a twat,,and hes also worried about you,,
well thats what i think,,
hope you get sorted good luck |
What's wrong with talking to yourself , i often do 