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.... upon meeting someone, that you decide to, or not to play with them?
I'm of the mind that I know very quickly, in the first 20-30 seconds or so.
On the other side, you can tell too, from their first reactions, body language, and or facial expressions if you meet their expectations too.
Sometimes people can grow on you and you on them, as the meet progresses, but on the whole, first impressions mean a lot  |
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".... upon meeting someone, that you decide to, or not to play with them?
I'm of the mind that I know very quickly, in the first 20-30 seconds or so.
On the other side, you can tell too, from their first reactions, body language, and or facial expressions if you meet their expectations too.
Sometimes people can grow on you and you on them, as the meet progresses, but on the whole, first impressions mean a lot "
i make my mind up before i meet 
as i said in an earlier thread, i have only had 1 occasion where it's gone tits up on me (no shows excluded) |
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".... upon meeting someone, that you decide to, or not to play with them?
I'm of the mind that I know very quickly, in the first 20-30 seconds or so.
On the other side, you can tell too, from their first reactions, body language, and or facial expressions if you meet their expectations too.
Sometimes people can grow on you and you on them, as the meet progresses, but on the whole, first impressions mean a lot "
exactly the same for us.
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If they only write one line we won't be meeting.
If they make it obvious in anyw ay they haven't read my profile we won;t be meeting.
I have met somebody based purely on their initial message, which was lengthy and interesting without any expectation. |
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Within the blink of an eye. Don't let them know straight away tho usually. Don't leave them hanging on too long. Will arrange a playtime meet as soon as possible if interested. |
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According to The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris we decide in approx 2.6 seconds if we are going to fight, run from or mate with a stranger we meet for the first time. Its a primitive survival reaction. If course we can't apply the fight flee and fuck reaction in these evolved days so we usually smile politely and varying crinkleness around the eyes as we smile signals to the person in an instant whether or not we like them and vice versa.
Then there are those who simply say 'good grief you're minging' and off they trot...... |
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My biggest problem on meeting strangers is the goodbye in the carpark if you don't fancy them. I know I'm gonna write and say no thanks but when they lean in for a kiss bye bye I don't know how to react as I don't want to encourage false hopes. Yeah its pretty mean if you snog their face off and say no thanks in a mail but to me kissing is a sign of affection - even on the cheek but a handshake is so cold... |
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Online 3/4 messages and then in person under 30 seconds. If i meet for a drink though i don't rush off in the first min if i am not keen because some people do grow on you. |
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"Online 3/4 messages and then in person under 30 seconds. If i meet for a drink though i don't rush off in the first min if i am not keen because some people do grow on you. "
Keep saying stuff - I love it when your torso pops up in posts... |
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"Online 3/4 messages and then in person under 30 seconds. If i meet for a drink though i don't rush off in the first min if i am not keen because some people do grow on you.
Keep saying stuff - I love it when your torso pops up in posts..."
It sometimes needs a bit of help you know  |
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"Online 3/4 messages and then in person under 30 seconds. If i meet for a drink though i don't rush off in the first min if i am not keen because some people do grow on you.
Keep saying stuff - I love it when your torso pops up in posts...
It sometimes needs a bit of help you know "
Don't make me go all Carry On movie with you - I have so many responses in my head to that and not one of them is sophisticated..... |
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"According to The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris we decide in approx 2.6 seconds if we are going to fight, run from or mate with a stranger we meet for the first time. Its a primitive survival reaction. "
There's been a few I should have fought instead of fucking though, but anybody can make a mistake |
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"According to The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris we decide in approx 2.6 seconds if we are going to fight, run from or mate with a stranger we meet for the first time. Its a primitive survival reaction.
There's been a few I should have fought instead of fucking though, but anybody can make a mistake "
he he, funny thing about fucking what you see is not always what you feel. |
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"According to The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris we decide in approx 2.6 seconds if we are going to fight, run from or mate with a stranger we meet for the first time."
How long does it take the male to decide whether they're going to turn up, wank or just be an arsehole? |
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"According to The Naked Ape by Desmond Morris we decide in approx 2.6 seconds if we are going to fight, run from or mate with a stranger we meet for the first time.
How long does it take the male to decide whether they're going to turn up, wank or just be an arsehole?"
I think thats probably answered by Denise Robertson! |
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".... upon meeting someone, that you decide to, or not to play with them?
I'm of the mind that I know very quickly, in the first 20-30 seconds or so.
On the other side, you can tell too, from their first reactions, body language, and or facial expressions if you meet their expectations too.
Sometimes people can grow on you and you on them, as the meet progresses, but on the whole, first impressions mean a lot "
I wouldn't take i have a time scale. Some people i really i take a quick liking to or dislike them but lots i am in the middle with and think they are ok and wait to see if they grow on me. I guess i like to be open minded and take my time. |
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"Online 3/4 messages and then in person under 30 seconds. If i meet for a drink though i don't rush off in the first min if i am not keen because some people do grow on you.
Keep saying stuff - I love it when your torso pops up in posts..."
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I'm a bit surprised at the number of people who decide they are going to play before they have met 
So many people have said on previous threads that physical attraction is paramount, and then with the number of people who turn up looking nothing like their pics, I'm thinking how you can make your decision under such circumstances?
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