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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Been a bbw myself and never have a problem getting sex wondering how many of u out there that that in a woman???  "
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I'm sure if I wanted to have sex at the moment I probably could but since I am currently podgier than I personally like to be or am comfortable being I'm not looking for it. I don't personally like the idea that someone would only want to have sex with me because of my size - I want to be wanted for me not because one aspect of my physicality matches someone's fetish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has been bothering me last few days. Maybe some input from other bbw's can help.
I list myself as a size 22 which mean big hip bum boobs and belly.
When I tell people they say oh I love a curvy girl. In fact someone sent me a pic of a woman wearing a maids outfit. He said she was listed as a plus size but honestly she had no belly big boobs etc.
So do men curvy curvy with bbw curvy as this is making me wonder if I'm a disappointment or not.
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"Been a bbw myself and never have a problem getting sex wondering how many of u out there that that in a woman??? .
I'm sure if I wanted to have sex at the moment I probably could but since I am currently podgier than I personally like to be or am comfortable being I'm not looking for it. I don't personally like the idea that someone would only want to have sex with me because of my size - I want to be wanted for me not because one aspect of my physicality matches someone's fetish."
yeah I understand that and for me to sleep with someone needs to be a physical attraction on both parts just wanted to know what people thought about it !! |
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"This has been bothering me last few days. Maybe some input from other bbw's can help.
I list myself as a size 22 which mean big hip bum boobs and belly.
When I tell people they say oh I love a curvy girl. In fact someone sent me a pic of a woman wearing a maids outfit. He said she was listed as a plus size but honestly she had no belly big boobs etc.i am a size 26 and I would say BBW anything over a 22/24 maybe in my eyes as curvy I would think size can range u can be a 12/14 and have the curves in the right places a guess it depends woman to woman
So do men curvy curvy with bbw curvy as this is making me wonder if I'm a disappointment or not.
Thoughts?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has been bothering me last few days. Maybe some input from other bbw's can help.
I list myself as a size 22 which mean big hip bum boobs and belly.
When I tell people they say oh I love a curvy girl. In fact someone sent me a pic of a woman wearing a maids outfit. He said she was listed as a plus size but honestly she had no belly big boobs etc.
So do men curvy curvy with bbw curvy as this is making me wonder if I'm a disappointment or not.
Thoughts?
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I think all you can do in that situation is have pictures that truly represent your size. It's how I overcome the feeling that guys would be anticipating someone smaller. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has been bothering me last few days. Maybe some input from other bbw's can help.
I list myself as a size 22 which mean big hip bum boobs and belly.
When I tell people they say oh I love a curvy girl. In fact someone sent me a pic of a woman wearing a maids outfit. He said she was listed as a plus size but honestly she had no belly big boobs etc.
So do men curvy curvy with bbw curvy as this is making me wonder if I'm a disappointment or not.
Thoughts?
I think all you can do in that situation is have pictures that truly represent your size. It's how I overcome the feeling that guys would be anticipating someone smaller."
Yes I feel the same and that's a good thing to do maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been a bbw myself and never have a problem getting sex wondering how many of u out there that that in a woman??? .
I'm sure if I wanted to have sex at the moment I probably could but since I am currently podgier than I personally like to be or am comfortable being I'm not looking for it. I don't personally like the idea that someone would only want to have sex with me because of my size - I want to be wanted for me not because one aspect of my physicality matches someone's fetish. yeah I understand that and for me to sleep with someone needs to be a physical attraction on both parts just wanted to know what people thought about it !! "
totally agree with all of the above!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me sexy curvy is very very hot. Rolls and rolls of fat and big bellies are a major turn off in either sex. "
I agree with this especially since losing a lot of weight I look back and realise how unsexy (and unhealthy) I was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Indifference.
I've found curvy women attractive, I've found slimmer women attractive. For me it's more about an attractive personality and a pretty face than a fetish for a particular body shape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yay
I appreciate all shapes and sizes. I prefer curvy ladies, it's not a fetish or fantasy, just what I naturally find more attractive. For me, it's about confidence in your own skin. I'd be attracted to a happy confident curvy woman much more than a unhappy, mainstream media type slim model. |
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By *ander_XMan
over a year ago
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Definitely yay for me, but not in a fetishistic sort of a way, wouldn't find a big women beautiful just because she is big. I love womanly women, being bigger certainly doesn’t detract from womanliness and can enhance it.
My very first FWB, I continued to see on and off for about 12 years and in that time she went from about size 18 to size 30+ then, after gastric band surgery, back down to about size 14. Aside from concerns as a friend about her health and happiness, her size never changed my enjoyment of being with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely yay for me, but not in a fetishistic sort of a way, wouldn't find a big women beautiful just because she is big. I love womanly women, being bigger certainly doesn’t detract from womanliness and can enhance it.
My very first FWB, I continued to see on and off for about 12 years and in that time she went from about size 18 to size 30+ then, after gastric band surgery, back down to about size 14. Aside from concerns as a friend about her health and happiness, her size never changed my enjoyment of being with her."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not a bbw as beautiful is subjective.
I'm not fat, I have fat. I have fingernails, doesn't make me a fingernail.
I am attracted to individuals, some are slim some are large, each had beautiful personalities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally pretty with curves are our choice, doesn't matter if that person is a size 12 or 22 as long as they are pretty (in our opinion) and we can have a conversation with them. |
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"I am not a bbw as beautiful is subjective.
I'm not fat, I have fat. I have fingernails, doesn't make me a fingernail.
I am attracted to individuals, some are slim some are large, each had beautiful personalities. "
Love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not a bbw as beautiful is subjective.
I'm not fat, I have fat. I have fingernails, doesn't make me a fingernail.
I am attracted to individuals, some are slim some are large, each had beautiful personalities. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not a bbw as beautiful is subjective.
I'm not fat, I have fat. I have fingernails, doesn't make me a fingernail.
I am attracted to individuals, some are slim some are large, each had beautiful personalities. "
well said! |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I describe myself as ample because that's what I am but I wouldn't want someone to spend time with me just because that's what they're into. My size doesn't define who I am. I want people to spend time with me because they enjoy my company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love big breasts, big bums, large thighs. Having it all together in the same woman means bigger girls, sometimes it means having a big belly and rolls, I love it all! It's such a turn on for me, just imagining cellulite and stretch marks makes me hard! Definite YAY! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been a bbw myself and never have a problem getting sex wondering how many of u out there that that in a woman??? .
I'm sure if I wanted to have sex at the moment I probably could but since I am currently podgier than I personally like to be or am comfortable being I'm not looking for it. I don't personally like the idea that someone would only want to have sex with me because of my size - I want to be wanted for me not because one aspect of my physicality matches someone's fetish."
This for me
And I avoid those who the words bbw in their username or on their profile. And if I get a message from someone about my size I delete
I want to meet guys that are interested in me as a person not because of the size I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Skinny, fat, podgy, curvy, BBW all women are beautiful and we should celebrate and embrace our natural beauty.
We all have hang ups about our bodies but beauty begins with the heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I describe myself as ample because that's what I am but I wouldn't want someone to spend time with me just because that's what they're into. My size doesn't define who I am. I want people to spend time with me because they enjoy my company. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Skinny, fat, podgy, curvy, BBW all women are beautiful and we should celebrate and embrace our natural beauty.
We all have hang ups about our bodies but beauty begins with the heart "
If i found a guy who thought this I'd never let him go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Skinny, fat, podgy, curvy, BBW all women are beautiful and we should celebrate and embrace our natural beauty.
We all have hang ups about our bodies but beauty begins with the heart "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it is and always has been the woman not her dress size!"
This, I'd much rather sleep with a larger lady with a great personality, then sleep with a lady who's a "perfect 10" with the attitude of a crazy sociopath |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why anyone who is not a BBW, such as a size 6-12 is automatically seen as being up their arse or having shite personalities but then again this is fab  "
That true as well unfortunately. A fact that someone train or stick to diet to look on their own opinion better is sometimes seen as trying to be better than others. But is it not, you work on ur body for urself and to feel good in ur own skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been a bbw myself and never have a problem getting sex wondering how many of u out there that that in a woman??? "
I say never judge a book by its cover, its down to the person's personality & if you click you click |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things like looks, gender, colour, age, weight or disability should not affect someone's ability to get the D.
Sadly in this day and age some of us are quite shallow, and we have the right to be... But think of the sluts. Are you really going to deny a slut the chance at some D, simply because she's carrying a few extra pounds?
TheSlutHunter wouldn't.
A slut, is a slut, is a slut.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like curvy and I do like a mum tum  as for bbw's it all depends on who, I like a woman who is comfortable in her body. That's the sexy part for me so if sid bbw was comfortable and we got on then of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like curvy and I do like a mum tum as for bbw's it all depends on who, I like a woman who is comfortable in her body. That's the sexy part for me so if sid bbw was comfortable and we got on then of course "
Said* not sid |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why anyone who is not a BBW, such as a size 6-12 is automatically seen as being up their arse or having shite personalities but then again this is fab
That true as well unfortunately. A fact that someone train or stick to diet to look on their own opinion better is sometimes seen as trying to be better than others. But is it not, you work on ur body for urself and to feel good in ur own skin. "
Exactly! I may be a size 6, but that is because I watch my diet, because adding on weight with my frame just doesn't suit me.
I didn't realise that by looking after myself I also had a personality transplant, but as I said this is the fab forums so people like to put labels on others, whether it is to make themselves feel better I have no idea, or is it just the usual of blowing smoke up the arse of the majority, I’ll leave it to others to decide……
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand why anyone who is not a BBW, such as a size 6-12 is automatically seen as being up their arse or having shite personalities but then again this is fab
That true as well unfortunately. A fact that someone train or stick to diet to look on their own opinion better is sometimes seen as trying to be better than others. But is it not, you work on ur body for urself and to feel good in ur own skin.
Exactly! I may be a size 6, but that is because I watch my diet, because adding on weight with my frame just doesn't suit me.
I didn't realise that by looking after myself I also had a personality transplant, but as I said this is the fab forums so people like to put labels on others, whether it is to make themselves feel better I have no idea, or is it just the usual of blowing smoke up the arse of the majority, I’ll leave it to others to decide……
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It's not your somatotype or dietary habits that cause a great or terrible personality. As I said earlier the sexy part is owning the look and choosing clothes that compliment your figure etc. But there are genuine people and stuck up people everywhere of all somatotypes. Just got to spot the decent ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chose to be intimate with a person, not a size 
My feelings exactly but sadly not all think like you do. Guess they're missing out "
Goddamit why do you have to live so far North though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has been bothering me last few days. Maybe some input from other bbw's can help.
I list myself as a size 22 which mean big hip bum boobs and belly.
When I tell people they say oh I love a curvy girl. In fact someone sent me a pic of a woman wearing a maids outfit. He said she was listed as a plus size but honestly she had no belly big boobs etc.
So do men curvy curvy with bbw curvy as this is making me wonder if I'm a disappointment or not.
Thoughts?
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I always say I'm curvier than curvy. I'm a size 20-22 with big thighs, ass and tummy. I never had any complaints lol but prefer to be upfront about it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chose to be intimate with a person, not a size
My feelings exactly but sadly not all think like you do. Guess they're missing out
Goddamit why do you have to live so far North though "
This northern thing is becoming a sticking point lately. I may move
As for bbw being bubbly etc. That's entirely down to the person and I'd never say a slim lady is not bubbly or is lacking in personality. Most of my friends are slim and they're the most friendly bunch in the world.
Be who you are, be nice to folk and enjoy every second of life no matter what size you are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I class self as a bbw. I was a size 28 but have now dropped to a 22/24 and still losing weight. My lover has been with me since I was my biggest and he says he loves how I am no matter what size i am but he is enjoying the thinner me as he says I can get me legs over my head further lol. He as also said that if I am happy then he is happy and I am sexy no matter what. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I class self as a bbw. I was a size 28 but have now dropped to a 22/24 and still losing weight. My lover has been with me since I was my biggest and he says he loves how I am no matter what size i am but he is enjoying the thinner me as he says I can get me legs over my head further lol. He as also said that if I am happy then he is happy and I am sexy no matter what. "
Well done on your weight loss x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I class self as a bbw. I was a size 28 but have now dropped to a 22/24 and still losing weight. My lover has been with me since I was my biggest and he says he loves how I am no matter what size i am but he is enjoying the thinner me as he says I can get me legs over my head further lol. He as also said that if I am happy then he is happy and I am sexy no matter what.
Well done on your weight loss x "
Thank you although I have lost it through stress and just over 4 stone since February so it has been quiet a rapid loss.
Just hope I can continue to lose more I'd be very happy at an 18 although the lover did ask if I was going for a size 8 so he could in his words 'spin me round on his cock and smash me all over!' Lol he's such a romantic lol |
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