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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

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Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest saves wasting time engaging with someone who wasn't interested

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word."

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I kinda like being blocked. I feel like I earned something

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I don't give being blocked a nano second of thought.

Their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I kinda like being blocked. I feel like I earned something "

BLOCKED!

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting

along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. "

Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I kinda like being blocked. I feel like I earned something

BLOCKED!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. "

Haha!!!

I woke up my dog laughing at that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*blocks*

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By *ire_bladeMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Man up cup cake

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word."

Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dont take it personally. Its just efficiency, why say no thanks when the big red block button is there! I love using it! Although I do feel guilty sometimes if they seemed nice and genuine.

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought"

I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha.

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By *airymagicWoman  over a year ago

goblin city

Just waiting to see if anyone I blocked writes on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Iv been blocked off someone on this thread,dont know why as iv never spoke to them,ah well

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Look here's a couple of potential scenarios and how to look at it.

1 you chatted and during making arrangements their bottle crashed and they panicked and ran away. It happens. Maybe they are new or nervous.

2 they changed their mind, something you said or didn't say or they just dropped in interest nothing to do with you.

3 they got a better offer so didn't want to waste time explaining so they closed the connection

4 they have no backbone and can't bring themselves to talk like grown ups and just say hey changed my mind but thanks anyway

Whichever it is or any another explanation, there's no point worrying about it. It's not how you might deal with such a thing but hey everyone is different and you don't need an explanation. Life's too short.

Plenty more fabbers to enjoy

Keep on trucking bud

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word."

Maybe you only thought it was going well. Maybe she/they was hoping you'd drift away since it's sometimes not that easy to break into an innocuous conversation with a 'by the way, I'm not interested'. Blocking may seem harsh initially but it's a pretty quick way of getting to the point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Iv been blocked off someone on this thread,dont know why as iv never spoke to them,ah well"

We have blocked people we have never spoke to.

Why?

Because we don't want to be contacted by them.

Blocking isnt always personal.sometimes it's just a filter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


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Look here's a couple of potential scenarios and how to look at it.

1 you chatted and during making arrangements their bottle crashed and they panicked and ran away. It happens. Maybe they are new or nervous.

2 they changed their mind, something you said or didn't say or they just dropped in interest nothing to do with you.

3 they got a better offer so didn't want to waste time explaining so they closed the connection

4 they have no backbone and can't bring themselves to talk like grown ups and just say hey changed my mind but thanks anyway

Whichever it is or any another explanation, there's no point worrying about it. It's not how you might deal with such a thing but hey everyone is different and you don't need an explanation. Life's too short.

Plenty more fabbers to enjoy

Keep on trucking bud "

Cheers, nice to see someone with a bit of decency and respect on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Makes no odds to me, although it's nice that someone put the effort in to block me

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting

along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart.

Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella

"

But you are, just like all the guys before you who posted the same thing.

And there is NEVER no reason

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Makes no odds to me, although it's nice that someone put the effort in to block me "

Hey you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is also the possibility that it ws a bloke posing as a woman

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Cheers, nice to see someone with a bit of decency and respect on here. "

Ahhh, have to agree with you to be respectful, gotcha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought

I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha. "

Maybe she knows others who work there...maybe her partner works there...maybe she worked ther in the past and knows more staff than you... many reasons just suddenly pop to mind.

I tend to think if they block...It saves me head aches I wasn't aware could happen.

Move on as there are plenty of fish swimming around in the pool.

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked "

I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked

I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha "

Don't give it a second thought..... what's the point

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting

along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart.

Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella

But you are, just like all the guys before you who posted the same thing.

And there is NEVER no reason "

Seriously, its just my curiosity im not crying over it like the others before me, this is possibly the only way I will ever find out. And if it is someone from work I feel I NEED to know, saves me trying to guess for the next couple of weeks.

He who dares wins!

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought

I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha.

Maybe she knows others who work there...maybe her partner works there...maybe she worked ther in the past and knows more staff than you... many reasons just suddenly pop to mind.

I tend to think if they block...It saves me head aches I wasn't aware could happen.

Move on as there are plenty of fish swimming around in the pool."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's never happened to me........yet.

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked

I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha

Don't give it a second thought..... what's the point"

Boredom I guess, lack of female attention lately hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

it doesn't happen with enough frequency to be an issue...trying in fact to remember if it's happened. had conversations go cold but i don't think i've had a sudden block like that.

i have after meeting though

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"That's never happened to me........yet."

YET. I just got blocked for posting this hahaha.

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"And there is NEVER no reason

Seriously, its just my curiosity im not crying over it like the others before me, this is possibly the only way I will ever find out. And if it is someone from work I feel I NEED to know, saves me trying to guess for the next couple of weeks.

He who dares wins! "

You will never know so let it go.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting

along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart.

Has to be one doesn't there. Haha cheers fella

But you are, just like all the guys before you who posted the same thing.

And there is NEVER no reason

Seriously, its just my curiosity im not crying over it like the others before me, this is possibly the only way I will ever find out. And if it is someone from work I feel I NEED to know, saves me trying to guess for the next couple of weeks.

He who dares wins! "

how is this a way you'll find out? you won't find out, and it doesn't matter anyway...if they don't want to continue talking there's nothing you can do about it..why would you want to carry on trying to talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you? it's pointless trying to second guess...just forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are vastly more important things I give a fuck about.

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"it doesn't happen with enough frequency to be an issue...trying in fact to remember if it's happened. had conversations go cold but i don't think i've had a sudden block like that.

i have after meeting though "

I have never had this before hence why curiosity has got the better of me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

oopsy daisy - live with it - waste of energy wingeing

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster

To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"it doesn't happen with enough frequency to be an issue...trying in fact to remember if it's happened. had conversations go cold but i don't think i've had a sudden block like that.

i have after meeting though

I have never had this before hence why curiosity has got the better of me. "

joking aside, as has been said above, you will generally never find out why someone blocks you...something you said, maybe they recognised you from some place, better offer came along, whatever, could be a ton of stuff i wouldn't pay it much more mind and just crack on with getting chatting to some new folk, there's loads of nice fabbers about

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"oopsy daisy - live with it - waste of energy wingeing"

Haha I'm really not whinging, this has never happened to me so I'm just curious I guess. Can you imagine if its someone I work with, I haven't seen their face only body but they have seen mine as I dont hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this. "

i think their point is that we don't know why someone else might block you see..it's not answerable here so the only option left if to crack on forwards

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"it doesn't happen with enough frequency to be an issue...trying in fact to remember if it's happened. had conversations go cold but i don't think i've had a sudden block like that.

i have after meeting though

I have never had this before hence why curiosity has got the better of me.

joking aside, as has been said above, you will generally never find out why someone blocks you...something you said, maybe they recognised you from some place, better offer came along, whatever, could be a ton of stuff i wouldn't pay it much more mind and just crack on with getting chatting to some new folk, there's loads of nice fabbers about "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are vastly more important things I give a fuck about. "

There you go OP, be more like this guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked

I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha "

I think it's most likely she knows you somehow. In which case no point feeling bad about it.

I agree with you that in other situations it's rude. If you've been chatting and sorting a meet then to just block out of the blue is unhinged. Just say there's been a change of heart. Like an adult.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked

I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha

I think it's most likely she knows you somehow. In which case no point feeling bad about it.

I agree with you that in other situations it's rude. If you've been chatting and sorting a meet then to just block out of the blue is unhinged. Just say there's been a change of heart. Like an adult. "

What is the 'like an adult' of which you write?

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By *owdyboy 890Man  over a year ago

Country West

You get blocked if you sneeze on here so I would just get over and get on with..better things to be doing xx

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster

Just to clarify, the person in question has seen my face pics, I haven't seen theirs. They block me when I tell them what I do as a career. I'm just curious as hell as now I'm looking at all the women at work thinking.. Was it you???

I'm not getting beat up over it, like it has been said many times, plenty more fish in the sea (I want a seahorse)

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked

I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha

I think it's most likely she knows you somehow. In which case no point feeling bad about it.

I agree with you that in other situations it's rude. If you've been chatting and sorting a meet then to just block out of the blue is unhinged. Just say there's been a change of heart. Like an adult. "

Exactly. Thank you

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"You get blocked if you sneeze on here so I would just get over and get on with..better things to be doing xx"

I got blocked off several people for posting this. Couldn't stop laughing at the irony

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think she knows you and when you said where you work she's panicked and blocked

I thought of that, she said first she works in town.... I didn't say exactly where I worked just the industry but my office isn't in town. I'm going to be looking at all the women at work with different eyes now haha

I think it's most likely she knows you somehow. In which case no point feeling bad about it.

I agree with you that in other situations it's rude. If you've been chatting and sorting a meet then to just block out of the blue is unhinged. Just say there's been a change of heart. Like an adult.

What is the 'like an adult' of which you write? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Makes no odds to me, although it's nice that someone put the effort in to block me

Hey you "

Hiya

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

Too needy maybe?

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this.

i think their point is that we don't know why someone else might block you see..it's not answerable here so the only option left if to crack on forwards "

This

Ask until it hits 175, but there will be no answer.

Insisting on curiosity for something that will never be resolved, seems to some of us at least, as a waste of good brain power and energy

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Too needy maybe?"

E's only sayin' what we all be thinkin'

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"You get blocked if you sneeze on here so I would just get over and get on with..better things to be doing xx

I got blocked off several people for posting this. Couldn't stop laughing at the irony "

*face palm... lol it's like fabs got talent.. preemptive blocks at the ready

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this.

i think their point is that we don't know why someone else might block you see..it's not answerable here so the only option left if to crack on forwards

This

Ask until it hits 175, but there will be no answer.

Insisting on curiosity for something that will never be resolved, seems to some of us at least, as a waste of good brain power and energy "

I think it's good to ask questions, no matter if there will be a definitive answer. If unanswerable questions got banned, pretty much all threads would disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I'm blocked I smile and think to myself job well done...

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Ask until it hits 175, but there will be no answer.

Insisting on curiosity for something that will never be resolved, seems to some of us at least, as a waste of good brain power and energy

I think it's good to ask questions, no matter if there will be a definitive answer. If unanswerable questions got banned, pretty much all threads would disappear. "

Perhaps some of us are assuming he's not had this before and want to prepare him for it's inevitability again? I don't know

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this.

i think their point is that we don't know why someone else might block you see..it's not answerable here so the only option left if to crack on forwards

This

Ask until it hits 175, but there will be no answer.

Insisting on curiosity for something that will never be resolved, seems to some of us at least, as a waste of good brain power and energy "

Its only your own time and energy your wasting if you feel that way. What it really is, is a deep routed hunger for people to belittle people socially, for any reason. Granted some people are sincere in what they Sa but most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by. Life I to short to dwell on things that have happened but I is also too short to let a potential good thing slip by.

You choose which person you are.

Ok.... Bring the sarcastic remarks on people!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Man up cup cake"

Ahem

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by. "

Most? Sweeping, negative generalisations are not sexy

Anyway, good luck with clinging on to the women who blocked you, I'm done

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For whatever reason, if I decide I'm not going to meet someone I block them, also if I meet or know I want to meet someone I hotlist them, and ONLY friend people worthy of that title

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By *ilk_TreMan  over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this.

i think their point is that we don't know why someone else might block you see..it's not answerable here so the only option left if to crack on forwards

This

Ask until it hits 175, but there will be no answer.

Insisting on curiosity for something that will never be resolved, seems to some of us at least, as a waste of good brain power and energy

Its only your own time and energy your wasting if you feel that way. What it really is, is a deep routed hunger for people to belittle people socially, for any reason. Granted some people are sincere in what they Sa but most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by. Life I to short to dwell on things that have happened but I is also too short to let a potential good thing slip by.

You choose which person you are.

Ok.... Bring the sarcastic remarks on people! "

When you've spent longer than 5 minutes on this site, you might use this experience to give some other poor chap some valuable advice.

Until then, good luck with your next conversation. Hopefully you'll get your coffee and cake and who knows what else...

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by.

Most? Sweeping, negative generalisations are not sexy

Anyway, good luck with clinging on to the women who blocked you, I'm done "

I apologise if I have offended you. Kik I Sai most, and Tha I obviously from my own experience. To be fair if you had seen some of the DMs I have been getting since posting this, you would probably understand my negative attitude. Again sorry if I have offended you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just to clarify, the person in question has seen my face pics, I haven't seen theirs. They block me when I tell them what I do as a career. I'm just curious as hell as now I'm looking at all the women at work thinking.. Was it you???

I'm not getting beat up over it, like it has been said many times, plenty more fish in the sea (I want a seahorse)"

You know what curiosity did to the cat?...

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"To those who are telling me to get over it, I appreciate your posts but I'm only being curious, if you bother to read comments and my replies you would see this.

i think their point is that we don't know why someone else might block you see..it's not answerable here so the only option left if to crack on forwards

This

Ask until it hits 175, but there will be no answer.

Insisting on curiosity for something that will never be resolved, seems to some of us at least, as a waste of good brain power and energy

Its only your own time and energy your wasting if you feel that way. What it really is, is a deep routed hunger for people to belittle people socially, for any reason. Granted some people are sincere in what they Sa but most are just crowd following morons who cant accept others opinions and cant accept people who dont conform and follow the dreary masses who just let things pass them by. Life I to short to dwell on things that have happened but I is also too short to let a potential good thing slip by.

You choose which person you are.

Ok.... Bring the sarcastic remarks on people!

When you've spent longer than 5 minutes on this site, you might use this experience to give some other poor chap some valuable advice.

Until then, good luck with your next conversation. Hopefully you'll get your coffee and cake and who knows what else... "

Thank you. Hopefully yeah. Happy fabbing fella.

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By *illyjohnyCouple  over a year ago

brighton


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word."

When your BLOCKED your BLOCKED

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I block locals I haven't even chatted with. If I can see from their profile I am outside of their preferences, or they are outside mine, I block them otherwise they clutter up my home feed. Is that wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm often taking with several people at once and that can get a bit intense. You can't hide and show as offline so sometimes it's easier just to block a few of the ones who aren't inspiring you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

Obviously things weren't going as well for the other person as you thought

I wouldn't mind but the one person in particular instigated things. I all we did was agree to go for coffee and cake sometime. I told her where I work (business insurance) bang, blocked! Im not particularly bothered about being blocked, I'm sure I'm on many blocked lists for some reason or other. Its my curious nature just wanting to know why haha. "

maybe she knows or knew someone who works with you ,someones dad was on here the other day ,just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart. "

Just be direct and to the point. .

Op, would it have been better if this guy had just blocked you mid thread?

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By *rW88 OP   Man  over a year ago

Lancaster


"Anyone get sick of being blocked mid conversation? All I going well, both sides getting along.. Then wham BLOCKED!! No explanation, nothing. Dont want to come across as a whinging fart but its basically like sitting at the bar chatting and getting along then one side just gets up and walks out without saying a word.

You ARE coming across as a whinging fart.

Just be direct and to the point. .

Op, would it have been better if this guy had just blocked you mid thread? "

Pardon?

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