Use filters and go on cam live before meeting, to help validate people. Otherwise expect to chat prospectively with many more people than you'll ever meet - that's to be expected.
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"Everything needs balance: fat thin black white hot cold real fake
That's why. Anyway, if it's half then it's me and you and I'm real, so, with elegant logic......"
What about 3 of us? This is why I do t have face pics. My face is fake, the rest of me is real. |
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My personal opinion is simple ....
I see very little benefit for any individual publicly announcing they attract the attention of timewasters or bemoan how they've repeatedly failed to identify the sort of behaviour potential timewasters engage in before entering prolonged communication with them....
That's all I've got ..
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"My personal opinion is simple ....
I see very little benefit for any individual publicly announcing they attract the attention of timewasters or bemoan how they've repeatedly failed to identify the sort of behaviour potential timewasters engage in before entering prolonged communication with them....
That's all I've got ..
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You've bloody wasted 3 seconds of my life reading that!  |
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"My personal opinion is simple ....
I see very little benefit for any individual publicly announcing they attract the attention of timewasters or bemoan how they've repeatedly failed to identify the sort of behaviour potential timewasters engage in before entering prolonged communication with them....
That's all I've got ..
You've bloody wasted 3 seconds of my life reading that! "
Is that proof there's one born every day.....?   |
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over a year ago
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult. "
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.  |
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"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"
Mainly because the site is free to join and use. Use the usual caveats about chatting to, and meeting people, and all will be well  |
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is. "
Really? Why is that then? |
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over a year ago
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Define a timewaster ?
If you chat with somebody at length and then suddenly decide they don't want to take it any further, that's not a timewaster.
A timewaster is somebody who leads you up the garden path, there is a big difference.
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?"
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
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Have you tried to get verified by going into the chatrooms and chatting on cam?
I hear that is a good way if you are struggling to get meets |
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
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You've only been here 5 weeks. You've realised the reality of triumph of hope over expectation. |
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
You've only been here 5 weeks. You've realised the reality of triumph of hope over expectation. "
Previously I was on here for two years and gave up.
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
You've only been here 5 weeks. You've realised the reality of triumph of hope over expectation.
Previously I was on here for two years and gave up.
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
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Would some more relaxed photo's help ? Three cock photo's are repetitive, and your cock wouldn't be taking the ladies out for dinner. Just sayin' |
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
Would some more relaxed photo's help ? Three cock photo's are repetitive, and your cock wouldn't be taking the ladies out for dinner. Just sayin' "
I agree, but due to my job, I cannot put my face on here. So I have to be careful. Maybe no pics would be best . |
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over a year ago
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We've blocked newbies. Most usually disappear in a day or two anyway; the ones who stay on are no longer newbies after a few days
We have also blocked unverified accounts and those without a profile photograph
Nor do we allow contact from non-site supporters. It is only £5 for 60 days and we think that someone who doesn't want to spend 8 pence per day is unlikely to ever meet us in a club
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
Would some more relaxed photo's help ? Three cock photo's are repetitive, and your cock wouldn't be taking the ladies out for dinner. Just sayin'
I agree, but due to my job, I cannot put my face on here. So I have to be careful. Maybe no pics would be best . "
You need to start your own thread.
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"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"
Sorry op it's far to early for me. yes there are time wasters on here but there are a lot of lovely genuine fabbers too.
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"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"
No doubt the result of some extensive research. Based on your claim then if I know that my account is genuine then out of the two of us yours must be fake. |
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Seven years I've been on site. During that time not once have I encountered a time waster. As I don't require a total strangers opinion of who to fuck most of my meets have been unverified.
I'm self aware enough to recognise if something I keep doing isn't bearing fruit I'm the common denominator and doing something wrong. Moaning about others would be the easy option for those unable to take personal responsibility.
Just a thought. |
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"My personal opinion is simple ....
I see very little benefit for any individual publicly announcing they attract the attention of timewasters or bemoan how they've repeatedly failed to identify the sort of behaviour potential timewasters engage in before entering prolonged communication with them....
That's all I've got ..
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"I've never encountered a time waster, that I know of. Everyone who arranges to meet, shows up.
Is that weird?"
No...my experience too...not hard is it, and I could only dream of having your figure. |
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I ask them a couple of questions:
A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,
B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?
Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.
It's good to have a fool proof method on place. |
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"I ask them a couple of questions:
A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,
B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?
Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.
It's good to have a fool proof method on place. "
Blue.... |
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"I ask them a couple of questions:
A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,
B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?
Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.
It's good to have a fool proof method on place.
Blue.... "
See? It works, get ya coat, pet, youse pulled big time. |
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"Stick to the well verified ones.
If you can get verified that is.......
That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.
In true panto style - all together now:-
O yes it is.
Really? Why is that then?
After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.
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Most will look at the profile first. Not one single public photo (doesn't have to be face, your right buttock would suffice), unable to accommodate will put people off as you've found. They won't open the message just delete without reading.
There's a glut of men here with pics, can accommodate...that's what you're up against I'm afraid. |
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"I ask them a couple of questions:
A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,
B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?
Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.
It's good to have a fool proof method on place.
Blue....
See? It works, get ya coat, pet, youse pulled big time. "
Ah but who would win a naked wrestling match between Duncan from Blue and H from Steps? |
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