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Totally feel for you on this OP.
I split with my ex in January of 2010 and Family Court proceedings are STILL ongoing (ex breaking court orders, making false allegations etc all in an effort to get around the court order)
Hang in there bud |
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"Stressed to fook filling out C100 arangement order for fair access to see my kids .
Why are some women so difficult ???
I need a massage ...any takers "
I know a woman who's having the same issue with her male ex, think it can be a two way street nowadays, never a nice thing for anyone though, hope it works out for the best for you all. |
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"Stressed to fook filling out C100 arangement order for fair access to see my kids .
Why are some women so difficult ???
I need a massage ...any takers "
Dunno. Why are some men so difficult? |
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"Totally feel for you on this OP.
I split with my ex in January of 2010 and Family Court proceedings are STILL ongoing (ex breaking court orders, making false allegations etc all in an effort to get around the court order)
Hang in there bud"
Yup same time as my split and 7years on still aggro !! |
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I've been split from the mother of one of my kids for ten years now and STILL get grief constantly.Over money,over access,over everything really.There was plenty of court involvement to begin with,mostly due to her breaking agreements,that's stopped now but she does like threatening to get the courts involved regularly.I pay maintenance in full on time every month and I see my daughter as much as I possibly can,but somehow I'm still the big evil.I'd like to say hang in there and it will get better,but unfortunately some lasses are too psycho for it to ever improve |
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"I've been split from the mother of one of my kids for ten years now and STILL get grief constantly.Over money,over access,over everything really.There was plenty of court involvement to begin with,mostly due to her breaking agreements,that's stopped now but she does like threatening to get the courts involved regularly.I pay maintenance in full on time every month and I see my daughter as much as I possibly can,but somehow I'm still the big evil.I'd like to say hang in there and it will get better,but unfortunately some lasses are too psycho for it to ever improve "
I wont single us guys out as loverly chaps as know some amazing mums that try to get dads involved andthey dont wanna know .
My ex is virtually kicking off at any flexibilty i require to do my two jobs . Its a fight just to get a few weeks over the summer . Meeting with a solicitor in few weeks where they are going to set out how to represent my self in court as simply cant afford a solictor in court . Nightmare scenario but iv got go for it as the hassle getting a headache now ! Dunno bout some of you guys but it totally affects my mojo . Doctors more Viagras please lol |
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I guess I'm lucky , I have a good relationship with my ex I get to see my daughter most weekends and all is fine, been separated for best part of ten years now, life's too short to row about things, if your finding access to your kids hard to come by, just remember they will grow up and see you for the person you are and they will then make the dession there selves when and if they want to see you. I guess it's hard |
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"I guess I'm lucky , I have a good relationship with my ex I get to see my daughter most weekends and all is fine, been separated for best part of ten years now, life's too short to row about things, if your finding access to your kids hard to come by, just remember they will grow up and see you for the person you are and they will then make the dession there selves when and if they want to see you. I guess it's hard"
There should be nothing left to luck or chance about it, both parents were possible should have equal rights with their kids. |
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"I've been split from the mother of one of my kids for ten years now and STILL get grief constantly.Over money,over access,over everything really.There was plenty of court involvement to begin with,mostly due to her breaking agreements,that's stopped now but she does like threatening to get the courts involved regularly.I pay maintenance in full on time every month and I see my daughter as much as I possibly can,but somehow I'm still the big evil.I'd like to say hang in there and it will get better,but unfortunately some lasses are too psycho for it to ever improve
I wont single us guys out as loverly chaps as know some amazing mums that try to get dads involved andthey dont wanna know .
My ex is virtually kicking off at any flexibilty i require to do my two jobs . Its a fight just to get a few weeks over the summer . Meeting with a solicitor in few weeks where they are going to set out how to represent my self in court as simply cant afford a solictor in court . Nightmare scenario but iv got go for it as the hassle getting a headache now ! Dunno bout some of you guys but it totally affects my mojo . Doctors more Viagras please lol "
Would mediation help? It is often cheaper than solicitor costs. |
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"I guess I'm lucky , I have a good relationship with my ex I get to see my daughter most weekends and all is fine, been separated for best part of ten years now, life's too short to row about things, if your finding access to your kids hard to come by, just remember they will grow up and see you for the person you are and they will then make the dession there selves when and if they want to see you. I guess it's hard"
Well got a son n daughter same mum . Not seen my son for two years as very loyal to his mum and feels the tension . So i just leave him in peace til hes older although i dont see him changingeven though only 10 . Whereas my daughter is 8 ..i cant get her home sometimes . We do west end shows , sports events Butlins ect so hoping its putting it out there to my son how hes missing out on so much thanks to the mothers poisioning . |
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"I've been split from the mother of one of my kids for ten years now and STILL get grief constantly.Over money,over access,over everything really.There was plenty of court involvement to begin with,mostly due to her breaking agreements,that's stopped now but she does like threatening to get the courts involved regularly.I pay maintenance in full on time every month and I see my daughter as much as I possibly can,but somehow I'm still the big evil.I'd like to say hang in there and it will get better,but unfortunately some lasses are too psycho for it to ever improve
I wont single us guys out as loverly chaps as know some amazing mums that try to get dads involved andthey dont wanna know .
My ex is virtually kicking off at any flexibilty i require to do my two jobs . Its a fight just to get a few weeks over the summer . Meeting with a solicitor in few weeks where they are going to set out how to represent my self in court as simply cant afford a solictor in court . Nightmare scenario but iv got go for it as the hassle getting a headache now ! Dunno bout some of you guys but it totally affects my mojo . Doctors more Viagras please lol
Would mediation help? It is often cheaper than solicitor costs."
Shes refused mediation as wr cant be in same room as eachother and mediation have on two previous occasions said were so far apatt that they cant help n needs to go to court . |
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