Ive always been close to my son it was only me and him. He went through a lot with me.
He left home at 16 and although still close i wasnt the main priority in his life and i was always there for him but let him get on with it.
However, since hes had kids my how hes changed. He is so affectonate to me and wants me constantly involved in everything its brilliant.
He not only asks my advice he takes it as well. Im fully involved with my grandkids and i treat his partner like a daughter.
But what scares me is he keeps talking about me going to live with them  . Dont even know why im writing this apart from fitst your the parent then they drift off and then come back thinking they are the parent |
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"I think it's nice he's thinking of you.
Mine are not of the age where they think of others.. Teenagers, well ones not but as good as. "
i think its when they have there own kids. It changed mine and my mums relationship as well |
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"Ive always been close to my son it was only me and him. He went through a lot with me.
He left home at 16 and although still close i wasnt the main priority in his life and i was always there for him but let him get on with it.
However, since hes had kids my how hes changed. He is so affectonate to me and wants me constantly involved in everything its brilliant.
He not only asks my advice he takes it as well. Im fully involved with my grandkids and i treat his partner like a daughter.
But what scares me is he keeps talking about me going to live with them . Dont even know why im writing this apart from fitst your the parent then they drift off and then come back thinking they are the parent"
 would you want to live with them?
I find myself parenting my parents out of necessity. |
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"Ive always been close to my son it was only me and him. He went through a lot with me.
He left home at 16 and although still close i wasnt the main priority in his life and i was always there for him but let him get on with it.
However, since hes had kids my how hes changed. He is so affectonate to me and wants me constantly involved in everything its brilliant.
He not only asks my advice he takes it as well. Im fully involved with my grandkids and i treat his partner like a daughter.
But what scares me is he keeps talking about me going to live with them . Dont even know why im writing this apart from fitst your the parent then they drift off and then come back thinking they are the parent
would you want to live with them?
I find myself parenting my parents out of necessity."
no i bloody wouldnt. He knows that i think thats why he mentions it so much.  However, weve had a couple of serious discussions about when im old |
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"My daughter texts, phones and would visit all the time if I let her. She is my best friend but, I often just like some time alone. "
i go and stay with them 4 days at a time. I love it. But i love getting home and the peace |
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"Ive always been close to my son it was only me and him. He went through a lot with me.
He left home at 16 and although still close i wasnt the main priority in his life and i was always there for him but let him get on with it.
However, since hes had kids my how hes changed. He is so affectonate to me and wants me constantly involved in everything its brilliant.
He not only asks my advice he takes it as well. Im fully involved with my grandkids and i treat his partner like a daughter.
But what scares me is he keeps talking about me going to live with them . Dont even know why im writing this apart from fitst your the parent then they drift off and then come back thinking they are the parent
would you want to live with them?
I find myself parenting my parents out of necessity.no i bloody wouldnt. He knows that i think thats why he mentions it so much. However, weve had a couple of serious discussions about when im old"
ditto.
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"My daughter texts, phones and would visit all the time if I let her. She is my best friend but, I often just like some time alone. i go and stay with them 4 days at a time. I love it. But i love getting home and the peace "
I can understand that. Nice they think of us though x |
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"Ive always been close to my son it was only me and him. He went through a lot with me.
He left home at 16 and although still close i wasnt the main priority in his life and i was always there for him but let him get on with it.
However, since hes had kids my how hes changed. He is so affectonate to me and wants me constantly involved in everything its brilliant.
He not only asks my advice he takes it as well. Im fully involved with my grandkids and i treat his partner like a daughter.
But what scares me is he keeps talking about me going to live with them . Dont even know why im writing this apart from fitst your the parent then they drift off and then come back thinking they are the parent"
Having kids of your own puts the other important relationships in your life into perspective.
That and like me he wants a regular babysitter so him and his kinky Mrs can go out shagging and getting pissed |
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They love you and taking care of you is their way of showing it
My mum took care of her mother until the day she passed away
If living with them is not for you just explain how you feel as long as your happy they'll be fine
As for kids being dickheads?? Bit brutal  |
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