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single guys timewaster? We think not
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By far the biggest time wasters on this site are single women! Yes you heard right we seriously want to meet a single lady just like most people here and we always give them preference over single guys but I think from now on we done with them. We have a straight profile with over 35 meets with couples and the odd few guys and we have never been turned down from either guys or couples ever quite the opposite especially once our facepic are sent people always want to meet us now im not saying we are full of ourselves or models but we both gym people! So thats a bit about us now the rant ages ago we just stopped actively looking for single women because all that happens is txt tennis and flirty txts the sec you mention a about setting up a meet wether if actual meet or coffee meet then txts immediately stop! So we stopped mailing single women altogether! Now since then we only txt women that contact us first and if we know they read our profile then we start a conversation! THESE are people who seen our profile seen our pics and read our veris and even after facepics have been swapped they still continue to txts and flirt! But mention a meet and they are ghosts! Also we only chat with people who already are well verified with real meets not cam or socials or newbies! we are swinging 5 years now and every woman that has shown interest in that time turned out to be a timewaster!
Now I know we guna get heat for this post and there will be the odd singe girl that has met couples but they are a very very small exception to the rule! also if any girls reply saying they meets couples all the time if you dont have veri to prove it then it more than likely didnt happen |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I can't comment as I am straight and I don't meet couples, though the messages I receive from couple are always along the line of 'it is hubbys bday and I am trying to arrange a surprise for him'
Yeah right lol!
But I pick at your claim, you say you are well verified by over 35 couples and a few single men, but your profile only state by 3 and the last was 3 months ago, though I may have read you OP incorrectly.
But I will also say, for me it is men that are the fantasists, but hey it's the internet, everyone is looking for immediate self gratification we just have to be aware and do what we can, but nothing is fool proof  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're kind of tarring one whole group with the same brush. Do you both chat with a single lady you're thinking of meeting or just one of you? If I'm chatting to a couple I personally like to talk to both halves, especially the female half. Partly because there are some couples profile who are actually single guys/women pretending and to check she's happy with proceedings.
Maybe something needs to change in your approach.
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
Gosh, very surprised to read the OP opening thread.
I only have one thing when I read it 'a sense of entitlement'. What's a normal profile and straight? Perhaps this could be a put off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By far the biggest time wasters on this site are single women! Yes you heard right we seriously want to meet a single lady just like most people here and we always give them preference over single guys but I think from now on we done with them. We have a straight profile with over 35 meets with couples and the odd few guys and we have never been turned down from either guys or couples ever quite the opposite especially once our facepic are sent people always want to meet us now im not saying we are full of ourselves or models but we both gym people! So thats a bit about us now the rant ages ago we just stopped actively looking for single women because all that happens is txt tennis and flirty txts the sec you mention a about setting up a meet wether if actual meet or coffee meet then txts immediately stop! So we stopped mailing single women altogether! Now since then we only txt women that contact us first and if we know they read our profile then we start a conversation! THESE are people who seen our profile seen our pics and read our veris and even after facepics have been swapped they still continue to txts and flirt! But mention a meet and they are ghosts! Also we only chat with people who already are well verified with real meets not cam or socials or newbies! we are swinging 5 years now and every woman that has shown interest in that time turned out to be a timewaster!
Now I know we guna get heat for this post and there will be the odd singe girl that has met couples but they are a very very small exception to the rule! also if any girls reply saying they meets couples all the time if you dont have veri to prove it then it more than likely didnt happen"
Hooray!!!!!! someone finally said it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gosh, very surprised to read the OP opening thread.
I only have one thing when I read it 'a sense of entitlement'. What's a normal profile and straight? Perhaps this could be a put off? "
So if I choose not to show verifications that discuss my sexual activities (because I prefer discretion and I personally find ones that list every intimate detail crass)
And I change my mind while speaking to someone, before making firm plans to meet, possibly because I'm put off by communication.
Does that make me another single female time waster?
Unfortunately OP while there are plenty of time wasters of every six and persuasion on here, your profile and post have an air of self entitlement because you've never had a rejection before and you feel you're attractive enough not to deserve one.
I would say anyone going quiet before making firm plans to meet is a rejection rather than time wasting. Just because people chat and flirt it doesn't mean they are going to meet, people are entitled to change their mind. |
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"I can't comment as I am straight and I don't meet couples, though the messages I receive from couple are always along the line of 'it is hubbys bday and I am trying to arrange a surprise for him'
Yeah right lol!
But I pick at your claim, you say you are well verified by over 35 couples and a few single men, but your profile only state by 3 and the last was 3 months ago, though I may have read you OP incorrectly.
But I will also say, for me it is men that are the fantasists, but hey it's the internet, everyone is looking for immediate self gratification we just have to be aware and do what we can, but nothing is fool proof "
The veris are on our other profile |
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