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"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views?" They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. | |||
there's no shame in being incontinent either. and i don't feel the two are linked but even so incontinence is nothing to be shamed for or used to shame someone that men crave. | |||
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"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views? They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. " It's actually not that difficult time do. | |||
"It's piss being forced out. I prefer to not have anyone try to get me to squirt; it can be damaging to the urethra. If I get that horrible feeling, I stop and pop to the toilet. Unfortunately, a few men felt the need to finger me so roughly, in order to make me squirt, I became ill for a long time and now have an appointment with Urology/Gynaecology coming up, to hopefully rectify my problem. " Squirting is another porn fallacy that is probably damaging women's health, if a man falsely believes his partner hasn't orgasmed intensely or enjoyable and needs the evidence of "squirting" / leaking pee... He'll probably dig around "down there" and not behave with due delicacy needed and cause problems. It's pee. Obviously women get excited down there and fluids are produced but not to the point of producing projectile streams of it at the point of orgasm. Some are into watersports and enjoy pee so it's not really such a biggie . Some aren't.. people like what they like. Wouldn't take it personally. | |||
"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views? They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. It's actually not that difficult time do. " not all women do gush though | |||
"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think! "This x100 If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard. And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway | |||
"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views? They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. It's actually not that difficult time do. not all women do gush though " Not because they can't. I didn't until some dick head (who was actually quite intelligent) decided to show me his magic trick, I think he saw on the internet somewhere. I've not been the same since. It doesn't help that I've had a hysterectomy and my hormones are creating havoc down there. The problem is, once the damage is done, it can't be rectified; the urinary tract thickens after an infection and becomes easily inflamed. It may feel nice for some, but for others it's a nightmare. My issue is with men thinking all women want it and it's sexual. It's not remotely sexual for me, and any mention of it, from a man, puts me off instantly. I want orgasms that are a little wet or damp not a piss soaked bed that stinks if you let it dry out. | |||
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"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
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If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway "Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good. | |||
"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!" You have lots of fluid come from inside your vagina? From your cervix? | |||
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"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
This x100
If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway "Doesn't taste like it either  | |||
"Is it the same as squirtng spots?" Are you talking about squeezing a spot until it pops? Now that I could really get into | |||
"Is it the same as squirtng spots? Are you talking about squeezing a spot until it pops? Now that I could really get into "Fistbump | |||
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"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
This x100
If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway
Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good. "That's a problem with the guy, not the squirting
Always better to have fun rather than go for one particular goal, be that squirting or an orgasm when its not going to happen. | |||
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"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
This x100
If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway
Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.
That's a problem with the guy, not the squirting
Always better to have fun rather than go for one particular goal, be that squirting or an orgasm when its not going to happen. "Anyone wanting me to squirt is a problem. It is a problem for me because it spoils the actual sex. | |||
"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs! "What was he doing? | |||
"That's a problem with the guy, not the squirting
Always better to have fun rather than go for one particular goal, be that squirting or an orgasm when its not going to happen.
Anyone wanting me to squirt is a problem. It is a problem for me because it spoils the actual sex. "That's what I mean the guy is focusing on the wrong thing. He should be enjoying what he's doing and making you feel good, than anything else. | |||
"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!
What was he doing?"I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!! | |||
"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!
What was he doing?
I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!! "I had a feeling it was that. That instruction video went viral very quickly, and is still going, so it seems. That was how I got a bad kidney infection that took 3 courses of antibiotics over 6 weeks to clear. I've had a weak bladder since, and it's getting worse. | |||
"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!" So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it | |||
"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!
What was he doing?
I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!!
I had a feeling it was that. That instruction video went viral very quickly, and is still going, so it seems. That was how I got a bad kidney infection that took 3 courses of antibiotics over 6 weeks to clear. I've had a weak bladder since, and it's getting worse. "Hell fire that's not good.. won't be meet him again in a hurry.. had to cancel a really hot date (and much more gentle) cos of him!  | |||
"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it! So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it " No it doesn't obviously means she's enjoying herself. Would you tell someone you pissed all over them, or pretend you had an orgasm and loved it? Did you do any biology at school? | |||
"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!
What was he doing?
I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!!
I had a feeling it was that. That instruction video went viral very quickly, and is still going, so it seems. That was how I got a bad kidney infection that took 3 courses of antibiotics over 6 weeks to clear. I've had a weak bladder since, and it's getting worse.
Hell fire that's not good.. won't be meet him again in a hurry.. had to cancel a really hot date (and much more gentle) cos of him! "I stipulate now that I won't allow forceful fingers, anywhere near my bladder or urethra (which is situated next to the roof of the vagina). | |||
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"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
This x100
If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway
Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good. "It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame.. If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant. It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms. It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more. | |||
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Maybe it was always out there and everyone was doing it, but they just didn't mention it? Who knows!
One of my very first Fab meets asked me to finger fuck her to make her gush (I'd said pretty much the same thing on a thread back then - that I'd never heard of it before and she wanted to prove the point!) - and we soaked the Travelodge bed!
As Mrs Lib said above, it involved a lot of frantic finger fucking and it's not really my thing! | |||
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"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!" correct. I think there's a difference between squirting /gushing. Squirting does come from where you pee but gushing comes from the inside. | |||
"They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. " Nail Head  | |||
"They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. Nail Head " | |||
"I don't want to squirt or gush. It ruins sex for me, luckily its many years since guys have tried to do that to me. It causes physical problems for me when a guy tries to make me gush or squirt. I end up having to take more antibiotics than normal. My urologist (sp?) has said that i shouldnt allow guys to try to do it." I have no control with gushing. It just happens during sex. My hubby loves the feel of it going down his balls. He knows I'm thoroughly enjoying myself. Plenty of towels under you is best though | |||
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"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views?" never had a woman squirt or gush and me thinking its pish!- beds will often show the end result in a stain or smell if someone has. I like to finger, yes it can result in sqgush..but I also like to lick AND finger...which can of course be much more sensual and slow | |||
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"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
This x100
If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway
Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.
It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame..
If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant.
It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms.
It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more.
"It sounds like you're one of those men who confuses being a good lover with making something unnatural happen through putting pressure on a body.which can also happen during sex. Basic biology and knowledge of a woman's lower abdomen will tell you all you need to know. It wasn't one experience, It's been many, over the years; it was the first incidence that caused the problem, and now doesn't take much effort to get me pissing over a bed. Of course the men who do it think they have some amazing sexual gift, so they keep doing it. I put them straight and tell them I've just pissed a bit om your bed, you can have that side. To stop it happening I don't drink as much before or during sex and make frequent trips to the toilet. It's not a shame; what is a shame is that the porn industry made this a thing in the first place; men fixated on it, and women went along with it. The problem with it is you don't know if someone is going to go from slow, gentle fingering (which I love), to a quick stabbing of the fingers, up and against the bladder. As soon as I feel any pressure against my bladder or urethra (and it doesn't take much now) I politely stop them. I much preferred it when it was plain old water sports and I got to decide when to use my bladder. Fortunately, there are still plenty of men who have have no desire to make my body perform like Moby Dick, and are very good at real sex, They are the ones I want in bed. My opinion is, if you both enjoy it, do it. If not, leave it alone. | |||
"Whatever happened to just enjoying things and not trying to achieve anything other than good feelings ? " It's still very much around, thankfully | |||
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"I can make men squirt "Pervert. | |||
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"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!" So I'm I. WB loves it too. | |||
"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it! So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it No it doesn't obviously means she's enjoying herself. Would you tell someone you pissed all over them, or pretend you had an orgasm and loved it? Did you do any biology at school? " You're projecting an extremely strong opinion here - based on your own experiences admittedly - but not everyone feels the same and I think it's unfair to 'take on' every person who doesn't share your view! I gush with the 'right' finger technique! It doesn't hurt (if the guy's too rough I make him stop), it doesn't smell of urine, and personally I find it very sexually pleasurable! I also cum a lot during normal penetration - so it's not a 'lazy way out' for the guy at all! You and others can call it piss all you like! If 99 people tell a dog it's a rabbit - it doesn't make it a rabbit!! Peachy xx | |||
"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!" You should be proud! I LOVE being squirted on and you can do it to me any time you like! It's NOT piss, however, you can piss on me too if you so wish lol | |||
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"Is it quite a recent trend for women to squirt,I know that sound's daft and it does typing it out or was it generally something that wasn't talked about thirty year's ago?" Well it was certainly happening 30 years ago but talking about it seems to be an internet thing | |||
"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
This x100
If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway
Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.
It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame..
If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant.
It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms.
It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more.
It sounds like you're one of those men who confuses being a good lover with making something unnatural happen through putting pressure on a body.which can also happen during sex. Basic biology and knowledge of a woman's lower abdomen will tell you all you need to know. It wasn't one experience, It's been many, over the years; it was the first incidence that caused the problem, and now doesn't take much effort to get me pissing over a bed. Of course the men who do it think they have some amazing sexual gift, so they keep doing it. I put them straight and tell them I've just pissed a bit om your bed, you can have that side. To stop it happening I don't drink as much before or during sex and make frequent trips to the toilet. It's not a shame; what is a shame is that the porn industry made this a thing in the first place; men fixated on it, and women went along with it. The problem with it is you don't know if someone is going to go from slow, gentle fingering (which I love), to a quick stabbing of the fingers, up and against the bladder. As soon as I feel any pressure against my bladder or urethra (and it doesn't take much now) I politely stop them.
I much preferred it when it was plain old water sports and I got to decide when to use my bladder.
Fortunately, there are still plenty of men who have have no desire to make my body perform like Moby Dick, and are very good at real sex,
They are the ones I want in bed.
My opinion is, if you both enjoy it, do it. If not, leave it alone.
"I take a bit of exception to that.. my perception of whether I'm any good is based upon the opinion of others, not myself nor whether a specific thing takes place. But thanks for your blind judgement | |||
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"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it! So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it No it doesn't obviously means she's enjoying herself. Would you tell someone you pissed all over them, or pretend you had an orgasm and loved it? Did you do any biology at school? You're projecting an extremely strong opinion here - based on your own experiences admittedly - but not everyone feels the same and I think it's unfair to 'take on' every person who doesn't share your view! I gush with the 'right' finger technique! It doesn't hurt (if the guy's too rough I make him stop), it doesn't smell of urine, and personally I find it very sexually pleasurable! I also cum a lot during normal penetration - so it's not a 'lazy way out' for the guy at all! You and others can call it piss all you like! If 99 people tell a dog it's a rabbit - it doesn't make it a rabbit!! Peachy xx" | |||
"Ask yourself the following: Are you enjoying yourself? Is he enjoying himself? If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!
This x100
If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.
And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway
Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.
It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame..
If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant.
It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms.
It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more.
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