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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
Hope you are all well.
Just wondering for some hints and tips from all, in to what the best way to send a message is...
I usually go with the how are you part and ask what their type is if it doesnt state on profile, or normally pick something out from their bio and roll with that. But few times i just get a delete. I understand im not everyones cup of tea, but just after abit of advice from the wise  |
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Hopefully you'll get lots of good replies to your question. But in the meantime, imagine you opened your In Box on here and it you had 40 messages! And the same the next day. And the next day. You'd never have time to reply and you'd simply delete numerous messages - as happens to all of us. Anyway, a compliment is always a good place to start, but nothing crude... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hopefully you'll get lots of good replies to your question. But in the meantime, imagine you opened your In Box on here and it you had 40 messages! And the same the next day. And the next day. You'd never have time to reply and you'd simply delete numerous messages - as happens to all of us. Anyway, a compliment is always a good place to start, but nothing crude... "
Totally understand the overwhelming response females and couples get (tad jealous haha)... Suppose its just persistence, and if its meant to be its meant to be as they say...
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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago
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Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something original that dont sound the same as the rest.
Your profile pic aint very original either loads look the same as that too"
Profile pic is from the truth and dare thread going on in the forums... My profile pic is normally a face pic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice."
Has that worked for you? Haha |
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"Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice."
If they get cross when you call them 'trout face', reply with "for cods sake it was a joke!" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey there sugartits, what's occurring?
Works better than "hi" anyway.
Make it personal. Make it short. Make it lighthearted.
Good luck "
Believe me, ive tried all sorts... X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice."
60% of the time, it works every time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't stand there saying hello with your cock hanging out for a start 
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Oh i dunno....is that a torch in your hand or are you just pleased to see me...works wonders as an ice breaker |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"don't stand there saying hello with your cock hanging out for a start
Oh i dunno....is that a torch in your hand or are you just pleased to see me...works wonders as an ice breaker"
Dont think it would go down well with a female haha x |
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Starting one is easy, If they like your pictures/profile in most cases they will reply, Its keeping the messages flowing long enough that you both enjoy sending them or to arrange a social/meet that's the hard bit,
I will stop sending messages once it starts getting into dead ended replies,
Yes, No, Smiley face, Thanks etc |
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