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Shoe Compliments..

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So I was complimented by a female work colleague today on my shoes. I was speechless! I've never been complimented on my shoes before and to be honest I found it a little disarming as I didn't really know how to react. Could she have been flirting with me, or was it just an innocent comment?

Have you ever been complimented on something and struggled to react appropriately?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone once said they thought I'd be chunkier.

I'm not sure if it was a compliment or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I was complimented by a female work colleague today on my shoes. I was speechless! I've never been complimented on my shoes before and to be honest I found it a little disarming as I didn't really know how to react. Could she have been flirting with me, or was it just an innocent comment?

Have you ever been complimented on something and struggled to react appropriately? "

I appreciate good shoes on a man. I always struggle to react appropriately at a compliment as I always wonder if they're lying or being sarcastic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you ever been complimented on something and struggled to react appropriately? "

Rule of thumb with compliments on shoes from chick's is, treat it as a Facebook like, unlike us guys when chick's like your Facebook status it doesn't mean they want your boaby, it means they like your status is all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone once said they thought I'd be chunkier.

I'm not sure if it was a compliment or not

That's what is known as a backhanded compliment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone once said they thought I'd be chunkier.

I'm not sure if it was a compliment or not

That's what is known as a backhanded compliment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Every compliment I struggle to accept. They must be nice shoes though for her to comment on them. X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone is wearing something nice then I tell them unless I really dislike them and then just pray for their shoe lace to open and trip on it!

I pretty much think all compliments are false and people are saying stuff to be nice or because they think they have to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's when they say you smell nice that's when you prepare the durex fs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a thing about shoes, so I get that

To me it's important a man's outfit is complete with a pair of well cared for smart shoes

So often you look to the ground and see a fantastic outfit ruined by scruffy footwear

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

This is what was strange, she reached over and brushed the laces from one side to the other and rubbed the leather on the instep just a wee bit. I just went

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did she say nice shoes...or nice, big shoes?!

Perhaps she subscribes to the theory that a guy with big feet has.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

This is what was strange, she reached over and brushed the laces from one side to the other and rubbed the leather on the instep just a wee bit. I just went

You didn't say 'while you're down there love' and give her a wink then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

This is what was strange, she reached over and brushed the laces from one side to the other and rubbed the leather on the instep just a wee bit. I just went

Ah well now you make it sound like a fetish

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Did she say nice shoes...or nice, big shoes?!

Perhaps she subscribes to the theory that a guy with big feet has.....

I'm pretty sure she's not on here Minxy so.. she said "Oh R... I like these".

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

This is what was strange, she reached over and brushed the laces from one side to the other and rubbed the leather on the instep just a wee bit. I just went

You didn't say 'while you're down there love' and give her a wink then?"

Haha No!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

This is what was strange, she reached over and brushed the laces from one side to the other and rubbed the leather on the instep just a wee bit. I just went

Ah well now you make it sound like a fetish

You think? Maybe she has a collection of men's shoes back home!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

This is what was strange, she reached over and brushed the laces from one side to the other and rubbed the leather on the instep just a wee bit. I just went

Yeah that's a bit weird,unless you like her as well I'd avoid her if I were you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Were they funky/trendy shoes?

I never look at a man's shoes, i'm too busy trying to get a look at his crotch without being seen to be ogling his crotch in a pervy way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think how I would be complimenting a man on his shoes,now she may just like your shoes or she may be flirting slightly with you. I just don't know really

This is what was strange, she reached over and brushed the laces from one side to the other and rubbed the leather on the instep just a wee bit. I just went

Sounds flirty to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I compliment people all the time. If I like something they're wearing, I tell them.

Also... shoes matter to most of us women. I had a date with a guy who wore Velcro shoes once. I nearly threw myself down the stairs to get out of the date.

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By *lmostthereMan over a year ago

Southampton

"I compliment people all the time. If I like something they're wearing, I tell them.

Also... shoes matter to most of us women. I had a date with a guy who wore Velcro shoes once. I nearly threw myself down the stairs to get out of the date.

Did you take him back to the Care of the Elderly ward?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I compliment people all the time. If I like something they're wearing, I tell them.

Also... shoes matter to most of us women. I had a date with a guy who wore Velcro shoes once. I nearly threw myself down the stairs to get out of the date.

And slip on shoes

Nooooo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I compliment people all the time. If I like something they're wearing, I tell them.

Also... shoes matter to most of us women. I had a date with a guy who wore Velcro shoes once. I nearly threw myself down the stairs to get out of the date.

Did you take him back to the Care of the Elderly ward? "

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By *lmostthereMan over a year ago

Southampton

Also I am wearing a pair of deep burgundy coloured suede boots.

Fuck ALL you haters!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I compliment people all the time. If I like something they're wearing, I tell them.

Also... shoes matter to most of us women. I had a date with a guy who wore Velcro shoes once. I nearly threw myself down the stairs to get out of the date.

And slip on shoes

Nooooo!"

Loafers and trousers rolled up far too high! Nooooooooooooo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your shoes are shit she was flirting with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did she say nice shoes...or nice, big shoes?!

Perhaps she subscribes to the theory that a guy with big feet has.....

... Big socks.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think she wants you. It's one thing to compliment a chaps shoes but to actually get down and touch them!!!

(I might try that with my boss)

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I compliment people all the time. If I like something they're wearing, I tell them.

Also... shoes matter to most of us women. I had a date with a guy who wore Velcro shoes once. I nearly threw myself down the stairs to get out of the date.

And slip on shoes

Nooooo!

Loafers and trousers rolled up far too high! Nooooooooooooo! "

I like loafers and rolled up, brightly coloured trousers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I compliment people all the time. If I like something they're wearing, I tell them.

Also... shoes matter to most of us women. I had a date with a guy who wore Velcro shoes once. I nearly threw myself down the stairs to get out of the date.

And slip on shoes

Nooooo!

Loafers and trousers rolled up far too high! Nooooooooooooo!

I like loafers and rolled up, brightly coloured trousers.

I need to take you to Richmond. You'd love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think she wants you. It's one thing to compliment a chaps shoes but to actually get down and touch them!!!

(I might try that with my boss)"

I know the more I think about it I think she does. Give it a bash LL!!

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By *eliWoman over a year ago