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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey forumites a little help and advice wouldn't go a miss. Been here for a few years now and in all fairness I haven't done too badly. Made some friends and had a few meets, but since I moved to Sheffield I have had nothing, zip, Nada. Even struggle to get replies to my messages. I mean being a single guy here I know that ratio of unanswered messages is quite high but it's never been this bad. some advice would be great wether it means changing my profile or my pics I don't mind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Firstly your profile name sounds sad. Sad isn't sexy.
Actually that's really good feedback. It's totally true. "
Then I put it out there for name suggestions, though I may regret it lol |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
To be honest OP your profile blurb contradicts itself a few times, and that may put people off - it suggests this is a new profile for you, and yet you've been here over a year and have had veris in that time, which would suggest to me you've not bothered with it for a year.
You then state your pics are hidden when they're not. Also saying they're nothing special and in fact quite plain, contradicts the statement that ipens your blurb saying you're confident.
Being totally honest (and sorry if this sounds harsh, it's not meant to), your pics aren't that great - maybe consider some that show you off a little better.
I'd suggest a blurb overhaul with a focus on the positive, as others have suggested a username change (pick something uniquely you), and redoing pics.
If you're new to Sheffield, why not look out some socials up that way, or go to a few clubs that way.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Firstly your profile name sounds sad. Sad isn't sexy.
Actually that's really good feedback. It's totally true.
Then I put it out there for name suggestions, though I may regret it lol"
Happynow? Or BullForRent or flirtymcflirtface.
Just a few.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I don't have the body to take any clothes off lol. But I will try and make the happy looking, big smiles etc, may even try a but pic lol x
Do it  "
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1. New photos
2. Rewrite profile
Have photos taken where you are most of the image, so others don't have to squint. And ensure most of them have you smiling and relaxed. Take lots and lots of photos to get a smaller number to use. Ensure you appear warm and welcoming as a person. |
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"Well I don't have the body to take any clothes off lol. But I will try and make the happy looking, big smiles etc, may even try a but pic lol x"
Firstly, don't assume all ladies like muscle guys - if you trawl through the forum history you'll see a fair few preferring the larger figure. Play to your strengths so a suit will look good, try using a timer not a mirror, try and b&w photo, try taking a photo of part of you by all of you, smiling is good as no one likes a miserable sod. Try and be objective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm getting no interest from women in my area. I live in a city and I'm a 9 or a 10 in looks. And the women seem to be real goers too. Try and figure that one out. |
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"I'm getting no interest from women in my area. I live in a city and I'm a 9 or a 10 in looks. And the women seem to be real goers too. Try and figure that one out."
You need to say you'll give them free pantie liners to soak up their juices when they drive themselves home after a sesh |
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