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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified."
Some of us will meet un-verified folk, the key is to sell yourself. We make a decision whether to meet someone or not by the way they approach us and communicate thereafter. It doesn't worry us if they have a little green tick or not!
It's not the be all and end all getting verified so don't let it worry you too much. |
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"Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified.
Some of us will meet un-verified folk, the key is to sell yourself. We make a decision whether to meet someone or not by the way they approach us and communicate thereafter. It doesn't worry us if they have a little green tick or not!
It's not the be all and end all getting verified so don't let it worry you too much."
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"Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified.
Some of us will meet un-verified folk, the key is to sell yourself. We make a decision whether to meet someone or not by the way they approach us and communicate thereafter. It doesn't worry us if they have a little green tick or not!
It's not the be all and end all getting verified so don't let it worry you too much.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified.
Some of us will meet un-verified folk, the key is to sell yourself. We make a decision whether to meet someone or not by the way they approach us and communicate thereafter. It doesn't worry us if they have a little green tick or not!
It's not the be all and end all getting verified so don't let it worry you too much."
Couldn't agree more!
What I also found is people who are obsessed with being verified tend to be focused on that and not fun!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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get yourself along to a social and meet people in a no pressure environment.
Once you've chatted, people will be happy to verify you.
Being verified isn't the be all and end all of things by any means. Just because someone has turned up to meet someone else, it doesn't guarantee that they will turn up for you.
It's not easy to pull on a swinging site. If you can't pull in the real world, you'll struggle here too, and whether or not you're verified wont make a scrap of difference.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified."
there are ways....
go to socials... go to clubs... get yourself known in the chatroom and go on cam....
basically go out there and be proactive... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately, everytime we've ever been messed around, it's been by someone new without any verifications. It's as if they enjoy the talk but when it comes to the meet, they bottle it and cancel at the very last minute with really stupid excuses. It has made us avoid people sadly, and yes we've possibly missed out on some nice genuine people, but when you have limited time you want to make sure folk are genuine and are not going to say no at the last minute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified."
Well i was told to go to a social so i did and met some really nice people. Enjoyed it so much i have another 2 sorted before the end of summer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's different for gurls. A lot of guys get curious when they're turned on at the computer but bottle it in the cold light of day. Veris prove they can stop wanking and leave the house.
In the end it's a tickbox. If a guy ticks enough other boxes I'll let it slide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people don't want to know if your not verified, but to get verified you've got to meet someone. so tell me how the hell do you do it when no one wants to know you if your not verified."
As others have said, some of us will meet (the right) unverified guy. Other than that, the best way to get verified is to meet people socially at a social or a club.
Don't, for goodness sake, focus on the need to be verified ... it suggests a kind of desperation, which I'm sure is not the case.
Just be patient - you will 'click' with the right people, either socially or sexually, in time. |
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