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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's odd.
Some really thought out messages get nothing.
And occasionally when I've tried my luck and didn't anything into it, it blosssomed.
I guess as men we're in excess and so the message is only half the battle.
Especially when so so many profiles only want someone who's white. Occasionally black, but never the shades in between  |
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's odd.
Some really thought out messages get nothing.
And occasionally when I've tried my luck and didn't anything into it, it blosssomed.
I guess as men we're in excess and so the message is only half the battle.
Especially when so so many profiles only want someone who's white. Occasionally black, but never the shades in between "
Very rarely get a lot of messages myself.
But all depends on the chemistry of a person at that particular time. It can be very scientific how the brain works and responds to messages someone may think a person may of sent the best message in the world, whilst someone else doesn't read it as they think it's utter rubbish.
Factors such as grammar, punctuation, or a person may look to deep into the meaning of a message.
It can depend on how tired a person may be or what else is happening in a persons life outside this bubble of Fab.
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"It's odd.
Some really thought out messages get nothing.
And occasionally when I've tried my luck and didn't anything into it, it blosssomed.
I guess as men we're in excess and so the message is only half the battle.
Especially when so so many profiles only want someone who's white. Occasionally black, but never the shades in between
Very rarely get a lot of messages myself.
But all depends on the chemistry of a person at that particular time. It can be very scientific how the brain works and responds to messages someone may think a person may of sent the best message in the world, whilst someone else doesn't read it as they think it's utter rubbish.
Factors such as grammar, punctuation, or a person may look to deep into the meaning of a message.
It can depend on how tired a person may be or what else is happening in a persons life outside this bubble of Fab.
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Short and to the point or long and interesting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You mean with intentions to meet?
With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.
These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since. |
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"You mean with intentions to meet?
With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.
These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since. "
I didn't have a referral point of whether it was to meet, the opening post was just about messages in general. Where a person has thought how nice the message is. |
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"You mean with intentions to meet?
With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.
These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since.
I didn't have a referral point of whether it was to meet, the opening post was just about messages in general. Where a person has thought how nice the message is."
i still await the messages xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You mean with intentions to meet?
With those as side, I've had 2 absolutely lovely out of the blue messages of people here. One commented on how they enjoy reading my posts and they cheer them up. Another was off a lady I've never heard of and isn't on the forum. Out of the blue and was really nice.
These are the people who keep me on here. I didn't assume they were trying to get in my knickers. I've not spoke to them since.
I didn't have a referral point of whether it was to meet, the opening post was just about messages in general. Where a person has thought how nice the message is.i still await the messages xx"
There are some good people here. You
Can and probably will find people who will send a good awesome message.  |
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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There's lots of nice people on here. I don't send many messages and seem I browse rather than go shopping. I never feel I am the greatest in selling myself to others and in essence that's what you need to do to even get some sort of conversation started. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope.
You'd be surprised how many women are surprisingly unoriginal and dare I say, boring when messaging.
Also what's surprising is how many just say "Hi" yet look on their profile and they want you to be original, witty, etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
You'd be surprised how many women are surprisingly unoriginal and dare I say, boring when messaging.
Also what's surprising is how many just say "Hi" yet look on their profile and they want you to be original, witty, etc.
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Good point, it doesn't surprise me at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever had a really great message and they have Thought wow how good is this guy or girl?"
Every message I've ever sent. They don't agree though |
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