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I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious  |
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over a year ago
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"The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me "
I like the sound of that. Always a concern when people say they are doing something for other people and not themselves |
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"The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me
I like the sound of that. Always a concern when people say they are doing something for other people and not themselves "
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious "
Well I, for one, think it's a gorgeous photo  .
I'm fine with smooth, but do think more natural is amazing - I've said this to someone else in this thread a few times.
There are parallels with my experience - I got quite self-conscious for a will because I was a hairy guy. I felt most women wanted smooth.
Finally, I decided to be comfortable with it an see it as an asset (though I do trim!). Wouldn't swap it for the world now. |
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By *ussiesCouple
over a year ago
gwent |
"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious "
We get these types of comments regularly, but if those types of people think we're dirty, smells, look discusting or just yucky, then we'd never want those in our private lifestyle anyway.
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My hair is and will be staying natural. When i've posted pics that hint at the bush, i've had a LOT of positive comments. Pubic hair is seen as something of a treat these days by some men.
And those who don't like it? Well they don't have to look or meet me, so everyone is happy.
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"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious
We get these types of comments regularly, but if those types of people think we're dirty, smells, look discusting or just yucky, then we'd never want those in our private lifestyle anyway.
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Agreed. I've seen "hair is for apes"  . Shocking lack of acceptance. |
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"My hair is and will be staying natural. When i've posted pics that hint at the bush, i've had a LOT of positive comments. Pubic hair is seen as something of a treat these days by some men.
And those who don't like it? Well they don't have to look or meet me, so everyone is happy.
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Here's another one. Laaarrrvley. |
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"Love totally natural, I started wanking in the 70's so grew up with naturally hairy women in porn mags 
Way to go my man!!!
You won't see any on here though. "
There are a few in here, and getting more popular I think so here's hoping |
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By *RR68BMan
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"Love totally natural, I started wanking in the 70's so grew up with naturally hairy women in porn mags
Way to go my man!!!
You won't see any on here though.
There are a few in here, and getting more popular I think so here's hoping "
Okay well last time I looked in pics I went through 10 pages and never saw any.
Now where did I put all those old Razzles...  |
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By *RR68BMan
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"I love seeing a woman with pubic hair. To me they're simply the natural state. In my mind there's just something overridingly feminine about seeing a woman with pubic hair. Beautiful  "
Ya got it!
Women, not gurlz |
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By *amplemeMan
over a year ago
Working here. |
"My hair is and will be staying natural. When i've posted pics that hint at the bush, i've had a LOT of positive comments. Pubic hair is seen as something of a treat these days by some men.
And those who don't like it? Well they don't have to look or meet me, so everyone is happy.
Your 4th Mar pic is gorgeous.. natural is so sexy.. x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious
We get these types of comments regularly, but if those types of people think we're dirty, smells, look discusting or just yucky, then we'd never want those in our private lifestyle anyway.
Agreed. I've seen "hair is for apes" . Shocking lack of acceptance."
I've always considered myself part ape!
I draw the line at slinging my own poop at people though... |
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"Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement.
Shaved or neatly trimmed from now on x"
Well I hope neither of your last two meets read the forums then ...  |
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"Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement.
Shaved or neatly trimmed from now on x
Well I hope neither of your last two meets read the forums then ... "
I honestly wouldn't care. Made it quite clear we wouldn't be meeting again . |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing"
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ..."
Exactly I am sure ladies and men who have a bush still shower and if they do not I think it would be obvious before you even got near the bush. |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ..."
jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future. |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
I wonder if they thought the same as they havnt verified you."
plenty on my old profile.
God people learn to read properly before jumping feet first.
Completely taken out of context again....
This is why this site is dieing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My hair is and will be staying natural. When i've posted pics that hint at the bush, i've had a LOT of positive comments. Pubic hair is seen as something of a treat these days by some men.
And those who don't like it? Well they don't have to look or meet me, so everyone is happy.
Your 4th Mar pic is gorgeous.. natural is so sexy.. x
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future. "
You said "Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement" and then followed that up by saying cleanliness costs nothing so it didn't take too much working out to guess the women you'd met were grubby.
By saying that from now on you're therefore only going to meet trimmed or shaved women, you *are* therefore implying that hair = dirt !!
Obviously you're entitled to meet whoever you want to but don't you see the way you've explained your preference suggests you think there's a higher risk of hairy women being unhygienic, and that simply isn't true. You were very unlucky but that's down to attitude and not hair ?! |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future.
You said "Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement" and then followed that up by saying cleanliness costs nothing so it didn't take too much working out to guess the women you'd met were grubby.
By saying that from now on you're therefore only going to meet trimmed or shaved women, you *are* therefore implying that hair = dirt !!
Obviously you're entitled to meet whoever you want to but don't you see the way you've explained your preference suggests you think there's a higher risk of hairy women being unhygienic, and that simply isn't true. You were very unlucky but that's down to attitude and not hair ?!"
my attitude is absolutely fine and yes I can see that it might look that way but you also have jumped to a conclusion pf your own as I definitely did not meen it the way you have just twisted it.
I'm so sorry I can't put in to writing exactly what I ment. I have suffered since a child with extremely bad dyslexia and one of my most frustrating down falls is not being able to put forward my exact meaning correctly.
Waw, honestly can't be bothered with this site as everyone just wants to pick holes in others posts.
I'll put it this way yes I will be going for trimmed or shaved as the last two (not all women) where unclean and yes that would probably put off the best of people, am I right?
Is that more to your liking mr and mrs fab police?
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future.
You said "Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement" and then followed that up by saying cleanliness costs nothing so it didn't take too much working out to guess the women you'd met were grubby.
By saying that from now on you're therefore only going to meet trimmed or shaved women, you *are* therefore implying that hair = dirt !!
Obviously you're entitled to meet whoever you want to but don't you see the way you've explained your preference suggests you think there's a higher risk of hairy women being unhygienic, and that simply isn't true. You were very unlucky but that's down to attitude and not hair ?! my attitude is absolutely fine and yes I can see that it might look that way but you also have jumped to a conclusion pf your own as I definitely did not meen it the way you have just twisted it.
I'm so sorry I can't put in to writing exactly what I ment. I have suffered since a child with extremely bad dyslexia and one of my most frustrating down falls is not being able to put forward my exact meaning correctly.
Waw, honestly can't be bothered with this site as everyone just wants to pick holes in others posts.
I'll put it this way yes I will be going for trimmed or shaved as the last two (not all women) where unclean and yes that would probably put off the best of people, am I right?
Is that more to your liking mr and mrs fab police?
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I was talking about the attitude - towards cleanliness - of your meets, not yours ... and maintain you were unlucky!!
And I have *not* twisted anything you said. I didn't need to, the implication's quite clear.
It's never my intention to pick holes in anyone's posts (though I'm often tempted, it would take all day ...) but I don't like to see any form of body shaming going on and, intentional or not, that's the effect your previous posts had unfortunately. When I have hair I'm absolutely fine with people passing me by because it's not their thing - visually or tactilely - but actually, it's pretty unpleasant to be rejected on the basis that some people would regard me as automatically unclean. I'm simply trying to dispel that misconception by having a sensible discussion about it and pointing out that poor hygiene can be found everywhere! Hair has nothing to do with it.
I'm not going to reply to you again on this thread because I really don't want an argument for argument's sake  |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future.
You said "Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement" and then followed that up by saying cleanliness costs nothing so it didn't take too much working out to guess the women you'd met were grubby.
By saying that from now on you're therefore only going to meet trimmed or shaved women, you *are* therefore implying that hair = dirt !!
Obviously you're entitled to meet whoever you want to but don't you see the way you've explained your preference suggests you think there's a higher risk of hairy women being unhygienic, and that simply isn't true. You were very unlucky but that's down to attitude and not hair ?! my attitude is absolutely fine and yes I can see that it might look that way but you also have jumped to a conclusion pf your own as I definitely did not meen it the way you have just twisted it.
I'm so sorry I can't put in to writing exactly what I ment. I have suffered since a child with extremely bad dyslexia and one of my most frustrating down falls is not being able to put forward my exact meaning correctly.
Waw, honestly can't be bothered with this site as everyone just wants to pick holes in others posts.
I'll put it this way yes I will be going for trimmed or shaved as the last two (not all women) where unclean and yes that would probably put off the best of people, am I right?
Is that more to your liking mr and mrs fab police?
I was talking about the attitude - towards cleanliness - of your meets, not yours ... and maintain you were unlucky!!
And I have *not* twisted anything you said. I didn't need to, the implication's quite clear.
It's never my intention to pick holes in anyone's posts (though I'm often tempted, it would take all day ...) but I don't like to see any form of body shaming going on and, intentional or not, that's the effect your previous posts had unfortunately. When I have hair I'm absolutely fine with people passing me by because it's not their thing - visually or tactilely - but actually, it's pretty unpleasant to be rejected on the basis that some people would regard me as automatically unclean. I'm simply trying to dispel that misconception by having a sensible discussion about it and pointing out that poor hygiene can be found everywhere! Hair has nothing to do with it.
I'm not going to reply to you again on this thread because I really don't want an argument for argument's sake "
good and if you look back I never said all hair women are unclean.
Sorry you misunderstood x |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
I wonder if they thought the same as they havnt verified you.plenty on my old profile.
God people learn to read properly before jumping feet first.
Completely taken out of context again....
This is why this site is dieing."
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future.
You said "Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement" and then followed that up by saying cleanliness costs nothing so it didn't take too much working out to guess the women you'd met were grubby.
By saying that from now on you're therefore only going to meet trimmed or shaved women, you *are* therefore implying that hair = dirt !!
Obviously you're entitled to meet whoever you want to but don't you see the way you've explained your preference suggests you think there's a higher risk of hairy women being unhygienic, and that simply isn't true. You were very unlucky but that's down to attitude and not hair ?! my attitude is absolutely fine and yes I can see that it might look that way but you also have jumped to a conclusion pf your own as I definitely did not meen it the way you have just twisted it.
I'm so sorry I can't put in to writing exactly what I ment. I have suffered since a child with extremely bad dyslexia and one of my most frustrating down falls is not being able to put forward my exact meaning correctly.
Waw, honestly can't be bothered with this site as everyone just wants to pick holes in others posts.
I'll put it this way yes I will be going for trimmed or shaved as the last two (not all women) where unclean and yes that would probably put off the best of people, am I right?
Is that more to your liking mr and mrs fab police?
I was talking about the attitude - towards cleanliness - of your meets, not yours ... and maintain you were unlucky!!
And I have *not* twisted anything you said. I didn't need to, the implication's quite clear.
It's never my intention to pick holes in anyone's posts (though I'm often tempted, it would take all day ...) but I don't like to see any form of body shaming going on and, intentional or not, that's the effect your previous posts had unfortunately. When I have hair I'm absolutely fine with people passing me by because it's not their thing - visually or tactilely - but actually, it's pretty unpleasant to be rejected on the basis that some people would regard me as automatically unclean. I'm simply trying to dispel that misconception by having a sensible discussion about it and pointing out that poor hygiene can be found everywhere! Hair has nothing to do with it.
I'm not going to reply to you again on this thread because I really don't want an argument for argument's sake "
You wouldn't care if it was a female saying what he said. Nice to get your angst put on men though. |
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future.
You said "Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement" and then followed that up by saying cleanliness costs nothing so it didn't take too much working out to guess the women you'd met were grubby.
By saying that from now on you're therefore only going to meet trimmed or shaved women, you *are* therefore implying that hair = dirt !!
Obviously you're entitled to meet whoever you want to but don't you see the way you've explained your preference suggests you think there's a higher risk of hairy women being unhygienic, and that simply isn't true. You were very unlucky but that's down to attitude and not hair ?! my attitude is absolutely fine and yes I can see that it might look that way but you also have jumped to a conclusion pf your own as I definitely did not meen it the way you have just twisted it.
I'm so sorry I can't put in to writing exactly what I ment. I have suffered since a child with extremely bad dyslexia and one of my most frustrating down falls is not being able to put forward my exact meaning correctly.
Waw, honestly can't be bothered with this site as everyone just wants to pick holes in others posts.
I'll put it this way yes I will be going for trimmed or shaved as the last two (not all women) where unclean and yes that would probably put off the best of people, am I right?
Is that more to your liking mr and mrs fab police?
I was talking about the attitude - towards cleanliness - of your meets, not yours ... and maintain you were unlucky!!
And I have *not* twisted anything you said. I didn't need to, the implication's quite clear.
It's never my intention to pick holes in anyone's posts (though I'm often tempted, it would take all day ...) but I don't like to see any form of body shaming going on and, intentional or not, that's the effect your previous posts had unfortunately. When I have hair I'm absolutely fine with people passing me by because it's not their thing - visually or tactilely - but actually, it's pretty unpleasant to be rejected on the basis that some people would regard me as automatically unclean. I'm simply trying to dispel that misconception by having a sensible discussion about it and pointing out that poor hygiene can be found everywhere! Hair has nothing to do with it.
I'm not going to reply to you again on this thread because I really don't want an argument for argument's sake
You wouldn't care if it was a female saying what he said. Nice to get your angst put on men though."
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"Cleanliness costs nothing
Agreed, but you're (more than) kind of implying that if you have hair you must be literally dirty ... which is exactly the sort of derogatory remark I was thinking of when I wrote upthread and quite obviously doesn't apply to all women with hair!
You could just as easily have had the misfortune to meet someone with poor personal hygiene who was completely smooth ... jumping the gun a bit there mate. Where did I say all women with pubic hair are dirty?
I only said after the last two meets I will be sticking to neatly trimmed or shaved thanks to two very unhygienic women.
You assumed wrong and then said I was without manners......
I prefer a nice bush as it goes but will be thinnking twice on whether I would go for another one in tbe near future.
You said "Didn't think I minded a nice bush until my last two meets, put off for life is an understatement" and then followed that up by saying cleanliness costs nothing so it didn't take too much working out to guess the women you'd met were grubby.
By saying that from now on you're therefore only going to meet trimmed or shaved women, you *are* therefore implying that hair = dirt !!
Obviously you're entitled to meet whoever you want to but don't you see the way you've explained your preference suggests you think there's a higher risk of hairy women being unhygienic, and that simply isn't true. You were very unlucky but that's down to attitude and not hair ?! my attitude is absolutely fine and yes I can see that it might look that way but you also have jumped to a conclusion pf your own as I definitely did not meen it the way you have just twisted it.
I'm so sorry I can't put in to writing exactly what I ment. I have suffered since a child with extremely bad dyslexia and one of my most frustrating down falls is not being able to put forward my exact meaning correctly.
Waw, honestly can't be bothered with this site as everyone just wants to pick holes in others posts.
I'll put it this way yes I will be going for trimmed or shaved as the last two (not all women) where unclean and yes that would probably put off the best of people, am I right?
Is that more to your liking mr and mrs fab police?
I was talking about the attitude - towards cleanliness - of your meets, not yours ... and maintain you were unlucky!!
And I have *not* twisted anything you said. I didn't need to, the implication's quite clear.
It's never my intention to pick holes in anyone's posts (though I'm often tempted, it would take all day ...) but I don't like to see any form of body shaming going on and, intentional or not, that's the effect your previous posts had unfortunately. When I have hair I'm absolutely fine with people passing me by because it's not their thing - visually or tactilely - but actually, it's pretty unpleasant to be rejected on the basis that some people would regard me as automatically unclean. I'm simply trying to dispel that misconception by having a sensible discussion about it and pointing out that poor hygiene can be found everywhere! Hair has nothing to do with it.
I'm not going to reply to you again on this thread because I really don't want an argument for argument's sake
You wouldn't care if it was a female saying what he said. Nice to get your angst put on men though."
My response would have been *exactly* the same if a female had said what he did actually. In fact, some of the body shaming remarks I can remember seeing on similar threads in the past did indeed come from women.
Unlike *some* people in this forum (and I happen to have a long memory for the repeated tone of many posters' past threads, no matter what their user name is now ... ) I see people as individuals and react to them on the basis of what they say, rather than their sex.
I have no axe to grind with men as a group whatsoever. I like men generally. Very much. I just don't like body shaming - or anything which can be perceived as such - whichever sex it comes from. |
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"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious
We get these types of comments regularly, but if those types of people think we're dirty, smells, look discusting or just yucky, then we'd never want those in our private lifestyle anyway.
Agreed. I've seen "hair is for apes" . Shocking lack of acceptance.
I've always considered myself part ape!
I draw the line at slinging my own poop at people though..."
I'm tempted on occasion  |
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"Love totally natural, I started wanking in the 70's so grew up with naturally hairy women in porn mags
Way to go my man!!!
You won't see any on here though. "
your obviously not looking very hard then, there are quite a few out there,
we are both natural and will always stay that way |
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"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious "
No need to be it looks very inviting 
Aj |
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"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious
No need to be it looks very inviting
Aj "
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"I'm natural at the moment - I'd actually ending up damaging my skin quite badly through trying to be perpetually smooth, and got to the point where I didn't want any more scars, horrible painful ingrown hairs etc. The attitude I'm trying to adopt right now is that I'll be smooth when *I* want to be, and not when it's *expected* of me.
However, I put a pic up last night and actually felt very exposed doing so, which is crazy when I'm not doing anything 'wrong' but I'm kind of struggling because of the negativity I've seen here (and sometimes experienced in the past) towards women with hair. Like, preferences are fine, but I've seen some really nasty remarks and therefore feel very self conscious "
absolutely nothing wrong with your bush, show it with pride as there are lots of people out there that enjoy hairy women,the trend is slowly commeing back we are seeing more women with trimmed and full bush most men like it but wont openly admit to it as they feel it may harm the chances of meeting the so called normal shaven brigade |
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