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Your enjoyment of swinging and all it's related charms that is. In day to day life I am a very manly, straight, masculine well, man. But for me my greatest sexual fulfilment comes from cross dressing and indulging in all sorts of weird and wonderful kinks with all sorts of weird and wonderful people. The only ones who know about this are the people that I've met through this and other sites. I have to admit, I kind of like the fact I have a suitcase full of filth under the bed and nobody knows...
So, who else revels in their secret life? Or do you wish everyone knew the "real" you? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Nope *this* life is kept very much private from my friends and family for various reasons although does make me grin on the odd occasions that swinging or related activities come up in conversation and I sit there and think "how little you know"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love having 2 sides. People who know me often comment on my "sweet and innocent" persona and ill admit I sometimes use it to my advantage, I probably get away with things that others wouldnt.
Some of my closest friends know Im sexually very open but have no idea some of the things I have or want to do.
Only one person knows Im on here, she is too and we often share our secrets, its good to share but also naughty that its just us. |
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"I love having 2 sides. People who know me often comment on my "sweet and innocent" persona and ill admit I sometimes use it to my advantage, I probably get away with things that others wouldnt.
Some of my closest friends know Im sexually very open but have no idea some of the things I have or want to do.
I get that completely. I love the fact I have experienced things (and loved them) that my vanilla friends share videos round group chats saying how fucking weird it is haha.
Only one person knows Im on here, she is too and we often share our secrets, its good to share but also naughty that its just us. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My nickname at work is "swingerman"..... you can guess what my attitude is to it then.
It's part of who I am....I see no reason for it to be a secret.
It is, however a "separate" part of my life and has no effect on day to day things. |
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I'm lucky, I met some of my best friends here, so yeah, my friends know.
I have a few "vanilla" friends that are aware though, for the safety side of things. They dont know who, or anything like that, just enough for them to know I'm safe, the same as I would on any other kind of date/meeting. |
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"Your enjoyment of swinging and all it's related charms that is. In day to day life I am a very manly, straight, masculine well, man. But for me my greatest sexual fulfilment comes from cross dressing and indulging in all sorts of weird and wonderful kinks with all sorts of weird and wonderful people. The only ones who know about this are the people that I've met through this and other sites. I have to admit, I kind of like the fact I have a suitcase full of filth under the bed and nobody knows...
So, who else revels in their secret life? Or do you wish everyone knew the "real" you?"
We love it, a few select friends know but it gives us such a buzz when we hear a comment from someone telling us we need to get out and blow away the cobwebs.
We just look at each other and grin!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few friends who know I am on here.
Although yesterday I did confess all to my cousin as she was aware something wasn't quiet right with me (had a bad experience). She was so shocked you could see everything running through her head. She actually said to me that she thought she knew me well but this had blown her socks off. |
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It stays very much separate from my day to day life but mainly because of the type of people I work with. I have some friends that know and some don't but I like the convos from those that don't know, I didn't realise there was so many old wives tales about swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We keep this completely separate and secret from our friends and family. Some of my friends have made comments about swinging previously and it's a conversation I keep out of. We both can't be open because of work. X |
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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago
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One person (from work) recognised me on here so he now knows.ive since hidden my face pics for future reference lol.
We don't talk about it much though as I prefer to kee it private away from family and my daughter.
I'll share with potential meets |
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"One person (from work) recognised me on here so he now knows.ive since hidden my face pics for future reference lol.
We don't talk about it much though as I prefer to kee it private away from family and my daughter.
I'll share with potential meets "
I would be happy to be completely open about it if it wasn't for my job... If the kids at school found out, then it could cost me my job.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More people are aware of it now than ever but I'm quite a private person overall so I'm not one to shout about any aspects of life.
It's no bugger elses business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before Christianity etc people had orgies in city centres. They invented sex torture aka sado maso... thing. I read somewhere that there was a Dionsion cult going around. They found a way to have some kind of special orgasm where they'd lose all control and laugh and cry and have a kind of fit. Rumer is women were being naughty with snakes. And this is when civilisation was at its zenith. Intellectual giants such as Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, to name a few belonged to that era.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have one friend that knows but she's shared plenty of personal thing with me. There's a lot of love and trust there.
Other than that, I don't think I'd mind if any of my friends found out I was here.
I haven't had to deal with it though and don't really have anything to hide (apart from my secret kinks and fantasies) so I'm in a lucky position...
I'm not going to go shouting about it though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest, I've had no action. Not really much to keep a secret.
I think I'm doing it wrong.
Possibly but you may never know it don't ask buy not here it would be the wrong thread for that  "
I'm not really fussed for meets. I just like the chat. Probably where I'm going wrong. |
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"To be honest, I've had no action. Not really much to keep a secret.
I think I'm doing it wrong.
Possibly but you may never know it don't ask buy not here it would be the wrong thread for that
I'm not really fussed for meets. I just like the chat. Probably where I'm going wrong. "
Just keep doing what you are doing someone should bite soon enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never tell anyone this is my secret life.
I was having a conversation with friends about a TV programme about swinging last year I think it was.
"Ohhh yes those fucking dirty freaks, I watched it for a bit, fucking filthy bastards, full of aids the lot of them..."
I changed the subject to football after that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope *this* life is kept very much private from my friends and family for various reasons although does make me grin on the odd occasions that swinging or related activities come up in conversation and I sit there and think "how little you know" "
Haha yes same |
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"Our grown up children know and some friends i guess it dosent help in hiding it as we prouly wear badges that say swinger
That's brave. "
The badges are small and most of the time go unseen his is on one of his caps mine is on one bag so its not everyday that they can be seen. We see swinging as kust another life style choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope *this* life is kept very much private from my friends and family for various reasons although does make me grin on the odd occasions that swinging or related activities come up in conversation and I sit there and think "how little you know" "
We're exactly the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep it secret, I still live with my ex while we try to sell the house and I'll be honest its just for less hassle.
But I do find myself looking at people and trying to guess if they are on here and what they'd be into haha |
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