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"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us " You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? | |||
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"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? " is that am official offer | |||
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"To be honest, even if I was looking for what you're offering I wouldn't meet with you. Your profile is fairly abrasive and the lack of punctuation is a huge turn off for me. " You read profiles? Pfft | |||
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"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? " Haha that's exactly what I thought!! | |||
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"I'll be honest, your profile, even though you said you tried the nice approach before, you come across as arrogant and aggressive, oh and this isn't a fuck site, it's a swinging site " Exactly this! If someone is aggressive on their profile imagine what they must be like in person. I wouldn't put myself in that situation. | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops " And breathe... | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops And breathe..." I did when I came around after fainting | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops And breathe... I did when I came around after fainting " If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops And breathe... I did when I came around after fainting If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me " No it was just the op's profile it was such a turn on,I blamed my fainting on the lack of fullstops,but I lied | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops And breathe... I did when I came around after fainting If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me No it was just the op's profile it was such a turn on,I blamed my fainting on the lack of fullstops,but I lied " You're only human! Who could resist a pair of inseparable stud-muffins like that | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops And breathe... I did when I came around after fainting If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me No it was just the op's profile it was such a turn on,I blamed my fainting on the lack of fullstops,but I lied You're only human! Who could resist a pair of inseparable stud-muffins like that" Exactly,I came over all funny like,it's rare it happens on here I tell ya! | |||
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"The OPS have only been on the site a short time so perhaps their profile wasn't well considered OPs I would suggest perhaps a less aggressive approach. I'm sure you can appreciate that whilst some women will want to meet 2 men that will be a scary prospect for most. I'm not sure your profile would make that less intimidating. Good Luck Tink" I agree with this, I would find it intimidating and would prefer a much friendlier approach too. | |||
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"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof " Do let us know how you get on with that. | |||
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"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof " The clues in the name mate | |||
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"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof " Some people do use it as a fuck site although I'm not sure how successful they are. I always say though that if an approach isn't working its possible that it's wrong. What you're asking might appeal to some women so I don't suggest you change how you go about things or neither you nor the women you meet will get what they want. | |||
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"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof " The problem is, most of the women on the forum have been on Fab long enough to know that the OP is identical to the kind of post they wake up to, when the bloke or blokes have just got it from clubbing and are horny. It's just not that tempting. And this is a swinging site, not a fuck site. If you don't want to be nice then go back to Tinder. | |||
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"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that " Helpful tip - Readjust your understanding of aggression. Women need to feel safe in your presence. | |||
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"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is " Which forum are *you* looking at? | |||
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"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is " Has this thread resulted in many messages from women? | |||
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"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is Which forum are *you* looking at? " That's exactly what I thought too. | |||
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"Good to see that's it's not just men who fail to read profiles. OP, when you wake up, you have two options: post this on the meets forum, and put a meet request up. If you post in the Lounge then you'll just get comments on your profile." To be fair to the OP they didn't ask for a profile critique, and it is against forum rules to critique a profile unless specifically asked for. Looks like a fair few people here breaking the forum rules. | |||
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"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is " Actually women comments have also been negative, I do also agree with most of the men's comments I don't want to be made to feel like a piece if meet and that's exactly how you come across as well as aggressive | |||
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"Good to see that's it's not just men who fail to read profiles. OP, when you wake up, you have two options: post this on the meets forum, and put a meet request up. If you post in the Lounge then you'll just get comments on your profile. To be fair to the OP they didn't ask for a profile critique, and it is against forum rules to critique a profile unless specifically asked for. Looks like a fair few people here breaking the forum rules. " Whoops I didn't read the whole thread so I assumed they had asked given the last few comments before I posted | |||
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"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof " Try checking the dictionary definition of 'swinging'. I assure you that it will not equate to this being a fuck site. You've been given a lot of good advice by both males and females on this thread OP, I would suggest you heed it in order to succeed on here | |||
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"Not sure there are many women that would meet 2 guys alone, if they knew neither of them first...I wouldn't for sure " | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops And breathe..." Just what I was thinking. Op, friendly before, now arrogant and disrespectful? Not doing yourself any favours... | |||
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"Op to be honest yes it is a sex site but no one wants to be spoken to like a piece of meat and your profile suggests you can't differentiate between meat and people " This and far too cocky and aggressive ,but if it works for you guys thats all that matters... | |||
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"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? " I never got that message ha but if you say so x | |||
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"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is " Checks my boobs. Yep still a woman... | |||
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"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that " Thanks OP, your profile tells me everything I need to know | |||
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"Look we was asking to see if anyone knows or willing maybe it came across aggressive but it's not meant like that but you lot think your genuine and easy to talk to we was asking for nice comments not dicky ones if you got nothing nice to say don't fucking comment on it. Where not be aggressive but someone asked us about things we would be nice to them when the account got set up we got messages off men we said nicely where not interested so it shows the aggressive ones " If you filter out men you'll not get messaged by them. | |||
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"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that " No one will bother, that's our point. | |||
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"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that Thanks OP, your profile tells me everything I need to know " Same here. Where did I put my block button? | |||
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"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that No one will bother, that's our point." It's falling on deaf ears though | |||
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"No cus where not like that we would be nice to anyone that's the point in why we put that up " So you don't want men to message you, but you won't use the tools given to you by the site to prevent them from doing so? OK. | |||
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"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof " Nope, I'm pretty certain I've only ever fucked nice people too. | |||
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"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that No one will bother, that's our point. It's falling on deaf ears though " Clearly. I'm taking bets on UNLOS? | |||
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"Nice comments only " I like pretty flowers | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky" Good. There's also thousands of guys that are better and you, my friend, are a small fish in a very big pond. All the best. | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky" And they probably won't get laid either. | |||
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"Nice comments only I like pretty flowers " I like respectful men | |||
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"Yeah we both have " I'm glad you're there for each other | |||
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"Yeah we both have " If you hit reply and quote we know who you're replying to. Otherwise it just looks like you're barking out random comments. | |||
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"Yeah we both have I'm glad you're there for each other " They'll need to be when realisation hits...UNLOS | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky" worst and we're | |||
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"Nice comments only " It is a public forum Anyone as the right to post their opinion within the rules of the site Wanting to control that is just another demonstration of your arrogance | |||
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"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof " So you think you only have to be 'nice' to people only if you are dating them? No thanks, I would only want to meet nice respectful people on here, if not I have toys if I just want to fuck, but good luck in your quest | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cockyworst and we're" You beat me to it | |||
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"Yeah we both have If you hit reply and quote we know who you're replying to. Otherwise it just looks like you're barking out random comments." haha sorry lol where new on this part lmao where just barking mad lmao | |||
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"Look we was asking to see if anyone knows or willing maybe it came across aggressive but it's not meant like that but you lot think your genuine and easy to talk to we was asking for nice comments not dicky ones if you got nothing nice to say don't fucking comment on it. Where not be aggressive but someone asked us about things we would be nice to them when the account got set up we got messages off men we said nicely where not interested so it shows the aggressive ones " Block men from being able to contact you, that will resolve that. There are women who want to meet with two or more men and some of them might even go for your approach but surely you can see from the responses that the ones who read the forum don't. Have the pair of you thought about attending a club? Have you messaged many women in your area, if so what was the response? | |||
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"Nice comments only I like pretty flowers I like respectful men " youd live me miss x | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky" you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cockyworst and we're You beat me to it " haha | |||
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"And we are nice guys but at the same time wed like nice women" Most of the women on this post (and men) have been nice and given you great advice Your choose not act on it to what will ifbthis thread alone is anything to go by will be to your own detriment | |||
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"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal" Man to man advice, all true. The tone of the posts says different too. | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives" so try and get to know us | |||
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" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops " I read it and realised I hadn't drawn breath | |||
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"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal Get to know us then Man to man advice, all true. The tone of the posts says different too. " | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us " The point is that men are in the majority on here, women don't need to spend time getting to know people to find out if their first impression was wrong. They simply move on to a profile that seems nice in the first place. | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us " your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here. | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us The point is that men are in the majority on here, women don't need to spend time getting to know people to find out if their first impression was wrong. They simply move on to a profile that seems nice in the first place." yeah we know that but If no one likes our profile where not going to lose sleep? over it all the can do is move on | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here." I'm not beingfunny ddon't look then | |||
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"On a site like this first impressions are everything You appear to be aggressive then you'll be aggressive no one will care to look further and find out you're not Although given some of the shortness of your responses (yes I saw the ones you strategically deleted) you don't come acros particularly nice on this thread either " yeah we did delete them but where new on here and there was two many to keep up with | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us " I will bet my entire life savings that no one on this thread will bother. No need to. Plenty of nicer guys with more articulate and respectful shop windows. | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us The point is that men are in the majority on here, women don't need to spend time getting to know people to find out if their first impression was wrong. They simply move on to a profile that seems nice in the first place. yeah we know that but If no one likes our profile where not going to lose sleep? over it all the can do is move on " We feel the same about our profile. Plenty don't like it but we sleep soundly. If your approach works, stick with it. I wouldn't advise you to change it because as I said before you won't get what you want, neither would anyone who met you. | |||
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"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal Man to man advice, all true. The tone of the posts says different too. " I get told my face pics are very aggressive something I will need to address but I need someone to take pics when I'm not concentrating on looking moody lol | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here. I'm not beingfunny ddon't look then " You have invited people to look in a public forum. | |||
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"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal Man to man advice, all true. The tone of the posts says different too. I get told my face pics are very aggressive something I will need to address but I need someone to take pics when I'm not concentrating on looking moody lol" Use your timer! Your face pics can't be comparable to this situation surely! | |||
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"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here. I'm not beingfunny ddon't look then " Youve asked for people to be interested those People have to look at your profile in order to know if they'd be interested, doesn't mean they'll look again after doing so That's just logical | |||
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"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal Man to man advice, all true. The tone of the posts says different too. I get told my face pics are very aggressive something I will need to address but I need someone to take pics when I'm not concentrating on looking moody lol Use your timer! Your face pics can't be comparable to this situation surely!" yep I've been told I look aggressive so wouldn't meet but people do look beyond the face now and then but a profile needs to grab attention bit not in the way the ops has | |||
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"The op has expressly asked that their profile isn't critiqued. Can we stop now please." It is against the site rules too | |||
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"Look there's to many to keep up with but all we want was nice messages yeah our profile is a bit forward but at the end of the day it's our profile not your lots I wouldn't? ask for you lot to change then start acting like a dick with you. Yeah the profile is forward sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't there's no need for this " forward yes and if you think you will get what u want that way fine but the majority here feel u won't and I believe you will end up frustrated and either change it or leave but hey it's down to u | |||
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"Look there's to many to keep up with but all we want was nice messages yeah our profile is a bit forward but at the end of the day it's our profile not your lots I wouldn't? ask for you lot to change then start acting like a dick with you. Yeah the profile is forward sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't there's no need for this " No ones specifically telling you to change it, they are merely suggesting that it may help to considerably improve your chances if you do You're choosing that you don't want to change it and that's fine, just be aware that comes at a price | |||
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"I'll be honest, your profile, even though you said you tried the nice approach before, you come across as arrogant and aggressive, oh and this isn't a fuck site, it's a swinging site Exactly this! If someone is aggressive on their profile imagine what they must be like in person. I wouldn't put myself in that situation. " Ditto x | |||
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"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? " Maybe that's what they want lol | |||
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"Look there's to many to keep up with but all we want was nice messages yeah our profile is a bit forward but at the end of the day it's our profile not your lots I wouldn't? ask for you lot to change then start acting like a dick with you. Yeah the profile is forward sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't there's no need for this No ones specifically telling you to change it, they are merely suggesting that it may help to considerably improve your chances if you do You're choosing that you don't want to change it and that's fine, just be aware that comes at a price " yeah but we wanted nice comments not dicky ones where not aggressive guys | |||
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