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To show verifications or not?
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By *ashwood OP Man
over a year ago
Berkshire/London |
Just wondered what the female members on here thought about displaying verifications? Have always hidden mine but recently set them as public. Have a feeling it puts off as many as it attracts. |
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I show mine as it shows i am real not all of them mean they have been sexual encounter maybe just met at meets or webcam etc when i look at profiles i am fine to admit someone with 100s of great bangs in a short time can put me of cos i am weird like that but i do feel people need to understand not all verifying are meaning you have had sex etc .. I am still a virgin |
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"Just wondered what the female members on here thought about displaying verifications? Have always hidden mine but recently set them as public. Have a feeling it puts off as many as it attracts."
We cant see the need for any more than one??
If you are real and have a veri, whats the need?? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i don't show mine. doesn't bother me if a guy doesn't show his either. if he hides the summary as well it makes me suspicious, which is why i have my summary showing.
will admit some veries put me off meeting people. depends who they've met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People will draw their own conclusions whatever you do. You can't control how people react to your profile whether you show veris or not . It's your profile , do as you wish ! Show the good ones , hide the ones which say "he looks like a donkey , manners of a pig and breath of a beast" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We show our summary to show we're genuine but don't display the written veries.
See them as a bit of a trophy cabinet and generally find them more cringey than anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can serve as an insight into the person's demeanour and persona.. it's valuable in that regard to gauge compatibility, line after line of "dirty slut" or something like that is off putting. Also veries in text speak, what's the point?
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By *ashwood OP Man
over a year ago
Berkshire/London |
"I show mine as it shows i am real not all of them mean they have been sexual encounter maybe just met at meets or webcam etc when i look at profiles i am fine to admit someone with 100s of great bangs in a short time can put me of cos i am weird like that but i do feel people need to understand not all verifying are meaning you have had sex etc .. I am still a virgin"
Well you have just the right amount Kitty and varied like you say. Probably why I messaged you a few days ago. |
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Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...
And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that  |
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"I show mine as it shows i am real not all of them mean they have been sexual encounter maybe just met at meets or webcam etc when i look at profiles i am fine to admit someone with 100s of great bangs in a short time can put me of cos i am weird like that but i do feel people need to understand not all verifying are meaning you have had sex etc .. I am still a virgin
Well you have just the right amount Kitty and varied like you say. Probably why I messaged you a few days ago."
Is this u saying i have ignored u if i didn't reply its cos the message system is down if i did reply ignore what i just said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...
And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that "
Crazy how?  |
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"Just wondered what the female members on here thought about displaying verifications? Have always hidden mine but recently set them as public. Have a feeling it puts off as many as it attracts."
you shouldnt have to show any .
If you had sex with someone in the real world you would go around shouting from the rooftops about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're not particularly bothered posting new verifications we meet but don't necessarily post them, so long as you can prove genuine enough said , well that's our opinion each to their own really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do what you want op some people care some people don't "
I personally don't care much about verifications. Marc does, though. So it just depends.
I like to display ours in different patterns and see if it changes the messages we get. And I've found that it does.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't not usually did a few weeks ago and I got a few shitty messages. What do they think !!! They can but I showed one it's like I'm a lepar. So now I don't. My friends know who I am and that's all that matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to meet people who are active on the swing scene, and feel that a comprehensive list of verifications are the best way of showing that. Those who hide their verifications we are more likely to pass by, unless we have met at a party or a club.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have any to show.......yet, but am an optimist, send dick pics and they will come
your profile his hidden though - that wont help your cause"
Lots of women love a mystery man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep this a secret...although technically there isn't a great to keep secret!  "
Proves how much I keep it a secret....managed to post to the wrong thread!!!! What a prat! |
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"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...
And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that
Crazy how? "
Just lies all lies lets leave it there lol |
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By *ashwood OP Man
over a year ago
Berkshire/London |
I find if I display a veri I suddenly get viewed by loads of single guys in the area...checking out the competition I guess. Someone I met got a message saying that surely if they met me then they were miles better! |
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By *ashwood OP Man
over a year ago
Berkshire/London |
"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...
And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that
Crazy how?
Just lies all lies lets leave it there lol"
I lied Kitty anyway it wasn't your veris that made me message you it was of course your cleavage...I remember now. |
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I'd say show them. Fakes can do themselves veris through other fake accounts. It's fairly easy to spot, so the best way is for them to hide them.
Also it's good to see that there are play veris, not just all socials.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...
And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that
Crazy how?
Just lies all lies lets leave it there lol"
Am particularly fond of crazy women just saying |
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