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So I get chatting to chap (dating site, not here) and we click. We spend hours on the phone. He's a sub cuckold, I'm Domme, he cooks, I eat. Loads in common, get on like a veritable house on fire.
We plan to meet and then drops the clanger... He could never be with a smoker. Former pro athlete and very anti. Shame but no biggie, next!
We've all got our relationship deal breakers. Mine is no kids. Don't want them, not interested in those who do.
So what are your deal breakers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My deal breaker was always kids. I don't want them. I could never have them just because the guy I fell in love with really wanted them. It was never going to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- Monogamous people (or people who just happen to be single but will be monogamous when they meet someone)
- People who take any form of drugs
- Misogynists
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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known liar, lazy, has any addictions but can't get on top of them -fuck that shit, emotionally stunted, intellectually stunted, boring.
probably is loads more stuff but those are what i can think of off the top of my head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No babies or marriage ever for me, if you want kids or a ring on your finger move on 
But anal is in your interests  "
I don't mind putting a ring on mr strappy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No babies or marriage ever for me, if you want kids or a ring on your finger move on
But anal is in your interests
I don't mind putting a ring on mr strappy "
Well good afternoon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smoking
Drugs
Drink problem
Domestic violence tendancies
Work-shy
Lazy
Doesn't like kids (mine are still young so ages till they fly the nest)
Wandering eye
Shit shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I get chatting to chap (dating site, not here) and we click. We spend hours on the phone. He's a sub cuckold, I'm Domme, he cooks, I eat. Loads in common, get on like a veritable house on fire.
We plan to meet and then drops the clanger... He could never be with a smoker. Former pro athlete and very anti. Shame but no biggie, next!
We've all got our relationship deal breakers. Mine is no kids. Don't want them, not interested in those who do.
So what are your deal breakers? "
smelly feet or anything to do with feet |
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Setting all the obvious stuff aside:-
No sense of humour
Lacking in brain cells
Can't hold a conversation
Horrendous kisser
The use of certain words.......in fact swearing full stop........well except at certain moments
Above all, if they don't drool at the thought of oral forget it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who lie when I ask them things its a trust issue with me and kills things dead. "
This! 
"Hurt me with the truth, don't comfort me with a lie" is a phrase I quote a lot.
Oh and people who want kids. Can't have them anymore, nor can it be reversed.
Heavy/Inconsiderate smokers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles "
I avoid barebackers like the plague |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles
I avoid barebackers like the plague "
Just broke my heart there soxy fs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles
I avoid barebackers like the plague
Just broke my heart there soxy fs "
You'll get over it ..... I mean a man like you must be able to handle rejection by now.....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles
I avoid barebackers like the plague
Just broke my heart there soxy fs
You'll get over it ..... I mean a man like you must be able to handle rejection by now..... "
Never gets any easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles
I avoid barebackers like the plague
Just broke my heart there soxy fs
You'll get over it ..... I mean a man like you must be able to handle rejection by now.....
Never gets any easier "
aye min ....it's a sair fecht for a half loaf... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles
I avoid barebackers like the plague
Just broke my heart there soxy fs
You'll get over it ..... I mean a man like you must be able to handle rejection by now.....
Never gets any easier
aye min ....it's a sair fecht for a half loaf... "
Geez yer sox fs and watch out for the ones who like the Queens English but struggle tae even string a sentence themselves using it, my Scottish slang reads better than their English fs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles
I avoid barebackers like the plague
Just broke my heart there soxy fs
You'll get over it ..... I mean a man like you must be able to handle rejection by now.....
Never gets any easier
aye min ....it's a sair fecht for a half loaf...
Geez yer sox fs and watch out for the ones who like the Queens English but struggle tae even string a sentence themselves using it, my Scottish slang reads better than their English fs. "
Guffy's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid anyone seeking more than casual sex,,,,, I also avoid drug users and guys who claim to be straight on there profiles
I avoid barebackers like the plague
Just broke my heart there soxy fs
You'll get over it ..... I mean a man like you must be able to handle rejection by now.....
Never gets any easier
aye min ....it's a sair fecht for a half loaf...
Geez yer sox fs and watch out for the ones who like the Queens English but struggle tae even string a sentence themselves using it, my Scottish slang reads better than their English fs.
Guffy's "
Aye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In real life as in Dating.
No kids. Not that I don't like kids, it just means that by default the father is going to be part of their lives which means he is also very much of "our" lives aswell and everything that comes with that.
Has her own place as I like independant women.
Has a job, so that we can both actually DO things.
My last ex ticked all those boxes but we drove each other mental as soon as she left her house and moved in with me.
On here fb (which I kind of have now, sort of):
No kids again. Because it's just a military operation to meet, because of child minders and etc..etc..
Her own place. I like to be able to go to hers instead of her just coming to mine all the time.
On here the fb deal breaker would be not having her own place.
In real life the deal breaker would be having kids.
I re-iterate I love kids. It's just the "mechanics" of the situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our deal breaker is laughable.
Literally, if you can't laugh with us or at us we really aren't interested
I *laugh over you on a daily basis.
*wank "
I laugh at them daily. At. No asterisk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our deal breaker is laughable.
Literally, if you can't laugh with us or at us we really aren't interested
I *laugh over you on a daily basis.
*wank "
You so naughty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our deal breaker is laughable.
Literally, if you can't laugh with us or at us we really aren't interested
I *laugh over you on a daily basis.
*wank
I laugh at them daily. At. No asterisk. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our deal breaker is laughable.
Literally, if you can't laugh with us or at us we really aren't interested
I *laugh over you on a daily basis.
*wank
I laugh at them daily. At. No asterisk.
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*charity fap* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Overt hijacking of threads with flirting, that's a deal breaker. 
Snog.
That constitutes as flirting here, right?
Snog.
Yes "
Might as well just play spin the bottle instead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Overt hijacking of threads with flirting, that's a deal breaker.
Snog.
That constitutes as flirting here, right?
Snog.
Yes
Might as well just play spin the bottle instead."
I'd rather play seven minutes in heaven with you. Can you go that long?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its just a fuck then its all about personal hygiene and not being a complete knob end that I can't have a laugh with.
But if it was someone I was going to be FBs with or even have a relationship with ( Shudder )
Then there are quite a few things that are deal breakers for me.
This is why I'm single - I'm too old to put up with shit!
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I used to get quite "irate" at ladies who squeezed the toothpaste in the middle, but I solved that problem by getting a squirty type dispenser
And while I'm on one, don't leave burnt toast crumbs in ma butter
That's all, peace and harmony to all you lovely ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to get quite "irate" at ladies who squeezed the toothpaste in the middle, but I solved that problem by getting a squirty type dispenser
And while I'm on one, don't leave burnt toast crumbs in ma butter
That's all, peace and harmony to all you lovely ladies "
I *am* a squirty type dispenser |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to get quite "irate" at ladies who squeezed the toothpaste in the middle, but I solved that problem by getting a squirty type dispenser
And while I'm on one, don't leave burnt toast crumbs in ma butter
That's all, peace and harmony to all you lovely ladies
I *am* a squirty type dispenser "
But are you full of burnt toast crumbs? |
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"I used to get quite "irate" at ladies who squeezed the toothpaste in the middle, but I solved that problem by getting a squirty type dispenser
And while I'm on one, don't leave burnt toast crumbs in ma butter
That's all, peace and harmony to all you lovely ladies
I *am* a squirty type dispenser "
*rushes off to buy a waterproof mattress protector  |
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Having a dislike of cats or a severe allergy to them. I like all animals, but I wouldn't get rid of my cat or cats if you include the three other cats who come in a lot. This situation did happen. We were getting on really well and he was as hot, fit and we connected like I hadn't connected in a long while, but he wasn't keen on cats and asked that they were kept out of the rooms we were in. Ok, that's a deal breaker, sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People who can't hold a conversation, such hard work! One of the first guys I met on here was so hard to talk to but good god, what a fuck
Drugs, not a fan.
Guy showed up smelling like wet dog once, it was awful! Ropey personal hygiene is so off putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who can't hold a conversation, such hard work! One of the first guys I met on here was so hard to talk to but good god, what a fuck
Drugs, not a fan.
Guy showed up smelling like wet dog once, it was awful! Ropey personal hygiene is so off putting "
Why do some people smell like wet dogs do they bath in stagnant ponds horrid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no idea, I even looked for dog hair on his clothes "
Ha I do have a dog and my dog smells better than some people but she is adorable and loves a bath so she probably will sme better. especially hate the smell of smokers no offence to smokers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"known liar, lazy, has any addictions but can't get on top of them -fuck that shit, emotionally stunted, intellectually stunted, boring.
probably is loads more stuff but those are what i can think of off the top of my head."
This in a nutshell! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kints who like others tae use the Queens English but struggle tae string a sentence together themselves using it. My Scottish slang reads better than your so called 'English' fs.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kints who like others tae use the Queens English but struggle tae string a sentence together themselves using it. My Scottish slang reads better than your so called 'English' fs.
Pardon? "
Your excused |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be bad if I said - if they've had sex with someone I don't like?
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It's not bad, no. But if it was our deal breaker we'd never meet anyone on the swinging scene |
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