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Any one ever fallen for someone on fab???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have fallen in love with someone I have met on here. 2 yrs down the line and I am still seeing him, we are both married to others and I will never ask him to leave his wife for me and he has also said he would never ask me to leave my hubby. So we are just enjoying the time we get together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not sure i could. There would always be a part of me which wondered if i was enough for them, being on a swingers site.
Bit hypocritical me being here as well i guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, met a guy off here in 2011 but he was from way way up north, we were seeing each other I suppose for about 18 months, he was even going to move down here but there was a 6 year age gap and I felt like he still had his partying stage to get out the way. We're still friends now and speak now and again though he's long gone from here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes , once and we had the most two amazing years . I remember every moment and each one is a precious memory.
There is not a single day that goes by that i think of her .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not sure i could. There would always be a part of me which wondered if i was enough for them, being on a swingers site.
Bit hypocritical me being here as well i guess "
I know that feeling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A year ago I got too involved with a married woman ( not from here ) and ended it, just cut her off completely.
1 week she showed up on here and asked to meet again. Not sure what to do? Head says no, heart says meet her again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A year ago I got too involved with a married woman ( not from here ) and ended it, just cut her off completely.
1 week she showed up on here and asked to meet again. Not sure what to do? Head says no, heart says meet her again"
Best start your own thread about it. (As tempting as it may be I'd follow my head to avoid any further feelings since you say she is married. Just my 2 pence worth.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and it was great. Dating someone on fab vs other conventional ways is no different. Some good some bad. Mind you on fab it's often 1 sided I'd imagine the feelings. |
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"Yup and it sucks , but chin up and carry on. Happy swinging guys and girls  "
Nooo cause they have a sexual addiction and the ability to do it behind your back, in most cases , as i noticed talking with some on another site the sexual desire changed from nsa to a more relaxed one. So I took note from that. |
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Only one guy but he made it clear from the beggining he'd be open to a relationship so I didn't mind open myself up to feelings (didn't work out) but other than that I never have, and I've had got 2 standing FWBs relationships too that have never crossed that line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup twice. First was almost five years ago. She's married, living with her husband etc so we snuck around. Hated it. Second one was queen. Together a year on, engaged and expecting our first child.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ no, a worse bunch of self absorbed egotistical lying bastards you'd ever have the misfortune to come across."
There are a lot that fit that description on the forums!
Equally, there are some fantastic people around.
Love can be found anywhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Very much and he knew it. We were seeing eachother for fun for over a year. I was like jelly everytime we met. He pleased me everyway possible. I think about him every single day.... he hasn't spoke to me for over a year and we live close to eachother  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Very much and he knew it. We were seeing eachother for fun for over a year. I was like jelly everytime we met. He pleased me everyway possible. I think about him every single day.... he hasn't spoke to me for over a year and we live close to eachother "
That's so sad. Did he not know?
I'd have to be honest and say something. You never know, he could have chosen to stay away as he was starting to feel the same.
Who knows? Strange things happen on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Very much and he knew it. We were seeing eachother for fun for over a year. I was like jelly everytime we met. He pleased me everyway possible. I think about him every single day.... he hasn't spoke to me for over a year and we live close to eachother
That's so sad. Did he not know?
I'd have to be honest and say something. You never know, he could have chosen to stay away as he was starting to feel the same.
Who knows? Strange things happen on fab "
I dont like to think to much about it. I think he did, ive never had a man look at me the way he did. I was putty in his hands.
but I have kids. He doesn't. He is 10 years older. I dont blame him for running lol. Im glad we had fun times x |
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I've been thinking about this since you posted it. I've never fallen for someone in respect of loving them. However I'm enchanted by the personalities of some and care for them a lot. That is more about friendship and kindred spirits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, and that's how i prefer it
I wouldn't be able to trust anybody i met on here unfortunately. People have enough trouble leaving the site without coming back on here when they are not in a relationship, so no. Not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't let myself fall for anyone off here.
It's nsa no feelings involved so if i ever did feel that way then I would be reassessing why I was here in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't let myself fall for anyone off here.
It's nsa no feelings involved so if i ever did feel that way then I would be reassessing why I was here in the first place."
Tbh I don't think most of us have come on here looking for love. Mist of us are here for NSA fun
But sometimes you find that there is that one person who you make a special connection with and it just happens
I know I definitely wasn't looking for love but then started meeting a Fwb quite regular and before we both knew it we had both fell in love with each other
Sometimes you just cannot control your feelings |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope, and that's how i prefer it
I wouldn't be able to trust anybody i met on here unfortunately. People have enough trouble leaving the site without coming back on here when they are not in a relationship, so no. Not for me."
this is how it happens every time that and i still keep in touch with people i shouldnt |
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I had to think about how to word this correctly...
The people I meet I've already built up a friendship and rapport with. Someone has to be exceptionally attractive to me on many levels for me to desire them (I've far, far more social meets than play meets), and if I meet someone regularly, I will most definitely care about them. An emotional connection is part of the attraction. So maybe not 'fallen' for someone in the classic sense, but maybe a little bit in love with each of them... and you know what? I'm not ashamed of it - what better feeling in the world is there than feeling loved and cherished? If my meets feel that, all the better! |
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"Yes , once and we had the most two amazing years . I remember every moment and each one is a precious memory.
There is not a single day that goes by that i think of her .
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Oh it seems like you still love her !
What you wrote sounds so lovely .
Why don't you look for her again ? Maybe she is the one !! |
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