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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice! "
Yes the bloke normally looks like Kermit  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The reason for the initial post is really my man sees pics on a profile and goes hmm tasty, and then I look and most of the time there's no eye candy for me! Us women are more fussy than men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I had a couples profile I have to say our pics were predominantly the lady, reason for this was it tended to be me with the camera.
besides I'm an ugly git so we didn't want to scare off people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably the same reason that you have chose."
Don't be silly! The OP can only show pics of the female but other couples must show both! Get with the programme!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason for the initial post is really my man sees pics on a profile and goes hmm tasty, and then I look and most of the time there's no eye candy for me! Us women are more fussy than men! "
'tis also the case with your profile.
I realise you say you have pics in private, but maybe the answer you seek is pretty much the same reason you have no male pics in open, just a thought.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason for the initial post is really my man sees pics on a profile and goes hmm tasty, and then I look and most of the time there's no eye candy for me! Us women are more fussy than men! "
Oh the irony! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"When I had a couples profile I have to say our pics were predominantly the lady, reason for this was it tended to be me with the camera.
besides I'm an ugly git so we didn't want to scare off people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice! "
Yep, we don't display my photos as it's usually me using the pc and I'd rather look at sexy pics of my wife on here than those of my own todger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably the same reason that you have chose.
Don't be silly! The OP can only show pics of the female but other couples must show both! Get with the programme! "
Oh Sassy... trust you to put us right. I forgot it's 'do as I say, not as I do' on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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personal preference, women tend to be more comfortable in front of a camera and getting those 'arty/sexy poses'
just through personal observation a lot of MF couples are also seeking Bi females and so would want to attract other women. Just depends on that couples 'target market' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice!
Yes the bloke normally looks like Kermit "
But I have photoshopped Pauls pics so they dont look green anymore!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice!
Yes the bloke normally looks like Kermit
But I have photoshopped Pauls pics so they dont look green anymore!! "
I have a Kermit fetish  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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our profile has the female on show in public and both of us in private.
the reason for this is that we normally seek a male to join us. there will be no male/male playing hence the only pics required to attract attention is that of the female
works for us. what others do on their profile is their business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have myself dressed as a female in my private pics is that the same ? 
are you a couple with yourself?? lol"
Yes I can be a couple, single guy, single woman, a TV or even a FF couple, I'm desperate for a shag but it goes tits up when I meet |
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In many cases, the guys are much older than the ladies, and often not as comparatively good looking (IMHO).
This is less of an issue for Bi-Fem couples where FF fun is often a major factor, but for straights like us, it can be hard to find a compatible couple.
It also means we nearly always need to ask to see pix of the bloke, and then they know exactly why we turn them down.
We would urge all couples to ensure they have pix of both on the profile. It saves a lot of time, and potentially hurt feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the great scheme of things swinging, its something i dont compare and contrast and being "more fussy" marvelous, good for you, and if the guys a let down and your so eager to create a bi f/f meet, the dissapointing man in the equasion can surely busy himself or kick back and let the women have a wild time,,,,,cant he? or is it that clinical? You see the woman youd luv to meet but its all off cause the partner does'nt measure up?
Forgot what this threads about, lol, ohh pics, more women than guys, that happens. |
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Yeah... nowt as strange as folk! I often wonder why single men have pictures of women on their profiles. Is it just to prove that once upon a time someone did actually meet them? But then I have a picture of me sucking a cock in my pics so why do I have that on there? Other than I think it's a bit horny, I can't really say any more than because I want to.
I think that's generally why people do things... because it's their profile and they can. If you don't find what you're looking for then move onto the next profile. Job done! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our case it has nothing to do with the OH being ugly - he's not
If we befriend couples they get to see the two of us
He does not have a need to be anyones 'eye candy'
And most significant of all - I'm the one with the tits |
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I take most of our pics and besides my wife is more gorgeous than me - just lol.
We have pics of both of us in private pics, just how we choose to do it. Don't think it really matters does it as we would always share face pics when we agree to meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In our case it has nothing to do with the OH being ugly - he's not
If we befriend couples they get to see the two of us
He does not have a need to be anyones 'eye candy'
And most significant of all - I'm the one with the tits "
,,,puts head on pc desk,lookin at screen contentedly, agreeing xx |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"In our case it has nothing to do with the OH being ugly - he's not
If we befriend couples they get to see the two of us
He does not have a need to be anyones 'eye candy'
And most significant of all - I'm the one with the tits "
and they look like a mighty fine pair too 
seriously, if we approach a couple we always send a pic of us both together doesn't seem to make any difference though I still look like shrek lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah... nowt as strange as folk! I often wonder why single men have pictures of women on their profiles. Is it just to prove that once upon a time someone did actually meet them? But then I have a picture of me sucking a cock in my pics so why do I have that on there? Other than I think it's a bit horny, I can't really say any more than because I want to.
I think that's generally why people do things... because it's their profile and they can. If you don't find what you're looking for then move onto the next profile. Job done! "
Pics of single men actually swinging,with women it tends to happen yup,pics of guys swinging i would of thought is a healthy reassuring sight to any looking for the reassurance that fun does occur. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would urge all couples to ensure they have pix of both on the profile. It saves a lot of time, and potentially hurt feelings. "
*sticks heals into the ground*
In a nutshell... don't keep telling people what to do on their profiles!!!
It just seems so arrogant of you to spout on about this when at the same time you guys refuse point blankly at any stage (not even privately or by any other means) to send un-pixalated face pics before meeting someone but have stated previously you will not meet them without seeing clear pics of their faces first!
Imagine if every couple on this site had the same attitude???
I don't think many couple/couple meets would be happening away from clubs tbh |
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Yes I understand everything on here is a personal choice. When I had a significant other we made sure to have pics of both of us. She would do most of looking cause at the time I worked 12 hour days. She would complain about not seeing what the male half looked like. As she would say "I'm not jumping on the grenade just cause the wife is hot". |
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Pics of single men actually swinging,with women it tends to happen yup,pics of guys swinging i would of thought is a healthy reassuring sight to any looking for the reassurance that fun does occur."
I wouldn't say it was a healthy reassurance to any, makes me cringe a bit and would most likely make me move to the next profile. But then I have terrible double standards and am a bit weird so that's not a huge surprise! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In our case it's personal choice.
I think it's fair to say that people would prefer to look at Mrs Red than they would a fat old bastard like me ..."
aww c'mon B, you're not that fat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice!
Yes the bloke normally looks like Kermit "
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice!
Yes the bloke normally looks like Kermit "
I really can't help it if my favourite colour is grren  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were trawling through pics of couples and noticed that there was 90%/10% ratio of photos in the favour of women.
Is there a reason behind this or is it just personal choice! "
Yes the bloke normally looks like Kermit
not me.ribbit ribbit |
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