I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?
Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.
What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??
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"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?
Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.
What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??
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"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?
Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.
What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??
Cunt "
You like or dislike?
I prefer to refer to the wonderful lady garden as a hairy axe wound myself. |
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It depends who it's from.
I see my full name from a lover as an endearment as, outside of work and family, I don't let anyone else call me it.
I like sweet/sweetie/sweetheart too. |
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"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?
Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.
What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??
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What's wrong with calling women by their first name?? I'd much prefer that.
I hate chavvy expressions such as babes, babe or hun.  |
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"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?
Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.
What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??
What's wrong with calling women by their first name?? I'd much prefer that.
I hate chavvy expressions such as babes, babe or hun. "
Nothing wrong with that at all Louisa. |
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"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?
Hun, sweetie, babygirl, sweetie chops, babes, darling, sugar tits, sweet cheeks, bitch tits, mistress, sugar plum, belltard, sex goddess, ms, ma'am, honey.
What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??
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I play with terms of endearment and I am happy for people to do the same, I just won't stand for anything demeaning or disrespectful.  |
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We've our own terms of endearment for each other.
I dislike pal, buddy, mate - get these at work from customers - how do they know I'm not a psycho and if I'm their 'pal' when's my birthday and where's my presents?
On fab - babe or hunni grind my gears in a message. |
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Round these parts women get called love, barmaids, shop keeps, Any woman you don't know the name of
"Alright love"
"Cheers love"
No one bats an eye. Heard in other areas women hate it
Men get called mate mostly
Personally I hate being called pal. |
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over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"I called a lady 'my dear' and she really took offence and said it was patronising. What do you like to be called?
What's acceptable and what do you really dislike??
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What's acceptable is a completely different thing depending on the type of interaction happening at the time, as you have found out what is acceptable to one isn't to another. You will have to gauge it with the person at the time. |
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