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"I am sooo ready for that. " Wheeeeeeee - whoooooo!! I now really want to go to a fairground and have a ride on a rollercoaster!  | |||
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"I am sooo ready for that. Wheeeeeeee - whoooooo!! I now really want to go to a fairground and have a ride on a rollercoaster! "Hold my hand, please; I'm a roller coaster baby. | |||
"I wouldnt say I was looking for it but if it came along im ready to jump on board. I do love being in love "Hop on, Bunny - I'm going to ride you and you're going to love it | |||
"I am sooo ready for that. Wheeeeeeee - whoooooo!! I now really want to go to a fairground and have a ride on a rollercoaster!
Hold my hand, please; I'm a roller coaster baby. "Yeah! | |||
"I am sooo ready for that. Wheeeeeeee - whoooooo!! I now really want to go to a fairground and have a ride on a rollercoaster!
Hold my hand, please; I'm a roller coaster baby. "Ive got RHCP's love rollercoaster going round in my head now! | |||
So, whether I have that constant connection or that fluttering giddiness, I'm pretty fucking happy. | |||
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"I wouldnt say I was looking for it but if it came along im ready to jump on board. I do love being in love
Hop on, Bunny - I'm going to ride you and you're going to love it " | |||
"I am sooo ready for that. Wheeeeeeee - whoooooo!! I now really want to go to a fairground and have a ride on a rollercoaster!
Hold my hand, please; I'm a roller coaster baby.
Ive got RHCP's love rollercoaster going round in my head now! "*insert head joke here* | |||
"dopamine creates intense energy, exhilaration, focused attention, and motivation to win rewards. " Yeah soo does a Mars Bar and it costs 90p.  | |||
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"I still get that giddy feeling about Marc. Not all the time, though. When we first dated I got butterflies whenever we had a date, or whenever there was a serious change in our relationship. But now, I feel like it's more of a connection constantly in the background - not quite as sharp and fleeting. But then he'll leave for a while for work and I'll miss him like crazy and then when I get to see him again it's that same giddiness I felt when I was 19.
So, whether I have that constant connection or that fluttering giddiness, I'm pretty fucking happy."I fucking love this. I'm in the mood for love and being teenage giddy. I want to woo and court and be sick with all the butterflies! Bring it. Love the description of the constant connection in the background (that makes me think of electricity powering things invisibly, perhaps a slight humming noise, but the lights are all lit as a result). Thanks C, that's made me beam.  | |||
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"Maybe I'm jaded and have been burned too many times but what constitutes 'love' in so many people's eyes is totally different to what it means for others. The rush you describe is usually lust for me. The butterflies, the thrill of a touch. I don't think I'd trust myself to fall in love again. Been hurt too often. But if you get it yourself, wonderful. Maybe some of us just aren't that lucky "You are perfect as you are, the sum of your experiences thus far and the hopes and surprises yet to come. Yes, I am particularly looking at the initial feeling in this thread and the kind of teenage whizzing, whooshing, lightheaded bubble! But interested to hear from those where that's changed. It can be hard to imagine what next when you're recovering, or have recovered from but still haunted by the experience of it not working. Let's go with a safer feeling of giddy lust in that case. May you have quantities of G-lust. | |||
"dopamine creates intense energy, exhilaration, focused attention, and motivation to win rewards. Yeah soo does a Mars Bar and it costs 90p. "When are you changing your name back to Grumpy?!
*goes out to buy a Mars Bar and ride a rollercoaster* | |||
"dopamine creates intense energy, exhilaration, focused attention, and motivation to win rewards. Yeah soo does a Mars Bar and it costs 90p.
When are you changing your name back to Grumpy?!
*goes out to buy a Mars Bar and ride a rollercoaster* "Bugger, it was Greedy not Grumpy wasn't it?! Ah well. I'll buy a Mars Bar. | |||
"Maybe I'm jaded and have been burned too many times but what constitutes 'love' in so many people's eyes is totally different to what it means for others. The rush you describe is usually lust for me. The butterflies, the thrill of a touch. I don't think I'd trust myself to fall in love again. Been hurt too often. But if you get it yourself, wonderful. Maybe some of us just aren't that lucky
You are perfect as you are, the sum of your experiences thus far and the hopes and surprises yet to come. Yes, I am particularly looking at the initial feeling in this thread and the kind of teenage whizzing, whooshing, lightheaded bubble! But interested to hear from those where that's changed. It can be hard to imagine what next when you're recovering, or have recovered from but still haunted by the experience of it not working. Let's go with a safer feeling of giddy lust in that case. May you have quantities of G-lust. "Thank you. Maybe one day I'll feel like it could happen again. But I am positive given the fact so many do. Maybe the positive feelings in the forum will rub off on me
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"Yes I've experienced it. It's wholly consuming and can alter you as a person in many ways. " 
Did you find it altered you for good, or bad? | |||
"It would be nice, to have someone adore me, give my butterflies, make my tummy flip and the sight of them. To have someone consume my every thought and I theirs. To be the first and last thought in someones day. For there to be a constant need, craving and desire just to be next to someone. I want to lay in bed and read to the person who makes my world go around, to do all kinds silly things together, make out in the cinema (I've never done that) Watch the sun rise, watch the sun set. And I always always want someone who wants to kiss me. Always. " | |||
"It would be nice, to have someone adore me, give my butterflies, make my tummy flip and the sight of them. To have someone consume my every thought and I theirs. To be the first and last thought in someones day. For there to be a constant need, craving and desire just to be next to someone. I want to lay in bed and read to the person who makes my world go around, to do all kinds silly things together, make out in the cinema (I've never done that) Watch the sun rise, watch the sun set. And I always always want someone who wants to kiss me. Always. " Bliss | |||
"I met mr after a very bad marriage, and after putting up tall walls he knocked them down. It's a feeling I was initially scared of but I'm loving every giddy moment. It really is a roller coaster. But better than any thrill ride at the fair. X "And I *love* a fairground ride! That sounds exhilarating. Big smiles! | |||
"It would be nice, to have someone adore me, give me butterflies, make my tummy flip at the sight of them. To have someone consume my every thought and I theirs. To be the first and last thought in someones day. For there to be a constant need, craving and desire just to be next to someone. I want to lay in bed and read to the person who makes my world go around, to do all kinds silly things together, make out in the cinema (I've never done that) Watch the sun rise, watch the sun set. And I always always want someone who wants to kiss me. Always. " So many auto carrots   | |||
"Maybe I'm jaded and have been burned too many times but what constitutes 'love' in so many people's eyes is totally different to what it means for others. The rush you describe is usually lust for me. The butterflies, the thrill of a touch. I don't think I'd trust myself to fall in love again. Been hurt too often. But if you get it yourself, wonderful. Maybe some of us just aren't that lucky
You are perfect as you are, the sum of your experiences thus far and the hopes and surprises yet to come. Yes, I am particularly looking at the initial feeling in this thread and the kind of teenage whizzing, whooshing, lightheaded bubble! But interested to hear from those where that's changed. It can be hard to imagine what next when you're recovering, or have recovered from but still haunted by the experience of it not working. Let's go with a safer feeling of giddy lust in that case. May you have quantities of G-lust.
Thank you.
Maybe one day I'll feel like it could happen again.
But I am positive given the fact so many do. Maybe the positive feelings in the forum will rub off on me
"Oh gosh I hope so. But where you are at is absolutely fine too -- it's your time to be *your* love. I hope the people of the forum that give you G-lust rub themselves all over you.  | |||
"[Love on its way from poster at 16/05/17 20:40:34]" | |||
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"[Love on its way from poster at 16/05/17 20:40:34]" So much love to give
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"It would be nice, to have someone adore me, give my butterflies, make my tummy flip and the sight of them. To have someone consume my every thought and I theirs. To be the first and last thought in someones day. For there to be a constant need, craving and desire just to be next to someone. I want to lay in bed and read to the person who makes my world go around, to do all kinds silly things together, make out in the cinema (I've never done that) Watch the sun rise, watch the sun set. And I always always want someone who wants to kiss me. Always. "Amen. | |||
"It would be nice, to have someone adore me, give me butterflies, make my tummy flip at the sight of them. To have someone consume my every thought and I theirs. To be the first and last thought in someones day. For there to be a constant need, craving and desire just to be next to someone. I want to lay in bed and read to the person who makes my world go around, to do all kinds silly things together, make out in the cinema (I've never done that) Watch the sun rise, watch the sun set. And I always always want someone who wants to kiss me. Always. So many auto carrots "The giddiness got you.
I'm feeling your feels. As you know. | |||
"It would be nice, to have someone adore me, give my butterflies, make my tummy flip and the sight of them. To have someone consume my every thought and I theirs. To be the first and last thought in someones day. For there to be a constant need, craving and desire just to be next to someone. I want to lay in bed and read to the person who makes my world go around, to do all kinds silly things together, make out in the cinema (I've never done that) Watch the sun rise, watch the sun set. And I always always want someone who wants to kiss me. Always.
Amen." | |||
"It would be nice, to have someone adore me, give me butterflies, make my tummy flip at the sight of them. To have someone consume my every thought and I theirs. To be the first and last thought in someones day. For there to be a constant need, craving and desire just to be next to someone. I want to lay in bed and read to the person who makes my world go around, to do all kinds silly things together, make out in the cinema (I've never done that) Watch the sun rise, watch the sun set. And I always always want someone who wants to kiss me. Always. So many auto carrots
The giddiness got you.
I'm feeling your feels. As you know. "Them giddies | |||
"Wow. The L word. I can feel love. I'm afraid to fall in love again. It can hurt. But it's a wonderful feeling all the same. I would embrace if it happened, why deny such a wonderful thing. But know lust and love are very close and can blur lines sometimes. Lust is just as exciting. "Thank you - that's beautifully put. And yes, lust is thrilling too - but oh for the ride into a love that can be nurtured, tended and grown with someone.  | |||
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"All Out Of Love - Air Supply
www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWdZEumNRmI" | |||
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"All Out Of Love - Air Supply
www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWdZEumNRmI" | |||
I'm still in love but it's not the same x
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"I remember the roller coaster ride type feelings in the early days of my relationship. It's more like the dodgems now, and yes, I do miss it which probably explains why I'm on here a little bit I'm still in love but it's not the same x
"Nods. That makes sense. Recapturing those whooshes of thrill, in lust, as a plump for your cushions (so to speak!) I like the face-ache from grinning. The fluttery nausea. The soft sinking melty relax that their presence provides -- like finally realising how tense your shoulders were before you had a massage. | |||
"My love isnt a roller coaster but a quiet adoration. Everytime he does something extra sweet or lovely i love him a little bit more. Its like a never ending pot. You think you cant love them anymore and out pops somemore even after 11 years" Oh my heart fair burst reading that. JOY! Thank you for conjuring that up so beautifully. | |||
"I still get that giddy feeling about Marc. Not all the time, though. When we first dated I got butterflies whenever we had a date, or whenever there was a serious change in our relationship. But now, I feel like it's more of a connection constantly in the background - not quite as sharp and fleeting. But then he'll leave for a while for work and I'll miss him like crazy and then when I get to see him again it's that same giddiness I felt when I was 19.
So, whether I have that constant connection or that fluttering giddiness, I'm pretty fucking happy."Yes, a lovely description. It's the constant connection that moves me most deeply. | |||
"I still get that giddy feeling about Marc. Not all the time, though. When we first dated I got butterflies whenever we had a date, or whenever there was a serious change in our relationship. But now, I feel like it's more of a connection constantly in the background - not quite as sharp and fleeting. But then he'll leave for a while for work and I'll miss him like crazy and then when I get to see him again it's that same giddiness I felt when I was 19.
So, whether I have that constant connection or that fluttering giddiness, I'm pretty fucking happy.
Yes, a lovely description. It's the constant connection that moves me most deeply. "I am probably going to end up weeping over these - I have an 80s love song mix on Spotify playing and I am getting all loved up. | |||
"I still get that giddy feeling about Marc. Not all the time, though. When we first dated I got butterflies whenever we had a date, or whenever there was a serious change in our relationship. But now, I feel like it's more of a connection constantly in the background - not quite as sharp and fleeting. But then he'll leave for a while for work and I'll miss him like crazy and then when I get to see him again it's that same giddiness I felt when I was 19.
So, whether I have that constant connection or that fluttering giddiness, I'm pretty fucking happy.
Yes, a lovely description. It's the constant connection that moves me most deeply.
I am probably going to end up weeping over these - I have an 80s love song mix on Spotify playing and I am getting all loved up. "I may do the same. Tonight's reading may contain sniffles | |||
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"Maybe I'm jaded and have been burned too many times but what constitutes 'love' in so many people's eyes is totally different to what it means for others. The rush you describe is usually lust for me. The butterflies, the thrill of a touch. I don't think I'd trust myself to fall in love again. Been hurt too often. But if you get it yourself, wonderful. Maybe some of us just aren't that lucky "i agree with you. lust gives me crazy, infatuative feelings with aburst of energy. love brings me a sense of safety and security instead and i'm happy to plod along with it. i'm jaded also (about people in general), but this is my experience before then. | |||
"I still get that giddy feeling about Marc. Not all the time, though. When we first dated I got butterflies whenever we had a date, or whenever there was a serious change in our relationship. But now, I feel like it's more of a connection constantly in the background - not quite as sharp and fleeting. But then he'll leave for a while for work and I'll miss him like crazy and then when I get to see him again it's that same giddiness I felt when I was 19.
So, whether I have that constant connection or that fluttering giddiness, I'm pretty fucking happy.
Yes, a lovely description. It's the constant connection that moves me most deeply.
I am probably going to end up weeping over these - I have an 80s love song mix on Spotify playing and I am getting all loved up.
I may do the same. Tonight's reading may contain sniffles "I am, quite simply, an incurable romantic. | |||
"I've been there and done it "Aiming to do it again?
Is it worth it? Do you recommend it? | |||
"I didn't orgasm with my husband. I loved him with my heart, not my vagina. " Right now I love you with my vagina. Did that change? In that you did but then it stopped, or never did? (Don't answer if I am probing too much, obviously) Also, I wish you many orgasms. And in particular, Libgasms. | |||
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"Maybe I'm jaded and have been burned too many times but what constitutes 'love' in so many people's eyes is totally different to what it means for others. The rush you describe is usually lust for me. The butterflies, the thrill of a touch. I don't think I'd trust myself to fall in love again. Been hurt too often. But if you get it yourself, wonderful. Maybe some of us just aren't that lucky
i agree with you. lust gives me crazy, infatuative feelings with aburst of energy. love brings me a sense of safety and security instead and i'm happy to plod along with it.
i'm jaded also (about people in general), but this is my experience before then."A feeling of security. Nods. Yes, I think that's a big part of love - that they are *home* in a sense. | |||
"FAF "No. Will you make love to me? | |||
"FAF
No.
Will you make love to me? "Even better I thought you'd never ask | |||
"Maybe I'm jaded and have been burned too many times but what constitutes 'love' in so many people's eyes is totally different to what it means for others. The rush you describe is usually lust for me. The butterflies, the thrill of a touch. I don't think I'd trust myself to fall in love again. Been hurt too often. But if you get it yourself, wonderful. Maybe some of us just aren't that lucky
i agree with you. lust gives me crazy, infatuative feelings with aburst of energy. love brings me a sense of safety and security instead and i'm happy to plod along with it.
i'm jaded also (about people in general), but this is my experience before then.
A feeling of security. Nods. Yes, I think that's a big part of love - that they are *home* in a sense. "i was going to use the word home but wasn't sure anyone would know what i meant by that. | |||
"I didn't orgasm with my husband. I loved him with my heart, not my vagina. Right now I love you with my vagina. Did that change? In that you did but then it stopped, or never did? (Don't answer if I am probing too much, obviously) Also, I wish you many orgasms. And in particular, Libgasms. "Never did. Met young, knew sod all about sex. He wasn't passionate or tactile and sex was mostly robotic and over quickly. That didn't bother me until later on in our marriage; mostly because he didn't kiss me ever and I craved affection from him. I would kill for a Libgasm  | |||
"I've been there and done it
Aiming to do it again?
Is it worth it? Do you recommend it?"I recommend it when it is like that Estella . If you don't know me by now | |||
"FAF
No.
Will you make love to me?
Even better I thought you'd never ask " | |||
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"Maybe I'm jaded and have been burned too many times but what constitutes 'love' in so many people's eyes is totally different to what it means for others. The rush you describe is usually lust for me. The butterflies, the thrill of a touch. I don't think I'd trust myself to fall in love again. Been hurt too often. But if you get it yourself, wonderful. Maybe some of us just aren't that lucky
i agree with you. lust gives me crazy, infatuative feelings with aburst of energy. love brings me a sense of safety and security instead and i'm happy to plod along with it.
i'm jaded also (about people in general), but this is my experience before then.
A feeling of security. Nods. Yes, I think that's a big part of love - that they are *home* in a sense.
i was going to use the word home but wasn't sure anyone would know what i meant by that. "Oh, perfect! I hear ya. | |||
"I didn't orgasm with my husband. I loved him with my heart, not my vagina. Right now I love you with my vagina. Did that change? In that you did but then it stopped, or never did? (Don't answer if I am probing too much, obviously) Also, I wish you many orgasms. And in particular, Libgasms.
Never did. Met young, knew sod all about sex. He wasn't passionate or tactile and sex was mostly robotic and over quickly. That didn't bother me until later on in our marriage; mostly because he didn't kiss me ever and I craved affection from him.
I would kill for a Libgasm "Ahhh I see. Yes, the craving will get ya. It's almost the opposite these days, people having all the sex young but not the love connection. (I just sounded old saying that  I am still adjusting to 40!)
I think Lib needs to just give himself up for sacrifice for a day a year to the ladies of Fab to have a go on. Would you like the rollercoaster, the merry-go-round or a sweet grind on the Lib....roll up roll up, all the rides of the fair! | |||
"I've been there and done it
Aiming to do it again?
Is it worth it? Do you recommend it?
I recommend it when it is like that Estella . If you don't know me by now " | |||
"I have amazing orgasms with my long term partner, yet I have no desire to be in a relationship with him. Or anyone else I have amazing orgasms with. " Do you wish it was all rolled into one person? Or is it fulfilling compartmentalising with a range of people? | |||
"I have amazing orgasms with my long term partner, yet I have no desire to be in a relationship with him. Or anyone else I have amazing orgasms with. Do you wish it was all rolled into one person? Or is it fulfilling compartmentalising with a range of people? " Sometimes I wish I could take the best of each man, or what I like about them, and make the perfect man, but I like the different personalities and experiences I get from each. I've done the long term commitment-30 years worth-I can't do it again. | |||
"I didn't orgasm with my husband. I loved him with my heart, not my vagina. Right now I love you with my vagina. Did that change? In that you did but then it stopped, or never did? (Don't answer if I am probing too much, obviously) Also, I wish you many orgasms. And in particular, Libgasms.
Never did. Met young, knew sod all about sex. He wasn't passionate or tactile and sex was mostly robotic and over quickly. That didn't bother me until later on in our marriage; mostly because he didn't kiss me ever and I craved affection from him.
I would kill for a Libgasm
Ahhh I see. Yes, the craving will get ya. It's almost the opposite these days, people having all the sex young but not the love connection. (I just sounded old saying that I am still adjusting to 40!)
I think Lib needs to just give himself up for sacrifice for a day a year to the ladies of Fab to have a go on. Would you like the rollercoaster, the merry-go-round or a sweet grind on the Lib....roll up roll up, all the rides of the fair! "He could make a fortune with a kissing booth | |||
"I have amazing orgasms with my long term partner, yet I have no desire to be in a relationship with him. Or anyone else I have amazing orgasms with. Do you wish it was all rolled into one person? Or is it fulfilling compartmentalising with a range of people? Sometimes I wish I could take the best of each man, or what I like about them, and make the perfect man, but I like the different personalities and experiences I get from each. I've done the long term commitment-30 years worth-I can't do it again. " Nods. That makes sense. Until you get hold of Lib. | |||
"I didn't orgasm with my husband. I loved him with my heart, not my vagina. Right now I love you with my vagina. Did that change? In that you did but then it stopped, or never did? (Don't answer if I am probing too much, obviously) Also, I wish you many orgasms. And in particular, Libgasms.
Never did. Met young, knew sod all about sex. He wasn't passionate or tactile and sex was mostly robotic and over quickly. That didn't bother me until later on in our marriage; mostly because he didn't kiss me ever and I craved affection from him.
I would kill for a Libgasm
Ahhh I see. Yes, the craving will get ya. It's almost the opposite these days, people having all the sex young but not the love connection. (I just sounded old saying that I am still adjusting to 40!)
I think Lib needs to just give himself up for sacrifice for a day a year to the ladies of Fab to have a go on. Would you like the rollercoaster, the merry-go-round or a sweet grind on the Lib....roll up roll up, all the rides of the fair!
He could make a fortune with a kissing booth "Hilarious! I think I get a sexual thrill of just reading his forum quips. You kiss him, I'll ask for him to subtitle commentary on my life to amuse me. Although I might try the cock. But if it's one of the other, I want the sark. | |||
"I didn't orgasm with my husband. I loved him with my heart, not my vagina. Right now I love you with my vagina. Did that change? In that you did but then it stopped, or never did? (Don't answer if I am probing too much, obviously) Also, I wish you many orgasms. And in particular, Libgasms.
Never did. Met young, knew sod all about sex. He wasn't passionate or tactile and sex was mostly robotic and over quickly. That didn't bother me until later on in our marriage; mostly because he didn't kiss me ever and I craved affection from him.
I would kill for a Libgasm
Ahhh I see. Yes, the craving will get ya. It's almost the opposite these days, people having all the sex young but not the love connection. (I just sounded old saying that I am still adjusting to 40!)
I think Lib needs to just give himself up for sacrifice for a day a year to the ladies of Fab to have a go on. Would you like the rollercoaster, the merry-go-round or a sweet grind on the Lib....roll up roll up, all the rides of the fair!
He could make a fortune with a kissing booth
Hilarious! I think I get a sexual thrill just reading his forum quips. You kiss him, I'll ask for him to subtitle commentary on my life to amuse me. Although I might try the cock. But if it's one of the other, I want the sark. "FTFM | |||
"I didn't orgasm with my husband. I loved him with my heart, not my vagina. Right now I love you with my vagina. Did that change? In that you did but then it stopped, or never did? (Don't answer if I am probing too much, obviously) Also, I wish you many orgasms. And in particular, Libgasms.
Never did. Met young, knew sod all about sex. He wasn't passionate or tactile and sex was mostly robotic and over quickly. That didn't bother me until later on in our marriage; mostly because he didn't kiss me ever and I craved affection from him.
I would kill for a Libgasm
Ahhh I see. Yes, the craving will get ya. It's almost the opposite these days, people having all the sex young but not the love connection. (I just sounded old saying that I am still adjusting to 40!)
I think Lib needs to just give himself up for sacrifice for a day a year to the ladies of Fab to have a go on. Would you like the rollercoaster, the merry-go-round or a sweet grind on the Lib....roll up roll up, all the rides of the fair!
He could make a fortune with a kissing booth
Hilarious! I think I get a sexual thrill just reading his forum quips. You kiss him, I'll ask for him to subtitle commentary on my life to amuse me. Although I might try the cock. But if it's one or the other, I want the sark.
FTFM"FTFM and again!  | |||
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"I want to be in love! I miss it "I am excited by the prospect of it. And I hope and believe and remain open to it. Oh and ghey rainbows and candyfloss. | |||
"I have amazing orgasms with my long term partner, yet I have no desire to be in a relationship with him. Or anyone else I have amazing orgasms with. Do you wish it was all rolled into one person? Or is it fulfilling compartmentalising with a range of people? Sometimes I wish I could take the best of each man, or what I like about them, and make the perfect man, but I like the different personalities and experiences I get from each. I've done the long term commitment-30 years worth-I can't do it again. Nods. That makes sense. Until you get hold of Lib. "I just want to use his body | |||
) that has completely exceeded our wildest dreams of what our relationship could be, to which my wife has responded in ways we didn't think possible  I could almost feel grateful for the difficult times we've had to endure. We can't bear to be apart now either and miss each other terribly when I work away which I do frequently.
Of course this all a major reason why we've ended up here on fab (that could be the risk taking spoken of in the OP, though i should say whilst we're aware of the risks it doesn't feel risky to us) and are having so many amazing adventures with lots more to discover! It also feels like it's never going to end.
Sorry to waffle on and hope I don't sound too smug. We know how incredibly lucky we are and truly appreciate every moment of it
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"I have amazing orgasms with my long term partner, yet I have no desire to be in a relationship with him. Or anyone else I have amazing orgasms with. Do you wish it was all rolled into one person? Or is it fulfilling compartmentalising with a range of people? Sometimes I wish I could take the best of each man, or what I like about them, and make the perfect man, but I like the different personalities and experiences I get from each. I've done the long term commitment-30 years worth-I can't do it again. Nods. That makes sense. Until you get hold of Lib.
I just want to use his body "Phwoooooaaaaaaar. | |||
"The wife and I have been a couple for coming up to 8 years. We fell head over heels in love very quickly and experienced all those giddy highs that you do when you realise you have that chemistry. After a blissful 4 years the shit hit the fan and together we went through a series of events that really shook our family (not the fault of either of us) and that we know had broken a lot of other families. In this period romance and lust wasn't a priority tbh, but other than that it didn't put a dent in us, we never argued or took it out on each other and, if we didn't know it before, we now knew we completely had each others back. After 2 years of extreme difficulty the situation resolved itself and we decided to put it all behind us and get married, which we did 6 months ago. About 6 weeks prior to the wedding things got weird and wonderful. We both basically experienced an all consuming/obsessive love and lust for each other that completely dwarfed our initial falling in love and that we're still experiencing. Our initial falling in love was due to chemistry, we didn't really know each other. Then we went through the difficult time and really got to know what the other was made of but we couldn't prioritise each other during that time. Now we've got the time and space, and we feel we have earnt the right, to prioritise each other and show each other how we feel in a romantic and sexual way. The last 8 months have been a ridiculous and intense emotional and sexual roller coaster (or dopamine adventure! ) that has completely exceeded our wildest dreams of what our relationship could be, to which my wife has responded in ways we didn't think possible I could almost feel grateful for the difficult times we've had to endure. We can't bear to be apart now either and miss each other terribly when I work away which I do frequently.
Of course this all a major reason why we've ended up here on fab (that could be the risk taking spoken of in the OP, though i should say whilst we're aware of the risks it doesn't feel risky to us) and are having so many amazing adventures with lots more to discover! It also feels like it's never going to end.
Sorry to waffle on and hope I don't sound too smug. We know how incredibly lucky we are and truly appreciate every moment of it
Mr"Breathes in and out slowly. I'm savouring reading that. I've gone through it twice. Thank you - what an articulate and evocative piece of writing. I think I fell in love with you both for this. You don't sound in the slightest bit smug - it makes me yearn for something that similar but not in a way of not wanting you to be experiencing it. It gives me hope. It gives me a thrill to think I may be lucky enough to find something similar. And a reminder that actually I may be doing some 'forging' and refining of myself currently that will help me enter into a union that then grows together as you have done. Thank you again. Your words have touched me.
You touched me.
Do you need a veri? | |||
But seriously, sometimes we have visited clubs and not even looked at who else is around. Just sat there like two silly teenagers holding hands and talking with each other only and that has been a lovely evening for me
- Mrs. J - | |||
"The wife and I have been a couple for coming up to 8 years. We fell head over heels in love very quickly and experienced all those giddy highs that you do when you realise you have that chemistry. After a blissful 4 years the shit hit the fan and together we went through a series of events that really shook our family (not the fault of either of us) and that we know had broken a lot of other families. In this period romance and lust wasn't a priority tbh, but other than that it didn't put a dent in us, we never argued or took it out on each other and, if we didn't know it before, we now knew we completely had each others back. After 2 years of extreme difficulty the situation resolved itself and we decided to put it all behind us and get married, which we did 6 months ago. About 6 weeks prior to the wedding things got weird and wonderful. We both basically experienced an all consuming/obsessive love and lust for each other that completely dwarfed our initial falling in love and that we're still experiencing. Our initial falling in love was due to chemistry, we didn't really know each other. Then we went through the difficult time and really got to know what the other was made of but we couldn't prioritise each other during that time. Now we've got the time and space, and we feel we have earnt the right, to prioritise each other and show each other how we feel in a romantic and sexual way. The last 8 months have been a ridiculous and intense emotional and sexual roller coaster (or dopamine adventure! ) that has completely exceeded our wildest dreams of what our relationship could be, to which my wife has responded in ways we didn't think possible I could almost feel grateful for the difficult times we've had to endure. We can't bear to be apart now either and miss each other terribly when I work away which I do frequently.
Of course this all a major reason why we've ended up here on fab (that could be the risk taking spoken of in the OP, though i should say whilst we're aware of the risks it doesn't feel risky to us) and are having so many amazing adventures with lots more to discover! It also feels like it's never going to end.
Sorry to waffle on and hope I don't sound too smug. We know how incredibly lucky we are and truly appreciate every moment of it
Mr
Breathes in and out slowly. I'm savouring reading that. I've gone through it twice. Thank you - what an articulate and evocative piece of writing. I think I fell in love with you both for this. You don't sound in the slightest bit smug - it makes me yearn for something that similar but not in a way of not wanting you to be experiencing it. It gives me hope. It gives me a thrill to think I may be lucky enough to find something similar. And a reminder that actually I may be doing some 'forging' and refining of myself currently that will help me enter into a union that then grows together as you have done. Thank you again. Your words have touched me.
You touched me.
Do you need a veri? "That's for the kind words! I got that bit of internal panic when I hit the send button that maybe I've said too much and it'll just get ignored anyway! It's nice to know it touched you in particular as you always come across as a really lovely person on these boards
We both wish you all the luck in the world in your quest! xx
Mr & Mrs (first time we've signed off together on here!) | |||
"The wife and I have been a couple for coming up to 8 years. We fell head over heels in love very quickly and experienced all those giddy highs that you do when you realise you have that chemistry. After a blissful 4 years the shit hit the fan and together we went through a series of events that really shook our family (not the fault of either of us) and that we know had broken a lot of other families. In this period romance and lust wasn't a priority tbh, but other than that it didn't put a dent in us, we never argued or took it out on each other and, if we didn't know it before, we now knew we completely had each others back. After 2 years of extreme difficulty the situation resolved itself and we decided to put it all behind us and get married, which we did 6 months ago. About 6 weeks prior to the wedding things got weird and wonderful. We both basically experienced an all consuming/obsessive love and lust for each other that completely dwarfed our initial falling in love and that we're still experiencing. Our initial falling in love was due to chemistry, we didn't really know each other. Then we went through the difficult time and really got to know what the other was made of but we couldn't prioritise each other during that time. Now we've got the time and space, and we feel we have earnt the right, to prioritise each other and show each other how we feel in a romantic and sexual way. The last 8 months have been a ridiculous and intense emotional and sexual roller coaster (or dopamine adventure! ) that has completely exceeded our wildest dreams of what our relationship could be, to which my wife has responded in ways we didn't think possible I could almost feel grateful for the difficult times we've had to endure. We can't bear to be apart now either and miss each other terribly when I work away which I do frequently.
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"We've been together for a while so we are not like teenagers in love. But when he goes to work, by about lunchtime, I start missing him like crazy; or maybe, I am just hungry by then
But seriously, sometimes we have visited clubs and not even looked at who else is around. Just sat there like two silly teenagers holding hands and talking with each other only and that has been a lovely evening for me
- Mrs. J -"Oh thank you for sharing! That's gorgeous. I love that people still get the teenagery feelings even if they've been together a while. | |||
"The wife and I have been a couple for coming up to 8 years. We fell head over heels in love very quickly and experienced all those giddy highs that you do when you realise you have that chemistry. After a blissful 4 years the shit hit the fan and together we went through a series of events that really shook our family (not the fault of either of us) and that we know had broken a lot of other families. In this period romance and lust wasn't a priority tbh, but other than that it didn't put a dent in us, we never argued or took it out on each other and, if we didn't know it before, we now knew we completely had each others back. After 2 years of extreme difficulty the situation resolved itself and we decided to put it all behind us and get married, which we did 6 months ago. About 6 weeks prior to the wedding things got weird and wonderful. We both basically experienced an all consuming/obsessive love and lust for each other that completely dwarfed our initial falling in love and that we're still experiencing. Our initial falling in love was due to chemistry, we didn't really know each other. Then we went through the difficult time and really got to know what the other was made of but we couldn't prioritise each other during that time. Now we've got the time and space, and we feel we have earnt the right, to prioritise each other and show each other how we feel in a romantic and sexual way. The last 8 months have been a ridiculous and intense emotional and sexual roller coaster (or dopamine adventure! ) that has completely exceeded our wildest dreams of what our relationship could be, to which my wife has responded in ways we didn't think possible I could almost feel grateful for the difficult times we've had to endure. We can't bear to be apart now either and miss each other terribly when I work away which I do frequently.
Of course this all a major reason why we've ended up here on fab (that could be the risk taking spoken of in the OP, though i should say whilst we're aware of the risks it doesn't feel risky to us) and are having so many amazing adventures with lots more to discover! It also feels like it's never going to end.
Sorry to waffle on and hope I don't sound too smug. We know how incredibly lucky we are and truly appreciate every moment of it
Mr
Breathes in and out slowly. I'm savouring reading that. I've gone through it twice. Thank you - what an articulate and evocative piece of writing. I think I fell in love with you both for this. You don't sound in the slightest bit smug - it makes me yearn for something that similar but not in a way of not wanting you to be experiencing it. It gives me hope. It gives me a thrill to think I may be lucky enough to find something similar. And a reminder that actually I may be doing some 'forging' and refining of myself currently that will help me enter into a union that then grows together as you have done. Thank you again. Your words have touched me.
You touched me.
Do you need a veri?
That's for the kind words! I got that bit of internal panic when I hit the send button that maybe I've said too much and it'll just get ignored anyway! It's nice to know it touched you in particular as you always come across as a really lovely person on these boards
We both wish you all the luck in the world in your quest! xx
Mr & Mrs (first time we've signed off together on here!)"I got your first couple sign off!! Love it. It can be scary putting yourself out there on the forum when you are opening up a bit. But you actually made me really yearn for what you have, and actually now I want it with you both!! Long may your love continue to grow and the giddiness never let up! | |||
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"The wife and I have been a couple for coming up to 8 years. We fell head over heels in love very quickly and experienced all those giddy highs that you do when you realise you have that chemistry. After a blissful 4 years the shit hit the fan and together we went through a series of events that really shook our family (not the fault of either of us) and that we know had broken a lot of other families. In this period romance and lust wasn't a priority tbh, but other than that it didn't put a dent in us, we never argued or took it out on each other and, if we didn't know it before, we now knew we completely had each others back. After 2 years of extreme difficulty the situation resolved itself and we decided to put it all behind us and get married, which we did 6 months ago. About 6 weeks prior to the wedding things got weird and wonderful. We both basically experienced an all consuming/obsessive love and lust for each other that completely dwarfed our initial falling in love and that we're still experiencing. Our initial falling in love was due to chemistry, we didn't really know each other. Then we went through the difficult time and really got to know what the other was made of but we couldn't prioritise each other during that time. Now we've got the time and space, and we feel we have earnt the right, to prioritise each other and show each other how we feel in a romantic and sexual way. The last 8 months have been a ridiculous and intense emotional and sexual roller coaster (or dopamine adventure! ) that has completely exceeded our wildest dreams of what our relationship could be, to which my wife has responded in ways we didn't think possible I could almost feel grateful for the difficult times we've had to endure. We can't bear to be apart now either and miss each other terribly when I work away which I do frequently.
Of course this all a major reason why we've ended up here on fab (that could be the risk taking spoken of in the OP, though i should say whilst we're aware of the risks it doesn't feel risky to us) and are having so many amazing adventures with lots more to discover! It also feels like it's never going to end.
Sorry to waffle on and hope I don't sound too smug. We know how incredibly lucky we are and truly appreciate every moment of it
Mr
Breathes in and out slowly. I'm savouring reading that. I've gone through it twice. Thank you - what an articulate and evocative piece of writing. I think I fell in love with you both for this. You don't sound in the slightest bit smug - it makes me yearn for something that similar but not in a way of not wanting you to be experiencing it. It gives me hope. It gives me a thrill to think I may be lucky enough to find something similar. And a reminder that actually I may be doing some 'forging' and refining of myself currently that will help me enter into a union that then grows together as you have done. Thank you again. Your words have touched me.
You touched me.
Do you need a veri?
That's for the kind words! I got that bit of internal panic when I hit the send button that maybe I've said too much and it'll just get ignored anyway! It's nice to know it touched you in particular as you always come across as a really lovely person on these boards
We both wish you all the luck in the world in your quest! xx
Mr & Mrs (first time we've signed off together on here!)
I got your first couple sign off!! Love it. It can be scary putting yourself out there on the forum when you are opening up a bit. But you actually made me really yearn for what you have, and actually now I want it with you both!! Long may your love continue to grow and the giddiness never let up! "I concur Estella! Such an eloquent and heart felt post....Ive fallen a little bit in love this morning too. I look forward to one day again, being so totally and emotionally connected with someone that my heart feels like it will burst with joy. Thank you for giving me hope | |||
"Wow. The L word. I can feel love. I'm afraid to fall in love again. It can hurt. But it's a wonderful feeling all the same. I would embrace if it happened, why deny such a wonderful thing. But know lust and love are very close and can blur lines sometimes. Lust is just as exciting.
Thank you - that's beautifully put. And yes, lust is thrilling too - but oh for the ride into a love that can be nurtured, tended and grown with someone. "Only if someone could look after it with me. Sometimes your left nurturing alone, something that's destined to die in a shelf somewhere. A stark reminder that she never wanted it. | |||
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that excitement when you are going to see someone whether it be for hot sex or lunch in the pub
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"The wife and I have been a couple for coming up to 8 years. We fell head over heels in love very quickly and experienced all those giddy highs that you do when you realise you have that chemistry. After a blissful 4 years the shit hit the fan and together we went through a series of events that really shook our family (not the fault of either of us) and that we know had broken a lot of other families. In this period romance and lust wasn't a priority tbh, but other than that it didn't put a dent in us, we never argued or took it out on each other and, if we didn't know it before, we now knew we completely had each others back. After 2 years of extreme difficulty the situation resolved itself and we decided to put it all behind us and get married, which we did 6 months ago. About 6 weeks prior to the wedding things got weird and wonderful. We both basically experienced an all consuming/obsessive love and lust for each other that completely dwarfed our initial falling in love and that we're still experiencing. Our initial falling in love was due to chemistry, we didn't really know each other. Then we went through the difficult time and really got to know what the other was made of but we couldn't prioritise each other during that time. Now we've got the time and space, and we feel we have earnt the right, to prioritise each other and show each other how we feel in a romantic and sexual way. The last 8 months have been a ridiculous and intense emotional and sexual roller coaster (or dopamine adventure! ) that has completely exceeded our wildest dreams of what our relationship could be, to which my wife has responded in ways we didn't think possible I could almost feel grateful for the difficult times we've had to endure. We can't bear to be apart now either and miss each other terribly when I work away which I do frequently.
Of course this all a major reason why we've ended up here on fab (that could be the risk taking spoken of in the OP, though i should say whilst we're aware of the risks it doesn't feel risky to us) and are having so many amazing adventures with lots more to discover! It also feels like it's never going to end.
Sorry to waffle on and hope I don't sound too smug. We know how incredibly lucky we are and truly appreciate every moment of it
Mr
Breathes in and out slowly. I'm savouring reading that. I've gone through it twice. Thank you - what an articulate and evocative piece of writing. I think I fell in love with you both for this. You don't sound in the slightest bit smug - it makes me yearn for something that similar but not in a way of not wanting you to be experiencing it. It gives me hope. It gives me a thrill to think I may be lucky enough to find something similar. And a reminder that actually I may be doing some 'forging' and refining of myself currently that will help me enter into a union that then grows together as you have done. Thank you again. Your words have touched me.
You touched me.
Do you need a veri?
That's for the kind words! I got that bit of internal panic when I hit the send button that maybe I've said too much and it'll just get ignored anyway! It's nice to know it touched you in particular as you always come across as a really lovely person on these boards
We both wish you all the luck in the world in your quest! xx
Mr & Mrs (first time we've signed off together on here!)
I got your first couple sign off!! Love it. It can be scary putting yourself out there on the forum when you are opening up a bit. But you actually made me really yearn for what you have, and actually now I want it with you both!! Long may your love continue to grow and the giddiness never let up!
I concur Estella! Such an eloquent and heart felt post....Ive fallen a little bit in love this morning too.
I look forward to one day again, being so totally and emotionally connected with someone that my heart feels like it will burst with joy.
Thank you for giving me hope
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"Wow. The L word. I can feel love. I'm afraid to fall in love again. It can hurt. But it's a wonderful feeling all the same. I would embrace if it happened, why deny such a wonderful thing. But know lust and love are very close and can blur lines sometimes. Lust is just as exciting.
Thank you - that's beautifully put. And yes, lust is thrilling too - but oh for the ride into a love that can be nurtured, tended and grown with someone.
Only if someone could look after it with me. Sometimes your left nurturing alone, something that's destined to die in a shelf somewhere. A stark reminder that she never wanted it. "Gosh yes, it has to be a partnership | |||
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"I have a lot of love to give but right now all I feel is the pain of realisation that alone isn't enough. " I hope a fairground is on its way to you and then you can get your ticket for the rollercoaster. Right now, that love can be for you -- and it's okay to want, it's good to be clear that you do want, it's part of the process. Hugs | |||
"I know that feeling - that love n list blur of loveliness that excitement when you are going to see someone whether it be for hot sex or lunch in the pub
It's pretty scary and exciting all at once x"Isn't just?! Wheeeeeeeeeeeee what a ride | |||
"https://youtu.be/iW5Cf64d7KA This guy was in love. What a break up, do you think he's bitter. you couldn't imagine him trusting love again I suppose. But he then found and married Gwen Stefani.......lucky bstard. I'd certainly not ignore falling for someone. But I'm not looking for it. " I agree, I think the 'looking for' stops the seeing when you've found. Relax, and have faith and a wonderful time with you -- we're already in relationships with ourselves, are we giving ourselves the giddy feeling? | |||
"Love is fleeting, power is eternal. https://youtu.be/_-41hJoT6HE"
Spank me? | |||
"I never got really serious butterflies or anything with my partner, I got them a bit where I'd see him or he'd text me and I'd smile, but mostly he's always just felt like home to me. Saying that, if I haven't seen him for a few weeks and he sends me a selfie, I do get major butterflies now!" I think the "home" feeling must be simply wonderful. I want to be "home" to someone, to make them feel safe and loved and home | |||
"I believe in love" It scares me, but I believe in it too. | |||
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"Love is fleeting, power is eternal. https://youtu.be/_-41hJoT6HE
Spank me? "It's on the to do list. I'll give a more serious answer, but I need to have a think. | |||
"There's an abundance of it here in bliss and it's still heart pounding at times even after all this time "Awwwwww. You guys!! | |||
"Love is fleeting, power is eternal. https://youtu.be/_-41hJoT6HE
Spank me?
It's on the to do list.
I'll give a more serious answer, but I need to have a think. "Excellent.
If you feel moved to write more once you've pondered, it will be happily received | |||
"I wouldnt say I was looking for it but if it came along im ready to jump on board. I do love being in love " same | |||
"I wouldnt say I was looking for it but if it came along im ready to jump on board. I do love being in love
same "All aboard the ship of love!! | |||
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"I would love to be in love again. It is many, many years since I last fully experienced it. I have been single for so long now that I don't know if I am prepared for it, or how likely I am to mess it up through my lack of experience of being in a relationship. But I would love the one-ness, at times I ache for it. Whether or not I will recognise the opportunity, or if I have already let it slip by is something for me to ponder. So I took the plunge recently and joined a dating site. I've not met or talked to anyone yet, just exchanged a couple of messages. I don't necessarily think this will directly lead to a relationship, or love, but I think that paying relationships a bit more attention than I have been might put me in a better position to recognise a potential partner if I meet someone in any walk of life." I love your vulnerability and openness. Keep on keeping on -- here's to the quest | |||
"I would love to be in love again. It is many, many years since I last fully experienced it. I have been single for so long now that I don't know if I am prepared for it, or how likely I am to mess it up through my lack of experience of being in a relationship. But I would love the one-ness, at times I ache for it. Whether or not I will recognise the opportunity, or if I have already let it slip by is something for me to ponder. So I took the plunge recently and joined a dating site. I've not met or talked to anyone yet, just exchanged a couple of messages. I don't necessarily think this will directly lead to a relationship, or love, but I think that paying relationships a bit more attention than I have been might put me in a better position to recognise a potential partner if I meet someone in any walk of life." My wife and I met on a dating website so it can work out. Good luck | |||
"I never got really serious butterflies or anything with my partner, I got them a bit where I'd see him or he'd text me and I'd smile, but mostly he's always just felt like home to me. Saying that, if I haven't seen him for a few weeks and he sends me a selfie, I do get major butterflies now! I think the "home" feeling must be simply wonderful. I want to be "home" to someone, to make them feel safe and loved and home "It really is, it's so lovely! | |||
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"I have been with my husband 15 years and I still get butterflies when he reachesaid over to kiss me. He can also make me orgasam harder than anyone else because that love that I have for him gives him ultimate power over me and vice versa and that is a huge turn on! "Oh butterflies and rollercoaster giddiness *at* point of orgasm?! You are winning at life. | |||
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"Meh" What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. | |||
"Meh" Meh be baby, I'll have you Meh be baby, you'll be true Meh be baby, I'll have you for me | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were." Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show? | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show?" Are you in a bad mood on my love thread? | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show? Are you in a bad mood on my love thread? "I'm in a fine mood, I love you. | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show? Are you in a bad mood on my love thread?
I'm in a fine mood, I love you. "You know damn well I was asking Swing. You flirty minx. Love you too though. | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show? Are you in a bad mood on my love thread? "I apologise. I am carb depleting at the moment and it is making me a mardy arse at times. I shall return tomorrow when carb loading and bouncing off the walls
Although meh still stands for now  | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show? Are you in a bad mood on my love thread?
I'm in a fine mood, I love you.
You know damn well I was asking Swing. You flirty minx. Love you too though. " | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show? Are you in a bad mood on my love thread?
I apologise. I am carb depleting at the moment and it is making me a mardy arse at times.
I shall return tomorrow when carb loading and bouncing off the walls
Although meh still stands for now "Get some nuts | |||
"Meh What if you thought you loved someone a little bit but actually they were a cunt and you were a little bit blinded by...well fuck knows but you were. Where have you put the cameras? I can't see them. Is this the Truman Show? Are you in a bad mood on my love thread?
I apologise. I am carb depleting at the moment and it is making me a mardy arse at times.
I shall return tomorrow when carb loading and bouncing off the walls
Although meh still stands for now
Get some nuts "I don't have the combination to the safe | |||
"Meh Meh be baby, I'll have you Meh be baby, you'll be true Meh be baby, I'll have you for me "Very | |||
"I have been with my husband 15 years and I still get butterflies when he reachesaid over to kiss me. He can also make me orgasam harder than anyone else because that love that I have for him gives him ultimate power over me and vice versa and that is a huge turn on!
Oh butterflies and rollercoaster giddiness *at* point of orgasm?! You are winning at life. "I certainly although I would win even more if you ever wanted to make a cameo in it | |||
"Meh Meh be baby, I'll have you Meh be baby, you'll be true Meh be baby, I'll have you for me
Very " | |||
"I have been with my husband 15 years and I still get butterflies when he reachesaid over to kiss me. He can also make me orgasam harder than anyone else because that love that I have for him gives him ultimate power over me and vice versa and that is a huge turn on!
Oh butterflies and rollercoaster giddiness *at* point of orgasm?! You are winning at life.
I certainly although I would win even more if you ever wanted to make a cameo in it "It took 123 posts but I finally PULLED! Whoop whoop! | |||
"I have been with my husband 15 years and I still get butterflies when he reachesaid over to kiss me. He can also make me orgasam harder than anyone else because that love that I have for him gives him ultimate power over me and vice versa and that is a huge turn on!
Oh butterflies and rollercoaster giddiness *at* point of orgasm?! You are winning at life.
I certainly although I would win even more if you ever wanted to make a cameo in it
It took 123 posts but I finally PULLED!
Whoop whoop!
"I can't believe it took so many! | |||
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"I have been with my husband 15 years and I still get butterflies when he reachesaid over to kiss me. He can also make me orgasam harder than anyone else because that love that I have for him gives him ultimate power over me and vice versa and that is a huge turn on!
Oh butterflies and rollercoaster giddiness *at* point of orgasm?! You are winning at life.
I certainly although I would win even more if you ever wanted to make a cameo in it
It took 123 posts but I finally PULLED!
Whoop whoop!
I can't believe it took so many!"Awww thank you, too kind. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but that's ok | |||
"Ok here goes - this is about honest as I get in the forums, I hope I don't come to regret this. The early days with my wife were intense, the sex was great but when we first met I couldn't tell if it was just lust. It was a long distance relationship and it was difficult. It was painful. Because love is pain. Don't believe anyone who tells you otherwise. We met online, and quite frankly, I just wanted a quick shag. I didn't want messy feelings. I knew from an early age I was destined to be a lone wolf. I tried to warn her off, that I was a basket case who would bring her nothing but pain. But she was too stubborn to give up. And yes I've since plenty of other men fuck her and give her great orgasms. But we're still together. Yes the love is still there, but it's different, not less. When you see somebody in pain, and the sex becomes non existent for nearly a year, you realise it's not the be all and end all. But it's great to be fucking like teenagers again. But you want to do anything to take the pain away from her and take it onboard yourself. Because love is pain.
-Mr"Retro! That's heartfelt and glorious. You're very vulnerable and authentic with how you write and I so appreciate that. I'm so glad she broke down your self-enforced barriers. Being stubborn in holding a safe space for love is such a good concept. And yes, being truly open and available for love is about opening yourself up for pain too, sharing pain and yearning to take someone else's pain away. How wonderful to have someone willing to do that (whether they can achieve it or not) for you. Thank you for posting. | |||
"Cake = love "I cake you, Taff | |||
