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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
I was thinking about this the other day.
Women love to keep in touch and there is nothing wrong with that
But men can go weeks without talking and still happily go for a pint with their mates as if they seen them yesterday |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If a man wants to text/chat/call he will. If he doesn't then he won't.
No point hassling him or messaging him, just leave it and keep talking to everyone else  "
Not hassling him. Worse thing I could do, I know that!! Just a bit frustrating lol, that's why I started the thread to get other points of _iew x |
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"If a man wants to text/chat/call he will. If he doesn't then he won't.
No point hassling him or messaging him, just leave it and keep talking to everyone else
Not hassling him. Worse thing I could do, I know that!! Just a bit frustrating lol, that's why I started the thread to get other points of _iew x"
That's my point, I forget about them so there's no frustration |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe we just dont want to seem pushy. Nobody wants to appear clingy or over-keen.
I'm always up for a conversation but when the replies dry up and message 'ping pong' becomes all ping and no pong, then I get the message and stop sending.
Find the right person, on your communication wavelength and I can happily whatsapp my arse off, every day, with a big silly grin |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i'm shit at keeping in touch also. it's not always men, just i overload myself and get distracted easily and focus on things other than keeping in touch.
i didn't used to be but just got into the habit since i started chatting to a lot of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Found out that when someone is super super chatty then goes silent means they are no longer interested so I give them the chance to tell me if they bullshit or dont reply I cut loose and dont bother |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Found out that when someone is super super chatty then goes silent means they are no longer interested so I give them the chance to tell me if they bullshit or dont reply I cut loose and dont bother "
He chats when he wants it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
Texting works for me right now. It's quite exciting getting a message sometimes. Unless it's o2 telling my data is going to run out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Found out that when someone is super super chatty then goes silent means they are no longer interested so I give them the chance to tell me if they bullshit or dont reply I cut loose and dont bother
He chats when he wants it lol"
Id tell him to get fucked it should be when you want to talk to!
Some guys on here really are all just chat anyway and need to do one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
I'll happily text / message anyone about anything. Just had a decent fun exchange over music!
Try me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
He mustn't like you, if he did he'd keep in regular contact without prompt.
Some are willfully oblivious and completely ignore or choose not to acknowledge obvious cues ..
I don't mean to seem harsh but in all likelihood he's probably not bad at staying in contact with those he wants to stay in contact with. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
Yes we like staying in touch. May I ask you OP, how often are you texting people? Do you give them time to respond? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
I'm crap at keeping in touch. I admit it . And I think I'm female .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't, i don't even have a phone any more...people get pissy when you ignore them and it's just too much like hassle, thing beeping away and ringing just annoys me so no, we don't all love texting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x"
I must be different then. I always message and stay in touch. I find it's the fab women who don't! Sometimes makes me feel like a bit of a nuisance and pushy. |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You really don't like keeping in touch do you? Is texting just a woman thing? All answers appreciated, not having a go x
Yes we like staying in touch. May I ask you OP, how often are you texting people? Do you give them time to respond? "
I think 5 hours is enough?? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"i don't, i don't even have a phone any more...people get pissy when you ignore them and it's just too much like hassle, thing beeping away and ringing just annoys me so no, we don't all love texting "
Couldn't agree more, you and I should get together and never text each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess so, take into account people's work and lifestyle. I'm often accused of not replying soon enough on here.... however I work shifts , nights etc... so replying may not be as fluid as some people would like |
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By *ik MMan
over a year ago
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I've had some what appeared to be great meets and tried to keep in touch infrequently only to see replies become less often or not at all...
I would always reply to a text even if it was a thanks but no thanks, and if I felt there was something positive would be the one to initiate contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it varies. Our longest standing playmates is rubbish at texting, yet there have been others who have made a nuisance of themselves with too much texting. And others have almost brought me to orgasm with text messages. There's all sorts out there, but ultimately the quality or frequency of texting has no baring on what they are like face to face.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't, i don't even have a phone any more...people get pissy when you ignore them and it's just too much like hassle, thing beeping away and ringing just annoys me so no, we don't all love texting
Couldn't agree more, you and I should get together and never text each other "
i need pen pals like you! |
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"Maybe we just dont want to seem pushy. Nobody wants to appear clingy or over-keen.
I'm always up for a conversation but when the replies dry up and message 'ping pong' becomes all ping and no pong, then I get the message and stop sending.
Find the right person, on your communication wavelength and I can happily whatsapp my arse off, every day, with a big silly grin "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if someone (of either gender ) genuinely wants to stay in touch then they will. If they never initiate any kind of communication or rarely reply then I think that speaks volumes - I would move on x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the man. When I was dating him he always kept in contact and sent me cute little texts. Now we live together he messages me on his breaks at work and calls when running late etc so down to the man but if he's genuinely interested he will make the effort to keep in contact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my friends are productive when it comes to communicating with people. If we didn't keep our communication to a good standard , I would be feeling like Fred flinstone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say the same for women to be honest, not all of them of course, we're only human after all.
If I'm chatting with a women I'll reply pretty mush straight away if I can and will sign off with an ending comment when it's called for, I've chatted to a few women the past week and they've all just stopped replying, one I can understand but the other two women have gone quiet for reasons only they know.
It happens, it is what it is. |
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"I think 5 hours is enough??"
For a man to text back? That's pressure in my eyes.
A husband, a boyfriend, a family member maybe that's ok.
But for guys we meet on here, for NSA, it's unreasonable in my eyes.
They come back when they want and then it's up to us whether we want to see them or bin them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My two favourite people on Fab, are over 200 miles away. Frequent communication between visits, keeps us going.
Jokes, giggles and the occasional 'ninja hug', help to pass the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't message anyone ever. On here, or other social media nor via text etc. All the folk on my friendslist will tell you that!!
I don't know why. I never know what to say and always feel like i'm bothering folk when they're busy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find some keep in touch too much for my liking  "
Your profile is very interesting... the following in particular:
"Blindfolded in a hotel room and someone comes in, does what they want with me and I never see their face."
I have been lucky enough to do similar scenarios and various role plays... soo exciting!
A female friend came to meet me in London last year. We had hotel for 4 days. She thought we were just going to go to clubs... but I had other ideas and surprised her! I know what she likes so had her tied up and blindfolded... on the first day I invited a male friend join us.
On the second day I invited two male friends to join us.
On the third day had another male friend join us...
4 guys played with her while she was tied up and blindfolded. She did not have a clue until they touched her. God she was soo happy over those 4 days 
Oh and we still went to 2 parties inbetween private play. I had it all planned out to make sure she had maximum pleasure for her London visit
However...
I do like to keep in touch with people after sex though. One of my female friends called me a chatterbox!!
#unfuckingbelievable
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't message in the first place. I just spew my lust all across the forum.
Like a plague
Bring out your dead!
https://youtu.be/grbSQ6O6kbs"
Estella fucking people to death on fab - you heard it here first. |
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