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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok is it just me or does any see a level of hypocrisy on here? To be told if she was my girl I'd never allow anyone near her? Only to be asked a few messages later if they can meet to share Bonnie? Now I understand this isn't everyone's cup of tea. Firstly Bonnie isn't allowed or disallowed to do anything. Who she plays with is her decision. Secondly would anyone else be put off by " I'd never share if she was mine but as she not I'm happy to share your woman? Just curious as to people's thoughts on the matter  xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think to some that could be an attempt at a compliment? Like a 'she's so hot I'd be worried to let her sleep around in case she didn't return to me'. Yeah, it's a weird one but people are weird.
I also know that some people don't want to carry on meeting others when they are in a relationship - they want monogamy. I don't know if that's hypocrisy as such - they aren't claiming to be better than you but just that they'd rather have a monogamous relationship.
I don't know. People are weird.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the old 'if she was mine I wouldn't share her' is meant to be a bit of a back handed compliment - i.e. I'd want her to be all mine sort of thing! It's not necessarily a criticism of your Swinging lifestyle and I suggest it's a way of saying they think Bonnie is really nice!
That's the way I'd interpret it anyway!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think to some that could be an attempt at a compliment? Like a 'she's so hot I'd be worried to let her sleep around in case she didn't return to me'. Yeah, it's a weird one but people are weird.
I also know that some people don't want to carry on meeting others when they are in a relationship - they want monogamy. I don't know if that's hypocrisy as such - they aren't claiming to be better than you but just that they'd rather have a monogamous relationship.
I don't know. People are weird.
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Beat me to it by seconds! I think it's meant to be compliment! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think to some that could be an attempt at a compliment? Like a 'she's so hot I'd be worried to let her sleep around in case she didn't return to me'. Yeah, it's a weird one but people are weird.
I also know that some people don't want to carry on meeting others when they are in a relationship - they want monogamy. I don't know if that's hypocrisy as such - they aren't claiming to be better than you but just that they'd rather have a monogamous relationship.
I don't know. People are weird.
Beat me to it by seconds! I think it's meant to be compliment! "
We keep agreeing on stuff like this Puck! |
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"I think to some that could be an attempt at a compliment? Like a 'she's so hot I'd be worried to let her sleep around in case she didn't return to me'. Yeah, it's a weird one but people are weird.
I also know that some people don't want to carry on meeting others when they are in a relationship - they want monogamy. I don't know if that's hypocrisy as such - they aren't claiming to be better than you but just that they'd rather have a monogamous relationship.
I don't know. People are weird.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Points taken and fully understood like you guys have said everyone is different, hence the request of outside opinions lol. Maybe it's me who doesn't see things the same as everyone else  oh well lol xx |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"Points taken and fully understood like you guys have said everyone is different, hence the request of outside opinions lol. Maybe it's me who doesn't see things the same as everyone else oh well lol xx"
actually, I agree with you.
There are other ways of giving a compliment and that aint one of them.
Its almost like saying "your a fool and I wanna steal her off you".
Lets put it this way, compliment or no compliment, I would not wanna share my girl with them (and yes, when part of a couple, I do love sharing). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Points taken and fully understood like you guys have said everyone is different, hence the request of outside opinions lol. Maybe it's me who doesn't see things the same as everyone else oh well lol xx
actually, I agree with you.
There are other ways of giving a compliment and that aint one of them.
Its almost like saying "your a fool and I wanna steal her off you".
Lets put it this way, compliment or no compliment, I would not wanna share my girl with them (and yes, when part of a couple, I do love sharing)."
See this was kinda my chain of thought. If you wouldn't share why should I share with you? Maybe a heading a little toward playground attitudes I suppose. Both Bonnie and I arenof the same opinion by the way xx |
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"Points taken and fully understood like you guys have said everyone is different, hence the request of outside opinions lol. Maybe it's me who doesn't see things the same as everyone else oh well lol xx
actually, I agree with you.
There are other ways of giving a compliment and that aint one of them.
Its almost like saying "your a fool and I wanna steal her off you".
Lets put it this way, compliment or no compliment, I would not wanna share my girl with them (and yes, when part of a couple, I do love sharing).
See this was kinda my chain of thought. If you wouldn't share why should I share with you? Maybe a heading a little toward playground attitudes I suppose. Both Bonnie and I arenof the same opinion by the way xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok is it just me or does any see a level of hypocrisy on here? To be told if she was my girl I'd never allow anyone near her? Only to be asked a few messages later if they can meet to share Bonnie? Now I understand this isn't everyone's cup of tea. Firstly Bonnie isn't allowed or disallowed to do anything. Who she plays with is her decision. Secondly would anyone else be put off by " I'd never share if she was mine but as she not I'm happy to share your woman? Just curious as to people's thoughts on the matter xx"
Without doubt Fab is a broad church, something for everyone, but I don't understand the opinion of people you describe, why are they on here? |
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