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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would love some advice on what people look for etc. I've met a couple of people, but the club side of things (Kestrels etc.) I am none the wiser! I feel like my Grandad with an IPhone. I would really like some guidance with how it all works. Many thanks! |
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Some differences between clubs but you have a mix of social and play areas generally. You can meet people in either but chatting - using your standard social skills - is a good first step.
Clubs have rules which must be followed.
Don't touch others without consent ever. Wait for invitations.
You will learn a lot from watching others there, you need no instructions if you are socially able. |
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"Well I gathered it wasn't a chess club haha, just wondered how you join or get invited"
Contact the club to join, ask for invitations. It's really not that difficult. |
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"But how do you find these clubs? Do you need to get invited?"
There's a club section on fab. Each club has a link to their websites. On their websites each club usually has membership information. As a single guy it's also imperative that you call the club and ask about their policies towards single guys... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But how do I find a club? Apologies for sounding thick and naive. I understand you saying contact your local club and that its not difficult, but how do I find my local club? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But how do I find a club? Apologies for sounding thick and naive. I understand you saying contact your local club and that its not difficult, but how do I find my local club?"
https://m.fabswingers.com/clubs
Go to your region of the country, click on the club names and they will have website information. Click on the various websites and look at the contact information. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it's a club in which people have sex... 
Thanks..im sure that's cleared it up for the OP  . . We're going to have to have words lol"
Even the abbreviation 'OP' has thrown me, what does that stand for? Lol. Original Poster? Old Pensioner? |
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"Even the abbreviation 'OP' has thrown me, what does that stand for? Lol. Original Poster? Old Pensioner?"
so you know how often I googled or tried in other ways to find out what all of this means? and yes, it is original poster. good luck with your clubs btw!  |
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"it's a club in which people have sex...
Thanks..im sure that's cleared it up for the OP . . We're going to have to have words lol"
did I not tell the truth? 
...what kind of words did you have in mind?... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Even the abbreviation 'OP' has thrown me, what does that stand for? Lol. Original Poster? Old Pensioner?
so you know how often I googled or tried in other ways to find out what all of this means? and yes, it is original poster. good luck with your clubs btw! "
Haha yea trying to google abbreviations is a nightmare, but thanks for confirming. Thanks! Just joined a bowls club, hopefully me and Deidre will hit it off |
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