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By *ots OP Man
over a year ago
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Well I've had 2 or 3 profiles on here over the years and had to adapt to my circumstances and others rather picky choices.
Sadly my other half can't play anymore due to an illness but with her blessing I have continued but been discreet, I don't want to rub her nose in it I still love her bless.
Now what is swinging?
Well for me it's about meeting up and having fun.
Over the years both of us have had some great fun. In doors out doors, dressed and undressed, couples barely any singles (f) well (m) there's always plenty of those.
Since playing alone only the odd couple I think many are just too picky or there's just too many singles to pick from.
My best meet with a couple and they know who they are moved away sadly to retire. They to me a truly swingers, their happy to meet singles, couples, male or female. Bi play, vanilla, kinky play you name it.
Well done to them.
For me that's swinging!
What's your view? |
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over a year ago
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Whats wrong with picky?
I don't think this site is used by many swingers in all honesty! 98% of the males we have spoken to are cheating on their partner.
Being a lying cheat is not swinging.
Swinging is when a couple have sex with other couples/singles with the knowledge and vlessing of their partner eiher together or alone.
How picky they are is up to them imo, just because a couple classes themselves as swingers does not mean they have to sleep with everything with a pulse  |
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My best meet with a couple and they know who they are moved away sadly to retire. They to me a truly swingers, their happy to meet singles, couples, male or female. Bi play, vanilla, kinky play you name it.
Well done to them.
For me that's swinging!
What's your view?"
My view is you don't have to be bi or kinky to be swingers....there probably isn't a definition that everyone would agree with but having to be everything to everyone certainly isn't the definition. |
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Its anything the individual wants it to be.
Describing people as picky implies that you want everyone to swing the same way you do. Plenty of people think you can't be playing as a single and describe yourself as a swinger. We don't, there's room for everyone but it's good to respect other's choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whats wrong with picky?
I don't think this site is used by many swingers in all honesty! 98% of the males we have spoken to are cheating on their partner.
Being a lying cheat is not swinging.
Swinging is when a couple have sex with other couples/singles with the knowledge and vlessing of their partner eiher together or alone.
How picky they are is up to them imo, just because a couple classes themselves as swingers does not mean they have to sleep with everything with a pulse "
I agree with the lying cheat part. Their not swingers. Only users.
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"Its anything the individual wants it to be.
Describing people as picky implies that you want everyone to swing the same way you do. Plenty of people think you can't be playing as a single and describe yourself as a swinger. We don't, there's room for everyone but it's good to respect other's choices."
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