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Hey guys and girls,
I'm right in thinking this is a swingers site and not a dating site?
It appears lots of men and a few women are actually looking for a relationship.
As a divorced man, I'm not interested in a relationship at the moment but how many profiles on here are?
Robert xxx |
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There are a few. I came on for NSA and ended up with Sir.
I think as long as people are clear about their intentions or their feelings change, what harm is there.
There are plenty who just want NSA too  |
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over a year ago
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Quite a few.
I don't think it's a terrible thing - at least you can openly find out if you're sexually compatible first. And that is quite an important component in a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came on here for one thing and changed my mind.
I get the aggressive guys who tell me I shouldn't be here but pretty sure when joining I didn't sign anything to say I would meet for sex.
I simple changed my mind and if a guy from here came along that wasn't vanilla then that's perfect.
It's also clear on my profile not that anyone reads it. |
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm. "
Exactly im not desperate to get into a relationship again myself but if it happens it happens and its kinda better than dating sites as you get to see if you have the sexual chemistry from the off really and if not its just fun with likeminded people x |
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm. "
Well said , anything is possible |
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over a year ago
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Well said , anything is possible "
Thank you gorgeous man! |
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over a year ago
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Well said , anything is possible
Thank you gorgeous man! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Exactly im not desperate to get into a relationship again myself but if it happens it happens and its kinda better than dating sites as you get to see if you have the sexual chemistry from the off really and if not its just fun with likeminded people x"
Too true! Much more of an open book here I guess. But then neither of you know what hobbies I like and may run a mile if you knew! Haha
I'm just kidding. Crochet is perfectly acceptable for a 37 yr old woman  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Well said , anything is possible
Thank you gorgeous man!
My hotlist vixen "
 had no idea! |
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"Quite a few.
I don't think it's a terrible thing - at least you can openly find out if you're sexually compatible first. And that is quite an important component in a relationship."
Couldn't agree more, I met my ex partner through a fish site and while we got along personality wise when it came to sex there was no spark which came to be a large factor in our break up.
I'm not here for a relationship but I'm not against one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've opened our relationship and I'm open to the possibility of developing a second relationship with someone else, but initially just looking for a kinky play partner and if the chemistry is right seeing how things develop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My main reason for joining this site is because I want to meet people who enjoy sex as much as me.
I wouldn't shy away if I eventually made a connection with someone who enjoys what I like to do and wanted to go further .
The main reason why I'm single at the moment is due to not finding someone who I can truly be myself with.
I would rather be single then be treading on the thin line of cheating |
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Exactly im not desperate to get into a relationship again myself but if it happens it happens and its kinda better than dating sites as you get to see if you have the sexual chemistry from the off really and if not its just fun with likeminded people x
Too true! Much more of an open book here I guess. But then neither of you know what hobbies I like and may run a mile if you knew! Haha
I'm just kidding. Crochet is perfectly acceptable for a 37 yr old woman "
Lol yeah nothing wrong with that at all same as building computers is for a 38 yold man well that and nude swimming! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Well said , anything is possible
Thank you gorgeous man!
My hotlist vixen
had no idea! "
You had me from the moment I read your profile and sent a face picture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Well said , anything is possible
Thank you gorgeous man!
My hotlist vixen
had no idea!
You had me from the moment I read your profile and sent a face picture "
Ah yes! It's your thighs....would love to be sat on your lap. Amongst other things.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id like a relationship with a swinger. What better place to look?
I can still do NSA. Im not into boiling bunnies but if i met someone and took it to the next level it would be ideal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm.
Well said , anything is possible
Thank you gorgeous man!
My hotlist vixen
had no idea!
You had me from the moment I read your profile and sent a face picture
Ah yes! It's your thighs....would love to be sat on your lap. Amongst other things.... "
Stop , Sit on my lap and blush as I whisper sweet filth into your ear ... train ticket pending |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We didn't set out to.
HB joined to play out her slut fantasies, WB to predominantly play with couples. We met at a party and slowly over the course of 3 months started arranging more and more meets together, attending parties together, until we only meet each other or other people together. We finally admitted to ourselves we actually had really strong feelings for one another.
So yes it can happen, the more we speak to people, we find it's more common than we thought, Met on fab, now married, expecting or have kids together.
People can use this site how ever they do wish, for us it a swingers site, some it's an NSA sex site, and many other things to many different people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not on here to find a relationship. I am, however, wanting to find a relationship and as one of the outlets for meeting new people in my life, I'm not as close-minded as to think it couldn't be here that I meet someone, which is why I say what I say on my profile.
And to be honest, I'm starting to believe it may well be on here that I meet that someone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Goodness gracious certainly not.
I am already happily married.
This is quite simply about me and my husband having fun,exploring all the different scenarios that we want to.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm not on here to find a relationship. I am, however, wanting to find a relationship and as one of the outlets for meeting new people in my life, I'm not as close-minded as to think it couldn't be here that I meet someone, which is why I say what I say on my profile.
And to be honest, I'm starting to believe it may well be on here that I meet that someone. "
Well I hope you do  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The number is 0, and 100%. Fact is you can look all you like for relationships, but it does no good. The relationship monster finds you when it chooses, be that at the bus stop, on a dating site, or mid gang bang. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not on here to find a relationship. I am, however, wanting to find a relationship and as one of the outlets for meeting new people in my life, I'm not as close-minded as to think it couldn't be here that I meet someone, which is why I say what I say on my profile."
I'd go along with that. Although at the moment, my outlets for meeting new people, are very few indeed. In fact (counts them...) yup - just fab. I really need to get out more!
Anyone for a social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not on here to find a relationship. I am, however, wanting to find a relationship and as one of the outlets for meeting new people in my life, I'm not as close-minded as to think it couldn't be here that I meet someone, which is why I say what I say on my profile.
And to be honest, I'm starting to believe it may well be on here that I meet that someone.
Well I hope you do xxx"
Awwwww thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not on here to find a relationship. I am, however, wanting to find a relationship and as one of the outlets for meeting new people in my life, I'm not as close-minded as to think it couldn't be here that I meet someone, which is why I say what I say on my profile.
I'd go along with that. Although at the moment, my outlets for meeting new people, are very few indeed. In fact (counts them...) yup - just fab. I really need to get out more!
Anyone for a social? "
Increase the outlets! Even if it's more online outlets....good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I went on a non adult site to look for a relationship and most of the blokes on it just wanted sex. So I left and gave up looking at all for sex or relationship for 3 months. I just came back on here today to look for a new FWB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I went on a non adult site to look for a relationship and most of the blokes on it just wanted sex. So I left and gave up looking at all for sex or relationship for 3 months. I just came back on here today to look for a new FWB. "
This is my thing.. technically, there's a relationship aspect to FWB isn't there.
OP doesn't seem to be distinguish between that and someone looking to find a partner and leave.
That's not for me, but that doesn't make me closed off to a relationship of some sort should it arise.
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"I'm not on here to find a relationship. I am, however, wanting to find a relationship and as one of the outlets for meeting new people in my life, I'm not as close-minded as to think it couldn't be here that I meet someone, which is why I say what I say on my profile.
And to be honest, I'm starting to believe it may well be on here that I meet that someone. "
Have you met jim?  |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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I'd like to meet someone special.
I didn't envisage it being from here when I joined all those years ago. I actually think it might be the way to go though - there's lots of interesting, intelligent and, yes, damn sexy women on the site!
I do imagine really rewarding, honest relationships could develop between people here. Certainly more honest about desires etc |
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Absolutely - I'm the same - but just be prepared to occasionally have sensitive, careful chats with people you meet who it turns out may want something more longer-term/ meaningful. that's why sometimes it's easier meeting couples than singles. As long as you're honest you'll be OK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few.
I don't think it's a terrible thing - at least you can openly find out if you're sexually compatible first. And that is quite an important component in a relationship."
Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wasn't looking for one when I joined; if anything I was aiming to actively avoid one. Somehow I accidentally stumbled into one (or possibly several if you count the awesome wench love) and I'm glad my aim was off. |
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Not looking for one. But if I was it would more than likely be with another swinger. Not sure that a non-swinger would be accepting of my having had this lifestyle, and wouldn't be prepared to start/have a relationship with someone by hiding something so big (lets face it... Its not quite like revealing that you prefer the Stones over the Beatles). That's no reflection on anyone who is keeping it from a partner by the way... Not judging in the least... But personally it would eat me up hiding something from a partner. I already struggle with hiding it from friends and family  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's more likely I'll meet my match here rather than the obvious dating sites ( delusional, I know)
But I don't see my meets as potentials...just fun but if it became more and that's what we wanted then I don't see any harm. "
This is my view on things too.
I've given up completely on dating sites because any guy I've talked to or met is just after casual sex.
At least you know what's what on here. |
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I'm not here for one but I don't see what's wrong with people who are? As long as they are open about it with those they are meeting they aren't harming anyone.
in the most unlikely of places... 
