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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.
She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.
What tips can we give her to feel included here? |
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"So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.
She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.
What tips can we give her to feel included here? "
Dunno... But if you find out maybe you'd let me know too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start. "
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others 
But yes being igno_ed is normalish |
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By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start. "
You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...
You just don't have to take it to heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.
She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.
What tips can we give her to feel included here? "
Come and join The late late nocturnal thread©™ when Jim runs it. It's a nice way to start interacting and know you will definitely have a response.
Also, don't be afraid to post and say it is your first time, or you are relatively new to posting within your comment - it's a flag to people and hopefully results in them being a bit more gentle.
Understand that you will frequently get missed in a thread due to the fact everyone often posts simultaneously (especially in threads where you are trying to comment on the person above) - it is 99,99999% of times not personal. Just keep trying.
Press reply+quote on someone's comment if you are specifically replying to the post they made on a thread - or it can be very confusing.
Above all, just give us all a try.
WELCOME! |
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"Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.
This place can be as nasty as it can be nice."
This.
I told Jayne to post a question she was curious about... she was a little put off by her experience of the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish "
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?  |
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By *kmanMan
over a year ago
Letterkenny |
Create her own thread
I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums
So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.
She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.
What tips can we give her to feel included here? "
Just be herself and chip in when she fancies it. It'll evolve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My approach was to post a lot of bobbins in the forums and join in. At first I was pretty much always igno_ed (even to the extent I'd say something in response to a thread and be totally igno_ed, then someone else would say exactly the same thing a bit later and everyone would pile in to say what a jolly good point they had!  ) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!
Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd say just go for it really.
Don't be twuntish or you'll get called out on it. Depending on what side I woke up on you will even if you're not. 
Nah, in all seriousness. Watcher, if you're reading this, the forums are a great place. I've met one of my best friends through this, been to a wedding and find more fantastic people to talk to frequently.
Oh and follow the forum rules and then you can't bitch about something been taken the wrong way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.
This place can be as nasty as it can be nice.
This.
I told Jayne to post a question she was curious about... she was a little put off by her experience of the forums. "
Why was she put off? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Create her own thread
I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums
So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it
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Thats a really good idea. Someone pushed me to start making my own threads and it really helps boost confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me? "
Nope not just you at all. All part of the wonder of the forum |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!
Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility "
What heap of shite  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What tips can we give her to feel included here?
Always hit reply+quote when you see me post and pretend it's funny, you'll go a long way "
what like that?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads."
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though  |
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By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...
You just don't have to take it to heart. "
See as I said! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though "
I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads."
Prolific spouters of shit that we are! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though
I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool. "
In your case I think thats true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads."
I used to like you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What tips can we give her to feel included here?
Always hit reply+quote when you see me post and pretend it's funny, you'll go a long way
what like that? "
Exactly like that
And bunnyhop too
See, if people accept a moron like me then I'm positive you'll be fine... mystery lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though "
*Always* PM me if you think I missed you, I would never want someone to think it was deliberate (unless it was and then if you PM, I'll explain and admit I was being a douche say sorry and then fangirl over you for ever more). I try and scrutinise if I missed anyone as that would be the *worst* feeling. I do think the delay it takes to reply to everyone can confuse people though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though
I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool. "
True story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though
I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.
In your case I think thats true! "
Oh I *want* you too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though
*Always* PM me if you think I missed you, I would never want someone to think it was deliberate (unless it was and then if you PM, I'll explain and admit I was being a douche say sorry and then fangirl over you for ever more). I try and scrutinise if I missed anyone as that would be the *worst* feeling. I do think the delay it takes to reply to everyone can confuse people though. "
Youre too sweet. You guys do an amazing job of including everyone. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though
I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.
In your case I think thats true!
Oh I *want* you too."
I know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
I used to like you "
Eat some carbs you mardy git. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
I used to like you "
Whaaaaaat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
I used to like you
Eat me you mardy git. "
Like a tramp on chips  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
I used to like you
Eat me you mardy git.
Like a tramp on chips "
I would, but then you made an insensitive joke about the homeless. |
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There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced
Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around "
I know! I've been trying to get Lib to reply to me for ages now!
There goes my chance of getting the Fab Lifetime Achievement Award  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"My approach was to post a lot of bobbins in the forums and join in. At first I was pretty much always igno_ed (even to the extent I'd say something in response to a thread and be totally igno_ed, then someone else would say exactly the same thing a bit later and everyone would pile in to say what a jolly good point they had! ) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!
Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility
This although I still get igno_ed even on my own threads "
I still rarely start my own threads. And still get igno_ed more than responded to but I doubt it's personal, just that there are other posters people want to interact with more. I just keep posting regardless; I am a stubborn sort. And I like having my tuppence worth even if only I know it's there, figuring if I can make myself laugh with a comment then that's one person happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lib's top tip #36
PMing Lib nudes is a great way to make friends.
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Are we allowed to actually message you? I say we, I mean may I? I've never done so! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around
*Bunnyhop quickly replies just to be sure!
You igno_ed me! Twice "
Hi Red!! *waves* |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced
Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt "
Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me? "
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around "
Always three times isn't it...
Drop dead F_ed
Beetlejuice
And now this, well I'm not risking it any more... they could be related, so before you've posted three times Ive nipped it in the bud |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
"Create her own thread
I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums
So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it
Thats a really good idea. Someone pushed me to start making my own threads and it really helps boost confidence. "
I've only managed this once and it was a self indulgent thread asking for songs to put on a Birthday playlist and I LOVE that playlist! But the music threads are where I feel happiest, mostly because I'm a music tart and harvest all the tracks 
I think you just have to jump in, the majority of threads are asking for opinions/thoughts and we all have them, so just share and don't worry too much about anyone responding or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire."
I, for one, got very distressed when you contemplated going. |
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"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around
^^Agree this is now my fourth so I am now out  "
Saved from my third time by someone else being igno_ed... Says it all really... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My approach was to post a lot of bobbins in the forums and join in. At first I was pretty much always igno_ed (even to the extent I'd say something in response to a thread and be totally igno_ed, then someone else would say exactly the same thing a bit later and everyone would pile in to say what a jolly good point they had! ) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!
Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility
This although I still get igno_ed even on my own threads
I still rarely start my own threads. And still get igno_ed more than responded to but I doubt it's personal, just that there are other posters people want to interact with more. I just keep posting regardless; I am a stubborn sort. And I like having my tuppence worth even if only I know it's there, figuring if I can make myself laugh with a comment then that's one person happy."
I like your posts and your style of writing. I think people often read and like how a poster writes but might not say so on a thread.
OP - your lady friend needs to just join in. Have a thick skin and be herself. And remember this isn't the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.
I, for one, got very distressed when you contemplated going. "
You my dear are one of the notable exceptions- I can only conclude you're mad as a box of frogs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.
I, for one, got very distressed when you contemplated going.
You my dear are one of the notable exceptions- I can only conclude you're mad as a box of frogs "
Ribbitt |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around
*Bunnyhop quickly replies just to be sure!
You igno_ed me! Twice "
I prefer innocently failed to notice I hadn't replied |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My approach was to post a lot of bobbins in the forums and join in. At first I was pretty much always igno_ed (even to the extent I'd say something in response to a thread and be totally igno_ed, then someone else would say exactly the same thing a bit later and everyone would pile in to say what a jolly good point they had! ) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!
Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility
This although I still get igno_ed even on my own threads
I still rarely start my own threads. And still get igno_ed more than responded to but I doubt it's personal, just that there are other posters people want to interact with more. I just keep posting regardless; I am a stubborn sort. And I like having my tuppence worth even if only I know it's there, figuring if I can make myself laugh with a comment then that's one person happy."
Im like this! I know its there thats all that matters |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced
Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt
Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month "
Also dont take it personally when your month ends |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced
Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt
Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month
Also dont take it personally when your month ends "
That's providing you had a month to begin with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire."
Just keep singing. I love it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around
Always three times isn't it...
Drop dead F_ed
Beetlejuice
And now this, well I'm not risking it any more... they could be related, so before you've posted three times Ive nipped it in the bud "
Candyman
Im still traumatised by the wasps in the toilet |
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"Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.
This place can be as nasty as it can be nice.
This.
I told Jayne to post a question she was curious about... she was a little put off by her experience of the forums.
Why was she put off? "
I don't think she expected people to be so.... unfriendly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Create her own thread
I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums
So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it
Thats a really good idea. Someone pushed me to start making my own threads and it really helps boost confidence.
I've only managed this once and it was a self indulgent thread asking for songs to put on a Birthday playlist and I LOVE that playlist! But the music threads are where I feel happiest, mostly because I'm a music tart and harvest all the tracks
I think you just have to jump in, the majority of threads are asking for opinions/thoughts and we all have them, so just share and don't worry too much about anyone responding or not "
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"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced
Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt
Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month
Also dont take it personally when your month ends
That's providing you had a month to begin with. "
With such a beautiful quim it's always your month. |
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads."
I like pleasing everyone |
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over a year ago
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"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around
^^Agree this is now my fourth so I am now out
Saved from my third time by someone else being igno_ed... Says it all really... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A get igno_ed aw the time fs, you don't see me making a song and dance or YouTube video about it! Lightbulbmomment* "
We ignore you on purpose though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.
Just keep singing. I love it "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
I like pleasing everyone "
Harlot. But you harlot well. |
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads."
Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced
Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt
Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month
Also dont take it personally when your month ends
That's providing you had a month to begin with. "
I think I did. Thank fuck thats done with! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.
Just keep singing. I love it
You too Bunnyhop can join Estella in the box of frogs "
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit! "
I try. Its bloody hard work though! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit! "
Yeah, you are actually! Did you air quote the latter part? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish "
I didn't realise you were such a risk taker! Naked ironing?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
Some people have fitted in much more easily than others
But yes being igno_ed is normalish
I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?
Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.
Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.
Just keep singing. I love it
You too Bunnyhop can join Estella in the box of frogs
Can I still be a bunny though? We both hop! "
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Have your say, don't worry about responses, it's just fun when you're bo_ed, most in here are friendly & fun, but some take it so seriously, but whatever is written in response are only words, let it slide.... |
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"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.
Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit!
Yeah, you are actually! Did you air quote the latter part? "
You know me so well! |
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over a year ago
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Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies... |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies
(I think that's where I went wrong! )"
I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.
Like this ^^^
Jokes |
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over a year ago
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"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies
(I think that's where I went wrong! )
I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.
Like this ^^^
Jokes"
Look at this tragedy as an example (its more toward the end)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies... "
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies
(I think that's where I went wrong! )
I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.
Like this ^^^
Jokes"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*"
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies
(I think that's where I went wrong! )
I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.
Like this ^^^
Jokes
Look at this tragedy as an example (its more toward the end) "
I don't think you understand my soh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*"
Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.
You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have your say, don't worry about responses, it's just fun when you're bo_ed, most in here are friendly & fun, but some take it so seriously, but whatever is written in response are only words, let it slide...."
I have slide away by oasis in my head now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies
(I think that's where I went wrong! )
I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.
Like this ^^^
Jokes
Look at this tragedy as an example (its more toward the end)
I don't think you understand my soh "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.
You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble... "
Oh my goodness. You can be my male-mistress (what do you call a male-mistress?!) |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also. "
Damn ladies! Y'all are making me blush!
Same goes for you too Bunny. You had me at furniture making...
Think I'm making things too easy for y'all... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been igno_ed is the surest sign you've been accepted. Right?
I was so close to ignoring you but I just couldn't "
So in some ways this worked, however in others, not so much |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also. "
Oh let's just have a threesome! |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.
You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble...
Oh my goodness. You can be my male-mistress (what do you call a male-mistress?!)"
Mr-ess? |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.
You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble...
Oh my goodness. You can be my male-mistress (what do you call a male-mistress?!)
Mr-ess? "
Under Duress? |
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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago
Alcester |
"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...
You just don't have to take it to heart. "
just join in, have fun.... post away.
Make friends, have a giggle with someone, and in my case, next time I look at their profile find they've blocked me , |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.
Oh let's just have a threesome! "
Please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.
That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.
You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...
You just don't have to take it to heart.
just join in, have fun.... post away.
Make friends, have a giggle with someone, and in my case, next time I look at their profile find they've blocked me , "
Come look at mine whenever you like x |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.
Oh let's just have a threesome! "
See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!
Told you people are lush here!
Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland... |
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over a year ago
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"I just made a hello thread for the new folk
Inclusive, or going after first pickings?
Forum, you decide!!
Inclusive.
Yes, dear.
I have enough in my basket already "
Hahaha you and your burdensome basket. |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.
Oh let's just have a threesome!
See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!
Told you people are lush here!
Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland... "
ROADTRIP! |
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"I just made a hello thread for the new folk
Inclusive, or going after first pickings?
Forum, you decide!!
Inclusive.
Yes, dear.
I have enough in my basket already
Hahaha you and your burdensome basket. "
Worse than a shopping trolley with a gippy wheel |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.
Oh let's just have a threesome!
See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!
Told you people are lush here!
Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland... "
I'll watch and give you Strictly-style reviews at the end. |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.
Oh let's just have a threesome!
See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!
Told you people are lush here!
Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...
I'll watch and give you Strictly-style reviews at the end. "
Surely we'd get a Phwoooaaaaarty! |
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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago
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just join in, have fun.... post away.
Make friends, have a giggle with someone, and in my case, next time I look at their profile find they've blocked me ,
Come look at mine whenever you like x"
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Thank you x |
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over a year ago
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I was a watcher for ages before I started to post anything. I'm a little shy and don't have much confidence. I started with an introduction thread because I felt rude just joining in without saying hello first. I was feeling brave that day. Now I can't shut up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was a watcher for ages before I started to post anything. I'm a little shy and don't have much confidence. I started with an introduction thread because I felt rude just joining in without saying hello first. I was feeling brave that day. Now I can't shut up. "
I should start reading introduction threads more often |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"I was a watcher for ages before I started to post anything. I'm a little shy and don't have much confidence. I started with an introduction thread because I felt rude just joining in without saying hello first. I was feeling brave that day. Now I can't shut up. "
I was like this too, read the forums for ages before actually posting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.
Oh let's just have a threesome!
See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!
Told you people are lush here!
Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...
I'll watch and give you Strictly-style reviews at the end.
Surely we'd get a Phwoooaaaaarty! "
For that pun you do! |
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over a year ago
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"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)
Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!
I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...
*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*
Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.
Oh let's just have a threesome!
See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!
Told you people are lush here!
Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...
ROADTRIP!"
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over a year ago
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"I was a watcher for ages before I started to post anything. I'm a little shy and don't have much confidence. I started with an introduction thread because I felt rude just joining in without saying hello first. I was feeling brave that day. Now I can't shut up. "
We're glad you did x |
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over a year ago
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"I was a watcher for ages before I started to post anything. I'm a little shy and don't have much confidence. I started with an introduction thread because I felt rude just joining in without saying hello first. I was feeling brave that day. Now I can't shut up.
We're glad you did x"
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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did she join in?
tell her not to be sca_ed of all the men who fawn over her while she's a novelty, it'll soon pass when they feel rejected.
and don't post in opinion topics or debatable ones coz these won't produce much chat as everyone just posts their opinion or disagrees with yours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just dive in and comment. What's the worst that can happen?
And after she's igno_ed her 10th girth Vs length thread she'll officially be a forumite. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"did she join in?
tell her not to be sca_ed of all the men who fawn over her while she's a novelty, it'll soon pass when they feel rejected.
and don't post in opinion topics or debatable ones coz these won't produce much chat as everyone just posts their opinion or disagrees with yours."
She did yeah. Im sure she'll get more confident and pop up more often now |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"did she join in?
tell her not to be sca_ed of all the men who fawn over her while she's a novelty, it'll soon pass when they feel rejected.
and don't post in opinion topics or debatable ones coz these won't produce much chat as everyone just posts their opinion or disagrees with yours.
She did yeah. Im sure she'll get more confident and pop up more often now "
cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've read through the whole thread and agreed with every post. Can't quote + reply every single one though and if I pm everyone they will think I'm insane.
Join in. People will like you or they won't.
If there was a 'like' button for posts I think people would be surprised that actually they *are* noticed. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I just do my own thing and it works for me. Sometimes people respond to my comments and sometimes not. I don't ever take it personally and I just continue in my own happy little way I've chatted to some lovely people by joining in and every day something or someone makes me laugh, so I would say just try it and see |
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