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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Long post, I know.
I've grown to like you guys, I don't post outside of this lounge forum. We all use this site in different ways, we're allowed to. I've come to recognise people and even been lucky to talk to most/some of you as well.
So hypertheticaly speaking I'd love to meet all of you somehow, maybe over a coffee, who wouldn't want to meet people they like? I mean, I wouldn't want to meet strangers I've never talked to before, but I feel I know some of you.
Hypertheticaly - to make things easier for everyone if we all got together at the same time, we could all socialise with each other rather than aranging singular social meets. I think this sounds super cool.
So I posted a thread a couple of days ago (it's now in the meets forum) to see if others in the lounge thought the same. I wasn't arranging anything in that thread. For anyone who knows me in here, I wouldn't do that. I've tried to get you guys to write my profile/pms/threads for me. I'd be wise enough to get a clever woman or two to sort it out for me. I'd make sure they arranged it locally for me too. 
So this is a thread 'again' in here, asking how you would organise it making sure no strangers turned up. Would you pm everyone or ask them to pm you?
Would you just post a date hoping people would turn up. Has anyone ever arranged anything like this before? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a member of a certain fitness forum we used to meet up for forum socials, usually in London as it was the most central place for our particular group. I'd go up on the train and be met by a certain gentleman and we'd all meet up with other members later for food and me and this certain gentleman would make our excuses and leave and go to a hotel for fucking!
On here people are too spread out, like you have people from way up north, Ireland, Wales, Scotland. Couldn't expect someone from Scotland to come all the way down.
I'd like to meet lots of people on here in a friendly way but everyone's spread out too much. Plus I'd want everyone to come down to Cardiff
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you should do it guest list style, whereby your name has to be down on a list. If your preparing for lots to come, you will need to think about venue so numbers would help with that.
I think also the midland would be a sensible option? Allows for people coming from Scotland, wales etc not to have to go to far? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A big forum kik group, for forum members only.
Only the good forum members though. We wanna keep the riff-raff out!
And there the problems start "
Exactly pink |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you should do it guest list style, whereby your name has to be down on a list. If your preparing for lots to come, you will need to think about venue so numbers would help with that.
I think also the midland would be a sensible option? Allows for people coming from Scotland, wales etc not to have to go to far?"
Is this how you would do it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was a member of a certain fitness forum we used to meet up for forum socials, usually in London as it was the most central place for our particular group. I'd go up on the train and be met by a certain gentleman and we'd all meet up with other members later for food and me and this certain gentleman would make our excuses and leave and go to a hotel for fucking!
On here people are too spread out, like you have people from way up north, Ireland, Wales, Scotland. Couldn't expect someone from Scotland to come all the way down.
I'd like to meet lots of people on here in a friendly way but everyone's spread out too much. Plus I'd want everyone to come down to Cardiff
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i could only come up to Cardiff, could only come down if I was up't north |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.
Actually what is midlands, what areas? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.
Actually what is midlands, what areas?"
I've got to ask... Who were you F'ing on U*M? I promise I'll keep it a secret  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.
Actually what is midlands, what areas?"
If you build it, they will come. ??  Maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The group social is a great idea. Having a guest list is really a must for it, you have to be realistic with the venue and their numbers for safety of all.
Keep it by pm so only those that have asked get the details. But also be considerate of those traveling by public transport to find the venue easily.
Really hope I can make it, looking forward to meeting everyone x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" But also be considerate of those traveling by public transport to find the venue easily.
Really hope I can make it, looking forward to meeting everyone x "
There isn't one. Otherwise this would be in the meets forum. 
This is asking how to arrange it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speak to KinkyMinx. She (and Hatter and Diamondjoe) arranged the three very successful Secret Tea Parties that happened in London (they've a group profile set up for the administration of it), and are very tight on ensuring it's kept to only those specifically invited. And she can explain the likely pitfalls too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is asking how to arrange it!!! "
Pick a location, time and date.
Advertise to generate interest. People can talk and see who else might be coming on the threads
A few days before, get people to confirm attendance. Keep the list of all those that confirm.
A couple of days before, send those that confirmed all the details.
Expect half not to show.
That's pretty much how we do the tea parties.
Hope that helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.
Actually what is midlands, what areas?
I've got to ask... Who were you F'ing on U*M? I promise I'll keep it a secret "
I'd never say. It was a secret! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speak to KinkyMinx. She (and Hatter and Diamondjoe) arranged the three very successful Secret Tea Parties that happened in London (they've a group profile set up for the administration of it), and are very tight on ensuring it's kept to only those specifically invited. And she can explain the likely pitfalls too.
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https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/the_secret_tea_party
I can see Hatter's given you the lowdown though! |
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?  "
I invited you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is asking how to arrange it!!!
Pick a location, time and date.
Advertise to generate interest. People can talk and see who else might be coming on the threads
A few days before, get people to confirm attendance. Keep the list of all those that confirm.
A couple of days before, send those that confirmed all the details.
Expect half not to show.
That's pretty much how we do the tea parties.
Hope that helps. "
But you don't advertise the exact location -- i.e. You say Central London publically but only provide the exact info by PM a few days ahead and ask people to absolutely not publicly post it -- hence keeping it contained. |
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"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.
Actually what is midlands, what areas?
If you build it, they will come. ?? Maybe? "
Midlands is a great idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A big forum kik group, for forum members only.
Only the good forum members though. We wanna keep the riff-raff out!
And there the problems start
Exactly pink "
It's ok, we will just make squirting a banned subject to talk about and we will all get along fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" But also be considerate of those traveling by public transport to find the venue easily.
Really hope I can make it, looking forward to meeting everyone x
There isn't one. Otherwise this would be in the meets forum.
This is asking how to arrange it!!! "
Well first it's finding the venue and knowing maximum numbers. Then the date. Don't try to do it all in one go. As once it's actually on the meets forum you will be swamped with the admin so a helper will be useful. Keep it to pm's so no details make it onto the open forums. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx"
Yep |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx"
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. |
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
Yep "
Ohhh... Same one... Excellent... That'll save me a few quid on air fares |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "
We know there isn't  |
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "
To the social you're in denial about but that's ok you don't need to come  |
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "
Are you not invited yet misterbee?
How awkward  |
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.
We know there isn't "
It's all hypothetical |
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "
Looks like you're arranging one now!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.
We know there isn't
It's all hypothetical "
Exactly, let's not start that again! makes some people really grumpy  |
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.
We know there isn't
It's all hypothetical
Exactly, let's not start that again! makes some people really grumpy "
Yeah and it's too nice to be grumpy, a lovely day for an afternoon tea social, don't you think?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.
We know there isn't
It's all hypothetical
Exactly, let's not start that again! makes some people really grumpy
Yeah and it's too nice to be grumpy, a lovely day for an afternoon tea social, don't you think? "
Oh yes indeed, it's a beautiful sunny day, afternoon tea it is |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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This is asking how to arrange it!!!
Pick a location, time and date.
Advertise to generate interest. People can talk and see who else might be coming on the threads
A few days before, get people to confirm attendance. Keep the list of all those that confirm.
A couple of days before, send those that confirmed all the details.
Expect half not to show.
That's pretty much how we do the tea parties.
Hope that helps.
But you don't advertise the exact location -- i.e. You say Central London publically but only provide the exact info by PM a few days ahead and ask people to absolutely not publicly post it -- hence keeping it contained. "
Even if people do ask constantly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing "
It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from 
I dunno, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from
I dunno, "
Book club obviously |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you
See I do have a face "
And such a lovely face too |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you
See I do have a face
And such a lovely face too "
Almost as lovely as yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you
See I do have a face
And such a lovely face too
Almost as lovely as yours "
Awwww you guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best "
Hold on there. Think she said that to everyone cos she said mine were the best! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best "
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.
I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....
Hope I'm on your invitation list?
I invited you xxx
???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.
Are you not invited yet misterbee?
How awkward "
Do I feel sheepish? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere. "
Wahhhhhhh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh "
Well this has backfired |
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"Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from
I dunno, "
We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub. |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh "
Well we know who isn't invited next time |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh "
It's ok our song has just started playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time "
Trouble makers |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you
See I do have a face
And such a lovely face too
Almost as lovely as yours
Awwww you guys!"
You're also stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers "
I'm the life and asshole of the party doncha know?! |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers "
Ooops I get called trouble countless times a day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from
I dunno,
We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub."
Did you walk round London holding an umbrella in the air? What would our symbol be, a giant double ended dildo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers "
If you are a good girl you can come |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers
If you are a good girl you can come "
I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers
If you are a good girl you can come "
That's what 'he' said... Fnarr Fnarr.... |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers
If you are a good girl you can come
I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please "
I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers
If you are a good girl you can come
I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please
I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him "
Oh that's why my knees are hurting a little! |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers
If you are a good girl you can come
I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please
I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him
Oh that's why my knees are hurting a little! "
These Fab socials really are eventful |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers
If you are a good girl you can come
I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please
I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him
Oh that's why my knees are hurting a little!
These Fab socials really are eventful "
They sure are |
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"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all
It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing
You are so good at hugs
Hang on you said my hugs were the best
Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.
Wahhhhhhh
Well we know who isn't invited next time
Trouble makers
If you are a good girl you can come
I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please "
As you've said please, I'll do it |
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By *eliWoman
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"Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from
I dunno,
We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub.
Did you walk round London holding an umbrella in the air? What would our symbol be, a giant double ended dildo "
Some people are instantly recognisable - especially if they have a face pic on here! Normally where you're meeting is specified and then you sort of make eye contact hoping someone will realise it's you before you have to take the risk of asking if it's them.
I've been to a few at Jaydees and Xtasia - they were a good laugh but I imagine somewhere less sex clubish might be better for the forum. |
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"Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from
I dunno,
We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub.
Did you walk round London holding an umbrella in the air? What would our symbol be, a giant double ended dildo
Some people are instantly recognisable - especially if they have a face pic on here! Normally where you're meeting is specified and then you sort of make eye contact hoping someone will realise it's you before you have to take the risk of asking if it's them.
I've been to a few at Jaydees and Xtasia - they were a good laugh but I imagine somewhere less sex clubish might be better for the forum. "
I'd get a t shirt made with a picture of a fab lolly on it! |
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over a year ago
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"Brilliant idea mister bee! Though I think your plan for getting someone else to arrange has failed looks like we're all turning up at yours then
Peach x"
Or near me. I can settle for near me. Manchester even. Hypothetically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I genuinely think there should be a little tally list made of members in that particular area.
Like South Wales has say 20 people or midlands has 15 people, up north has 10 people. Oops majority wins, needs to be in Cardiff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Brilliant idea mister bee! Though I think your plan for getting someone else to arrange has failed looks like we're all turning up at yours then
Peach x
Or near me. I can settle for near me. Manchester even. Hypothetically. "
Hypothetically that's a weekend away for us but hypothetically doable...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I genuinely think there should be a little tally list made of members in that particular area.
Like South Wales has say 20 people or midlands has 15 people, up north has 10 people. Oops majority wins, needs to be in Cardiff. "
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"I genuinely think there should be a little tally list made of members in that particular area.
Like South Wales has say 20 people or midlands has 15 people, up north has 10 people. Oops majority wins, needs to be in Cardiff. "
At last some sense lol |
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"I think you should do it guest list style, whereby your name has to be down on a list. If your preparing for lots to come, you will need to think about venue so numbers would help with that.
I think also the midland would be a sensible option? Allows for people coming from Scotland, wales etc not to have to go to far?
Is this how you would do it? "
Yes definitely x |
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"I might arrange one in Reading "
Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.
Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness. |
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"I might arrange one in Reading
Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.
Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness. "
I feel so cheap. |
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"I might arrange one in Reading
Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.
Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness. "
Cardiff to Reading is two hours away but it's more expensive than I thought it would be |
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"I might arrange one in Reading
Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.
Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness.
Cardiff to Reading is two hours away but it's more expensive than I thought it would be "
But if I bought a ticket to Paddington and got off at Reading it costs less; doesn't make sense! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some good ideas.
Thanks for the suggestions, and this could be something I (someone else) could arrange. Hypertheticaly speaking.
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Come on then crack on with it |
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"I think we should all go to xtasia on one of the free for fab members nights.
Premier inn next door.
*This poster is a poor person, and lives 15 mins away*"
They have a Black Country Social at Flirts once a month I think.
I want to get to a forum social this year,if a train can get there fairly easily then I'll be there . |
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over a year ago
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My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.
A mahoosive Lounge social?
I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there! |
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"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.
A mahoosive Lounge social?
I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there! "
I'll hold your hand Dan. (Your hand )
Don't be shy. Jump in. ( I copied this from one of my messages ). We're all in the same boat meeting people. Just do it. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.
A mahoosive Lounge social?
I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there! "
Me too I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!
If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand |
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"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.
A mahoosive Lounge social?
I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there! "
Then don't walk in on your own... Arrange to meet someone beforehand 1-1, chat, relax and then go in together... Simples |
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"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.
A mahoosive Lounge social?
I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there!
Me too I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!
If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand "
And thanks to Mister Bee too, I appreciate the offer dude but, to be perfectly honest, this hand holding offer appeals a little more! |
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want "
You'll hold hands with people |
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people "
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes |
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over a year ago
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes "
#swingswing |
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes "
Cough... I take back my earlier statement... I've erm never attended any kind of social event whatsoever... I need a wingspan |
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes
Cough... I take back my earlier statement... I've erm never attended any kind of social event whatsoever... I need a wingspan "
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes "
That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.
A mahoosive Lounge social?
I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there!
Me too I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!
If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand "
Yes, I remember that. Try and brave the next one and I can come and meet you wherever is easiest for you. |
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes
That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate "
How very dare you? |
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes
That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate "
Your point being??? Some of us appreciate 'art' you know |
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"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want
You'll hold hands with people
Take the uninitiated under my wing yes
That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate
Your point being??? Some of us appreciate 'art' you know "
In that case, Swing, carry on |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I think we should all go to xtasia on one of the free for fab members nights.
Premier inn next door.
*This poster is a poor person, and lives 15 mins away*"
I like the way you think! |
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over a year ago
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"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.
A mahoosive Lounge social?
I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there!
Me too I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!
If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand "
I'd go with you if you wanted. I'm in Reading so not far. We can be shy together |
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"If it were me and we were all such close friends, I'd have their phone numbers by now and just ask them.
You're a hoot GrumpyArse! "
How is that grumpy? |
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I just want to say that I haven't been here that long but I've loved hanging out here. I doubt I would've stuck out Fab if I hadn't found you guys, so thanks. 
And thanks to you Bee for starting this thread.
I'd jump at the chance to meet you all! |
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"If it were me and we were all such close friends, I'd have their phone numbers by now and just ask them.
You're a hoot GrumpyArse! "
He's flipping right though. |
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over a year ago
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After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.
okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.
I think this might go ahead. |
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"After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.
okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.
I think this might go ahead. "
Good news, hope it's a great success x |
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"After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.
okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.
I think this might go ahead. "
Enjoy |
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"After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.
okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.
I think this might go ahead. "
Good luck |
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we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in |
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"we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in "
Yes. That's it isn't it. Keeping things manageable. I think sometimes strangers should stay strangers and such. I don't mind meeting people I know a little about already. But you I wouldn't want to talk to 50 people that don't know of each other already. I can't be the only one who thinks that? |
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"we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in
Yes. That's it isn't it. Keeping things manageable. I think sometimes strangers should stay strangers and such. I don't mind meeting people I know a little about already. But you I wouldn't want to talk to 50 people that don't know of each other already. I can't be the only one who thinks that? "
So just your forum "mates"then? |
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"we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in
Yes. That's it isn't it. Keeping things manageable. I think sometimes strangers should stay strangers and such. I don't mind meeting people I know a little about already. But you I wouldn't want to talk to 50 people that don't know of each other already. I can't be the only one who thinks that?
So just your forum "mates"then?"
Not my 'mates'. Everyone's mates. But someone has to know someone. |
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To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.  .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "
You don't need a personal invite to socials.
And I'm sure you have been before. |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "
If you organise something I'm sure a lot will come depending on dates and where abouts |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
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What would like it to be? |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
What would like it to be? "
I'm asking you... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "
I invited you to attend the Tea Party. But you couldn't because it's too 'far'. |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
What would like it to be?
I'm asking you..."
I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.
I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one |
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keep it simple -id say yourself and your 2 helpers just set a date and a central place of your choice ( you are never going to please all so if people want to and can get they will) - put a thread on here saying date and the town and time ish etc - whoever is interested post their names - then its pms nearer the time with actual details - dont start the swapping things cos so and so cant make it |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
What would like it to be?
I'm asking you...
I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.
I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one "
A good way to meet a group of people is by doing what Kinky/Hatter/DJ do and organising a group social. You have to be exclusive of everyone though and it may mean you meet those you don't want to. Otherwise, why not just message those you want to meet privately and see what they say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hey Mister Bee, if you want to organise something then crack on and have fun. I think it's the rather long-drawn out deliberations in public and control-freak-esque need to seek advice but not be wanting to do it yourself, and confusion as to are you doing an open-invite to anyone seeing the post or only those you've interacted with and want there (how do we know who is deemed known enough or not by you?) and then if you're not organising it then why are you still banging on about it, and chill out when people feel a bit whatevs, they're entitled to, and yay there does appear to be people interested and please cut out the indecisive ambiguity and do it or not, and are we at 175 posts yet of it all that 'may' be mildly irritating some.
Have a lovely Thursday. |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
What would like it to be?
I'm asking you...
I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.
I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one
A good way to meet a group of people is by doing what Kinky/Hatter/DJ do and organising a group social. You have to be exclusive of everyone though and it may mean you meet those you don't want to. Otherwise, why not just message those you want to meet privately and see what they say. "
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You'll wrap yourself in knots unless you keep it simple.
You've got some glamorous assistants to help out so decide on what you want to do and then post it. I'm sure lots of people will be interested |
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over a year ago
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
What would like it to be?
I'm asking you...
I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.
I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one
A good way to meet a group of people is by doing what Kinky/Hatter/DJ do and organising a group social. You have to be exclusive of everyone though and it may mean you meet those you don't want to. Otherwise, why not just message those you want to meet privately and see what they say.
+1
You'll wrap yourself in knots unless you keep it simple.
You've got some glamorous assistants to help out so decide on what you want to do and then post it. I'm sure lots of people will be interested"
Me and miss red will sort things, miss red is going to put a post up later today |
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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no. .
So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.
And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.
I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?
What would like it to be?
I'm asking you...
I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.
I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one
A good way to meet a group of people is by doing what Kinky/Hatter/DJ do and organising a group social. You have to be exclusive of everyone though and it may mean you meet those you don't want to. Otherwise, why not just message those you want to meet privately and see what they say.
+1
You'll wrap yourself in knots unless you keep it simple.
You've got some glamorous assistants to help out so decide on what you want to do and then post it. I'm sure lots of people will be interested
Me and miss red will sort things, miss red is going to put a post up later today "
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over a year ago
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"Hey Mister Bee, if you want to organise something then crack on and have fun. I think it's the rather long-drawn out deliberations in public and control-freak-esque need to seek advice but not be wanting to do it yourself, and confusion as to are you doing an open-invite to anyone seeing the post or only those you've interacted with and want there (how do we know who is deemed known enough or not by you?) and then if you're not organising it then why are you still banging on about it, and chill out when people feel a bit whatevs, they're entitled to, and yay there does appear to be people interested and please cut out the indecisive ambiguity and do it or not, and are we at 175 posts yet of it all that 'may' be mildly irritating some.
Have a lovely Thursday. "
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