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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"There's some truth in what the OP says!
"No veris for over 6 months!? What's WRONG with you!!"  "
nothing dan for one i don't believe in the veri system i see as a pimp service.
but it seems that lack of veries can be used as a insult on here only on fab can someone be insulted for not being promiscuous or for not bragging about the fact they maybe through veries  |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I'm not and I'm not insulted should I be? "
of coarse not but on here people seen to use number of veries as a insult ie low number lets try and insult that person over it .
the mind boggles  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I'm not and I'm not insulted should I be?
of coarse not but on here people seen to use number of veries as a insult ie low number lets try and insult that person over it .
the mind boggles "
Too many or too few can win.
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I'm not and I'm not insulted should I be?
of coarse not but on here people seen to use number of veries as a insult ie low number lets try and insult that person over it .
the mind boggles
Too many or too few can win.
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I'm not and I'm not insulted should I be?
of coarse not but on here people seen to use number of veries as a insult ie low number lets try and insult that person over it .
the mind boggles
Too many or too few can win.
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no you can't red but its very funny when someone turns nasty and tries to insult over number of veries 
ie look at me i can fuck lots look at my veries unlike you errrrr but i refused you  hence the outburst |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I've only got 3 on this profile and I've never been insulted for it. "
i get insulted over my number all the time maybe its just old fashion sexism against men who don't stand to attention for just anyone |
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"Not sure if we should take anything said on this site seriously.
You've got a seriously sexy bum 
I DEFINITELY don't take anything you say seriously. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
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I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it. "
i no sexy fab is a mad house theirs even people on here who start threads about me and you being the same person the mind boggles it really does  |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
No. You can be insulted for anything. It doesn't make it true. "
true but only on fab can a guy or a woman for that matter be insulted for not being promiscuous and selective in who they meet .
fab is the only place where having a low number of notches on your bed post can be viewed negatively and used negatively against you .
is a mad world is the fab world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it.
i no sexy fab is a mad house theirs even people on here who start threads about me and you being the same person the mind boggles it really does "
Well it shows people notice us . We are the talk of fab but we don't sleep around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
No. You can be insulted for anything. It doesn't make it true.
true but only on fab can a guy or a woman for that matter be insulted for not being promiscuous and selective in who they meet .
fab is the only place where having a low number of notches on your bed post can be viewed negatively and used negatively against you .
is a mad world is the fab world "
It's only a insult if you take it as one. You should be proud of what you do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
No. You can be insulted for anything. It doesn't make it true.
true but only on fab can a guy or a woman for that matter be insulted for not being promiscuous and selective in who they meet .
fab is the only place where having a low number of notches on your bed post can be viewed negatively and used negatively against you .
is a mad world is the fab world "
ignore and move on and block . Isn't that the advice? |
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Well I believe nothing should lead to insults, infact if anyone is insultive I can see there are a lot of insecurities and the insults are just a defense mechanism to hide insecurities.
That said, I would say verifications are very important and you need to be serious about building them, ask the people you meet to verify you, you have to be fair to the new people interested in your brand ,this is the only way they would see what you are really about beyond everything you say about yourself. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Well I believe nothing should lead to insults, infact if anyone is insultive I can see there are a lot of insecurities and the insults are just a defense mechanism to hide insecurities.
That said, I would say verifications are very important and you need to be serious about building them, ask the people you meet to verify you, you have to be fair to the new people interested in your brand ,this is the only way they would see what you are really about beyond everything you say about yourself."
Interested in your brand? crikey, there was me thinking it was all a bit of fun |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Well I believe nothing should lead to insults, infact if anyone is insultive I can see there are a lot of insecurities and the insults are just a defense mechanism to hide insecurities.
That said, I would say verifications are very important and you need to be serious about building them, ask the people you meet to verify you, you have to be fair to the new people interested in your brand ,this is the only way they would see what you are really about beyond everything you say about yourself."
i personally think veries are nothing more that fake BS because the system is flawed due to human nature ,
let me explain what i mean who's is going to give a bad one ,
its a false narrative in my opinion because if you meet some one and the sex was shit your not going to say so because you know the other person is going to retaliate by saying the same thing back in their veri of you .
because of that simple fact all veries are useless as a guide to everything including social skills its a system that by its very nature can only lead to positive fake back slapping .
now I'm not saying all veries are fake but they should be viewed with a large does of cynicism due to my words above in my opinion
lack of them or a large number of them should again mean nothing apart from that the person in question may not meet that often or feel the need to give them or have many of them .
after all the true test is do people keep meeting you now that's a true gage to the truth about sexual and social skills not veries in my opinion . |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
No. You can be insulted for anything. It doesn't make it true.
true but only on fab can a guy or a woman for that matter be insulted for not being promiscuous and selective in who they meet .
fab is the only place where having a low number of notches on your bed post can be viewed negatively and used negatively against you .
is a mad world is the fab world
ignore and move on and block . Isn't that the advice? "
i don't block there is no one on my block list yes I'm a freak who can have a disagreement and dislike someone with out feeling the need to block said person . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it. "
So those who have lots of veris are easy? Isn't that quite insulting? |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it.
So those who have lots of veris are easy? Isn't that quite insulting? "
no one is insulting anyone here this thread is about the madness of fab where everything can be used to try and spread negative emotions by those feeling negative emotions. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"on here you only have to stare at the screen in the wrong way to annoy some people"
to true its a mad house that never ceases to entertain me while at the same time leave me looking like this at what I'm reading a lot of the time |
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it.
So those who have lots of veris are easy? Isn't that quite insulting?
no one is insulting anyone here this thread is about the madness of fab where everything can be used to try and spread negative emotions by those feeling negative emotions."
I'd say your little bitch friend was implying that those with lots of verifications are easy and will fuck anything. Also that she is superior because she doesn't do that. She was being rather derogatory in her statement but I guess she will be forgiven for spreading her negative emotions because you like her.
This thread started out quite funny, pointing out the difference between fab and the real world but it got snarky when people started putting down those who do have a lot of verifications and so lost its appeal. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it.
So those who have lots of veris are easy? Isn't that quite insulting?
no one is insulting anyone here this thread is about the madness of fab where everything can be used to try and spread negative emotions by those feeling negative emotions.
I'd say your little bitch friend was implying that those with lots of verifications are easy and will fuck anything. Also that she is superior because she doesn't do that. She was being rather derogatory in her statement but I guess she will be forgiven for spreading her negative emotions because you like her.
This thread started out quite funny, pointing out the difference between fab and the real world but it got snarky when people started putting down those who do have a lot of verifications and so lost its appeal. "
little bitch is not insulting anyone as her statement is a statement about herself .
I don't sleep around because I'm not a easy man to turn on nor do i fancy many people i am sometimes proud of that fact at other times a feel like a freak who is excluded from the party because of how i am as a human being
by my own words
i don't sleep around because I'm not easy that's a statement about me no different than little bitches statement its only negative in my opinion if you choose to read it as aimed at others instead of a statement about ones self . |
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"Well I believe nothing should lead to insults, infact if anyone is insultive I can see there are a lot of insecurities and the insults are just a defense mechanism to hide insecurities.
That said, I would say verifications are very important and you need to be serious about building them, ask the people you meet to verify you, you have to be fair to the new people interested in your brand ,this is the only way they would see what you are really about beyond everything you say about yourself.
i personally think veries are nothing more that fake BS because the system is flawed due to human nature ,
let me explain what i mean who's is going to give a bad one ,
its a false narrative in my opinion because if you meet some one and the sex was shit your not going to say so because you know the other person is going to retaliate by saying the same thing back in their veri of you .
because of that simple fact all veries are useless as a guide to everything including social skills its a system that by its very nature can only lead to positive fake back slapping .
now I'm not saying all veries are fake but they should be viewed with a large does of cynicism due to my words above in my opinion
lack of them or a large number of them should again mean nothing apart from that the person in question may not meet that often or feel the need to give them or have many of them .
after all the true test is do people keep meeting you now that's a true gage to the truth about sexual and social skills not veries in my opinion . "
Yeah I understand your point but when people who are party organizers who have known you for over two years are saying something about you after watching you over two years, it has to be true, verifications put people at ease with you and makes them comfortable, nobody wants stress, so if you are all about fun without stress , you would look at verifications and if you are a fair minded swinger you would make an effort to build them.
If I see no verifications on a ladies profile or hidden verifications am not even going to talk to her cause in my mind I would feel this is definitely a knockle head and trouble, verifications go a long way to make people comfortable with you. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Well I believe nothing should lead to insults, infact if anyone is insultive I can see there are a lot of insecurities and the insults are just a defense mechanism to hide insecurities.
That said, I would say verifications are very important and you need to be serious about building them, ask the people you meet to verify you, you have to be fair to the new people interested in your brand ,this is the only way they would see what you are really about beyond everything you say about yourself.
i personally think veries are nothing more that fake BS because the system is flawed due to human nature ,
let me explain what i mean who's is going to give a bad one ,
its a false narrative in my opinion because if you meet some one and the sex was shit your not going to say so because you know the other person is going to retaliate by saying the same thing back in their veri of you .
because of that simple fact all veries are useless as a guide to everything including social skills its a system that by its very nature can only lead to positive fake back slapping .
now I'm not saying all veries are fake but they should be viewed with a large does of cynicism due to my words above in my opinion
lack of them or a large number of them should again mean nothing apart from that the person in question may not meet that often or feel the need to give them or have many of them .
after all the true test is do people keep meeting you now that's a true gage to the truth about sexual and social skills not veries in my opinion .
Yeah I understand your point but when people who are party organizers who have known you for over two years are saying something about you after watching you over two years, it has to be true, verifications put people at ease with you and makes them comfortable, nobody wants stress, so if you are all about fun without stress , you would look at verifications and if you are a fair minded swinger you would make an effort to build them.
If I see no verifications on a ladies profile or hidden verifications am not even going to talk to her cause in my mind I would feel this is definitely a knockle head and trouble, verifications go a long way to make people comfortable with you."
great point fella and kind of goes hand in hand with what i said about the only true guide is if your the type of person someone wants to have fun with regularly , but its another strange fact about fab that repeat meets can also be used to try and insult you when someone is feeling a negative emotion and looking for a out let for that negative feeling . |
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over a year ago
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I like to read veris however if you've got none showing or have chosen not to show recent ones then that's your choice i would never call someone out on it.
Have a rant then let it pass and rise above |
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"Well I believe nothing should lead to insults, infact if anyone is insultive I can see there are a lot of insecurities and the insults are just a defense mechanism to hide insecurities.
That said, I would say verifications are very important and you need to be serious about building them, ask the people you meet to verify you, you have to be fair to the new people interested in your brand ,this is the only way they would see what you are really about beyond everything you say about yourself.
Interested in your brand? crikey, there was me thinking it was all a bit of fun "
Of course its a brand and its also about fun, you created a profile and have said some things about yourself that has told me to choose you over the other multitude of women . so I would like to see what the other men, women and couples felt when they came your way. If you hide all your verifications, you are indirectly telling genuine serious minded swingers not to come your way. |
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"I like to read veris however if you've got none showing or have chosen not to show recent ones then that's your choice i would never call someone out on it.
Have a rant then let it pass and rise above "
Maybe , some people like to reinvent themselves, I know some guys who felt the ladies who verified them in the past were not beautiful enough and not good enough for their brand, so they will hide them but they will make a consious effort to build new ones. |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Well I believe nothing should lead to insults, infact if anyone is insultive I can see there are a lot of insecurities and the insults are just a defense mechanism to hide insecurities.
That said, I would say verifications are very important and you need to be serious about building them, ask the people you meet to verify you, you have to be fair to the new people interested in your brand ,this is the only way they would see what you are really about beyond everything you say about yourself.
Interested in your brand? crikey, there was me thinking it was all a bit of fun
Of course its a brand and its also about fun, you created a profile and have said some things about yourself that has told me to choose you over the other multitude of women . so I would like to see what the other men, women and couples felt when they came your way. If you hide all your verifications, you are indirectly telling genuine serious minded swingers not to come your way."
that's a interesting take on it and a interesting opinion as I'm not a swinger so i cant really say or speak for such people to the truth in your words .
but what i can say is this only on fab will you be insulted for not being a promiscuous person .
which like i said is a very funny peculiarity of this very entertaining madhouse called fab .
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it.
So those who have lots of veris are easy? Isn't that quite insulting? "
Only if you want it to be |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I like to read veris however if you've got none showing or have chosen not to show recent ones then that's your choice i would never call someone out on it.
Have a rant then let it pass and rise above
Maybe , some people like to reinvent themselves, I know some guys who felt the ladies who verified them in the past were not beautiful enough and not good enough for their brand, so they will hide them but they will make a consious effort to build new ones."
that's very funny thought fella because one of the other reasons i have no time for the veri system is because lots of women can be intimidated by them
to the degree they are put off thinking he clearly has a type that I'm not when it comes to body and looks . |
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Everyone criticises everyone else on Fab.... I will tell you all now. Those of us who know we are absolutely right all the time are getting pretty pissed off with those who just think they are right.
Apropos nothing, no recent veris tells me they don't turn up to meets, i am yet to be proved wrong.  |
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"Everyone criticises everyone else on Fab.... I will tell you all now. Those of us who know we are absolutely right all the time are getting pretty pissed off with those who just think they are right.
Apropos nothing, no recent veris tells me they don't turn up to meets, i am yet to be proved wrong. "
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"Everyone criticises everyone else on Fab.... I will tell you all now. Those of us who know we are absolutely right all the time are getting pretty pissed off with those who just think they are right.
Apropos nothing, no recent veris tells me they don't turn up to meets, i am yet to be proved wrong.
I think I love you. "
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Ok I'm fairly new to the site. I made a conscious decision from the start to do this my way, no pics, not showing verifications and just be me. I treat ppl as individuals and not all will find me appealing and vice versa. That is human nature and our right to choose the ppl we feel most fit our needs. However, that doesn't mean that those who don't fit our criteria or follow a different path are wrong. Being different is what makes us all unique and special in our own way. So stand tall and proud with your head held high and make your Fab journey your own, don't let the negativity and the judgement of others sway you. If what you do makes you happy then it isn't wrong, so stay strong and choose those who choose you |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Everyone criticises everyone else on Fab.... I will tell you all now. Those of us who know we are absolutely right all the time are getting pretty pissed off with those who just think they are right.
Apropos nothing, no recent veris tells me they don't turn up to meets, i am yet to be proved wrong. "
the day will come as there are exception to every rule
like I no one day I will be stood up myself because although I have never experience a no show in the 7 years I have been online i no one day it will happen law of averages and all . |
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok I'm fairly new to the site. I made a conscious decision from the start to do this my way, no pics, not showing verifications and just be me. I treat ppl as individuals and not all will find me appealing and vice versa. That is human nature and our right to choose the ppl we feel most fit our needs. However, that doesn't mean that those who don't fit our criteria or follow a different path are wrong. Being different is what makes us all unique and special in our own way. So stand tall and proud with your head held high and make your Fab journey your own, don't let the negativity and the judgement of others sway you. If what you do makes you happy then it isn't wrong, so stay strong and choose those who choose you "
well said and very true |
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"Everyone criticises everyone else on Fab.... I will tell you all now. Those of us who know we are absolutely right all the time are getting pretty pissed off with those who just think they are right.
Apropos nothing, no recent veris tells me they don't turn up to meets, i am yet to be proved wrong.
I think I love you.
Shush! Not in public!! "
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"I like to read veris however if you've got none showing or have chosen not to show recent ones then that's your choice i would never call someone out on it.
Have a rant then let it pass and rise above
Maybe , some people like to reinvent themselves, I know some guys who felt the ladies who verified them in the past were not beautiful enough and not good enough for their brand, so they will hide them but they will make a consious effort to build new ones.
that's very funny thought fella because one of the other reasons i have no time for the veri system is because lots of women can be intimidated by them
to the degree they are put off thinking he clearly has a type that I'm not when it comes to body and looks . "
Fair comment I must admit, but that is the same reason why some guys do this, beautiful women attract beautiful women, so when a beautiful woman sees a hot girl leaving you a verification, she will be thinking if that hot girl has fucked him ,I want him too
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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago
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"I like to read veris however if you've got none showing or have chosen not to show recent ones then that's your choice i would never call someone out on it.
Have a rant then let it pass and rise above
Maybe , some people like to reinvent themselves, I know some guys who felt the ladies who verified them in the past were not beautiful enough and not good enough for their brand, so they will hide them but they will make a consious effort to build new ones.
that's very funny thought fella because one of the other reasons i have no time for the veri system is because lots of women can be intimidated by them
to the degree they are put off thinking he clearly has a type that I'm not when it comes to body and looks .
Fair comment I must admit, but that is the same reason why some guys do this, beautiful women attract beautiful women, so when a beautiful woman sees a hot girl leaving you a verification, she will be thinking if that hot girl has fucked him ,I want him too
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yes I knew a guy who swore by that very practise saying hot chicks are a sucker for trying to get one over on other hot chicks
like i said the mind boggles when it comes to fab society |
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it.
So those who have lots of veris are easy? Isn't that quite insulting? "
yes, it is, and i imagine it's supposed to be.. |
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"can someone be insulted for not being a serial shagger
I am proud of not having any it shows I don't sleep around not easy. So I'm not insulted by it.
So those who have lots of veris are easy? Isn't that quite insulting?
no one is insulting anyone here this thread is about the madness of fab where everything can be used to try and spread negative emotions by those feeling negative emotions.
I'd say your little bitch friend was implying that those with lots of verifications are easy and will fuck anything. Also that she is superior because she doesn't do that. She was being rather derogatory in her statement but I guess she will be forgiven for spreading her negative emotions because you like her.
This thread started out quite funny, pointing out the difference between fab and the real world but it got snarky when people started putting down those who do have a lot of verifications and so lost its appeal.
little bitch is not insulting anyone as her statement is a statement about herself .
I don't sleep around because I'm not a easy man to turn on nor do i fancy many people i am sometimes proud of that fact at other times a feel like a freak who is excluded from the party because of how i am as a human being
by my own words
i don't sleep around because I'm not easy that's a statement about me no different than little bitches statement its only negative in my opinion if you choose to read it as aimed at others instead of a statement about ones self ."
LOL the master of spin. Her intentions were clear.
I'm not offended by it because my use if this site and tool it offers me are not dictated by anyone. I show what I want to show and hide what I want to hide to suit my own desires.
Just because someone questions the motives behind a statement does not mean they are offended by it. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Just because someone questions the motives behind a statement does not mean they are offended by it."
Oohhhhh I wish more people would get this. the amount of times I get accused of being defensive or offended at something when I'm only disagreeing with them. |
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