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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "
I agree, with the no body-shaming. Yes!
Not sure if you meant this, but where I (just my opinion) personally disagree with simply ignoring, is when I see a written comment that I strongly disagree with (perhaps an "-ist" attitude or an attack on a poster, I warrant I don't police the site looking for things I mean if I note something that I feel moved to challenge) then there's something that doesn't sit right with me in simply ignoring and letting it sit there permanent in its written form unchallenged. So I will counter it. Just so someone else coming across it -- let's say it is body-shaming -- who may be hurt by it, or fall into the category being slated, is aware that not everyone thinks that is acceptable. And yes, I'd do this in real life not just from the safety of a keyboard. What I wouldn't do is attack someone over PM about it - my view is to challenge, query and clarify. And if I get it wrong, or overstep or upset myself I am perfectly willing to apologise if I in turn, have caused hurt.
Sorry, just wanted to clarify that. But yes, on the whole I agree with your post.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And on the other hand... every now and then we stumble across a profile and can't help keep looking at it 
The stuff that's not to our taste is easy to pass by and forget, the stuff that is to our taste .... very distracting 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps.
I agree, with the no body-shaming. Yes!
Not sure if you meant this, but where I (just my opinion) personally disagree with simply ignoring, is when I see a written comment that I strongly disagree with (perhaps an "-ist" attitude or an attack on a poster, I warrant I don't police the site looking for things I mean if I note something that I feel moved to challenge) then there's something that doesn't sit right with me in simply ignoring and letting it sit there permanent in its written form unchallenged. So I will counter it. Just so someone else coming across it -- let's say it is body-shaming -- who may be hurt by it, or fall into the category being slated, is aware that not everyone thinks that is acceptable. And yes, I'd do this in real life not just from the safety of a keyboard. What I wouldn't do is attack someone over PM about it - my view is to challenge, query and clarify. And if I get it wrong, or overstep or upset myself I am perfectly willing to apologise if I in turn, have caused hurt.
Sorry, just wanted to clarify that. But yes, on the whole I agree with your post. "
No, I'm all for freedom of speech when done in a balanced manner, just rather tired of the trend for terribly catty and uncalled for body shaming. |
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "
If someone says something wrong I need to say something in reply I am not as good as they are.
People saying wrong things or things I disagree with online is literally the worst thing on earth.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps.
I agree, with the no body-shaming. Yes!
Not sure if you meant this, but where I (just my opinion) personally disagree with simply ignoring, is when I see a written comment that I strongly disagree with (perhaps an "-ist" attitude or an attack on a poster, I warrant I don't police the site looking for things I mean if I note something that I feel moved to challenge) then there's something that doesn't sit right with me in simply ignoring and letting it sit there permanent in its written form unchallenged. So I will counter it. Just so someone else coming across it -- let's say it is body-shaming -- who may be hurt by it, or fall into the category being slated, is aware that not everyone thinks that is acceptable. And yes, I'd do this in real life not just from the safety of a keyboard. What I wouldn't do is attack someone over PM about it - my view is to challenge, query and clarify. And if I get it wrong, or overstep or upset myself I am perfectly willing to apologise if I in turn, have caused hurt.
Sorry, just wanted to clarify that. But yes, on the whole I agree with your post.
No, I'm all for freedom of speech when done in a balanced manner, just rather tired of the trend for terribly catty and uncalled for body shaming. "
I 100% agree. (thanks for clarifying) |
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"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!"
How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!
How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!"
You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These Shallow Narrow Minded Peeps Should Perhaps Look in a Mirror Beauty comes from deep Within Not an Anatomy To Enjoy such art as a Body one first needs to have a Brain xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say the same for threads and posts that people find offensive. If the bodyshaming threads were ignored by all those who find them offensive, they'd very quickly fizzle out. And if they don't, just leave them to it. As long as they are not breaking forum rules.
Mrs |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!
How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!
You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile. "
I used to challenge deliberate nastiness more often. It becomes disheartening after a while to do so. It also seems to come in cycles and the forum is apparently in one at the moment, hopefully short-lived.  |
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"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!
How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!
You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile. "
That's good to hear,it's seriously putting me of this place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!
How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!
You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile.
It also seems to come in cycles and the forum is apparently in one at the moment, hopefully short-lived. "
I agree
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say the same for threads and posts that people find offensive. If the bodyshaming threads were ignored by all those who find them offensive, they'd very quickly fizzle out. And if they don't, just leave them to it. As long as they are not breaking forum rules.
Mrs"
I sometimes find it difficult to sit back and ignore certain comments. However, I do think there are ways to diplomatically write replies to posts you don't agree with. |
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "
Well said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "
Standing by you M'lady one hundred percent. Unfortunately people can't help themselves by putting their foot in it consistently for self affirmation and attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "
Indeed
Fortunately we all have different tastes. Just because I'm not a fan of a certain type of body I certainly wouldn't start a thread about it
Just saying x |
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