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How long have you been single for?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Quite literally just had the revelation that ive been 6 years single, surely I can't be the only one.... so what's the longest time you had been? Or are you like myself just plodding along then BAM it's hits you...... hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

pretty much my entire adult life.. never had anything that lasted more than a few months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single since July. Single single for three years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 yrs 24th April to be precise.

Useless at finding the right one so I've given up.

Was married for 14 yrs and had 3 children

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7 years. Had a one year relationship in that time... Came to nothing...

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By *4gnumprMan over a year ago

telford

15 months seperated

officially still married,although ive had no contact with ex

much to my relief

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always wonder why people ask this question and how they interpret the answer. I doubt there are many on here who have been single as long as me, and feel that when I tell people they reel in horror and judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 days !! Lol

Was long time coming tho - we went on holiday as friends and formally ended the relationship on Sunday and let friends and family now. That was 3.5 years spent together x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 years!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Single since 1997. Was in a relationship from 1991 till 1997.

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

I've been separated since March 2015, so just over 2 years and I'm in the midst of a divorce.

I'm still very much enjoying it being just me and the kids, I did date a little after the separation, but it all seemed like rather hard work for something that was supposed to be fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had been single for many years till I met my sexy man through fab... 16 months and still long strong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been single for 5 months since I got dumped last Christmas but I have been feeling better since then and made some great friends on here which I'm glad as they helped me regain my confidence and be happy again as a single man

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Blimey! How I wish I was closer to some of you gorgeous ladies!

What are the things that you miss from your realationships?

For me it was the companionship, connecting, friendship. having someone there for you not because they have to be because they wanted to be it was nice

However single life has its perks lol

I think I've just woke up in the soppy side this morning

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

Been single since 2007 after a brief marriage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been single (properly) for nearly 3 weeks. We weren't really together for the pastime year though, just pretending things were ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

17 years.

Thank god for fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Here here!! I'll drink to that!!

"Raises his glass of orange juice!!

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

My whole life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For-ever

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's about 6 year's now and can't see it ever changing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too long. Every day makes it longer

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"It's about 6 year's now and can't see it ever changing

Same and same

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman over a year ago

Somewhere

"Quite literally just had the revelation that ive been 6 years single, surely I can't be the only one.... so what's the longest time you had been? Or are you like myself just plodding along then BAM it's hits you...... hehe"

You are not the only one . I have been single 6 years and not even dated .

Well never had BAM but would be nice to check it out what that is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think its been 10 years for me now....god that's a not depressing, what's wrong with me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was married for almost 25 years, most of it good, I don't regret getting married. Marriage was the best thing that happened to me when I was younger, a man who gave me stability and love. It just didn't work out in the end.

Been single 10 years now, single is what is right for me now. Have no desire to be a couple again, can't say I miss anything about being married. Very happy bunny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 years. Was busy raising a baby and a then 2 year old.

They're 7 and 5 now so open to the possibility of dating. Maybe.

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By *ild-1Woman over a year ago

york

Single 8 years by choice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1 year

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You are not the only one . I have been single 6 years and not even dated .

Well never had BAM but would be nice to check it out what that is

A BAM isn't easy to explain!! Psychical demonstrations are much easier!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

My decree absolute came through in Feb 1987.

Single since then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been single just over a year.....and loving it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The right amount of time for whatever is next

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"My whole life."

I don't really count a couple of brief relationships in my school days so it's the same for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

18 blissful months

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

About 18 months for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since September, been enjoying Fab since though

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By *oby le roneMan over a year ago

Treorchy

5 years for me

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

single for just over 1 year now after a 9 year relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well ladies the question is....are you enjoying yourselves?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its been five long years. Far too long. But to be fair i havent been ready for a relationship until recently.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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nearly 3 years, if i don't count the couple of guys i was dating that didn't work out. and i'm not counting anyone who said they wanted a relationship and was talking shit, been several of those too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it will be 4 years this year.

Not all that bothered, but sometimes it would be nice to get a hug.

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By *he ODBMan over a year ago

glasgow

Knocking on 4 years now by choice not counting some extended fwbs . I'll look at settling again in a few more years when my daughters a little bit older. I do miss aspects of being attached but till then I'll endure.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

about 6 years .. im quite happy with it tbh .. being with someone would be hard work for me now .. and being a bit of a loner im quite happy as things are ..

would much sooner be single than bein a relationship with the wrong person ..which when looking backover my relationships .. they all were really . yes wd be nice to find a soulmate but ive given up on it ..not sure what woman would want a tranny as a boyfriend anyway ..not many !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well ladies the question is....are you enjoying yourselves?

Certainly am, although I get the odd day where I have really miss cuddles x

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By *rimo4uMan over a year ago

north kensington w10

"pretty much my entire adult life.. never had anything that lasted more than a few months."

Yep me to a month or so only. Will be 40 yrs old soon so i hope life begins lol.. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok this is going to sound it a bit bad but I actually made this account the day I split from my ex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Almost 2 years

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Coming up for 4 yrs now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 9 months but Im kinda enjoying it. Im living alone for the first time in my adult life and its pretty cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well ladies the question is....are you enjoying yourselves?

Certainly am, although I get the odd day where I have really miss cuddles x"

Your preaching to the choir here!!

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By *annooWoman over a year ago

Hastings

I have been single 34 years, YES thats my entire life. i have never had a boyfriend, guys tend to say that they wanna date me but they dont coz when it comes to it, they've moved on to someone who will be more"physical"

i had a fuck buddy for 2 and half years (yeaers ago) and to everyone else we looked like a couple hung out weekly went on holiday together went on adventures together but he didnt want to be in a relationship and i didnt know how i felt.

so in terms of dateing and being with someone i have never had a bf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 years july through choice whilst raising my 2 kids maybe time to change that now they are a bit older

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just over 8 years and forever all going to plan

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok this is going to sound it a bit bad but I actually made this account the day I split from my ex.

Best way to get over someone....

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By *omesWoman over a year ago

Surrey

Around 5 years.... And i have so much more fun now than I ever had

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By *irtydanMan over a year ago

Blackpool

about five years

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Coming up on 2 years now... Day after my birthday... By text... Yeaaaah... He was a real prince...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been single all my life and I like my own company. I spend most of my time in the gym, so dont really have time for another one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nearly a year

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

I've been single almost five years now! Occasionally I wish I was in a loving relationship - but most of the time I'm pretty happy to be fair! Xx

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By *im_66Woman over a year ago

Bradford

"Single since July. Single single for three years"

This

Divorced several years single on and off since then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"pretty much my entire adult life.. never had anything that lasted more than a few months."

That's one hell of shagging session. I barely make it past loosening my belt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been about a year now. Don't know why I was in a relationship for 9 years it's so much easier and fun being single.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 weeks or so but before that it was 4.5 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coming up two years. Time flys!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single 9 years, nothing since then has lasted more than a couple of months.

I have zero desire for any kind of cohabiting / serious relationship tho.

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By *londieddWoman over a year ago

fife

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 Years Men give me trust issues lol they all cheat and lie even on here but still say oh we not all like that ... only 98% of you are other 2 % have been taken lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7 years. I'll happily do another 7 too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sad times x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

A long time .... I get really lonely sometimes ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stunning women on here still single .. maybe their choice. For me its been 4.5years

Dated a few and have had fwb/fb during that time but its not the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

10 years. The ex had an affair so I raised the kids. They are both grown up now and I enjoy being single. Never say never though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was single for most of my twenties so nearly ten years.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Single - separated 13yrs: singke divirced since November 16. On here with my fwb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

single 4 years sadly

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

9 years, had a couple of short relationships but nothing serious....but who knows what is around the corner when ypu are nor looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sad times x"

Not always

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've been single (really single, no brief relationships etc) for 11 years and 3 months. I am very happy with my life: I have my daughter for snuggles, Fab and FBs for sex, and work and friends for socialising.

I do miss it from time to time but every bloke I've been with has ended up a nightmare so I feel safer alone.

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Almost 7 years. Teenage/twenties me would have found the idea of being single appalling, but I have to say I really, really love my lifestyle!

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By *laymates7Woman over a year ago

Isle of Wight

Just over a year, miss nothing about being in a relationship but occasionally I miss snuggling up at night, but not often enough to want another relationship. Much happier on my own.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"I've been single (really single, no brief relationships etc) for 11 years and 3 months. I am very happy with my life: I have my daughter for snuggles, Fab and FBs for sex, and work and friends for socialising.

I do miss it from time to time but every bloke I've been with has ended up a nightmare so I feel safer alone."

Amen to all that Hun!

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By *dy-ukTV/TS over a year ago

Alcester

15 years at least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single/seperated since January last year after a 33 year marriage.

Finding it very hard still even though it was me who left him.. he gave me no choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over 9 years now....i don't think I could see myself in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 years now. Much happier single than I was in an unhappy marriage.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"My whole life."

With those socks surely not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been separated since March 2015, so just over 2 years and I'm in the midst of a divorce.

I'm still very much enjoying it being just me and the kids, I did date a little after the separation, but it all seemed like rather hard work for something that was supposed to be fun?"

Sorry to hear that but all thing happen for a reason I guess. Always look on the bright side of life. De dum

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Coming up 8 years lol. Love my independence and own space just need the right man whose life works well alongside mine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 months so I'm still getting used to being single again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single 7months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my entire life never had a girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just over 2 years. Still got a good friendship with my ex. And we work hard at being a good mum and dad.

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By *eeky goodnessMan over a year ago

Worcester

In 10 days it will be 2 years

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By *hirazxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

14 months now. I don't think I will ever get into another serious relationship ever. In the vanilla world or the swinging world. I have way to much fun being a unicorn x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Over 5years now x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

17 long happy years

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By *hips n FursMan over a year ago

Huddersfield

Not long enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"8 years! "

Seriously ???? WTF lol

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

Single since my engagement ended 8 weeks before my wedding in 1992.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Single since my engagement ended 8 weeks before my wedding in 1992."

Shit !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 3 weeks in the last 31 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"3 days !! Lol

Was long time coming tho - we went on holiday as friends and formally ended the relationship on Sunday and let friends and family now. That was 3.5 years spent together x

"
hope your getting the hang of single life now then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 years !

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

About 2 and half years

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

About 4 years or so. Was previously married for 10.

I keep making attempts to rectify this, but nothing seems to come of them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I was chatting to a young man at a pub gig a couple of weeks ago and when I found out his age I realised I have been single his entire life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 months

before that been divorced 3 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"About 9 months but Im kinda enjoying it. Im living alone for the first time in my adult life and its pretty cool. "

Me too I love living alone. Was married in 1997 and separated in 2015. I love not having to share my bed or be woken by the other half snoring . This site satisfies my needs just fine

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Nearly 9 years officially. I'd love to find my happy ever after but I doubt I will. Mainly because as much as I want it I'm also pretty terrified to let anyone into my world that much.

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By *ammy-leeWoman over a year ago

Swansea

On and off for 6 years

No decent guys around so probably will be staying single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nearly 9 years officially. I'd love to find my happy ever after but I doubt I will. Mainly because as much as I want it I'm also pretty terrified to let anyone into my world that much. "

Superwoman I hope you find your superman.....

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman over a year ago

Oswestry

Six and a half years now The time has flown so I must be having fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I officially stopped being single last weekend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 years, had a couple of short relationships but nothing serious....but who knows what is around the corner when ypu are nor looking

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

8 years a singly. Much better than the 24 years before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 years single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just over 5 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

18 months

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Almost a year, can't even get a date these days

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By *owdyboy 890Man over a year ago

Country West

Ever since my ex and me fell out xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

47 years do do in love ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"8 years! "

8 years too, do we get a free cat at ten years ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

15 month after 33 years with someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you bothered about being single op? It sounds like you are?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been single for best part of a year since my ex cheated on me for 10 months and considerin we were to together nearly 4 years, we never had vaginal sex. Did anal once and that was it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nearly 2 half yrs now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been single for best part of a year since my ex cheated on me for 10 months and considerin we were to together nearly 4 years, we never had vaginal sex. Did anal once and that was it"

Did you not post about 3 months ago you were going to take the virginity of your ex and wanted advice on the matter?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been single for best part of a year since my ex cheated on me for 10 months and considerin we were to together nearly 4 years, we never had vaginal sex. Did anal once and that was it

Did you not post about 3 months ago you were going to take the virginity of your ex and wanted advice on the matter? "

My thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 years now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nearly 2 years and I

it.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of all those who have been single for more than 2 years , is that your choice?

For me its not my choice but I do not want to be in a normal monogomous relationship. A swinging relationship would probably suit me which is why I stay on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 5 years! Today would be my 8th wedding anniversary. Never been happier than I am currently

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By *rey NomadMan over a year ago

Calne

18 months for me, longest ever..

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Just under a year and half. Financially tougher but emotionally easier.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had been single for many years till I met my sexy man through fab... 16 months and still long strong.

"
' long strong'?

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ive been Single for ever.....

And I meen that literally

Just can't find anyone hoos intreated.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Ive been Single for ever.....

And I meen that literally

Just can't find anyone hoos intreated."

P.S I'm 29 so I've been single for 29 years

Do I win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I win 47 years

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

About 4year's since we started swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nope.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Since the main ex it's nearly 6 years

I did see someone for 18 months but it wasn't going anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 and a half years! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my life

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

Getting on for 7 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 years 765 days and 7 minutes

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm actually over 10 years! I would love to meet someone that gives me butterflies and look forward to meeting as it has been so long, even little gestures from here would be a appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm actually over 10 years! I would love to meet someone that gives me butterflies and look forward to meeting as it has been so long, even little gestures from here would be a appreciated x"
let me have a go at giving you butterflies ........damn where's my net

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

Some will find this sad others will think its made up. In my mind ive been single over 20 yrs. Ive had partners but wont let them too close.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm actually over 10 years! I would love to meet someone that gives me butterflies and look forward to meeting as it has been so long, even little gestures from here would be a appreciated xlet me have a go at giving you butterflies ........damn where's my net "

Even just a little gesture would do me

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Not since I met hubby when I was 17 ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a couple 6mth things, but something more serious... 7yrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm actually over 10 years! I would love to meet someone that gives me butterflies and look forward to meeting as it has been so long, even little gestures from here would be a appreciated xlet me have a go at giving you butterflies ........damn where's my net

Even just a little gesture would do me

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hey I'm pretty sure I could give you butterflies x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over 5 years x

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By *ango0505Woman over a year ago

Dumfries

Eleven years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nearly 3 years now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nearly six months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eleven years

Wow..... how come?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Longer than I care to remember.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

about 8 yrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

15 months myself

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Almost 3 years. Dated old people in between but none transpired into anything serious

I recently got offered a relationship with a regular FWB I was remoteness til he stated he wanted exclusive manogamy so I turned him Down

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By *ewrocksWoman over a year ago

button moon

Nearly a yr. Prefer being on my own.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

9 years single, never married.. is there such a thing as the one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Three years. After a 20 years marriage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 years, had a brief fling last summer

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By *Ollyinone.Man over a year ago

West Mids

Over a year now. Loving it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Over a year now. Loving it "

Well said. Over 2 and still living the dream

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always wonder why people ask this question and how they interpret the answer. I doubt there are many on here who have been single as long as me, and feel that when I tell people they reel in horror and judgement."

Admiration and respect from me.

I'm single 18 months and realise that's the way it'll stay. Out of choice. Nevertheless it's still hard. So yeah, I feel being single deserves respect rather than judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 years single, never married.. is there such a thing as the one!

Maybe not 'the one', but I hope there's someone.

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