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where are all the women in the South East?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on here for a while now and despite messaging many women in the local area I've never even had a reply, other than from the fakes.
I think I might have to spread my search further afield!
I live in Eastbourne which I admit might not be the swinging capital of the uk but I've directed my search to Hastings, Brighton, Lewes, all large towns and still there doesn't seem to be many women looking for single, decent men!
Can someone advise where I'm going wrong!
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You need much better pics to compete with those who already have them on display IMO, I believe there are many ladies on here who cannot be bothered to get the information they seek bit by bit, it's like getting blood out of a stone sometimes, so they just move on to the next profile.
You are asking a woman to have sex with you, but all you are offering here is a face in a jokey hat (which often means the body is undesirable frankly). Good luck anyway. |
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been on here for a while now and despite messaging many women in the local area I've never even had a reply, other than from the fakes.
I think I might have to spread my search further afield!
I live in Eastbourne which I admit might not be the swinging capital of the uk but I've directed my search to Hastings, Brighton, Lewes, all large towns and still there doesn't seem to be many women looking for single, decent men!
Can someone advise where I'm going wrong!
Thank you"
How many of the 'many women' you messaged did you first read their Profile in full and match what they were looking for? Did you send a decent message or just hi? And of the 'fakes' how do you know they're fakes? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always read profiles and only message anyone if I believe that there could be a mutual attraction. I don't randomly message anyone and everyone.
I always introduce myself and make sure the message I'm sending is personal to that person.
There are lots of fake profiles that are just wanting you to sign up to websites to 'verify yourself'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a little tip OP, when you're responding to someone's comment, try clicking on the 'quote' link (think it's Reply + quote on mobile app).
It makes it a lot easier for people to understand which comments you're responding to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just a little tip OP, when you're responding to someone's comment, try clicking on the 'quote' link (think it's Reply + quote on mobile app).
It makes it a lot easier for people to understand which comments you're responding to"
Thanks for that  I've not been on the forum before |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you know about the sussex social? I don't know when the next one is but if you put it in the forum search box the most recent thread will come up. "
Thank you I'll look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can someone advise where I'm going wrong!
Thank you"
I'm just thinking out loud.
Seriously...right..would you subjectively, walk up to a girl in a bar, Stark bollock naked as you are in your avatar and attempt to have a genuine conversation?... 
This what I don't understand with guys with dick pics as their avatars, you're cutting your own left nut off before she's even opened the message. |
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