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Ok so this is a bit embarrassing but feel it's the best place to ask ( or maybe not, time will tell)
So... in spite of my grand age I'm still super tight below - on Friday I had a meet ( he did have a really big cock tbf) and we couldn't get it in, then when we did manage he came in seconds 
The question is - is there anyway to stretch myself down there so sex is easier but without acquiring a bucket fanny? Don't want anything painful just gentle stretching! Advice please x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find nothing helps me, as my skin isn't very stretchy. Fat cocks can be quite uncomfortable around the entrance to my vagina. Inside I'm fine, except for long cocks, that are quite painful during the heated moments.
You could try moisturisers or oils and toys, getting larger as you stretch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are aids for this. They look like dildos and come in varying widths. You start of with the narrower ones using lube ky etc. Then move on to wider as your muscles relax and you become less tight.
With age skin looses its elasticity. You can control the size you want to be. X |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"
it's really painful when a baby comes out (it's not called the ring of fire for nothing) and many women tear at that time. but yeah it is stretchy to a degree. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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First you are still a youngster so don't worry about age.
Second your fanny is designed to stretch and shrink as required bucket fannies are in most cases a myth with the exception of a few women who do not do pelvic floor exercises after childbirth.
Finally the secret to painless sex with men with large cocks is a combination of lubrication, being relaxed and being turned on.
The last helps provide the first two but additional help can come from using additional lubrication and perhaps even having a little alcohol before the meet to release your inhibitions, but we do mean a little as a d*unk partner is no fun for either sex.
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"There was something I heard of though it's a little antiquated nowadays, it depends on your class, breakfast and political outlook. It's called foreplay. "
Sound advice. |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"
I realise this but I've not had the pleasure of giving birth so... |
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"There was something I heard of though it's a little antiquated nowadays, it depends on your class, breakfast and political outlook. It's called foreplay. "
Possibly this like we had been playing in the car but then we went for a walk so maybe I just wasn't excited enough by then ... maybe just bring lube next time though I usually don't need it xx
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
I realise this but I've not had the pleasure of giving birth so... "
relax.. and lube if needed.. |
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"First you are still a youngster so don't worry about age.
Second your fanny is designed to stretch and shrink as required bucket fannies are in most cases a myth with the exception of a few women who do not do pelvic floor exercises after childbirth.
Finally the secret to painless sex with men with large cocks is a combination of lubrication, being relaxed and being turned on.
The last helps provide the first two but additional help can come from using additional lubrication and perhaps even having a little alcohol before the meet to release your inhibitions, but we do mean a little as a d*unk partner is no fun for either sex.
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I'd had a glass of wine but maybe yes to the rest of it, was my first time meeting him so probably shouldn't have gone for it anyway - I données to be more relaxed but yes will note bring lube next time! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"
There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.
I am always surprised when people don't realise this  |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.
I am always surprised when people don't realise this "
Exactly - you don't dilate just by magic or wanting to xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.
I am always surprised when people don't realise this "
Well I'm a man, give me a bit of slack. No pun intended. There is also a process to go through before inserting a cock, it's called foreplay which leads to arousal which leads to natural lubrication thus allowing easier access to said cock. That's my experience anyway.  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
There is a process to go through when having a baby, a vag doesn't stretch that much every day.
I am always surprised when people don't realise this
Well I'm a man, give me a bit of slack. No pun intended.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Foreplay (maybe even an orgasm before sex) and a bit of lube works for me. Maybe look at different positions?
Might be TMI - as if I really care on here! - but by my standards I have a slightly larger dildo and the only way I can comfortably use that is with a lot of lube or shortly after an orgasm. |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X"
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had this issue, you need to be very relaxed, and hugely turned on, a few orgasms during fore play helps a lot, I personally wouldn't try and stretch yourself, in my view it's the same as a chap trying to change his penis size, be proud of what you've got |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
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Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It doesn't matter how turned on or lubed I am, my skin does not stretch. I have little natural elasticity in my skin, which is why with all my babies I had an episiotomy or tore, and got lots of deep stretch marks. No amount of foreplay or lubrication will make my skin more elastic.
I can't be fisted because of it.
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand. "
Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What about one of those inflatable dildos you can get, put it in small and inflate it once inside, that might do the trick if you want to stretch yourself. |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.
Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr "
Well I've never seen a cock the size of a babies head, have you? So it isn't claptrap at all is it. |
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"Ok so this is a bit embarrassing but feel it's the best place to ask ( or maybe not, time will tell)
So... in spite of my grand age I'm still super tight below - on Friday I had a meet ( he did have a really big cock tbf) and we couldn't get it in, then when we did manage he came in seconds
The question is - is there anyway to stretch myself down there so sex is easier but without acquiring a bucket fanny? Don't want anything painful just gentle stretching! Advice please x "
You probably weren't aroused enough or aging is drying you out...either way, try lube.
At your age I'm surprised you think stretching will give you a bucket fanny. You do realise it's referred to as the birthing canal right?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm also quite tight and have this issue with larger vibrators, they just don't fit no matter how aroused and wet I am. We've been working on fisting but with my anatomy it's proving challenging. And enjoyable challenge though |
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"Ok so this is a bit embarrassing but feel it's the best place to ask ( or maybe not, time will tell)
So... in spite of my grand age I'm still super tight below - on Friday I had a meet ( he did have a really big cock tbf) and we couldn't get it in, then when we did manage he came in seconds
The question is - is there anyway to stretch myself down there so sex is easier but without acquiring a bucket fanny? Don't want anything painful just gentle stretching! Advice please x
You probably weren't aroused enough or aging is drying you out...either way, try lube.
At your age I'm surprised you think stretching will give you a bucket fanny. You do realise it's referred to as the birthing canal right? "
.Yes that part was a joke though I do know some woman are clearly looser down there hence can be fisted etc - mostly it works just fine but like others have said maybe I just wasn't turned on enough by that point - it did feel good for the few seconds we managed so I will persevere  was only asking if I anything I should / could do to make it easier next time xx |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.
Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr
Well I've never seen a cock the size of a babies head, have you? So it isn't claptrap at all is it. "
The fact of the matter is women have different levels of elasticity so may need help in that department. |
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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago
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As mentioned above, use the lube!
Also different positions may make things easier. With VB and myself she has to be super aroused to jump straight in with doggy or similar. Missionary is good. Or cowgirl, gives you all the control about entry speed.
The more you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
Yes I am as it happens, I was present at the birth of my 4 kids so I've seen it all first hand.
Then you'll know that what you previously stated is simply claptrap, nerr
Well I've never seen a cock the size of a babies head, have you? So it isn't claptrap at all is it. "
If you were at my babies' births you would have seen the midwife cut a huge slice through my flesh, because the head was going to tear me. A cock that is girthy will stretch me so much that it's uncomfortable and burns, same with fisting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is also something called vaginimus. Take a look on google.
Most vaginas should fit most cocks. Unless there's a physical reason like above.
Lube is always useful x |
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I think it really relates to us being more fully in touch (metaphorically) with our bodies. When less sexually active then that sense can become less keen. This alone doesn't increase flexibility but does help to let us know what we need and can cope with to a greater extent. When I've been less active I take more time and control of things. I'll use toys increasingly and only be penetrated when I've got to the point that I'm very highly aroused - we'll still take it slowly. A guy with a small average cock may also do us a favour by challenging our more tolerable levels rather than going beyond. |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
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Don't forget not being able to sit down properly for weeks. |
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"If it can squeeze a babies head out love I'm sure it can accommodate even the biggest of cocks, they are stretchy by their very nature arn't they. X
you're obviously not aware of tears/ episiotomies during labour
Don't forget not being able to sit down properly for weeks."
A bloke will view that as a compliment |
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