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Condoms and my daugthers
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I told R today that I've brought some condoms n they are in the medicine box should she need some. N she was like "yea cool mum". H comes in n sayes "watyatalkinabut" to which rose say "you don't need em your gaaaaayyyy!"
Good job my girls love each other or that could of spelt war.
What are your kids sayin that's made you  recently?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"had to giggle that you tried to sensor your daughters name by using an initial.. then said it anyways :D "
Hahaha well spotted. They know I'm on here anyway. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr."
Yea I was surprised that at their school during sex ed classes they only gave condoms to the boys not the girls as well. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My son got a verbal warning at school for saying "That's what she said" when a teacher said "whoa that is huge" to a font a student had used."
Hahaha brilliant. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr."
my daughter is no way near that age,, i dont think id be too thrilled either, but ultimately im glad that she would be looked out for by the school if for whatever reason she couldnt ask me for help..
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr."
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr."
Yeah I agree! It means nothing being a parent to a young teenager at time's,you're pushed to one side and not entitled to know nothing. |
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal"
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's!"
they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you" "
I agree with this. I'm lucky with my girls cos we talk about anything. But if I didn't they would need someone to trust. XXX |
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you" "
Well I don't agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you"
I agree with this. I'm lucky with my girls cos we talk about anything. But if I didn't they would need someone to trust. XXX "
yeah mine talk to me... but i know there are other places they can. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you"
I agree with this. I'm lucky with my girls cos we talk about anything. But if I didn't they would need someone to trust. XXX yeah mine talk to me... but i know there are other places they can. "
I had no one to talk to at their age. So I made sure the girls would be relaxed around me. Xxx |
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you"
Well I don't agree "
I'm not saying I should be told when my daughter goes to them,I just don't believe schools should be dishing them out. My daughter is open with me and did start contraception which I drum into her,I just want some kind of control over what other adults think is appropriate in my children's life's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fantastic you've accepted they'll potentially become intimate with a current or future partner and have made provision.
Some would struggle to be so matter of fact and practical though.. delegating sexual education or safe sex etiquette to their peers in the playground or a brief sexual education module in their biology class..
Can understand both approaches , in the end it's only important the information reaches them before entering into a physical relationship with a bf or partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you"
Well I don't agree
I'm not saying I should be told when my daughter goes to them,I just don't believe schools should be dishing them out. My daughter is open with me and did start contraception which I drum into her,I just want some kind of control over what other adults think is appropriate in my children's life's. "
afraid I have at times been the person dishing them out. Ive also had friends of my children come to me for advise/help and yes ive given them condoms.
In the case of 1.. Id repeatedly had her ask to be dropped off as needed testing and morning after pill... when i asked her why she didn't use condoms her reply was she was to embarrassed to ( id already told her that maybe having sex wasnt the answer.. and suggested she open up to her mum ) |
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"Good for you taking the time to provide for them.
Pissed me off to find out how much schools can give our girls behind a parents back tho...grrrr.
Would you rather the schools were providing access to abortions and sti tests?
Cal
No,but I would at least like the school to inform me they're dishing out condoms to young teenager's! they cant and nor do I think the should tell parents... or the trust would be lost.
First thing many youngsters ask when coming in for advice is " you won't tell anyone will you"
Well I don't agree
I'm not saying I should be told when my daughter goes to them,I just don't believe schools should be dishing them out. My daughter is open with me and did start contraception which I drum into her,I just want some kind of control over what other adults think is appropriate in my children's life's. afraid I have at times been the person dishing them out. Ive also had friends of my children come to me for advise/help and yes ive given them condoms.
In the case of 1.. Id repeatedly had her ask to be dropped off as needed testing and morning after pill... when i asked her why she didn't use condoms her reply was she was to embarrassed to ( id already told her that maybe having sex wasnt the answer.. and suggested she open up to her mum )"
Kinda crazy isn't it that they think they're mature enough to have sex,but not mature enough to handle it properly and get themselves protected. Parents play a big role in being open with their children. |
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Well I don't agree
I'm not saying I should be told when my daughter goes to them,I just don't believe schools should be dishing them out."
It's not something that the schools actually have any choice over, it is mandated by government...
What will probably upset you even more is that schools must (if requested) facilitate access to doctors for sexual health checks & pregnancy tests... without telling the parents. Most often, this happens within school time, so that the parents don't need to know.
Cal |
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Well I don't agree
I'm not saying I should be told when my daughter goes to them,I just don't believe schools should be dishing them out.
It's not something that the schools actually have any choice over, it is mandated by government...
What will probably upset you even more is that schools must (if requested) facilitate access to doctors for sexual health checks & pregnancy tests... without telling the parents. Most often, this happens within school time, so that the parents don't need to know.
Cal"
Yeah pisses me off big style I've already taken my daughter to a sexual health clinic,I don't need another adult doing my job as a parent for me! |
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Well I don't agree
I'm not saying I should be told when my daughter goes to them,I just don't believe schools should be dishing them out.
It's not something that the schools actually have any choice over, it is mandated by government...
What will probably upset you even more is that schools must (if requested) facilitate access to doctors for sexual health checks & pregnancy tests... without telling the parents. Most often, this happens within school time, so that the parents don't need to know.
Cal
Yeah pisses me off big style I've already taken my daughter to a sexual health clinic,I don't need another adult doing my job as a parent for me!"
It's more about protecting the children... you are obviously a caring and sensible parent who has the right communication with their offspring. Unfortunately there are many "parents" who are less understandable... and potentially telling these parents would be putting the children at risk.
Schools also have to try to do these things without singling out individuals.
Cal |
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Well I don't agree
I'm not saying I should be told when my daughter goes to them,I just don't believe schools should be dishing them out.
It's not something that the schools actually have any choice over, it is mandated by government...
What will probably upset you even more is that schools must (if requested) facilitate access to doctors for sexual health checks & pregnancy tests... without telling the parents. Most often, this happens within school time, so that the parents don't need to know.
Cal
Yeah pisses me off big style I've already taken my daughter to a sexual health clinic,I don't need another adult doing my job as a parent for me!
It's more about protecting the children... you are obviously a caring and sensible parent who has the right communication with their offspring. Unfortunately there are many "parents" who are less understandable... and potentially telling these parents would be putting the children at risk.
Schools also have to try to do these things without singling out individuals.
Cal"
Yeah it just angers me at time's how other adults in so called authority can think they can do a better job to my children that I can,but I understand what you're saying  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
In some areas young people can get a card to take to the pharmacy to get free condoms. It saves them the embarrassment of their parents noticing if they've taken anything from the well-meaning condom drawer.
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