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can men and women be just friends

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thought's please can women and men be just friends? or will there always be that thought you want to get in her/his pants?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes and yes.

Some can just be friends without the thoughts. Other can just be friends and have the thoughts too.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm friends with some ladies who I'm never gonna meet.

I don't trust men very much so don't chat very often 'off forum' as it were....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh absolutely, utterly no doubt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm friends with females that I have no desire sleeping with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, they can.

But typically there may be a point where one or the other fancies each other, you either get through it or fuck and get through it.

But through it you can get.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm friends with women that I have no desire to sleep with. I'm also friends with women that given the chance I'd love to sleep with. I never let that cloud my judgment and cause issues with the friendship though. That just stays in my mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got plenty of male friends and have no desire to get in their pants.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm friends with some ladies who I'm never gonna meet. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Yes they can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol,,i must admit I do find this a very fuuny question by the op,,infact ridiculous

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

Of course. I actually have mostly female friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy."

is that men as well?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have more female friends than male these days.. with some we have a daft flirt, with others.. never.

I'm not friends with any of them just on the off chance that I'll get into their pants though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy.

is that men as well?"

I'm not sure I understand what you're asking?...

Well, I'm straight. So I'm not attracted to blokes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of my friends are men. I'm not a woman's woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy.

is that men as well?

I'm not sure I understand what you're asking?...

Well, I'm straight. So I'm not attracted to blokes."

you said "someone" that could be a male or a female

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of my friends are women. I'm not a mans man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have many male friends I have no intention of sleeping with. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of my friends are women. I'm not a mans man"

I say friends.

I mean imaginary of course

I don't have friends. The voices say I can't. It's just me and them. Forever

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Yep indeed we can x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But I like getting in my friends pants! It's makes the friendship more fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy.

is that men as well?

I'm not sure I understand what you're asking?...

Well, I'm straight. So I'm not attracted to blokes.

you said "someone" that could be a male or a female

I have straight all over my profile, so highly doubtful it's men I'm talking about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course platonic friendship exists I prefer male company personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That has not been my experience in life, inevitably every single male friend has attempted to get into my pants at some point (with varying degrees of success).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy.

is that men as well?

I'm not sure I understand what you're asking?...

Well, I'm straight. So I'm not attracted to blokes.

you said "someone" that could be a male or a female

I have straight all over my profile, so highly doubtful it's men I'm talking about.

oh big deal,"straight" means nothing on here,,lol.

I think its well sad a guy cant be friends with women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That has not been my experience in life, inevitably every single male friend has attempted to get into my pants at some point (with varying degrees of success).

Your own fault for having such a stupendous arse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That has not been my experience in life, inevitably every single male friend has attempted to get into my pants at some point (with varying degrees of success).

Your own fault for having such a stupendous arse

I can't help it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy.

is that men as well?

I'm not sure I understand what you're asking?...

Well, I'm straight. So I'm not attracted to blokes.

you said "someone" that could be a male or a female

I have straight all over my profile, so highly doubtful it's men I'm talking about.

oh big deal,"straight" means nothing on here,,lol.

I think its well sad a guy cant be friends with women"

Believe me lol...I'm Straight.

And also, I didn't say I COULDN'T, I said it would be very difficult.

And it is very difficult to be friends with someone you want to fuck and not actually fuck them.

If it's in the context of "FAB"..well, I'm not here for platonic friends.

I'm here for friends that I fuck aswell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm attracted to someone it's VERY VERY hard for me to just be friends WITHOUT wanting to simultaneously fuck them up the wall.

If I'm not attracted to someone, it's easy.

is that men as well?

I'm not sure I understand what you're asking?...

Well, I'm straight. So I'm not attracted to blokes.

you said "someone" that could be a male or a female

I have straight all over my profile, so highly doubtful it's men I'm talking about.

oh big deal,"straight" means nothing on here,,lol.

I think its well sad a guy cant be friends with women

Believe me lol...I'm Straight.

And also, I didn't say I COULDN'T, I said it would be very difficult.

And it is very difficult to be friends with someone you want to fuck and not actually fuck them.

If it's in the context of "FAB"..well, I'm not here for platonic friends.

I'm here for friends that I fuck aswell. "

lol,,you protest too much,,hahaha,,of course your "straight"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My best friend is male. I've never had an inclination to fuck him. Never even had a snog. We share a bed sometimes and snuggle all night. We do have to laugh off his morning glory though.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"thought's please can women and men be just friends? or will there always be that thought you want to get in her/his pants?"

I'm assuming you're talking just about straight men and women?

Cos I don't think it's a problem being friends if the man or the woman is homosexual. Lol.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Yes, it's possible. Sometimes I wonder what they'll taste like or feel like inside me (that's if I find them attractive) but then I think nah. Others? Yeah, we're just friends.

Also, I don't know why it's just men and women being friends. I'm bi and so I *could* be attracted to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm friends with guys that I don't want to go there with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, it's possible. Sometimes I wonder what they'll taste like or feel like inside me (that's if I find them attractive) but then I think nah. Others? Yeah, we're just friends.

Also, I don't know why it's just men and women being friends. I'm bi and so I *could* be attracted to anyone. "

Have you not read the bi rules?

If you are bi you have to positively, absolutely want to jump into bed with everyone of the same sex

Because, well, porn y'know?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, it's possible. Sometimes I wonder what they'll taste like or feel like inside me (that's if I find them attractive) but then I think nah. Others? Yeah, we're just friends.

Also, I don't know why it's just men and women being friends. I'm bi and so I *could* be attracted to anyone. "

yeap I'm bi,,and I don't want to fuck everyone either,,its amazing eh,,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only friends with women these days - I don't have sex with any of them. (Nor men either)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally adore woman,,utterly love them,,but nah don't wanna fuck all of em,,I also love men,,funnily enough don't want to fuck all men either

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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if you wanna get into a certain genders pants and cannot only befriend them then you might have a problem.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"thought's please can women and men be just friends? or will there always be that thought you want to get in her/his pants?"

Women will always think so.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I'm just friends with some men. I'm pretty sure he doesn't fancy me and I'm darn sure I don't fancy him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm friends with girls. I have one very good girl friend, we are both as nuts as each other

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

I asked a retiring colleague this question.. "at what age do you stop imagining a woman sucking cock evertime you speak to them?" He sagely responded "I don't know, I haven't got that old yet".

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm just friends with some men. I'm pretty sure he doesn't fancy me and I'm darn sure I don't fancy him."

He'd still let you wank him off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I asked a retiring colleague this question.. "at what age do you stop imagining a woman sucking cock evertime you speak to them?" He sagely responded "I don't know, I haven't got that old yet"."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just friends with some men. I'm pretty sure he doesn't fancy me and I'm darn sure I don't fancy him.

He'd still let you wank him off.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I'm just friends with some men. I'm pretty sure he doesn't fancy me and I'm darn sure I don't fancy him.

He'd still let you wank him off.

I won't be offering.

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By *ost SockMan over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I definitely have female friends I have no desire to sleep with.

However, I will admit that I struggle with feelings for more of my many female friends than I used to.

I think it's symptomatic of having many friends, but deep down being a lonely 40-something

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm just friends with some men. I'm pretty sure he doesn't fancy me and I'm darn sure I don't fancy him.

He'd still let you wank him off.

I won't be offering.

Meany.

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"thought's please can women and men be just friends? or will there always be that thought you want to get in her/his pants?"

Yes, sometimes both can be platonic friends, but then sometimes one of them wants more than the other does if given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes i'm talking about straight men and women as i am straight myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arranging a meet with a male friend

Text 4pm "beer 5pm buddy?"

Return text "yup - gasping, need a burger"

Arranging a meet with female friend

Text 4pm "beer 5pm buddy"

"What night?"

"Tonight 5pm"

"I don't like beer"

"Have wine then"

"Ok what will I wear"

"What you have on now"

"Ohh, I might go home a change my top? Are we getting food"

"Eating is cheating"

"I need some food with my wine"

"Get some pub food"

"Have you a menu"

"No, they do burgers"

"Veggie burgers?"

"Probably see you in an hour"

"I might be late, is 7 to late?"

"What shoes will I wear"

"Can you meet me outside the pub"

"Why have you stopped replying ?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. Next question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Before today I would have always said yes.

But friendship works in two directions

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

one of my best friends is male. as he doesn't life close by anymore we tend to sleep over when we see each other. a night of close cuddles- but I don't fancy him at all and neither does he.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got a fair few female friends, the thought of getting into their knickers has never crossed my mind though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooh. Tough question.

Yes. But that friendship has many zones. I've not got many women friends that I could sit with alone and chat to. There was one, we lost touch a few year ago. She was a good mate I could talk to about anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes of course - good god id be one busy lady if i was trying to get into every male friend i have

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

Of course they can.

I don't find every woman I meet irresistible, and the reverse is certainly just as true!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes definitely.

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