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Why do peeps block when youve done nothing wrong?
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I'd been talking to a couple for a while now, thru messaging on here, was gearing up for a meet, and they asked if id got anything else lined up, so me being me honest as i always am,said yes hopefully this week! Then low and behold they blocked me lol, really makes me laugh that does! Errrrrrm hello peeps were on a swinging site pmsl   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block peeps if I do not like their forums posts, as it is unlikely I would meet them.
Save them contacting me later on etc...  |
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People block for all different reasons. You dont actually know this is the reason they have blocked you unless they said they where blocking you for that reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People block for all different reasons. You dont actually know this is the reason they have blocked you unless they said they where blocking you for that reason"
I mostly block a$$holes & timewasters, but sometimes block people who I've messaged, but wouldn't meet (& vice-versa), just so we don't waste each others time in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd been talking to a couple for a while now, thru messaging on here, was gearing up for a meet, and they asked if id got anything else lined up, so me being me honest as i always am,said yes hopefully this week! Then low and behold they blocked me lol, really makes me laugh that does! Errrrrrm hello peeps were on a swinging site pmsl "
Some people are more liberal with the 'block' button than others. I don't block people unless they're stalking or they just can't understand that I'm not into them and they keep messaging me.
Other people use it whenever they disagree with you or don't know how to be polite. i.e. they're being a bit precious.
In any case, it goes with the territory.
It never ceases to amaze me that some swingers are busily 'judging' others as I've found recently. Particularly with regard to ageism. I'm young and want to fuck. It's not complicated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they are allowed to block anyone at any time and they do not have to justify the reason why to anyone ... |
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lol, i know but i had been fully courteous and polite, and we were ready to arrange a meet and hey presto, blocked lol, oh well plenty more fish in the sea (eh mr bashful lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will never know the reason for the block, maybe they thought you weren't genuine about meeting and they couldn't be bothered with the messaging to and fro, maybe you said something that one of the couple didn't like, its only hearsay isn't it. What is clear is that they don't want any more contact from you. They've blocked you, be adult enough to accept it.
I expect I'm blocked all over the place, I don't give a thought to it, couldn't care less  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im blocked by people who i've never even spoken too lol
i go to have a nosey at them and cant, then i start to get curious and wonder why. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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What makes me smile more is people being bothered that someone has blocked them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes me smile more is people being bothered that someone has blocked them. "
 Are you smiling like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people block you, its their loss. I seriously wouldn't let it bother you, life is to short to worry about such things. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"What makes me smile more is people being bothered that someone has blocked them.
Are you smiling like this "
Sort of, I had a smile inbetween the one I put and your one, couldn't decide which one to pick though |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I am sure the people don't think it is their loss or they wouldn't have blocked? 
My ead hurts now ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i blocked someone yesterday i had been chatting to as he wanted me to cancel a meet so i could meet him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree and understand if people do the same to us xxx
"People block for all different reasons. You dont actually know this is the reason they have blocked you unless they said they where blocking you for that reason
I mostly block a$$holes & timewasters, but sometimes block people who I've messaged, but wouldn't meet (& vice-versa), just so we don't waste each others time in the future."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt worry about it, there is allsorts of people, some are timewasters, fussy, snobs, petty, childish, rude, friendly, nice, easy going, horrible, etc.........
It make the world go round, move on and dont stress. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Ok, as this is turning into a dirty washing thread maybe time to shut.
Maybe as adults we should all just accept that the blocks are there for everyone to use how they wish without explanation to anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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been blocked once or twice just for not being their type i guess.
sometimes i think they do it cuz they think u`ll hurl insults back from the rejection.
understandable but not my style |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you weren't bothered about it, why use your effort to start a thread. It is not their loss at all, they've benefitted as they won't hear from you again, you however are still thinking about them by starting this thread.
I'm sorry if this is harsh, it isn't meant to be rude, but many guys start similar threads, they are given frank responses, we shouldn't be sexist just because its a single female posting.
You won't go without attention or meets, put your energy into messaging sexy guys |
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